| 3/22/2008 11:41:54 AM |
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oneadvntursgrl
Boca Raton, FL
age: 46
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Stated perfectly magtag!!! 
Hope people will read and listen! If one loves and believes in themselves...moving on becomes easier...just sometimes, it takes a bit of time to get back there...hopefully, once they do, they never give another that power again! And, they set higher standards and expectations for the next potential partner, and not repeat history.
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| 3/22/2008 11:42:51 AM |
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sun_flowergal08
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 31
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I think, personally, its because they have the tendency..and not all men...to think that grass is greener on the other side, and maybe sometimes for them, it really is, but what needs to be known is that YOU are a good person and should accept that you do not deserve that..no one does..
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| 3/22/2008 12:02:31 PM |
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libra75
Garfield, AR
age: 32
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could be for the same reasons women do it, maybe, maybe not.
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| 3/22/2008 12:20:39 PM |
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oneadvntursgrl
Boca Raton, FL
age: 46
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But the reasons are never good reasons...if it isn't working with what you have at home, end it and move on! Not taking responsibility for the commitment you made, is pretty cowardly! Don't ya think Libra?
[Edited 3/22/2008 12:21:01 PM]
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| 3/22/2008 12:37:42 PM |
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smilin_bob
Broadway, VA
age: 47
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All of these posts bring up the word Accountability, or lack thereof.
People take actions, but do NOT think they should be held accountable for their OWN actions. They leave a wake of destruction, only to move on to some other relationship.
It is always someone else's fault..
(ok.. he is stepping off the soapbox, and away from the coffee pot.. )
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| 3/22/2008 12:54:20 PM |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 50
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thebestman i agree with you.
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| 3/22/2008 12:54:36 PM |
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tara7c
Westerville, OH
age: 49
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Hi Sandangel  I'm sorry you experienced that unacceptable behavior from a man you care about.
My advice is run and don't look back! No..you cannot trust him again. That man disrespected you in more ways than one...that was outrageous behavior in my book. 
I've read that it takes a man at least 4 months to form emotional attachments to a woman. Women get attached much quicker. So...(I don't know if you did or not)...but, when a man has sex with a woman before he is emotionally attached...it's just sex...you're just someone he's seeing...not necessarily his "girlfriend". But...to a woman...she starts thinking in relationship terms...whereas the man thinks he just had good sex. They say it is best to wait on the sexual part of the relationship until you know he is emotionally attached to you...then, he's less likely to stray and is more likely in the relationship for the right reasons.
I don't know about you...but I have ZERO tolerance for infidelity...kick him to the curb...you deserve much better. 
Sorry...that scenario got me just a bit "hot under the collar" so to speak. Bob said it much more eloquently than me this time. 
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| 3/22/2008 1:09:56 PM |
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butterfly_3
Montreal, QC
age: 53
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Hey sandangel,
You've got so many good advice and opinions here! And it's true, This guy doesn't deserve you, he's not good enough for you, don't give him a second look. His problem is between "the ears" and nobody can change that except himself so don't loose your time any longer. You're better off alone than with this creep or any guy that cheat's on you. If he cheat's with you, he cheat's with himself too...so who needs that?
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| 3/22/2008 2:53:32 PM |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43
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I lie, but I don't cheat . . . get it? 
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| 3/22/2008 3:47:27 PM |
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daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
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It's hard to remember when youre hurting, but people can only hurt you as much as you allow them to, they do all the damage they can and move on while your heart punishes you for them. The old saying you only hurt the ones you love, because you can't hurt someone who doesn't care. Sucks, but thats the way it is
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| 3/22/2008 4:13:59 PM |
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seadollar
Toronto, ON
age: 45
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Men cheat and lie because women cheat and lie. Women begin learning how to lie the day they are born and as time goes on they just get better and better at it. Ask any woman why she is going out with any guy and she cannot answer ....ask her to go out with you tonight and she still doesn't know what to say and when she does say yes or no...she still doesn't know why she said yes or no. See women are such good liars that they even lie to themselves and tell themselves that they know why they are saying what they are saying at that moment in time. I don't think there is a woman out there who knows why she does what she does. It's all a big joke so they confuse the men so much that the men simply learn that what a woman tells you is never ever true at any moment in time...ha ha ha...what a hoot
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| 3/22/2008 4:18:16 PM |
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juniebegood
Huntington, NY
age: 53
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They cheat because they can't help it, it's in their genes! 
. . . . only kidding, I couldn't resist! LOL
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| 3/22/2008 7:57:58 PM |
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aboomer
Little Rock, AR
age: 45
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While I am happy to see the responses to sandangels question, I think maybe we have been getting snookered. Can anyone really have such a thing happen to them and then need to come here and ask what they should do? While I really enjoy dialog about relationship issues, including infidelity, I wonder if submissions really reflect actual circumstances. I find sites like these to be such that one should take everything submitted with a grain of salt, so to speak. I am encouraged that more and more women are speaking out about the fact that not only men are deceitful and untrustworthy. Accolades to those women and to the men who are right to point out that any man that abuses the trust of anyone should be branded with the mark of one who is lower than whale excrement. I hope no one in particular feels that this submission is pointed at them unless they feel they are deceitful and a lowlife.
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| 3/23/2008 2:25:17 PM |
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ipscdude
Jamaica, NY
age: 50
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Ladies:
Lying and cheating are encoded in a man's DNA!
What's a woman's excuse?
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| 3/23/2008 2:50:54 PM |
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oneadvntursgrl
Boca Raton, FL
age: 46
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That is a croc of doo doo ipscdude!!! Grow up and join the real world. Pathetic excuse for immaturity, lying andor cheating.
[Edited 3/23/2008 2:51:19 PM]
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