| 4/5/2008 10:26:20 PM |
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athleticlover
Creve Coeur, IL
age: 35
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Amanda,
I agree with smilein bob. U just seem despirate and lost. U should never stoop as low as that, to take someones man? If he is willing to do that, then he isn't worth havein. Cuz you'll be next in line for the heartbreak. U seem genuine, so just be yourself and let life just happen. Reaching for someone so hard and wanting to be with them will only lead to a big upset when and if, you don't get what u want. And then u'll blame him for being an as hole. So basicaly what everyone is trying to tell you is find ur own man. There r plenty of us out here to be had. Don't try and take one from another woman. Good luck with whatever u decide.
Dale
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| 4/5/2008 10:27:41 PM |
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saxpistols
Bryan, TX
age: 45
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Amanda,
OK, I'm sorry, I was in a mood and it was just so easy. Do I have this right... you've not met? AND he has a girlfriend?? So if you do meet and fall in love, what about the girls he will then meet on-line when you are his girlfirnd? Just something to think about.
Also, what do you meen "love"? I know it sounds like a stupid question, and maybe it is, but do you mean that you are "in love" or just love having him as a special person you can talk to and get good advise from?
"Hey Amanda, I'm so glad to have you around and you're a great friend... I love you for that!"
That could just open the door the right amount... see?
BTW... Amanda.. sorry I was mean... I love you too! 
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| 4/5/2008 10:44:00 PM |
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shenandoahgirl
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 52
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RED FLAG-
he has a girlfriend. Please proceed with caution and protect your heart.Keep your eyes open and time will tell. Blessings
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| 4/5/2008 11:59:16 PM |
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babe1432
South Australia
Australia
age: 21
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ok what if she trying to get to your boyfriend and you know about and there not a thing you can do about
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| 4/6/2008 6:06:35 PM |
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kharee
Queensland
Australia
age: 19
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If you have met this person online.. Then I don't know Dahl.. People say things to make someone have feelings for them, trust me, I kno.. Do you's hang out offline? If you do, then I guess theres no harm In trying. If you's don't hang out offline, then It's up to you Babe x
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| 4/6/2008 6:08:06 PM |
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babe1432
South Australia
Australia
age: 21
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MY NAME IS AMANDA 
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| 4/6/2008 8:40:04 PM |
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papadave1971
Syracuse, NY
age: 36
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I disagree...
First off, I can't imagine "loving" someone only knowing them online.
2ndly I take offense to the person who stated online personas are always fraudulent.
The few ladies who I have talked to on this forum know (and others will find out if nothing materializes from those I've talked to, lol) that once I talk to some 2 tops 3 times online I want to speak to them on the phone, and during the 1st or 2nd phone conversation we're setting up a meeting point.
I'm new to talking to people on the internet to begin with, and cannot fathom people from halfway around the country who talk to each other for weeks/months and proclaim genuine "feelings" other than friendship. My only explanation is that they are living in a fantasy world.
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| 4/6/2008 9:11:00 PM |
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musicmann_54
Monroe, GA
age: 54
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Bob,
You have it together...great answer (from a counselor's perspective).
wrp
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| 4/7/2008 12:15:33 AM |
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babe1432
South Australia
Australia
age: 21
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WHAT IS YOUR NUMBER THEN ?   
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| 4/7/2008 12:46:00 AM |
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kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 29
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Do you speak to this person anywhere other than online?
This seems more like lust than love to me... And I know the difference..
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| 4/7/2008 12:51:41 AM |
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sweetctownguy24
Vinemont, AL
age: 24
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im lost...do you people also give advice on how to be a home wrecker? didnt she say the guy had a gf? Not sure but if i told a girl that i love her and she has a bf what do you think is going to happen....drama...drama...drama...drama...If he isnt happy with his gf and loves this girl then he wouldnt be with her.
[Edited 4/7/2008 12:53:55 AM]
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| 4/7/2008 12:58:35 AM |
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babe1432
South Australia
Australia
age: 21
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yes on the phone thank you
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| 4/7/2008 1:02:52 AM |
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kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 29
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I have become very close with some one that I talk to everyday. He and I both like each other alot.. We have been talkin for 8 weeks now. But there is no way to call it love til you get to meet this person face to face.
Ive been in love... Granted turned out to not be such a good thing. And from what I read this guys taken already.. Why would you want to be with someone you know wont be faithful?
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| 4/7/2008 1:32:27 AM |
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pebbles03
Delta, BC
age: 37
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I do think I heard the word obsession...and quite honestly I could have never told anyone that I loved them BEFORE I met them face to face, but its not his face that I love, we have such a unique connection, and I know what loves feels like...and this is it. Some people search the world and never find their soul mate...how lucky am I??
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| 4/8/2008 12:32:16 AM |
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babe1432
South Australia
Australia
age: 21
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i am not saying that whan he come on line this is not a about me its for a friend and i dont want to here about the loves of your life
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