| 3/7/2011 3:23:52 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Hb:
I don't see children as this great burden. I wanted them....I adore them, and I don't see how money would make any difference in who I date.
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| 3/7/2011 3:26:32 PM |
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dennorske
Hemet, CA
age: 35
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What hole did all these homo women haters crawl out of?
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| 3/7/2011 3:27:49 PM |
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donajaii
East Lansing, MI
age: 43
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What hole did all these homo women haters crawl out of?
DH women love Denn.
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| 3/7/2011 3:28:18 PM |
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mrnewyear
Richmond, IL
age: 37
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Thanks all for a fun precursor to my otherwise routine
urbandwelling Monday evening..
I shall take repast..and bid you ..adieu..
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| 3/7/2011 3:28:43 PM |
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mistymay77
Newnan, GA
age: 33
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Oh yeah. I fully support abortion. Hitlers mom should have too. I fully vet chicks out. If they don't believe in the wire hanger, or vacuum method, I don't penetrate.
You're disgusting. Use protection dumb ass.
I bet your mom is real proud of what a dumb a** you turned out to be. 
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| 3/7/2011 3:28:59 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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Hb:
I don't see children as this great burden. I wanted them....I adore them, and I don't see how money would make any difference in who I date.
Your kids will need A LOT of money while growing up. They will need to live in a big enough house while they are doing that growing. If your man doesn't have a lot of the money it will take to raise them or you don't, it's not going to be pretty.
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| 3/7/2011 3:29:40 PM |
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dennorske
Hemet, CA
age: 35
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Wanna get married?  
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| 3/7/2011 3:30:25 PM |
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donajaii
East Lansing, MI
age: 43
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| 3/7/2011 3:31:27 PM |
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dennorske
Hemet, CA
age: 35
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Your kids will need A LOT of money while growing up. They will need to live in a big enough house while they are doing that growing. If your man doesn't have a lot of the money it will take to raise them or you don't, it's not going to be pretty.
How many kids have you raised?
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| 3/7/2011 3:32:28 PM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
age: 41
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Your kids will need A LOT of money while growing up. They will need to live in a big enough house while they are doing that growing. If your man doesn't have a lot of the money it will take to raise them or you don't, it's not going to be pretty.
not if you teach them to be great pick pockets
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| 3/7/2011 3:36:41 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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I have a lot of younger cousins and a niece and a nephew and a lot of my friends have kids so I know all about them. Plus, the average cost of raising a child is around 222,000 so having a lot of money is extremely critical.
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| 3/7/2011 3:41:53 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 52
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Your kids will need A LOT of money while growing up. They will need to live in a big enough house while they are doing that growing. If your man doesn't have a lot of the money it will take to raise them or you don't, it's not going to be pretty.
the wise old owl....
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| 3/7/2011 3:42:48 PM |
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dennorske
Hemet, CA
age: 35
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I have a lot of younger cousins and a niece and a nephew and a lot of my friends have kids so I know all about them. Plus, the average cost of raising a child is around 222,000 so having a lot of money is extremely critical.
So zero, which means you have nothing on a mother of three telling her how to raise kids or what you need to raise them.
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| 3/7/2011 3:49:10 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Quote from hbguy311: Your kids will need A LOT of money while growing up. They will need to live in a big enough house while they are doing that growing. If your man doesn't have a lot of the money it will take to raise them or you don't, it's not going to be pretty.
I will worry about my kids...and I won't wh*re myself out to do so.
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| 3/7/2011 4:00:09 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Quote from hbguy311: I have a lot of younger cousins and a niece and a nephew and a lot of my friends have kids so I know all about them. Plus, the average cost of raising a child is around 222,000 so having a lot of money is extremely critical.
I don't raise my kids like a soccer mom, or that they MUST have everything that their friends have to be a decent and sucessful person. I teach the value of hard work, that nothing is free, and that thinking for yourself is critical. You see a sucessful person being raised in terms of money and status....I don't. Therefore....I am not worried. However....I agree, it's a good thing you have no kids and I will leave it at that.
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| 3/7/2011 4:04:10 PM |
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dennorske
Hemet, CA
age: 35
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You tell him Pam
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| 3/7/2011 4:15:52 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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I love kids but am very glad that I don't have the responsibility of having to raise them so you are right, it's a good thing I don't have kids.
Look, the bottomline is that money is necessary to have kids and stay alive. That's all I am getting at and the more money you have, the healthier and better taken care of you and your kids will be. Hell, this whole thread is about money. You can't escape it.
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| 3/7/2011 4:17:23 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 52
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That's all I am getting at and the more money you have, the healthier and better taken care of you and your kids will be.
not so...
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| 3/7/2011 4:18:27 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Yes, you need money...but you don't need a shit ton of it....and you were the one who implied I HAD to date for money to raise decent kids....just giving it back to you babe.
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| 3/7/2011 4:19:18 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 63
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OK--here's my secret----have dinner and drinks and when you leave--WALK OUT BACKWARDS--they think you are just coming in!!! welcome--how are you tonight??
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| 3/7/2011 4:32:36 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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What is a "shit ton" of it? A decent house with 3 or 4 bedrooms costs hundreds of thousands. Your credit needs to be good enough to get a loan before you can even consider buying said house. Point is that money makes your life soooooooooooooooo much easier. You having 3 kids should know this. Being with a guy that is starting over might be a bad move unless he has a really good job. You also would love to move back to Cali right? Are you aware how insanely expensive it is here?
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| 3/7/2011 4:38:11 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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If it mattered to me which it doesn't I would say six figures at least, is a shit ton up to millions. It doesn't....I could be blissfully happy in an apartment with someone I loved and treated me right and that I had an amazing full relationship with. Also....money does NOT make it easier...I have had money, was raised in money and I can tell you....happiness is much deeper then what you 'have'.
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| 3/7/2011 4:47:34 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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In my early 20's, I had money and it definitely made my life easier. My early 20's were the best of my life so far too. I never had to worry about ANYTHING because I had the money to take care of all life's expenses. I ate whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted and was able to help friends and family in times of need because of, wait for it, MONEY I was able to give them. In my experience, it makes your life much easier and happier. Now I am struggling to barely get by and it's not fun at all. You think I'm just as happy as when I didn't have to struggle?
Living your whole life with 3 kids and a husband in a 2 bedroom apartment for the rest of your life? Doesn't sound very fun and smart to me but hey, go with what works for you. If you are okay with 3 kids sharing one room, who am I to judge?
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| 3/7/2011 4:50:40 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Good boy....you have no right.
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| 3/7/2011 6:49:26 PM |
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pinkpinacoladas
Moorhead, MN
age: 45
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Well there you go...We HAVE an answer! If a guy doesn't have enough money to pay for a date he certainly won't have the money to raise a family.....
If he's too cheap for a date, he's too cheap for a family. Women have always looked at the natural selection process....Who be the biggest, handsomest boy on the block? The one who has his shit together. Period. It doesn't have to be a ton of money, but he has to want to put forth the effort for love and family.
Oh, and I read a bit of the nononsenseman report. It doesn't say that women are making the same amount as a man....still. Why? Because we are the ones having the children, taking time off to have them, HAVING to have a job that pays less monetarily so that we can get health insurance...for our children. We are also the ones to care for our elderly.
Women are what brought you here. Have some respect. If your mother had believed in coat hangers or the vacuum, we wouldn't have to listen to this nonsense.
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| 3/7/2011 7:55:39 PM |
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levi501s
Burnet, TX
age: 49
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Bottom line for me?
Don't hook-up/have unprotected sex/marry/date continiously with anyone that TELLS you how to spend YOUR money!
Instead, find someone that agrees with, and EXHIBITS, your individual philosophy of how to spend money. Then you gotta match, possibly.
Giving into guilting, manipulating, demeaning attempts of how to live your life by ANOTHER'S philosophy is a losers game. Don't fall for it! Ever!
Why?
Because many people are only "fair weather" friends/lovers, but in the end, if your name is on the dotted line......YOU gotta pay! Period.
It's called: individual responsibilty. Some have it, some don't.
Men have availible ways to cull through the users. Women have theirs.
Whether you use the culling techniques or not comes back to: individual responsibilty.
Inexpensive first meets/dates works well for this man.
Pick your battles and you can win the war.
just a few thoughts
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| 3/7/2011 8:30:02 PM |
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whonotwhat
Stamford, CT
age: 62
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What is a "shit ton" of it? A decent house with 3 or 4 bedrooms costs hundreds of thousands. Your credit needs to be good enough to get a loan before you can even consider buying said house. Point is that money makes your life soooooooooooooooo much easier. You having 3 kids should know this. Being with a guy that is starting over might be a bad move unless he has a really good job. You also would love to move back to Cali right? Are you aware how insanely expensive it is here?
No more than ffld cty ct....she is welcome here.....and we are not sinking into any ocean
in fact you can buy cheaper in ca than here.....i tnink????....at least this psrt...nyc is is skip away......has lots to offer yet we ( I )come home to ct
tired of the west coast boasters......try doing it here...
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| 3/7/2011 9:09:37 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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^^Way too cold.
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| 3/7/2011 9:14:09 PM |
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levi501s
Burnet, TX
age: 49
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Should we even talk about the diminishing affects of "p*ssy power?"
It'll just piss them off.
*crickets chirping*
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| 3/7/2011 10:36:50 PM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Oh, and I read a bit of the nononsenseman report. It doesn't say that women are making the same amount as a man....still. Why? Because we are the ones having the children, taking time off to have them, HAVING to have a job that pays less monetarily so that we can get health insurance...for our children. We are also the ones to care for our elderly.
Women are what brought you here. Have some respect. If your mother had believed in coat hangers or the vacuum, we wouldn't have to listen to this nonsense.
Guess you skipped over the part that has to do with negotiating. I for one Negotiated a higher salary than my female counterparts. I was hired by a woman as well. I told her I would not accept her offer. I ended up making $7,000 a year more than the others in the office. I had zero experience. Negotiate better.
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| 3/7/2011 10:43:31 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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How about you go f*ck yourself a few thousand times more........and then get back to me on dating a actual woman?
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| 3/7/2011 10:46:06 PM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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If you say so old lady. Glad I'm getting under your skin
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| 3/7/2011 10:46:51 PM |
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hbguy311
Buena Park, CA
age: 30
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Don't let him get to you. Just ignore him.
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| 3/7/2011 10:48:06 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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He isn't Hb........trust me. If I actually let f**ktards from Dh get to me I would just jump in front of a bus.
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| 3/7/2011 10:49:16 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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If you say so old lady. Glad I'm getting under your skin
Darling...I know this is hard for you............but just accept you are a failure. Not just in life.....but in any way you can conjure up. Bub bye
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| 3/7/2011 10:49:54 PM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Still delusional.
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| 3/7/2011 10:51:08 PM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Nite baby............I will not think of you while I am with my bf actually dating.
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| 3/7/2011 10:52:51 PM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Get out of here. Go hang out with your imaginary bf. Delusional looney. You're like Joseph Smith with his seerer stones...
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| 3/7/2011 11:20:45 PM |
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lowtide71
San Diego, CA
age: 39
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Hi MaryG
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| 3/7/2011 11:38:43 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
age: 30 online now!
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If you say so old lady. Glad I'm getting under your skin
37 is old? You'll be there in no time.
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| 3/7/2011 11:56:04 PM |
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tonyoxoxoxox
Richmond, IN
age: 45 online now!
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I love it. Using that type of logic. Basically what you're allowing a woman to do, I mean a female to do is merely wait to be invited everywhere. We're all adults, w=how about we pay for our own ways?
How can a female expect me to treat her as my equal if she wants me to treat her like kid. Equality right? Capitalist attitude in the work place, but a socialist view in the dating world. Sounds fair to me. Not!
I AGREE 100%
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| 3/8/2011 12:43:49 AM |
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prettychristi
Nampa, ID
age: 21
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OP- I can be very traditional when it comes to dating. and growing up girls are feed the idea that if a man is a gentleman he will pay for the first date. It's just engrained that way. HOWEVER that was not taught for a recession scenario. So until the economy gets better I would have no problem paying for half the date.
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| 3/8/2011 4:52:24 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 45 online now!
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I would let christi pay for the date. shes the best! 
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| 3/8/2011 7:14:27 AM |
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jenova56
Aurora, CO
age: 28
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Nite baby............I will not think of you while I am with my bf actually dating.
Wow. 51 pages of attention-whoring by the OP. Not bad; that rivals several ex's.
JFC 10, OP: lost count at -12
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| 3/8/2011 8:23:47 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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?
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| 3/8/2011 8:25:41 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Get out of here. Go hang out with your imaginary bf. Delusional looney. You're like Joseph Smith with his seerer stones...
Another epic failure at a comeback....
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| 3/8/2011 8:26:11 AM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 41
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Hi MaryG
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| 3/8/2011 8:26:16 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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52..
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| 3/8/2011 8:27:15 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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failure. you still haven't answered the question
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| 3/8/2011 8:27:48 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Wow. 51 pages of attention-whoring by the OP. Not bad; that rivals several ex's.
JFC 10, OP: lost count at -12
I think someone local to him needs to run him over with a bus already.
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| 3/8/2011 8:28:07 AM |
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laineyloves
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26 online now!
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Quote from bangers_n_mash:
52..
Pretty huh?
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| 3/8/2011 8:29:27 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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failure. you still haven't answered the question
Nor will I....Just cause I know it annoys you. 
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| 3/8/2011 8:29:56 AM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 32 online now!
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wow, can't believe this stupid thread is still going 
Hi lainey and everyone, well except fo ole licka d*ck
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| 3/8/2011 8:30:19 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Now you want violence to occur. Typical pea brain woman's thought process. Not surprised.
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| 3/8/2011 8:31:20 AM |
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laineyloves
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26 online now!
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Quote from tater79:
wow, can't believe this stupid thread is still going
Hi lainey and everyone, well except fo ole licka d*ck
Mornin Tater! I can't believe it either. No one is going to convince him of anything. Might as well chalk it up and move on.
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| 3/8/2011 8:33:13 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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No, if anything you reinforced it even more, amateur f**kin escorts!
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| 3/8/2011 8:34:47 AM |
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laineyloves
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26 online now!
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Quote from lickslow989:
No, if anything you reinforced it even more, amateur f**kin escorts!
You judge so quickly my dear. Do us all a favor and just shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
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| 3/8/2011 8:35:45 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Based on what I read, you little girls want to be paid to hung out with. Not my thing
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| 3/8/2011 8:37:29 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Based on what I read, you little girls want to be paid to hung out with. Not my thing
I think we got that on Page 1.
Still...no one cares.
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| 3/8/2011 8:38:42 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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I think we got that on Page 1.
Still...no one cares.
Why the f**k are you here. Get bye little boy
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