| 2/29/2008 9:25:13 AM |
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pixiepunker
Hemet, CA
age: 37
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I always thought the person your with should be your best friend and that takes time.I want to be with someone who makes me laugh ,somebody who enjoys me and i them.It takes time to build that. it doesnt happen over night,people really need to learn to slow down. Either it will be there or it wont.
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| 2/29/2008 5:38:25 PM |
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uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
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Amen!...
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| 2/29/2008 5:41:43 PM |
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lin37
Comstock Park, MI
age: 38
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Here Here!!! someone like that makes you feel so natural too. days like these when the world spins too fast and we get caught up in it, it's nice to be with that kinda of person.
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| 2/29/2008 5:42:15 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 47
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Ditto. You wouldn't how many women I meet that are shocked when I want to slow the relationship down. I don't lova ya (even just a little), I ain't sleeping with ya.
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| 2/29/2008 5:46:44 PM |
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lin37
Comstock Park, MI
age: 38
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Whew, I thought it was just me getting the "take me home on the first date" routine from guys.
I met one last year I thought was the cutest thing on earth. after he said things need to go slow, but where do you live and i'll follow you home tonight i never heard from him again. talk about mixed signals.
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| 2/29/2008 5:51:51 PM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 47
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I want to take it slow.I need to know if i can enjoy the company of this person before anything else happens.If you cant be good friends its not gona last
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| 2/29/2008 5:54:46 PM |
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countrydancer32
Elmo, UT
age: 33
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 you got the ole "I need to go slow" if he thinks it is a relationship material type connection, but otherwise he's thinking with the other head...
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| 2/29/2008 6:14:58 PM |
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chimike
Chicago, IL
age: 57
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Totally agree with the OP....take time to get to know one another, be friends....laughter is the most overlooked part of a good relationship, I think. Chances are you would not be out with each other if you didn't find each other attractive, so, the other part will come soon enough. I've always said I prefer to know someone intimately emotionally before I know them intimately physically...hasn't always worked out that way, and look where that's gotten me!
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| 2/29/2008 7:11:51 PM |
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telula
Orangeburg, NY
age: 41
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I'm loving that men feel this way too ! Never heard a man say this before, you guys are good !!!!!!
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| 2/29/2008 7:38:31 PM |
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magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
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Why the rush? If any of us are really looking for something long term, wouldn't we want to take the time to REALLY know a person and know you are compatible and have similar goals, values, etc?? I say take your time!
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| 2/29/2008 7:41:27 PM |
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prettyeyezinpa
Nottingham, PA
age: 44
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Well put Pixie
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| 2/29/2008 8:57:40 PM |
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chevy428
Meridian, MS
age: 47
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thats right why rush!!!! take it eazy and injoy life and see where it takes you .
if the dont wait they not the one for you>!!!!! have a great blessed day.!!!!!!!
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| 2/29/2008 8:58:46 PM |
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bry11ca
Wyandotte, MI
age: 43
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| 2/29/2008 9:00:39 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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Wow...someone finally 'gets it'. Just what I'm looking for...glad to know there are like minded people.
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| 2/29/2008 9:23:11 PM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
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bry have you lost your tongue???
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