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monique08
Arlington, TX
age: 18
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Okay I meet this really cool guy who is 22. Well he is really nice and I really like him but my friends don't like him and some are even trying to make me chose between him or them. Now they don't like him because he is has already been married and divorced, and he has two kids a 2 and 3 year old. What should I do????? 
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| 4/29/2008 2:09:25 PM |
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missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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I would turn to my parents for help......on this one...just make the right choices...its up to you decide not your friends.....good luck
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| 4/29/2008 2:14:31 PM |
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tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
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Dump him and keep your friends they are looking out for your best interest.Do you want to be a full time babysitter?
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| 4/29/2008 2:21:17 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
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Always listen to your friends... they can think without your sweaty engorged genitals getting in they way.
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| 4/29/2008 2:25:39 PM |
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aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51 online now!
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Get gone from him quick.
He's just looking for you to take care of his kids
and get a little on the sly .
Run for the hills .
Well , Maybe not to the hills but ,
you know what I mean .
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| 4/29/2008 2:48:51 PM |
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renaissancechik
Allentown, PA
age: 33
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let's see give up my friends or put up with baby mamma drama. Seems like a no brainer to me...
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| 4/29/2008 3:07:26 PM |
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flaws_n_all28
Fulton, NY
age: 28
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Renny chick says it best............It's a NO BRAINER SWEETY...the choice is so so obvious!
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| 4/30/2008 5:40:04 AM |
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whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 57
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Do what you want. friends aren't the ones that your going to be with when you crawl in bed each night. Good luck
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| 4/30/2008 6:47:09 AM |
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federal327
Alexandria, VA
age: 62
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I'll bet he is unemployed too! Dump him before he hurts you.
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| 4/30/2008 6:55:48 AM |
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kitkat0423
Sun City, CA
age: 37
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dump that boy. who needs all that drama get out quick
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| 4/30/2008 6:55:57 AM |
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blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
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send him on his way girl! to much drama there
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| 4/30/2008 6:57:58 AM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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Let him dust your muffin....
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| 4/30/2008 7:18:39 AM |
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hunnybunnylove
Cary, NC
age: 41
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Wow! Such a huge question for you and you are only 18!!! My advice would be for you two to seek out counseling first before making any "big" decisions (like moving in together or getting married, etc.) You need to go in with your eyes wide open and know what you are getting into.
If you take this approach (slow, logical) then your friends should respect that, as well. They are probably just giving you an off the cuff reaction because they are thinking you are too young for all of that but if you can show them (and yourself) that you are researching this wisely and cautiously, then hopefully you will be able to make a better informed decision that both you and your friends can live with.
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| 4/30/2008 7:44:17 AM |
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newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43 online now!
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What should you do?
Well, at least you are mature enough to realize that this is a situation where you just might need some guidance or advice. Ultimately though the final decision should be yours, not your friends, parents or advisers.
Off the top of my head there are several questions I would want to not only know the answers to but be comfortable with those answers. Why did they divorce? How do they interact and treat each other now? Who has physical custody of the children? Is he an involved father or not? To what degree? Does he support the children emotionally and financially? How about the ex-wife?
Depending on those answers there could be an entire slew of new questions to answer.
I don't need to know the answers here - you do - and then you have to ask yourself some serious questions about how much you feel capable and prepared to take on in the relationship. For me, my first priority would be the welfare of the children, even though they weren't mine. That doesn't mean I feel you should take on the responsibilities of either parent, just that you ensure that anything you do not negatively impact them.
As another poster said - this is a huge undertaking for the average 18 year old.....in the end it may be more worth your while to skip all this and move on.....again though, you are the only one that should be making that decision.
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| 4/30/2008 8:11:38 AM |
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theironmandan1
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 38
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ok get in the car your grounded !, no really you are 18 a baby in life , run dont turn back , it is for your own good , if it was ment to be it will be there when you are old enough to make life making decisions, finish school get at least a 2 year degree then look him up. Life will look alot diffrent from there, trust me. so many better choices will be knockin tomarrow.
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