| 4/18/2008 10:10:17 AM |
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me4aminute_1
Rutland, IA
age: 35
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I don't like oral sex hardly at all.........once in awhile its okay to do but really does nothing for me.............
I am just wondering if this would be a deal breaker for some men......that they won't get oral sex at their demand. Before I get all these women saying how much they love it and all that........... I am asking a serious question. I don't care if you love it. That is your deal. I am asking because I like penetratin more than oral. All of my past relationships respected me enough to understand that it will happen........just not all the time.
I personally think it is selfish to try to force your partner to do something when they really don't like it....
Aren't there things in a relationship that have more merit than if I put your penis in my mouth when you demand it? When did a relationship become so centered around sex?
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| 4/18/2008 10:26:31 AM |
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markinmt
Billings, MT
age: 36
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I personally dont think it would be a deal breaker. I enjoy giving oral though, so a ladie that enjoys that would be nice.
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| 4/18/2008 10:30:08 AM |
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misscassadee
New York, NY
age: 30
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I totally agree with you Me- If sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties, guys can't just demand oral and expect a woman to enjoy giving it to him all the time. You can't force people to do things they don't enjoy.
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| 4/18/2008 10:32:14 AM |
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afrolicious
El Paso, TX
age: 28 online now!
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I don't think so, there is more that could be done other than just having oral. A guy using his fingers or you giving him a hand job feels good too without getting the mouth involved. We all are into different things and when you are in a relationship I think each one should express what they are into or not. And if one likes something that the other one doesn't I don't think it should be forced upon them to do it. feeeewwwwww (wiping forehead) I kept it as clean as I possibly could and without the sarcasm, even thought I wanted to, just for you me4alongtime. 
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| 4/18/2008 10:34:41 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Would be for me.... don't like sexual hangups.
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| 4/18/2008 10:35:28 AM |
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camogirl_61
Saint Helens, OR
age: 47
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Sadly, for some self-centered men, it is. There is a whole lot more to life. We all have a right to enjoy it. I believe that a person should have the right to say no. Too many good guys out there to keep you happy...
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| 4/18/2008 10:38:16 AM |
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me4aminute_1
Rutland, IA
age: 35
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Afro........I bet that was just killing you..........love ya though
Cass.......exactly......
Eddy.........not wanting a d*ck in my mouth is not a sexual hang up........wouldn't it e a sexual hang up for you to have to have it?
[Edited 4/18/2008 10:39:35 AM]
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| 4/18/2008 10:41:01 AM |
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afrolicious
El Paso, TX
age: 28 online now!
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I think it's weird I hardly like kissing because I don't like all of the saliva transactin but I love giving a guy oral.
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| 4/18/2008 10:41:07 AM |
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chasdude
Charleston, SC
age: 49
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misscassadee....now we know what you won't do.
EVILED...I always heard that if you show me a woman who doesn't perform oral sex, I'll show you a woman who can get your man
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| 4/18/2008 10:49:31 AM |
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me4aminute_1
Rutland, IA
age: 35
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Chase.........if that saying is true........she can have him
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| 4/18/2008 10:56:01 AM |
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chasdude
Charleston, SC
age: 49
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me4aminute_1....I was just messing with ya.
I see where you are coming from.
Too bad, you have beautiful lips
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| 4/18/2008 11:18:12 AM |
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misscassadee
New York, NY
age: 30
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Well Chas, I never said I wouldn't do it or haven't. Just don't feel I need to be demanded to do something if I'm not feeling it at that very moment. 
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| 4/18/2008 11:29:36 AM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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Some people have dealbreakers that are mutually exclusive. That's life. One of yours is if a man expects frequent oral sex. For some men, a dealbreaker is not getting their c*cks sucked frequently. You prefer penetration. Great! Why not find a man who loves to f*ck and nothing else instead of saying men who don't fall into that category are somehow inconsiderate, insensitive brutes who think only of sex?
1-Why is it inconsiderate of men who don't want to give up blowjobs to choose not to, but it's not inconsiderate of you to tell them to give them up?
2-Why not just find someone you don't feel the need to try to change?
3-Are you saying that a woman who sicks d*cks is somehow lacking, morally, intellectually, or any other way in her life?
4-Does men have to choose between smart girl, good mother to kids versus d*ck sucking bimbo slut?
5-Can a man not find all the other qualities and blowjobs, too?
It's a big world out there. We men who like blowjobs can't help it if some women don't like giving them. We don't even lose sleep over it. There are so many wonderful women who love oral sex, that have so many of the non-sex qualities we want, that it's not like we have to choose.
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| 4/18/2008 12:20:38 PM |
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richardr1963
Independence, OR
age: 44
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l It would not be a deal breaker for me , I like but I would much rather please my woman oraly rhen to have that done to me.. Yeah I might be a little strange but hey why fix it if it's not broke ..
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| 4/18/2008 12:25:10 PM |
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braska1959
Farmland, IN
age: 48
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THE L WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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