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elaine47
Petersburg, IN
age: 47
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Hi, just need a little insight please.
I have been talking to a very nice guy for some time
now and at first i kinda flifted with him for a while
as we chatted back and forth. He did have some real problems
to deal with and told me he would be back around sometime.
Well, he did after awhile and told me of this woman he was falling
in love with and as he was about to tell her, she goes back to ex.
anyway; i felt really bad for him because i know what it is like to be hurt.
We agreed to talk soley as friends and to make a long story short; it now has became
a little more. Anyway we are suppose to meet sometime (not set time yet) but i am sooooo
nervous about it. NOT THAT I DON'T WANT TO MEET HIM....OH GOD, I DO VERY MUCH WANT TO
but the problem lies within myself. I think as far as 2 people go personality wise
i believe we could make it. but i'm insecure really bad about the physical me.
I know this sounds stupid and childish maybe, but i feel such a close connection
with him that it is almost unreal. So i have this big what if????????????
I want to meet him brfore someone else comes along and takes him again but on the other
hand WHAT IF??????????????????????????  
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| 3/5/2008 7:50:09 AM |
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yanks118
Moab, UT
age: 24
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jus go for it..... he will either like you or not...... maybe you won't like him? who knows... but if you don't..... THAT what if is going to be a lot worse then this one!
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| 3/5/2008 7:57:29 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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No harm in meeting........it could be the best thing you ever do......or do you want to not go through with it and always wonder??? Good luck...
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| 3/5/2008 7:59:21 AM |
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lin37
Comstock Park, MI
age: 37 online now!
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Stop with the What if's. you'll never know the truth if you don't stop asking what if. and if you don't meet him you'll always be asking what if.
So what if you met him? what if you were surprised and actually liked him? what if it is the best thing that happened to you? what if you finally got your ticket of DH? WHAT IF WHAT IF WHAT IF???
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| 3/5/2008 8:01:42 AM |
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jimmy61
Titusville, FL
age: 46
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The great thing about honesty is that there are no nasty little surprises. It is natural to be a little nervous and insecure. It is one thing to chat it up on the internet, another to be "3-D". Best of luck to ya!
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| 3/5/2008 8:10:51 AM |
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elaine47
Petersburg, IN
age: 47
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Thanks you all and a special ty to you jimmy.
I have been honest with him about being heavy
maybe i should just post a full pic first and
see what comes from his response then go from there?????????
p.s. Thank you stormy!
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| 3/5/2008 8:22:17 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 34 online now!
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This is why you meet someone as quickly as possible before falling in "e-love"
92% of the time someone will be disappointed with the physical meeting.
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| 3/5/2008 8:24:26 AM |
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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If you have been honest, try not to worry about it. There will hopefully be more to focus on,
and the emphasis should be on who you are, and how you two get on.
Compatibility on other fronts minimizes the body imperfections. Not 20 anymore.
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| 3/5/2008 8:49:13 AM |
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elaine47
Petersburg, IN
age: 47
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Thank you forestrose you are so right.
eddy you may be right too, who knows.......but thanks for giveing me such a possitive outlook on this, you can always be counted on huh?  
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| 3/5/2008 9:12:33 AM |
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ru2timid
Rockford, IL
age: 46 online now!
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Sweetie, You are who you are from the inside out.. not the other way around. Remember that always. Go ahead with your interest. Sometimes things can work out, other times they don't. There is no shame with that, coupled with honesty. Oh, even with honesty it can be difficult. Sometimes there are 2 good people with obligations, deligated before hand, I think that is what keeps so many of us single... not that we are flawed. Enjoy yourself.... you are beautiful.
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| 3/5/2008 9:30:09 AM |
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jimmy61
Titusville, FL
age: 46
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eddy, if someone were to play, "Good Cop/Bad Cop", I wonder which one you would be??? I look at flaws like I do scars, they definitely add character. Without character, you just as well be a mannequin in a dime-store window.
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| 3/5/2008 9:31:08 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42 online now!
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Go for it! lifes too short as it is.
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| 3/5/2008 10:40:12 AM |
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wolffdream
Billerica, MA
age: 57 online now!
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Hell you are a beautiful woman, and if he does not appreciate you for that then you lost nothing. Then again just maybe you have a lot to gain here, so go with it, have a great time and stop worrying so much. What will be, will be.
good luck..
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| 3/5/2008 3:45:48 PM |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 49
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Go for it!!!
You will never know what could happen unless you do!!!
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| 3/5/2008 3:57:43 PM |
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l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 44
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Make sure new photos have been exchanged between both of you so you can spot each other in a crowd and yes meet someplace public so nothing goes wrong. But yes definately meet, the sooner the better.
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