| 3/31/2008 4:33:58 AM |
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k_lovegirl
Phoenix, AZ
age: 18
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Okay when we first started our relationship I was still with my ex.I started dating my boyfriend but was still with my ex...I brike it off with my ex maiby 2months later..I knw I cheated because we still did things a regular couple did..basicly I had two relationships.
I've lived with my boyfriend for over a year and a half..and never spoke too my ex ever since...
My question is do I tell my boyfriend at dat time that I cheated on him with my ex..or don't tell him anything since he won't ever find out?
(I feel kinda guilty because I feel dat I've lied too him)
 
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| 3/31/2008 4:38:57 AM |
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mosplace
Boulder City, NV
age: 46
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You cant have a real relationship if you are guilty about what you did. NO relationship will last if it there is a base of guilt in your soul. Get up front and honest asap the longer you wait the harder it will be.
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| 3/31/2008 4:40:43 AM |
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flaws_n_all28
Fulton, NY
age: 28
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THERE ISN'T A LAW AGAINST DATING A COUPLE PEOPLE. if there is let me know.
you feel guilty then you should tell. but if it's been a while and nothing has come of it then DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. be warned though, everything always has it's way of BITING YOU ON THE ASS EVENTUALLY.
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| 3/31/2008 4:47:53 AM |
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mosplace
Boulder City, NV
age: 46
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true flaws she did leave out some info like how long were you with your ex and did you make a commitment to your ex? did he (new man) know you were dating others and/or with your ex?
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| 3/31/2008 4:59:49 AM |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
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seems like you've been lying all along. The truth will set you free.
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| 3/31/2008 5:03:28 AM |
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mrmindcandy
Martinsburg, WV
age: 46
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Don't cheat and you NEVER have to say anything.....
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| 3/31/2008 5:29:04 AM |
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flaws_n_all28
Fulton, NY
age: 28
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mr: you are totally correct.
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| 3/31/2008 8:03:01 AM |
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historybuff
Waterville, ME
age: 43
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I guess it all depends on what kind of relationship you want. If you want it built on trust and open and honest communications, yeah, you gotta tell him. Apparently you feel like you cheated on him or otherwise, you wouldnt have mentioned it. Relationships cant last if there is lying or covering up.
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| 3/31/2008 8:08:51 AM |
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asianinvasion82
Northfield, MN
age: 26
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If I was doing what you were I'd say something first then be safe and knowing that you've told the person you were cheated on them and so they won't find out the hard way and seeing you kissing someone else. To me CHEATING is like being back in grade school so if I wanna be with someone else and I'm with someone while I wanna see that person I'll break it off with the person I'm with first then wait a week or whatever so that person is over you then be with that one and that one wants to be with you still and then start that relationship
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| 3/31/2008 10:18:43 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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Overlapping relationships is a nasty habit. I've been involved in one and there will always be that nagging feeling that, "if she cheated on her boyfriend with me, would she do the same thing to me?"
Probably the best way to break yourself of this destructive behavior is to be upfront and honest as soon as you possibly can and make sure you enter into only one relationship at a time.
Just be aware that your current boyfriend might get upset and he may wonder about your future together if you decide to be truthful now. But honesty is the best policy and will help you break out of this rut.
Good luck,
*edited for spelling*
[Edited 3/31/2008 10:19:29 AM]
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| 4/1/2008 12:16:30 AM |
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k_lovegirl
Phoenix, AZ
age: 18
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Okay we'll we were together for 3years..(my ex)
And well it was almost leading to marrige..
But see my parents were da ones forcing me too stay with him...
LET ME CLEAR SOMETHING UP...I DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND..DIZZ HAPPEND A WILE BAK..
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| 4/1/2008 12:25:37 AM |
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trance08
Boulder, CO
age: 44
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