| 3/28/2011 6:04:05 PM |
If your dream guy only gave you 10 min in bed |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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| 1. would you stop sleeping with him |
| 2. talk about your likes,dislikes, wants, needs etc= wait patiently |
| 3. be blunt and expect more next time |
| 4. get upset he quit on you. |
Just a question. If he came in 10 min and didn't want more. What would you do?
Guys how do you feel about this situation?
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| 3/28/2011 6:10:59 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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for one, every womans dream guy wouldnt be a 10 min man.
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| 3/28/2011 6:16:20 PM |
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randa_1990
Pierpont, OH
age: 20
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exactly, thats not my dream guy, but if everything else was right, wed have a serious talk about it, and i suppose as long as he tried and it got better we could work it out, but if it just stayed the same, well id rather get rid of him and find a good FWB 
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| 3/28/2011 6:29:15 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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for one, every womans dream guy wouldnt be a 10 min man.
Okay, well let's say that happened to you, what would you do to improve?
Let's just pretend the guy is awesome except for that...
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| 3/28/2011 6:31:35 PM |
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ng1969
Clifton, CO
age: 42
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Next...
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| 3/28/2011 6:33:17 PM |
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ducatis4
Gardena, CA
age: 31
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10 min  Have you tried a plumber?
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| 3/28/2011 6:41:56 PM |
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2wheelpilot
Blackshear, GA
age: 43
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best 10 minutes of your life baby.
talk to him and express your feelings and concerns as you have done here. open communication between lovers is very important, to me.
things to discuss:
more foreplay
what he likes
what you like
the intimacy shared before and after penetration<---can't believe i used that word.
and finally, how many times he is willing to 'do it' in one sitting or whatever.
he really should know that is not acceptable, but you will know for sure if he cares, when you discuss it with him.
-chip
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| 3/28/2011 6:45:00 PM |
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pinpanther
Trenton, MI
age: 37
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if i ever met my dream guy,i wouldn't b asking for more
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| 3/28/2011 6:45:06 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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Okay, well let's say that happened to you, what would you do to improve?
Let's just pretend the guy is awesome except for that...
i wouldnt do shit to improve. my days of f**kin all nite are ova. me personally, i can give you 30 min with no problem. three 10 min sessions. i aint got time to be wearing myself out trying to go a whole hr straight. i got bills to pay the next morning. ill give you the best 10 min at a time eva tho.
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| 3/28/2011 6:46:17 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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Next...
thats what 'she' said after i left the money on the nite stand.
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| 3/28/2011 6:52:48 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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 pilot. Good advice.
Mr. I got bills to pay at least your lady gets 3 sessions. Cool.
Would you make an exception on holidays?
Ducati, never tried a plumber! Why? You like to go all night?
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| 3/28/2011 6:59:05 PM |
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imnewhere96
Buena Park, CA
age: 34
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A ten minute man is either out of shape or wants it over with quickly.
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| 3/28/2011 7:01:05 PM |
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imnewhere96
Buena Park, CA
age: 34
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Maybe he is a premature ejaculator.
Some guys get so excited that they blow their load sooner then they would like. 
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| 3/28/2011 7:12:36 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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Maybe he is a premature ejaculator.
Some guys get so excited that they blow their load sooner then they would like.
Maybe... but then what? 
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| 3/28/2011 7:17:54 PM |
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hye_man
New York, NY
age: 33
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JIMHO my advice would be leave him immediately and move on to saddle river NJ
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| 3/28/2011 7:18:49 PM |
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skikrijoe
Houston, TX
age: 27
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If he was an amazing person I would defenitly tell him that we have to do some foreplay before hand but other than that sometimes 10 minutes is not bad...hahahaha...I wouldnt complain because he is already the man of my dreams...
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| 3/28/2011 7:21:54 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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Foreplay is a must. I agree.
[Edited 3/28/2011 7:22:37 PM ]
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| 3/28/2011 7:25:11 PM |
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ohiotrukin
Wooster, OH
age: 38
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10 minutes doesn't even cover kissing and feeling lol
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| 3/28/2011 7:26:51 PM |
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mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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is it just me or has women become lazy when it comes to foreplay. seems that now days when a woman says she wants to do foreplay, she basically means get me hot.
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| 3/28/2011 7:28:32 PM |
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skikrijoe
Houston, TX
age: 27
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is it just me or has women become lazy when it comes to foreplay. seems that now days when a woman says she wants to do foreplay, she basically means get me hot.
You're wrong...some woman still know what foreplay is...
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| 3/28/2011 7:31:12 PM |
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blackhawk499
Greenwood, IN
age: 38
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I thought that was the main purpose of foreplay? I must have been doing it wrong all these years.
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| 3/28/2011 7:38:16 PM |
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hye_man
New York, NY
age: 33
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u need to give him the foreplay for at least an hour, u gotta make sure to fill his balls to the max… then he will be jumping on u like an animal.
its ur job to fill his balls not his job....
[Edited 3/28/2011 7:43:38 PM ]
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| 3/28/2011 7:38:46 PM |
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randa_1990
Pierpont, OH
age: 20
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I thought that was the main purpose of foreplay? I must have been doing it wrong all these years.
purpose is to get BOTH people hott, its not all about the woman or the man, but both as a couple
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| 3/28/2011 7:51:17 PM |
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txnursekathy
Weatherford, TX
age: 56
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i would talk
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| 3/28/2011 8:05:37 PM |
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violet78
Rayville, LA
age: 33
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ohhhh he would get bluntness but with kindness....it would kinda depend on why he only gives 10 minutes......is it because he is selfish or does he need guidance?
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| 3/28/2011 8:22:11 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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u need to give him the foreplay for at least an hour, u gotta make sure to fill his balls to the max… then he will be jumping on u like an animal.
its ur job to fill his balls not his job....
Foreplay for an hour. Mmm...I'M GAME....
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| 3/28/2011 8:25:20 PM |
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johncharlie562
Murrieta, CA
age: 20
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Geezzzz soo much to talk about aha ^_^
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| 3/28/2011 8:33:38 PM |
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hye_man
New York, NY
age: 33
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lolll
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| 3/28/2011 9:09:02 PM |
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imnewhere96
Buena Park, CA
age: 34
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Perfect stranger has got the right idea 
If it doesn't work out beautiful, msg me anytime 
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| 3/28/2011 9:16:16 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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Lol...
Just trying to keep it fun while having a serious discussion 
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| 3/28/2011 9:26:13 PM |
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ladyzeigh
Waukegan, IL
age: 50
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He wouldn't be my dream guy
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| 3/28/2011 9:27:04 PM |
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shaybaby99
Pinehurst, NC
age: 22
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Good question! I've always wondered how other women felt about this
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| 3/28/2011 9:29:27 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 48
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If he'd do what he was f**kin' told, ten minutes would suffice.
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| 3/28/2011 10:18:59 PM |
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2wheelpilot
Blackshear, GA
age: 43
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If he'd do what he was f**kin' told, ten minutes would suffice.
make that a sticky.
listen up young ladies. play a guessing game and lose or tell him what you want and win...your choice. of course, this is contingent on having a partner that does "what he is f**kin' told".
both need to leave their egos at the door.
-chip
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| 3/28/2011 10:33:04 PM |
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hotpink36
Springfield, OR
age: 38
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10 minutes is good
how many does a girl have to have before the guy is done
sometimes I'm wore out in 5 minutes
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| 3/28/2011 10:57:10 PM |
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mercsman
Oakhurst, CA
age: 41
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best 10 minutes of your life baby.
talk to him and express your feelings and concerns as you have done here. open communication between lovers is very important, to me.
things to discuss:
more foreplay
what he likes
what you like
the intimacy shared before and after penetration<---can't believe i used that word.
and finally, how many times he is willing to 'do it' in one sitting or whatever.
he really should know that is not acceptable, but you will know for sure if he cares, when you discuss it with him.
-chip
LMAO nah Chip, not hard to believe it is a penetrating subject...
I agree with Chip, if it is a problem that is constant or happens more than not, communication is the best route and should be open and honest.
I cannot help but think though that if that is the only "problem" why the heck is it a problem at all?? I mean sheesh if the person is 100% awesome in everything else who gives a rats arse about that one issue enough to throw out the rest? Many relationships have far FAR bigger issues and survive... just sayin...
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| 3/28/2011 11:15:23 PM |
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ducatis4
Gardena, CA
age: 31
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4play is a good thing. Get's both all worked up and ready to go. 
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| 3/28/2011 11:21:17 PM |
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wildwombat
Albuquerque, NM
age: 22 online now!
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What dream guy only gives 10 mins in bed?
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| 3/28/2011 11:26:26 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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I cannot help but think though that if that is the only "problem" why the heck is it a problem at all?? I mean sheesh if the person is 100% awesome in everything else who gives a rats arse about that one issue enough to throw out the rest? Many relationships have far FAR bigger issues and survive... just sayin...
Well you raise a very good point. If that's. The only thing wrong with him then he's still pretty awesome.
If that were you? Would you try to go for more for your lady or throw in the towel since you already came and are a bit worn out?
Ducati, you still didn't answer the question.
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| 3/28/2011 11:28:10 PM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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What dream guy only gives 10 mins in bed?
Come on....say your the dream guy. Do you throw in the towel after you come? Can go for more?
What can a girl do? Pointers 
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| 3/28/2011 11:40:56 PM |
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wildwombat
Albuquerque, NM
age: 22 online now!
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Come on....say your the dream guy. Do you throw in the towel after you come? Can go for more?
What can a girl do? Pointers
it's not the cuming that counts. I will go the whole nine yards. even pul my self out of the game for a sec, shake it off and snap into action!!!! It's not over till my lady screams.
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| 3/28/2011 11:46:07 PM |
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kokopelligal
Mesa, AZ
age: 43
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it's not the cuming that counts. I will go the whole nine yards. even pul my self out of the game for a sec, shake it off and snap into action!!!! It's not over till my lady screams.
^^^^^younger guys rock in this area!!!
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| 3/28/2011 11:59:30 PM |
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beautifulg33
Attalla, AL
age: 33
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if he can make me come in 10 mins he is my dream guy lol but if i can only have 10 mins i'd prob let him use his tongue lol i think ima need more then 10 mins tho hes got 2 be amazing in 10 mins & still do forplay afterwords & hold me ect
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| 3/29/2011 12:04:28 AM |
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mercsman
Oakhurst, CA
age: 41
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If that were you? Would you try to go for more for your lady or throw in the towel since you already came and are a bit worn out?
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There are many other things that can be done while "the system resets" that is where communication comes into play. Explorations of sensuality before and after can be great fun and can keep "the mood" on the fire so to speak, during that required 'down time'.
If a guy is not willing to do those kinds of things then he got the only thing he wanted... self satisfaction... especially if it happens every time or the majority of the time. On RARE occasion it may be he simply has no clue of what else to do... again communication can resolve that...
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| 3/29/2011 12:32:41 AM |
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katbbw
Middletown, NY
age: 34
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Also some persons dream guy could be a sexy swagga, well hung whatever!
Not the description of my dream guy!
FYI, Thats why there is a 100 trillion sex toy industry.
You got your perfect dream guy and he only lasts ten minutes!
Buy a dildo, vibe, anal beads, whatever it is thats gonna make u climax. LMFAO
If you had plenty foreplay and oral, then the sex shouldnt last for hours!
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| 3/29/2011 12:42:44 AM |
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thebard58
Hermiston, OR
age: 52
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perfectstranger
In my heyday, the 10 mins, coming after hours of anticipation, and play, would have been more than enough for you. Then the next question would be: Are you ready for seconds?
Obviously, if this guy is so awesome, other than that, he just needs "schooled".
After all, the actual "event" for a guy lasts about 30 seconds, so a true connoisseur takes pleasure in the time leading up to it. (There is nothing more beautiful, than a woman in the throes of an orgasm).
And I can't believe I actually responded to this thread!
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| 3/29/2011 12:46:49 AM |
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mercsman
Oakhurst, CA
age: 41
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LOL you and me both Bard. obviously we have been awake far to long. 
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| 3/29/2011 12:51:03 AM |
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thebard58
Hermiston, OR
age: 52
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Agreed.
But then, somebody has to school these young folks. I'm getting too old to take care of all these sweet young things myself. (Not to mention paranoid about diseases, and just plain wanting a 1 on 1 versus "play time"). 
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| 3/29/2011 12:58:16 AM |
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mercsman
Oakhurst, CA
age: 41
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I blame Internet and Fast food, it has created the Instant Gratification Syndrome seen in so many now days... No patience for taking ones time to enjoy the pleasure of another... its all ME ME ME NOW NOW NOW.... sigh... Much more enjoyable to seek out her pleasure because in so doing the guy's pleasure lasts far longer and is much more satisfying I figure...
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| 3/29/2011 1:06:30 AM |
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ducatis4
Gardena, CA
age: 31
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If your mans game is done with in ten. They still need to hook you up!! If it were up to me I would get right back to work on you! You need to get yours too! And both would have fun!!
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| 3/29/2011 1:30:56 AM |
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maxtronger
Vancouver, WA
age: 32
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If he was your dream guy he could rock your work in that ten minutes. When he f**ked you, you'd stay f**ked. Plus if its only 10 minutes in bed why not 10 on the floor, 12 on the kitchen table, 20 on the porch waving at the passing cars etc.
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| 3/29/2011 2:45:29 AM |
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heartfeltsmilin
Cave Junction, OR
age: 49
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None of them. If My Dream Man and I had sex for 10 minutes I would smile for the rest of my life. LOL
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| 3/29/2011 3:06:17 AM |
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gryphond
Salem, OR
age: 38
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Very well put Heart. Perhaps the o/p needs a bit better definition.
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| 3/29/2011 4:32:10 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Olathe, KS
age: 51
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I would make it 10 minutes he would never forget
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| 3/29/2011 10:10:15 AM |
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imnewhere96
Buena Park, CA
age: 34
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The problem must be defined and then resolved. So talk to him and find out why. If that doesn't work then he is a "ten minute man"
Which means he needs to go down on you untill you orgasm and then you sleep like a baby.
 Good times
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| 3/29/2011 10:47:31 AM |
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thecuchikid
Long Beach, CA
age: 34
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I can f**k you for 10 min ...I could f**k you for 4 hrs strait ....no matter if I blew a wad or not ....if he's not sexually excited around you then his motovation to want to sexually please you is gone ....you need to do things around him to increase that tention is all ...then he will want to go out of his way to please you. Now if you didn't like it after that fake f**k first time ....then you should concider that the man just dosent know you well enough to get you off is all ...and if your not willing to teach.... then keep shooting and see how many d*cks you ride till you get the right curve to hit your spot.not a good look .......its all a selfish game ....all you think about is what you deserve and want .....you never know ...he may be trying so hard to please you ...he's off his game ...mostly cold heart males f**k like robots .... no emotions will get you f**ked for hrs and no kiss afterwards. They don't let there emotions get them excited so sometimes they won't even cum at all ...its a fact because I've done it so before you go judge a guy if he pops off to soon remmember to look at yourself to see if your being a bit selfish or are you just never satisfied... even brad pit ...or even will smith had 10 min days ....they are too rich for anyone to care.
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| 3/29/2011 10:52:44 AM |
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afrosirene
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
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Be blunt and expect more next time.....
If he chooses to repeat the same selfish/sloppy performance...
Then it's ADIOS AMIGO!
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| 3/29/2011 10:54:03 AM |
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afrosirene
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
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if i ever met my dream guy,i wouldn't b asking for more
So you would overlook the Bad sex?????
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| 3/29/2011 10:54:23 AM |
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perfectstrangr
Long Beach, CA
age: 26 online now!
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Bart, it would be my pleasure to school my dream Man as long as he shows he wants to learn and explore with me.
Mercsman, I like your answers. It is much more satisfying when you know you pleased your partner and he/she enjoyed it as much as you did.
Ducati, Good to know You won't stop till' she's satisfied. Hope that's not just talk.
Max, you sound like a freak How do you go on for so long? Is it because you have sex often?
Heartfelt, I know that an evening with your dream guy would feel like heaven but is sex not that important to you that you won't express your concerns. Communication is everything, I believe. If he only gave you 10 min and you didn't orgasm, why fear saying it.
Imnewhere, that sounds fantastic. I would not complain after that.
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| 3/29/2011 10:55:02 AM |
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afrosirene
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
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Foreplay for an hour. Mmm...I'M GAME....
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