| 4/15/2008 9:12:12 PM |
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dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
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Ok, here goes. You must have been very young when you were married if you are only 30 now and had an eleven year relationship. That may explain why the marriage didn't work out. She may have thought she was missing out on something. That is tough to accept when it happens but that happens a lot.
I understand the rushing part because you really want someone right now. But most relationships do work better if taken slowly with a friendship first. (Just my opinion) That doesn't work for everybody.
It is possible that the girls you are choosing are attracted by your looks but feel suffocated in a short time because you give too much. And maybe they just DO NOT KNOW what they want. This happens a lot with both sexes. Someone catches your eye and you really want to be with them because of the physical attraction but you don't really like each other. Tough One! That's why I mentioned getting to know someone and being friends first. This is all if you are looking for a lasting relationship.
Try to slow down since it seems you want a long term relationship. Don't give too much of yourself right away. It is hard to change that but it can be done. Just be yourself and don't worry so much and you will find the right person. It's nice that you are willing to admit insecurity but a player would pick up on that immediately and you become a pawn.
And sometimes it helps to forget about love for a while and just have fun and you will find it when you are least looking for it.
Best of luck in your search. I hope this will help in some way.
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| 4/15/2008 9:21:34 PM |
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sittinginatree
Bossier City, LA
age: 45
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Sometimes we just DON'T KNOW what we want-
sorry that's just how we are sometimes
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| 4/15/2008 9:39:19 PM |
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martha4321face
Lake Forest, CA
age: 35
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You really got a good line playboy this woman are believing your good boy game 
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| 4/16/2008 9:35:57 AM |
What in the HELL do you women really want???!!! |
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melbie7769
Greenfield, OH
age: 30
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R Hon I keep askin myself the same damn thing but not about the girls about the guys!!!
Hmmmm I'm almost to the point of givin up!!!!
Smooches Melbie
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| 4/16/2008 9:58:40 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 34
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Who cares what women want.
Concentrate more on what you want.
Makes for a happier life... for you anyways.
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| 4/16/2008 1:32:27 PM |
What in the HELL do you women really want???!!! |
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lioness48
Mankato, MN
age: 48
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You know I think men and women need to get over it. Live your life and enjoy it. With or without a person in your life. Men want something and women want something in a relationship work it out. Be honest and tell each other what you want it works better than anything. I read all these forums and you all want the same thing, you just explain it differently.
Hey life is to short and we all want someone.  
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| 4/16/2008 1:37:07 PM |
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honestinlov4u
Perkasie, PA
age: 64
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Lioness, we do all want the same thing, so it is time to get over it and as evil says, enjoy our own life because somebody can't make us happy. Only we can do that.
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| 4/16/2008 1:58:36 PM |
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soldier1986
Detroit, MI
age: 21
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Bro, I have came to the conclusion that women really don't want a GOOD MAN.They just say that so that those of us that are GOOD can give and get used by them..
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| 4/16/2008 2:14:41 PM |
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tmmm
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 36
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 yes i no what ya mean
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| 4/16/2008 2:38:29 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 50
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Hi very interesting topic....Yes same applies to what in hell do you men really want???I have been looking for someone on these dateline things for past 5 months...And guess what????There are so many game players out there its not funny...Seems to me a lot of people male and female are in this to stroke their egos ...So many say same thing about wanting to be in a stable relationship and commit but....then they start making excuses .I guess it really does boil down to finding someone with the same true values as yourself.Maybe slow down a little at first to get to know the person more and if you have the slightest doubt then listen to your own instincts dont hang on waiting for the other person to be what it is you are looking for because if its not in them from start its not going to happen..Never compromise yourself and your values be true to yourself so you can be true to others.HAng in there and I wish you well.
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| 4/16/2008 3:11:52 PM |
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misssmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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when you meet the right person, everything will click ...you wont have to worry about her needing 'space'...it wont matter!!! your insecurities wont matter to her that much most likely, unless you get too extreme and its possible you might not have them at ALL with the RIGHT PERSON... she will accept you as you are...
with the right person, there will be no more games...she will not want to see if the grass is greener...there will be no one else for her but you...it isnt easy to find the perfect person for us...but if you are patient and relax about your relationships, it can happen....by perfect, i mean perfect for YOU, there are no perfect people...jmo...
good luck!!
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| 4/16/2008 6:55:27 PM |
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specialfy
Guadalajara
Mexico
age: 39
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I just put a break in a relationship with a great guy that sounded your type, the only thing is that he forgot to tell me he was an alcoholic and that all the prince sharming positive things that he has ( a lot like you ) will be erase every weekend when he drank, so that leaves his list of positive and negative with only one thing in the negative side ( alcoholic ) wich for me is enough for not taking the positive side in consideration, so if your negative side shows that ansiety factor I think you should really dig into yourself and analyse how it hurts the relation, if you work on it and lower it down I am sure any women will stick to you for good, you sound perfect!! GL
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| 4/16/2008 7:05:40 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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| 4/16/2008 7:23:14 PM |
What in the HELL do you women really want???!!! |
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icedsnow63
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 44
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GEOGEO.....even if we told you ...you wouldn't listen anyway
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| 4/16/2008 7:27:17 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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GEOGEO.....even if we told you ...you wouldn't listen anyway
Huh...wha?? Sorry i wasn't listening 
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