JFC...are you touched? I did that...more then once. Go back and read thru....I was OT....but the OP isn't even OT in his own thread and using this as his soap box for women hating.
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_settee
Flower Mound, TX
age: 57
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NO ONE wants to hang out with you, OP, just so you know...
Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
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| 3/8/2011 8:39:22 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Get bye??
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| 3/8/2011 8:39:47 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Negative. Keep thinking that.
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| 3/8/2011 8:40:18 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Yes, peace out sucka.
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| 3/8/2011 8:40:19 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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..lets discuss this over dinner...
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| 3/8/2011 8:40:36 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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I'll pass
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| 3/8/2011 8:40:57 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Yes, peace out sucka.
I knew you were black when I read this....profile confirmed it.
...this is on me.
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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I think we got that on Page 1.
Still...no one cares.
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| 3/8/2011 8:41:47 AM |
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whonotwhat
Stamford, CT
age: 62
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jfc.....u gotta give him credit, the op....he has managed all the attacks....kept this thread goin'....
u can do it
I know u can
do it for the rest of us that do want to hear ur personal response....
u verbalize....in ur words.....who pays
I have read most of this stuff and im sure you can write something you honestly feel to be the appropriate answer.....
then who cares if the op buys in or not......some good stuff is in these pages...to summarize.......go for it Pam  
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| 3/8/2011 8:42:14 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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I got the tab for this too Op..
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| 3/8/2011 8:45:17 AM |
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laineyloves
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26 online now!
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Tradition............ tradition
TRADITION............ TRADITION!
Thats why the man should pay. Nuff said.
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| 3/8/2011 8:48:07 AM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
age: 65
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This has to be a flagfant example of middle school mentality. Who f'n cares ? if ya like the person, and want to share time with them, do you sincerely concern yourself with the cost, financial or otherwise ?
Crap, I like the dame, I wanna spend more time w/ her, do you think finances are gonna interfere? And that logic easily translates to the women's side.
It's when the crap about pocket change comes in, that we need to get the fuc# away.
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cdn_iceman
Etobicoke, ON
age: 46
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hmmmmm interesting thread, im not sure the reasoning behind the KFC and Watermelon thing, unless im missing something?
OP you're kind of whats the word????? anyways... since you already know the answer to the question its generally the man who pays, the question I have is why would you ask the question?
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| 3/8/2011 8:49:52 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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hmmmmm interesting thread, im not sure the reasoning behind the KFC and Watermelon thing, unless im missing something?
Sorry...coleslaw is extra.
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| 3/8/2011 8:51:25 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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eader]Quote from jfc_onacross:
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jfc.....u gotta give him credit, the op....he has managed all the attacks....kept this thread goin'....
u can do it
I know u can
do it for the rest of us that do want to hear ur personal response....
u verbalize....in ur words.....who pays
I have read most of this stuff and im sure you can write something you honestly feel to be the appropriate answer.....
then who cares if the op buys in or not......some good stuff is in these pages...to summarize.......go for it Pam
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| 3/8/2011 8:59:16 AM |
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youdontnomeyet
Henderson, NV
age: 50
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<~~~~need to donate blood to pay for date tonight.
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| 3/8/2011 9:02:13 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
age: 52
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Are you calling me a blood-sucker?
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| 3/8/2011 9:02:15 AM |
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leggsallover
Bakersfield, CA
age: 52
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I knew you were black when I read this....profile confirmed it.
...this is on me.
I'll bring the collard greens
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youdontnomeyet
Henderson, NV
age: 50
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Are you calling me a blood-sucker?
A blood sucker? no
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| 3/8/2011 9:47:44 AM |
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whonotwhat
Stamford, CT
age: 62
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JFC...are you touched? I did that...more then once. Go back and read thru....I was OT....but the OP isn't even OT in his own thread and using this as his soap box for women hating.
to jfc.....
OT.....off topic, over time, what is it please...????
ummmmmm women hating.....might have a point there....but he is not the issue.....I was hoping there was some more logical explanation......
tradition, history, that's the way it is or was and pay equality ( to me ) do not apply
the world has changed....for the most part given our male / female roles in life equality does exist in the work place......
and its a fact men just cannot bear children therefore the women have to do it....
so given equal pay....
I have been asked on the first date to buy drinks and dinner at fairly expensive places.....this has happened a few times....places easily costing in excess of 100. when I balked.....when I said but I do not even know you, have never even seen you, what if you do not like me or me you at dinner....awkard?....and said only if we go dutch....I was called cheap.....I was called many things bc of some perception on their end of wealth...cannot take it with you, share, and more....
I had one lady really go off bc i would not boat accross Long Island Sound.....pick her up and take her to dinner...at some marina restaurant.....in fact it got argumentative and she got me tossed from plenty of fish.....yr later and I still can't get back on that site....
so this question is important to me......if u wont answer online ....jfc, then please em me with ur thoughts.....ur intelligent woman...no doubt about that....and ur attractive....u do not sling watermellon and chicken at the op
I respect, for different reasons, the both of you....but im hoping to get an opinion from you.....who pays for the ( first ) date.....when you have met only online.....what is an approipriate approach and reply to this question.....
and  yes I consider myself a gentleman whether i pay or we go 50/50 .....expecpt for my ex wife no female has ever picked up the tab......for anything more than coffee.....
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| 3/8/2011 9:49:33 AM |
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laineyloves
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26 online now!
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! It was almost off the page!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 3/8/2011 9:52:35 AM |
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cdn_iceman
Etobicoke, ON
age: 46
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I still didnt get the watermelon and KFC thing and now coleslaw, somebody explain the meaning of that?
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| 3/8/2011 9:52:51 AM |
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dh_whxre
Struthers, OH
age: 25
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lmao
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| 3/8/2011 9:56:25 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Quote from whonotwhat: to jfc.....
OT.....off topic, over time, what is it please...????
ummmmmm women hating.....might have a point there....but he is not the issue.....I was hoping there was some more logical explanation......
tradition, history, that's the way it is or was and pay equality ( to me ) do not apply
the world has changed....for the most part given our male / female roles in life equality does exist in the work place......
and its a fact men just cannot bear children therefore the women have to do it....
so given equal pay....
I have been asked on the first date to buy drinks and dinner at fairly expensive places.....this has happened a few times....places easily costing in excess of 100. when I balked.....when I said but I do not even know you, have never even seen you, what if you do not like me or me you at dinner....awkard?....and said only if we go dutch....I was called cheap.....I was called many things bc of some perception on their end of wealth...cannot take it with you, share, and more....
I had one lady really go off bc i would not boat accross Long Island Sound.....pick her up and take her to dinner...at some marina restaurant.....in fact it got argumentative and she got me tossed from plenty of fish.....yr later and I still can't get back on that site....
so this question is important to me......if u wont answer online ....jfc, then please em me with ur thoughts.....ur intelligent woman...no doubt about that....and ur attractive....u do not sling watermellon and chicken at the op
I respect, for different reasons, the both of you....but im hoping to get an opinion from you.....who pays for the ( first ) date.....when you have met only online.....what is an approipriate approach and reply to this question.....
and yes I consider myself a gentleman whether i pay or we go 50/50 .....expecpt for my ex wife no female has ever picked up the tab......for anything more than coffee.....
Here we go.....one more time since I guess the ability to hit the backspace key is an issue for you?
I was taught that men IF they are gentleman...they pay for the first date. I have never been asked to go dutch...in fact, it has never even been talked about. He will ask what kind of places I like or things I like to do...plans the date, picks me up, we go, and he pays. It is never awkward, it is never uncomfortable...and I am not some greedy b*tch..and pick some place that I know is pricy. For the men on here who keep whining about having to pay....I can tell you right now your chances of getting a date on here now....are about nill.
Happy now?
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bugsbro2
Portland, OR
age: 56
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iceman. watermelon and fried chicken are stereotypical foods that black people eat. also in the "black" foods lists are cool-aid, barbeque potato chips, collard greens, malt liquor et al. the term was derisive in the jim crow days ( before integration) but now is generally used in fun. check out gabriel iglesias's racist gift basket on you tube for the real answer.
on topic, i'm amused by all the women who use tradition as an excuse to date for free.these are the same women who screamed against tradition when they were "fighting for equality". apparently, the line item veto approach is fully in play here. we like this tradition so it stays but we don't like that tradition so it has to go.
the reality is simple. until women climb the highest mountain, swim the deepest sea, slay the dragon, fight their way into the castle to save HIM, men are going to pay for the first date.
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| 3/8/2011 10:12:11 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Cheapass
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| 3/8/2011 10:12:21 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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I still didnt get the watermelon and KFC thing and now coleslaw, somebody explain the meaning of that?
Lets discuss it over a glass of Koolaid.
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| 3/8/2011 10:13:18 AM |
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beachingirl
Stone Harbor, NJ
age: 53
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The Jonestown kind or the regular kind?
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| 3/8/2011 10:13:33 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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What's your point? Keep wasting your money little boy
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| 3/8/2011 10:14:36 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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What's your point? Keep wasting your money little boy
Again, the point was made on page 1..
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| 3/8/2011 10:16:31 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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I still didnt get the watermelon and KFC thing and now coleslaw, somebody explain the meaning of that?
Tiny d*ck racism...
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| 3/8/2011 10:17:10 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Tiny d*ck racism...
That's both Sizist and D*ckist!
(Not sure how food can be racist..feel free to explain).
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custislong
Riddle, OR
age: 52
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I still didnt get the watermelon and KFC thing and now coleslaw, somebody explain the meaning of that?
I have been hungry for coleslaw for a week.
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| 3/8/2011 10:19:12 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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55....
@jfc Just because something was taught to you, doesn't mean it's right. Religion is taught all day everyday. And it is dead wrong.
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| 3/8/2011 10:21:12 AM |
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custislong
Riddle, OR
age: 52
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I would let christi pay for the date. shes the best! 
She definitely looks like a tasty little morsel.
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| 3/8/2011 10:21:59 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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55....
@jfc Just because something was taught to you, doesn't mean it's right. Religion is taught all day everyday. And it is dead wrong.
How is it wrong? Religion is a set of beliefs....or are you confusing the belief itself with the word 'religion'...you'd be wrong to do that...buy a dictionary..(not the Ebonics version).
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| 3/8/2011 10:23:38 AM |
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bangers_n_mash
Houston, TX
age: 43
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Still waiting for you to explain how fruit and fried chicken is racist too...
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| 3/8/2011 10:26:56 AM |
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bugsbro2
Portland, OR
age: 56
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tiny d*ck racism. that's your problem op. it's your big d*ck. when white men with their tiny d*cks get an erection, some of the blood in their brains leaves to fill the corpus calosum. when you get an erection, ALL your blood leaves your brain to fill that big d*ck.
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| 3/8/2011 10:27:48 AM |
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laineyloves
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26 online now!
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Quote from bugsbro2:
tiny d*ck racism. that's your problem op. it's your big d*ck. when white men with their tiny d*cks get an erection, some of the blood in their brains leaves to fill the corpus calosum. when you get an erection, ALL your blood leaves your brain to fill that big d*ck.
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youdontnomeyet
Henderson, NV
age: 50
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I was going to KFC for breakfast the other day but a child beat me to it.
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| 3/8/2011 10:31:34 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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I am pretty sure the OP's d*ck size is irrelevent....as it's never been used.
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| 3/8/2011 10:33:30 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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I didn't expect you to respond jfc.
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| 3/8/2011 10:34:58 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Well if you would get your eyes off that guys a** over there you would have realised I responded yesterday nimrod.
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| 3/8/2011 10:35:42 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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@jfc Just because something was taught to you, doesn't mean it's right. Religion is taught all day everyday. And it is dead wrong.
Response?
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| 3/8/2011 10:39:58 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Agreed....however just like anything you're taught....once you are old enough to make up your own mind...you do. I felt that the specific way of thinking...I agreed with. There you go....my opinion.
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| 3/8/2011 10:42:58 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Switch places with me. You really think it's fair? Glad you have a small ounce of reasoning in your body 
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| 3/8/2011 10:43:17 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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Oh yeah.
56........
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| 3/8/2011 10:46:53 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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With that train of thought I can one up you by asking you if it's fair we as women have to have periods, give birth, and be the 'catcher'.
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| 3/8/2011 10:52:38 AM |
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lickslow989
Renton, WA
age: 28 online now!
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I don't envy women. You females have a very hard job. I applaud all of the good ones out there. I also don't feel sorry for these guys that get taken advantage of. Off to the gym.
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| 3/8/2011 10:58:13 AM |
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whonotwhat
Stamford, CT
age: 62
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The man always pays OP. If you have to even think about who picks up the tab you are a poor candidate for dating...and a cheap bastard.
i just cant agree this simplistic un thought out brain washed self serving approach...buy the way I love KFC....applies in all circumstances and at all times......
this is the logic taht really applies...
"on topic, i'm amused by all the women who use tradition as an excuse to date for free.these are the same women who screamed against tradition when they were "fighting for equality". apparently, the line item veto approach is fully in play here. we like this tradition so it stays but we don't like that tradition so it has to go.
the reality is simple. until women climb the highest mountain, swim the deepest sea, slay the dragon, fight their way into the castle to save HIM, men are going to pay for the first date."
In the end I believe the OP is right.....whether he's gay, hates women, or is black, green or what not....
I tip my hat to the OP...at the end of the day....he is more right than all you righteous ladies.
There will be no free lunches here.....bc.....as was pointed out early on.....there are women out there that see this issue and recignize it, have self respect and pride....and want to pay for what they consume....they do not want any implied or otherwise obligation / expectation....sorry jfc those are the women I WANT to date.....ones that can and do and want to stand equal with me on their own two feet.
As I side note I am currently dating a working English teacher, in the state of NY.....and we discussed it and she agreed to 50 / 50.....and ill leave other details unsaid.....as I said we are still dating....month 3.....she really shocked me when she wanted to do b/d dinner...month one.....and bought me a shirt from LT......
So, OP.......they are out there....not all have the attitude that their time is worth more than mine.....
no time for spell check
what is OT in prior post.....please.
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| 3/8/2011 10:58:28 AM |
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cdn_iceman
Etobicoke, ON
age: 46
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iceman. watermelon and fried chicken are stereotypical foods that black people eat. also in the "black" foods lists are cool-aid, barbeque potato chips, collard greens, malt liquor et al. the term was derisive in the jim crow days ( before integration) but now is generally used in fun. check out gabriel iglesias's racist gift basket on you tube for the real answer.
Thanks Bugsbro2 for the explanation, we dont have that saying in Canada or collard greens,malt liquor etc.
None of the blacks up here that i know eat watermelon let alone fried chicken, mango chicken at Thai restaurant or jerk chicken is a different story.
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
age: 65
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With that train of thought I can one up you by asking you if it's fair we as women have to have periods, give birth, and be the 'catcher'.
JFC, no fair,
no one, no one can condemn anyone for their gender.
Some sperm won. Ain't your burden or anyone else's, grow up and accept it, or curl up and die.
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| 3/8/2011 11:07:12 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Quote from stumppy: JFC, no fair,
no one, no one can condemn anyone for their gender.
Some sperm won. Ain't your burden or anyone else's, grow up and accept it, or curl up and die.
I don't take issue with it Stumpy....duh. I was just showing him how lame his argument is. Sarcasm Stumpy.....always sarcasm.
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| 3/8/2011 11:10:33 AM |
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whonotwhat
Stamford, CT
age: 62
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I didn't expect you to respond jfc.
she is lowering herself to other's standards....op....I also held her to a higher standard...
she cannot refute ur logic on this question....so they attack the man and not the issue....55 pages of it......and they cannot beat you!!!!
this very white dude would like to be on ur team.....gay or not, woman hater or not....and since we know ur black that does not bother me.....I have dated several black women over the years....i might add, very successful, black women.....so color is really no issue for me.....maybe u can even fix me up.....course .....tell'em its dutch...
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| 3/8/2011 11:11:07 AM |
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jif690
Phoenix, AZ
age: 40
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yep its fair pam...part of being a woman with Gods touch..and have to put up with us devils..
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| 3/8/2011 11:11:45 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Quote from whonotwhat: she is lowering herself to other's standards....op....I also held her to a higher standard...
she cannot refute ur logic on this question....so they attack the man and not the issue....55 pages of it......and they cannot beat you!!!!
this very white dude would like to be on ur team.....gay or not, woman hater or not....and since we know ur black that does not bother me.....I have dated several black women over the years....i might add, very successful, black women.....so color is really no issue for me.....maybe u can even fix me up.....course .....tell'em its dutch...
Awwww.....who says you can't find your soulmate on DH? 
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| 3/8/2011 11:12:21 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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Quote from jif690: yep its fair pam...part of being a woman with Gods touch..and have to put up with us devils..
STFU and massage my back.
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| 3/8/2011 11:14:25 AM |
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whonotwhat
Stamford, CT
age: 62
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With that train of thought I can one up you by asking you if it's fair we as women have to have periods, give birth, and be the 'catcher'.
c'mon jfc.....you are also stronger in most every sense of the word....look at all the foolish men that want to buy you lunch?
who lives longer? who really controls the money in the house?.....c'mon
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| 3/8/2011 11:15:29 AM |
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jif690
Phoenix, AZ
age: 40
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as you wish..my heinous b*tch..
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| 3/8/2011 11:17:08 AM |
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jfc_onacross
Springville, UT
age: 37
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You left out b*tch jj?
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