| 7/16/2007 7:57:22 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  wolfy9459
 Dayton, OH
 age: 45
 
 
 | Not a good idea. You only hurt yourself your spouse and the person you cheated with. 
 I would never do it.
 
 Kenny
 
 
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                | 7/16/2007 8:00:04 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  crazycajun74
 Dallas, TX
 age: 33
 
 
 | 2 wrongs don't make a right! I wouldn't throw my own morals and values out of the window because they are a piece of shit! 
 
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                | 7/16/2007 8:16:43 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  nicrkitty36
 Lake Worth, FL
 age: 37
 
 
 | no ... just move on... if you can forgive then stay...i'm a firm believer that if a woman can "steal" my man -- he wasnt worth having.... 
 
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                | 7/18/2007 9:49:39 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  serviceman2
 Miami, FL
 age: 31
 
 
 | Right! Two wrongs don't make a right! Unless it's Eva Mendez or sombody like that! And the all bets are off! 
 
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                | 7/18/2007 10:07:51 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  brwneyez77
 Hammond, IN
 age: 31
 
 
 | yes and no....depends on the situation, whose envolved and if they were friends or family....lol 
 
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                | 7/18/2007 10:13:52 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  sumbeach063
 Columbia, SC
 age: 44
 
 
 | I' rollen, rollen rollen , trying to ride dirty...Look out the police is watching .....Hi Sexy...You know who you are.....LOL Beach.... 
 
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                | 7/18/2007 10:21:38 PM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  serviceman2
 Miami, FL
 age: 31
 
 
 | You is crazy sum b. 
 
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                | 7/19/2007 7:29:08 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  rasgumby61
 Moberly, MO
 age: 46
 
 
 | I feel this was the best answer! Chuck "Would you want to lose your dignity and honor for revenge?"
 
 I have never cheated, if partner cheats they better already have their bags packed! If not packed, I will be more than willing to scatter it in the front yard for them.
 this is clearly not love, and I don't care why.. there is no reason to cheat if you truly LOVE your Partner.
 
 
 There are laws against cheating,, would be great if enforced! could you imagine how many new prisons would have to be built?!
 
 
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                | 7/19/2007 10:42:29 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  chinatown_girl
 Oyster Bay, NY
 age: 19
 
 
 | Human 
 Come on, baby, dry your eyes
 Wipe your tears
 Never like to see you cry
 Won’t you please forgive me ?
 
 I wouldn’t ever try to hurt you
 I just needed someone to hold me
 To fill the void while you were gone
 To fill this space of emptiness
 
 I’m only human
 Of flesh and blood I’m made
 Human
 Born to make mistakes
 
 So many nights I longed to hold you
 So many times I looked and saw your face
 Nothing could change the way I feel
 No-one else could ever take your place
 
 I’m only human
 Of flesh and blood I’m made
 Human
 Born to make mistakes
 
 I am just a man
 
 Please forgive me
 
 (then the woman says
  The tears I cry aren’t tears of pain
 They’re only to hide my guilt and shame
 I forgive you now I ask the same of you
 While we were apart I was human too
 
 I’m only human
 Of flesh and blood I’m made
 I am just a man
 Human
 Born to make mistakes
 
 
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                | 7/19/2007 10:52:30 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  strongslowhand
 Washington, DC
 age: 46
 
 
 | What's the point in cheating back? Go to court with clean hands and get all you can. Six months later when either you've held onto all your stuff, or you got even more out of the other person, take that new sex buddy out on your spouse. Living well, is always the best revenge. 
 
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                | 7/19/2007 10:55:00 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  newguyonfire
 Urbana, IL
 age: 42
 
 
 | Revenge sex? Where is the dignity or self respect in that? Why sacrifice our ethics because of anyone else? 
 
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                | 7/19/2007 11:02:45 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  chinatown_girl
 Oyster Bay, NY
 age: 19
 
 
 | its not going to be even, ur spouse could have cheated on u with someone he or she likes a lot, someone they prefer to u. if u have been loyal and faithful, and have the respect of ppl who know u, where will u even find someone to cheat with? 
 getting a random onenite stand while ur spouse had a relationship would just leave u worse off and probably hating urself after ur anger cooled.
 
 
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                | 7/19/2007 11:31:18 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  newlife4me2
 Saylorsburg, PA
 age: 42
 
 
 | As someone whose spouse has cheated, mentally and emotionally if not technically physically (yet according to him) I can state that I will not stoop to that. It wouldn't accomplish anything at all. He doesn't and wouldn't care other than the posibility of using it against me in the custody battle. I would lose my self respect and dignity. Nope, its a lose-lose all the way around. 
 Am I crushed and would I enjoy feeling loved and wanted, especially now, sure, but to just go out and have an affair wouldn't heal those feelings anyway and would just end up giving me a whole bunch more to worry about or feel guilty about or dwell on.
 
 
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                | 7/21/2007 2:58:29 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  genieus
 Parkville, MD
 age: 60
 
 
 | Fire sounds good. Should I just set his bed on fire or blow up his car? 
 
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                | 7/21/2007 3:20:07 AM | Fight fire with fire |  | 
              
                |  karebear87
 Eau Claire, WI
 age: 20
 
 
 | The best revenge you can get on a cheater is to let the other woman have your man. He wasn't worth having, and pretty soon the other woman will know it too. 
 Or you can bake him cookies with ex lax in them, you can let all the air out of his tires and blame it on the neighorhood kids, you could replace his Viagra with Estrogen pills for women going through menopause, you could throw out all of his underpants and replace them with furry thongs.....
 
 
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