I keep seeing men and women post something about' not into games.'
Can someone please give me an example of games someone would be playing.
I've yet to encounter these " games" people play evidently.

Games I have had women play:
Telling me they don't drink alcohol, then finding out they drink all the time.
Saying that their ex is totally out of the picture, yet they still talk.
Not communicating feelings in person, then unloading in an email or over the phone.
Being unhappy in the relationship and waiting two days after a concert to break up by email.
Saying she is too busy and doesn't want to go out, then days later says she had a male "friend" at her place and they just talked all night.
Being told she is taking time off work for a while, then she slips and admits she hasn't paid taxes in years and gets money from the state to help her with her kid.
Being told she doesn't have a criminal record, then after leaving the county she admits she is on probation for a felony.
Asking early on if she has an ex-husband, then finding out she isn't divorced yet..and she was getting even for an affair he had done.
Learning that she is dating and sexually active with several other men at the same time we are dating.
Finding out that she is actively using drugs and has a criminal record.

Yes, many of the above are also lying, manipulating, and dishonesty. To me those are games, using people to go to a concert, dating more than one person at a time, using people for their money, or to get back at ex/hubby.

"I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your a** sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions?"

bumblebee7, AMEN! no idea how to quote you... but amen!

The cow jumped over the moon.