I didn't read all the threads posted by the op, but why you think she wanna only attract the attention? And beside every time there is a victim, the victim is in a certain measure guilty... of no having been enough picky and on guard, but this is not a justification anyway, nor an excuse, the one who took advantage is the one to blame!

And the upside to that honest answer would have been what, exactly? Right. Honesty incentive galore. Figuring that the truth would freak you, he lied for the pu$$y.

Honesty = don't get laid. Q.E.D.

Leaving aside that "messing with" and "dating" are not the same thing necessarily. Maybe you got the truth as-asked and still couldn't handle it.

I think this has been said before, but it bears repeating:
Liars get laid, honest guys don't.

Honesty will get you laid when the woman doesn't want or can't have any more children.

I was dating this guy and we had broke up. We got back together like 2 weeks and i ask him had he mess with anyone and he said no. Ok we go to school together i find out that he started dating someone else from the school... wow like omg i was speechless. its like u cant trust any guys.

Cause it is all calculation. If by telling the truth to you, he get's chewed out for x number of minutes, but by lying he gets chewed out half that time, many guys will say f it, I'll lie so I don't have to hear her b*tch as LONG.

However, it is dependant on the person. SOme are chronic liars, some are not.

I was dating this guy and we had broke up. We got back together like 2 weeks and i ask him had he mess with anyone and he said no. Ok we go to school together i find out that he started dating someone else from the school... wow like omg i was speechless. its like u cant trust any guys.

Because unfortunately, there are not enough leaders to show women how a real man can be. There are many good men out there though and who would want one that isn't anyway?

Women aren't helping to breed enough of them...

Cause it is all calculation. If by telling the truth to you, he get's chewed out for x number of minutes, but by lying he gets chewed out half that time, many guys will say f it, I'll lie so I don't have to hear her b*tch as LONG.

However, it is dependant on the person. SOme are chronic liars, some are not.

Ha i am just here to say 99% of guys are FAKE shallow and most of the time cowards to be who they REALLY are on the inside

Fake and dishonest mainly

i dont fit into that category

but anyway why cant girls be honest with themselves? or humanbeings HONEST

and not fake.. in general??

Ha i am just here to say 99% of guys are FAKE shallow and most of the time cowards to be who they REALLY are on the inside

Fake and dishonest mainly

i dont fit into that category

but anyway why cant girls be honest with themselves? or humanbeings HONEST

and not fake.. in general??

Pro Tip: Most people suck.

You know, I commented on this before, but I went back and read it again. He is being honest in many ways. There are many men and women that follow BS! If people would follow their own souls and think with an honest and open heart, things would change. Problem is, one dumbass follows another dumbass to fit in. Two dumbass people rear a child that becomes a dumbass man or woman. It is a cycle! I am no bible thumper by no means, but I do believe in God's word. The sins of the father cycle down to the kids. That is common sense. Unless an adult learns to overcome his bad rearing, he will teach the same bad values to his kids.

I see this as a moot point.


People that are honest. Have nothing to hide.

Dishonest people have things to hide. Honesty, Is not the issue ..


Its the nature of the person thats the issue. Some people are prone to doing things constantly they would need to lie about. You only have two options.

Stay, and talk it out, fight, b*tch, or ignore it.


Or leave. And do the same.


But your never going to get a person to stop doing anything that is in their nature. and if they start out needing to lie. They will only keep being the same way. The fact that they are lying to you proves they would rather cover up what they are doing, then quit the behaviour.

Expecting change is a losing game. The only thing that might change is their ability to conceal their actions better.

You cannot say idiot to somebody you even don't know...so according to you every person who has been fooled in love is a idiot? Why don't you go to take a sedative? What you said is plain mean, stupid and ridiculous.

I was dating this guy and we had broke up. We got back together like 2 weeks and i ask him had he mess with anyone and he said no. Ok we go to school together i find out that he started dating someone else from the school... wow like omg i was speechless. its like u cant trust any guys.

Don't you love people like this? I get the same types of people saying the same things to me as if I choose to be treated like crap, or desire a bad man. I was even told I make men jealous and am a player. So very funny how people throw off on people that are vague on what they say, yet just trying to get answers to something they are worried over.

what a laugh. american women are the world's most well-trained liars. they are taught how to use sex for personal gain, how to rationalize it so they are the victims, and taught that men are inferior beings who are always the problem. i used to roadie part-time in the late 70s-mid 80s. i would be hanging with the sound man and light man while the bands were playing. usually, the boards were in the back by the restrooms. i have heard hundreds of pairs of girls getting their stories straight. they were going to blow off the guys that they lied to in order to get their fun paid for, and wanted to make sure that there were no slip-ups. they didn't "change their minds" nor did they "realize that i don't know you well enough". they did what they set out to do.

women want honesty and loyalty from their men, but don't feel that they should respond in kind. listen to a bunch of women in their "b**ch sessions. they laugh at how stupid their men are. they treat their men like they are a secondary option while the men must always treat them as the first option. they scream when their men don't stand up for their way of thinking, irregardless whether they are right or wrong. yet, they refuse to give their men the same courtesy.

Men have penises...hello

They will f**k your mother if she let them and lie in your face about it...come on yes you are young so being naive doesn't surprise me....

You are beautiful young lady, why be in a rush to commit to one guy right now, there will be plenty of dogs to pick from the dog pound when the time is right. Focus on school, work, traveling, enjoy your life while you can because you will surrender most of it when you do commit to that one guy trust me....