| 3/6/2008 9:56:24 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 34
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Oh, and Eddy, your insecurity is showing
Explain and maybe I'll agree.
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| 3/6/2008 11:55:39 AM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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I think the sticky portion gives it all an oddly skanky twist as well....
My GF's and I go out knowing we look hot but we NONE of us dress as you describe.
I wouldn't be interested in a man who was eyeing me with his woman there, and in NO WAY EVER would I approach him.
That's what's known as tawdry behavior where I come from, and not the indication of a ladies' integrity.
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| 3/6/2008 12:01:03 PM |
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wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41 online now!
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Ladies and gentlemen..the OP is forkin looney tunes..arguing with her pointless..we are wrong..she is right no matter what..don't feed into her bs..quit feeding the monkey and she might go away.
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| 3/6/2008 12:16:13 PM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Turtle, if you don't like it, then hit the door.
Just had a right purdy visual of Eddy in a leather mini. he he
Oh, dear God. I need therapy now.
To answer the initial question - no. Regardless of how you define "dressed to kill" (which probably differs from area to area), or how adorable I was feeling, I don't approach a guy that I think is there with a woman. It's a lose-lose. If he's loyal to her, you're going to look and feel like a fool. If he's willing to slip you his number before she gets back, then he's not someone I want in my life. If she's his wingman, then ... well, sorry, Charlie. That's the risk you take when you intentionally misrepresent yourself trying to play games.
I think what MiaBella is saying is, getting all focused on precisely what the girls are wearing is not the point. What looks trashy or slutty in one area of the country looks totally different elsewhere. In Texas, if you go to a bar in August, you're likely to see halter tops and lowrider cutoffs, because it's just too damn hot for much else. If you were at a bar on Miami Beach, you'll be hanging with girls in bikinis, and they just fit right in with everyone else. If you took one of those girls and deposited her in a bar in Billings Montana - regardless of the weather outside - she'd look like a total freak.
The point is, they're dressed up and looking good and know it. Most of us who do girls nights out with our friends know that feeling. It's fun. It's whether you enjoy it in good fun, or misuse it to take advantage of other people, that says what category of woman you fit in.
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| 3/6/2008 12:41:58 PM |
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susyk65
Appleton, WI
age: 42
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Bella.....No I wouldn't flirt with a man that is on a date with his girl, or at the bar without her...knowing he had a girlfriend...I wouldn't want to put myself in that situation.
Yes I do dress seXy and classy to go out...but it is for my own pleasure. Guys will look no matter what you wear...
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| 3/6/2008 1:04:47 PM |
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belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 37
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Okay hold the fort. I think everyone is getting the wrong impression of my thread. First of all, you are all expressing your opinions, and I think that is great. That is what you are supposed to do. But dont type your big font at me making me look like the bad girl. I am not one of those girls. I see this happen all the time at a bar. I may have walked up to a man, YES, when his girlfriend walked into the bathroom because I KNOW the man, and i KNOW how his girlfriend is.  I either worked with him in the past, or I went to high school with him.  There are jealous girls you know who are OVERPROTECTIVE of their boyfriends and they need to chill. You dont need to criticize me that im this and that and put your anger towards me in this thread like I am guilty of something because I am not. I just happen to see it alot. As far as dressing the way they do??? Hey, I go out in a mini skirt and heels, and maybe a halter top, but the weather calls for it, and it looks DECENT. I dont need your permission. You all need to chill in my thread. Just state how you feel about the situation of a person other than MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE, because it is NOT me, dont be coming after me for no reason. If there is a problem, come see me in an email, we can have a party. Wohoooooooo thanks for reading.
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| 3/6/2008 1:09:41 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 34
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Most women are jealous of a scantily clad females waiting till they are in the bathroom until they walk over to their man to chat with them.
Human nature and all.
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| 3/6/2008 1:27:46 PM |
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simplman4right1
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
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Reverse the situation.... let some guy walk up to my date while I'm in the bathroom taking a leak....
I would assume he had a mental problem.... and if he didn't back off quickly... I would make SURE he had a dental problem.
Color me redneck... guess it's that "clean living" I did when I was playing rock star.
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| 3/6/2008 2:35:12 PM |
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luvinlifetou
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
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when a slutty chick comes up to me when my gf or wife is in the bathroom(and this has happened) i tell them to get their skanky,playin ass the f*ck away from me before i have my wife or gf kick the rest of the dress off of her. then i point her in eddy's direction... sorry eddy, couldnt resist...
Greeneyes...LMAO.. 
Bella..if you were the wife or girlfriend..what would you do? Lets just reverse the roles here..and people..lets listen please ..to the answer...
You walk out of the bathroom and some (I am NOT getting into the debate against sexy vs skanky) dressed up woman is hitting on your man..whatcha gonna do?
Myself...I might just have to tap her on the shoulder and say...with a big ole smile on my face.."Might be time for you to find yourself someone else to buy your drink sweetie."
And wait.........
Simpl..I guess..color me redneck too then..the new england version...LMAO
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| 3/6/2008 3:48:08 PM |
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anuaus
Victoria
Australia
age: 18
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| 3/6/2008 4:17:34 PM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Bella..if you were the wife or girlfriend..what would you do? Lets just reverse the roles here..and people..lets listen please..to the answer...
You walk out of the bathroom and some (I am NOT getting into the debate against sexy vs skanky) dressed up woman is hitting on your man..whatcha gonna do?
Actually this would probably make a good thread in and of itself. What if the shoe WERE on the other foot? How would you handle it (general you)?
I'm generally very secure and it doesn't bother me to see other women flirting with my guy. I've never been in a situation where I thought that the man I was with was *reciprocating* the interest, so it's usually just kind of funny in a pathetic way.
I would *not* give the other woman the satisfaction of thinking she's bothering me. I'd probably tell her to sit down and hang with us a while LOL. The fun and most effective thing to do in situations like that, IMO, is to do the opposite of what they're expecting. It boils their potatos.
When my ex and I first got together, one of our first dates was an all-night Halloween party. Everyone pretty much found a spot of floor and crashed on it when they were worn out. The next morning a group of us were sitting out on the patio, including me and my ex. A girl that he'd known from ren faire (but that I'd never met before) came out and plopped herself down in his lap. It was very obvious that she was interested in him, and considered me an intruder; she was trying to let me know that she had a prior claim on him. I was just kind of giggling and shaking my head, because he'd already told me about her, and that he was *so* not interested in her. But, if she wanted to make a fool of herself, then whatever.
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| 3/6/2008 4:21:43 PM |
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cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
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Damn. I've got to start hang'n out in Binghamton. Adult women duking it out. It don't get no better'n that.
Could we sell this to Vince McMahon?
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| 3/6/2008 4:29:13 PM |
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sweetpea604
Wingina, VA
age: 48
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if you the guy thats making eyes, has a girlfriend then i would inorg him, now if he just shooting the bull,i would tell him to go some where ...... ,if i was looking for a serious relationship ,i would not be at a bar to start with. lol hope that help !!! 
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| 3/6/2008 6:27:06 PM |
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belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 37
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Hi luvin... Got your post of what would I do if some woman would walk up to my man if i were in the bathroom, and she were to perhaps start hitting on him, making sexual advances, etc etc right?
Well heck, my attitude is much different than yours girlfriend.  I know my relationship is so secure, that noone has the lock and key but me. Jealousy is a sin. I remember going out on a date with one guy i knew and a few women were hitting on him and little ole me was just watching a karaoke show.. He had his arms wrapped around me. I pay no attention to these things. Remember I told you about my sons father? Noone could be worst than him, and I mean noone. I did not even look at those girls or said one word as he did all the talking, or should i say, he almost did all the pushing, as I almost had to stop him.......oopsie daisy's those irish men are mean.... i said hey hey hey no no no, dont do that, let them go mannnnn, imagine me saying hey man. Even if my date or boyfriend were to get up from his seat and leave me to go hang out and leave with a girl or girls, what do you think I would actually do? Honey luvin baby doll, we italian girls survive. We pick up oursvelves and move on. We can always catch another train yanno....
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| 3/6/2008 6:35:17 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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I think I've read just enough to remind me why I dont do the bar scene.......drama and BS all for what?
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