| 5/1/2008 10:54:35 AM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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foxywoman33
Livermore, CA
age: 33
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i was dating a man from this site things seemed to be going well he even asked me to marry him before we got together i never told him an answer...but weeks later he asked me to be his girlfriend. he lived way across the states from me but somehow we were trying to make it work ...told each other many dreams, hopes etc..everything seemed so great til all of a sudden he stopped talking to me ..we didnt even have a fight or anything it was a week ..no emails ..no nothing...i kept thinking what did i do..why is he not talking to me ..he promised me he would never hurt me ..well he did ...after i sent him an email saying why do u ask me to marry you..you dont talk to me or tell me what i did wrong...he writes me a short note saying he told me he couldnt move to where i am and to move on.how can a man feel good about doing that to a woman and think its ok. i even tolf him in the beginning i never wanted to try a long distance relationship but he kept saying hed never hurt me ..or leave me such promises but nothing but lies..isnt there any true men out there who arent out to break a good womens heart? how can u ask someone to marry you that you dont even know and then push them away like they are yesterdays trash....my heart is so torn up inside ....life does go on but how can a man be so ungreatful to break my heart like that ..i dont understand....  
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| 5/1/2008 12:05:59 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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mykejohns
Simi Valley, CA
age: 39
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Hey foxxy this is my first time on this site and your post caught my eye. I just went through the same thing but I am a guy that was taken for a ride. I fell in love with my bestfriend from highschool after not seeing oneanother for 18 years, I was on the fence with my wife at the time and after I re-met my New Found Love it was incredible, until 3yrs later, finances went dry, her insecurities destroyed us! Can you believe she got jelouse because I sent an email to my X because we have a child. She got so mad and wanted to be INDEPENDANT...........I think what people do is enjoy the thrill of the hunt, capture there prey, and after they get control of your life- theyve accomplished their goal, and its time for them to move on. Remember one thing--The grass is not greener on the other side, its where you water it.
GL Myke
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| 5/1/2008 12:21:16 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 46
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Someone asking you to marry them before even meeting you is emotionally immature and unstable.
Brush it off, and learn from it.
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| 5/1/2008 12:25:39 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 50
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i really had my hopes for a guy on here long time ago but nothing happened. i never hear from him anymore. but i have moved on.
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| 5/1/2008 12:30:08 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
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that is one of the hard things about the long distance thing. heck he could have even met a women local too him. you will prob never know the truth. just do not let it make you feel it is your fault in any way. just move on best you can..
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| 5/1/2008 2:20:19 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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honeyheart95
Elkins, WV
age: 35 online now!
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your post is the exact reason I won't do LONG DISTANCE anything.. I've had that happen to me more times than i can count.. (not the proposal thing but the other) Some men just like to see how many women they can get to fall for them I guess??? It's sad and hurtful and no one but them can answer that..
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| 5/1/2008 2:39:18 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 49
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Oh honey, I just went through this too.
I think until we realize that the men on here and other dating sites are all full of shit, we will continue to get hurt because we are stupid enough to believe.
Now, there may be good men on here and elsewhere but they are few and far between and the liars/scammers ruin it for the the few good men.
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| 5/1/2008 3:32:32 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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luxwolf
Calgary, AB
age: 46
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because his heart would have been broke to not have you when he needed you.
no person love of cheat alone. all person await/take love.
think not less of your self for betrayals which begin unaware of mind and respect responsibility in your love.
let re-affirm the vision in your love. only that.
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| 5/1/2008 3:42:23 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43
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I have worked or lived in 48 of the 51 states (DC included).
I can pretty much live anywhere and travel to my customers or work remotely.
I would relocate for the right woman, but there would be a long and serious courtship first. And NO EARLY MARRIAGE PROPOSALS.
JMHO
Bry 
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| 5/1/2008 6:19:42 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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Some people are just jerks that's all!They do not care about anyone but themselves. But I do not worry because I know they will get what is coming. KARMA
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| 5/1/2008 6:36:46 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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bob_4_u
Port Richey, FL
age: 52
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If I may say, Long distance talking is one thing, but to try to say it's a relationship? I can't even imagine that. It takes more than sweet words and talking to have a relationship. FRIENDS, you have to be friends first. Try this next time>> After you talk to a guy, find out all you can, see his WEBCAM and I imply Webcam then name 5 things you don't like about him and see if you can live with that. Don't fall in love before you know.
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| 5/1/2008 6:36:56 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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jangel53
Brampton, ON
age: 54
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Give him the benefit of the doubt, he looked into the future & could not solve the logistics. That is not your fault nor his. Feelings, promises made are from the heart. Moving furniture & getting a new zip code require cash. Optimism always accompanys affection.
Falling in love & making it work, not as easy as it looks. Sorry your heart is broken, I am sure his is as well. Lesson learned, get rid of the fatalistic view & get some more cash. JMO
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| 5/1/2008 6:45:46 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45
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I met a guy on here, actually a shadow who sent me his pic, that told me he loved me after a few emails. He wanted to know if I loved him back and I found myself feeling really odd about the whole thing. The worst part though was listening to the words he spoke to me and then watching him flirt full-on with women on here. Needless to say we don't chat anymore.
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| 5/1/2008 6:49:11 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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feelings28
Bronx, NY
age: 28
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Honey, I had someone that was in the same state and it was long distance. t resulted in a child court date on the 20th of this month. Justthank god you foundout sooner! 
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| 5/1/2008 7:43:41 PM |
leaving my heart broken in many pieces |
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collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
age: 48
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i'm the c.e.o. of the most broken hearts club. feel free to join anytime!
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