| 4/18/2008 12:27:37 PM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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Most women just tell me to get f*cked...is that oral sex?
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| 4/18/2008 12:28:02 PM |
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justagurl1970
Moose Jaw, SK
age: 37
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lol @ lonesome
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| 4/18/2008 12:32:50 PM |
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youngcasinova
Madison, WI
age: 19
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well I think the fact that you do it occasionally just for the sake doing something special for that someone special is sexy enough especially giving the fact that you openly expressed your dislike from the begining
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| 4/18/2008 12:33:19 PM |
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oldmanrocker
Gladstone, OR
age: 47
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I like giving oral to a woman better than recieving it from her anyway, So my answer to this would be NOT a deal breaker!!!! It makes NO difference to me whatsoever!! 
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| 4/18/2008 12:35:37 PM |
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pylon1
North Vancouver, BC
age: 23
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I think u will find that it is a deal breaker for many.. but eventually you will meet someone who is cool with that.. like someone else mentioned there's no point being with someone that has to change for it to work... I like to give, but really don't enjoy recieving.. and even that can be a deal breaker! If u don't wanna do something you shouldn't be pressured into it.. but don't be surprised if they call it quits b/c of it.
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| 4/18/2008 1:26:22 PM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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eventually you will meet someone who is cool with that.. like someone else mentioned there's no point being with someone that has to change for it to work... I like to give, but really don't enjoy recieving.. and even that can be a deal breaker! If u don't wanna do something you shouldn't be pressured into it.. but don't be surprised if they call it quits b/c of it.
Exactly, pylon1!!!
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| 4/18/2008 1:29:45 PM |
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mephud
Calgary, AB
age: 23
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Thats a straight way INTO my heart  Maybe it would be an idea to clearly state its a personal thing and not their lack of skills mentioned herein.
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| 4/18/2008 1:39:18 PM |
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honeyheart95
Elkins, WV
age: 35
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No it's not a deal breaker, I dated someone who could take it or leave it. Said he prefered just penetration..?? it's all about finding someone who doesn't care..just like there are alot of men who wont give women oral..?? all about the person!!
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| 4/18/2008 1:42:45 PM |
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ttpoohbear4u
Sault Ste Marie, ON
age: 35
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I luv the honey-pot, and still have a buddy who comes by couple times a month....she normally is opposed to it but is more than happy when I do it. KEEP an open mind; no 2 ppl perform the same what doesn't work with one may be preferred with another..  
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| 4/18/2008 2:07:22 PM |
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redneckhippy
Pottsboro, TX
age: 39
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A relationship where I knew that I'd never get a blowjob?
Yeah, that might tend to be a dealbreaker.
Especially if I knew that she wasn't gonna let me do her
in the butt, either.
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| 4/18/2008 2:12:00 PM |
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easy111
Prior Lake, MN
age: 55
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Well DUH Misscassadee I'd be happy just to hold your hand.
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| 4/18/2008 2:29:50 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 46
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Wouldn't be for me. It always struck me as really degrading for a woman.
Now, if she liked it, and I cared for her, I'd let her have her fun, and my opinion of it being degrading for her might change.
But, I certainly wouldn't reject someone over something so trivial.
I don't believe in this "tit for tat" bullshit either: I'd happily accomodate my partner if she liked to receive "that way" without expecting anything similar in return.
I am willing to "try new things", that aren't too much of a departure from what I'm already comfortable with, with someone with whom I have a strong emotional bond, especially if they really matter to her, but the bond has to be there first.
I personally think it is selfish to try to force your partner to do something when they really don't like it....
Bingo!
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| 4/18/2008 2:36:33 PM |
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jonmjk6
Frankenmuth, MI
age: 36
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First off, sex, oral or otherwise, should not ever be DEMANDED of either party in a relationship.
Second. If he ASKS you to, and you refuse, that is your choice. However, if someday you ask him to go shopping with you, or for a nice walk in the park, or something like that, and he says no, don't you DARE hold it against him.
[Edited 4/18/2008 2:40:31 PM]
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| 4/18/2008 2:38:59 PM |
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switchhitter
Steubenville, OH
age: 18
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me4 im going to be nice today mi in a good mood lol its your own options if you dont like giving oral very often when you and a guy start your intimate relationship tell him dont expect to get that to often if he dont know then he will think your just being a b*tch about it. JMO but you are beautiful so i dont thik any guy would mind that situation from you sweetheart hey i was able to be clean 2 
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| 4/18/2008 3:31:06 PM |
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scottt39
Ocean View, HI
age: 45
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Its never a deal breaker but sometimes if you want to go 2 or 3 rounds you might want to think about it. I have gone out with a girl who didn't give oral but she sure did like it and after it was done being licked I knew I had a place to stick it
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