| 4/25/2008 9:06:21 PM |
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tomfreebird
Gurley, AL
age: 54
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Looks like somebody is stereo typing here. To say that all men are alike, is like saying all women are the same. Someone has a very narrow view of people in general. Hey, open up your world a little and you might get a larger view.
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| 4/26/2008 9:31:05 AM |
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kumo404
Atlanta, GA
age: 20
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Man, this topic is still going? I'm really wondering how many of the posters here have actually read the entire thread; if they did there wouldn't really be much else to say.
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| 4/26/2008 9:37:07 AM |
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heyppl
Saint Louis, MO
age: 27
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I guess we are all pigs in our own way. Noone is perfect.
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| 4/26/2008 9:40:45 AM |
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copan50
Sebring, FL
age: 53
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I tell the truth......... that is why I have no luck dating on this site....
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| 4/27/2008 11:48:34 AM |
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ifuwntme2
Fresno, CA
age: 23
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jlew i am that women who wants to hear I just want to have sex with you right away cuz id tell the guy that from the start no strings attached i just want u to f*ck me and be on your way
[Edited 4/27/2008 11:57:19 AM]
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| 4/27/2008 12:33:09 PM |
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truckerjr
Pennington Gap, VA
age: 41
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well i kinda like being a pig, though i don,t have to lie, i do like sex and seams like all the ladies on here want sex but talk is cheap, an if they really want it they would probally give a man some, why do they want a commitment and love and all that, that kinda hampers your whole life when we just need some sex.
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| 4/27/2008 2:30:45 PM |
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aphra
Los Gatos, CA
age: 39
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Personally I feel one should be honest and classy. Also, omission isn't necessarily dishonest either. For example, when a person says they're " brutally honest" it usually means they blurt out something w/out regard to how the information is processed. Also, it depends on the issue that's at hand. For example, if a woman asks if she looks fat in an outfit you don't respond with a yes. You say, well I prefer you in that other outfit. That's called discretion, not lying. I lived in Europe for years and no European man that I knew ( French/Italian/Swedish) would consider this to be a lying. It would be called being considerate of others feelings.
Again, what possible could be gained by saying she is "fat"- if you make her feel more desirable in another dress life is better for the two of you! I guarnatee if she is chubby she's aware of it and doesn't need you to comment on it. Again, if you want her to lose weight you address it on health reasons rather than on sexual terms.
Recently a young male friend of mine ( he's 27) told me of a comment he made to a lady he's been seeing for a bit. He went down to Mexico with a buddy and they it a couple of brothels. When he got back she inquired about his trip and he was "just being honest" when he told her about the brothel. Again, this is information that another doesn't need to hear. WOuld he have told his mother that he screwed a wh*re? NO, he'd just say he went to cluns, beach, fish or whatever. This young man feels "he's being honest" and I feel he's at best being rude and inconsiderate,
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| 4/27/2008 3:26:45 PM |
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tnharleygirl
Whitwell, TN
age: 37
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Ok... so he was honest.. and its considered.. rude at best? Do you want honesty or politeness? Maybe men dont tell the straight up truth because we dont want to hear it? Or hell.. If i were them? I simply wouldnt know what to say so Id say NOTHING at all!... But then.. someone would be here upset with the fact they say nothing at all!!!! Poor guys! Ya'll JUST cant WIN!!!! 
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| 4/27/2008 8:52:56 PM |
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aphra
Los Gatos, CA
age: 39
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Clearly you didn't understand my point. There was no reason to mention he had been at a bordello- what's the point? According to him at this stage in their relationship she was aware that he was dating several people so this was not an exclusive relationship so there was no truth factor re fidelity that needed to be disclosed with respect to breaking a monogamy commitment. What I'm sharing is there is a difference between being truthful and bluritng out everything. For example, if I seperated from a husband or significant other, and let's say was sexually open with a number of people during our seperation and we decided to get back together I don't believe its necessary and that most men don't want to know about the others. Simply stating that I was datig a bit here and there would suffice.
What I'm suggestign is t be sensitive and to think about others. The people who proclaim " they're too honest" for this site perhaps need to look at theri levle of communication. Check out other countries on this site with respect to their profiles ( France, Norway etc.)
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| 4/27/2008 8:54:10 PM |
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strick_business
Decatur, AL
age: 21
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They are trying to get or be somthing there not.
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| 4/27/2008 8:55:06 PM |
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grovelbear12
Kingston, ON
age: 50
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from my experience both sexs are not always honest from the get go not untill they get some feelings for eachother then the thuth comes out
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| 4/30/2008 8:08:30 PM |
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mermaidartist
Beaufort, NC
age: 51
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All the world is a stage....men just like to exercise their talents. Women are players too. We deserve each other. The weak just get caught in the crossfire. Don't forget to duck!
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| 4/30/2008 8:14:14 PM |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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testosterone!
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