| 7/3/2012 8:45:30 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Out of all the partners I've ever had I've only had maybe 2 or 3 actually get on top and do all the work all the rest just lay there and let me do all the work granted they met my stroke n and did their. Part on the. Bottom. I still did the majority. Of the work. do you think this is fair? Are they being. Lazy or is it just easier. For the man to be on top controlling the positions pace and depth?
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| 7/3/2012 8:49:45 AM |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
45, joined Apr. 2012
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Did you ask them to ride you? Then that's all on you some guys don't like a girl to ride them. You can't say they just laid there if they were meeting your stroke either. That's not a dead lay just laying there is when they just lay there.
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| 7/3/2012 8:55:12 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Yes I did ask them to ride. After about 5 minutes they said okay now you get on top
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| 7/3/2012 9:04:14 AM |
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spiceythang
Fayetteville, NC
36, joined May. 2012
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Depends on how active and in shape the woman is. She may not have the physical strength or stamina to go for a long time. Compromise maybe or find a woman in better shape
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| 7/3/2012 9:06:48 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Yeah you got a point
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| 7/3/2012 9:10:52 AM |
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loveisrare
Lake Charles, LA
22, joined Nov. 2011
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Funny, all the guys I have been with want me to ride the whole time. After awhile it gets old.
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| 7/3/2012 9:13:28 AM |
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patriciarn2012
Pensacola, FL
45, joined May. 2012
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No, it's not fair..sex should be 50/50% (or, I prefer 100/100%..give me your all or don't give me anything at all).
It's not fair complaining about wanting NOT to do 'all the work', either. JS
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| 7/3/2012 9:14:50 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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I mean don't get me wrong I don't mind putting in the work because I get more compliments and better results when I'm on top but sometimes I like. To hand over the reigns and let her do her thing
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| 7/3/2012 9:16:02 AM |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
45, joined Apr. 2012
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Depends on how active and in shape the woman is. She may not have the physical strength or stamina to go for a long time. Compromise maybe or find a woman in better shape
So women just don't like it I can go forever riding but most of the time I'm with a dominate man that wants to control everything we are doing so he doesn't want me to ride often.
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| 7/3/2012 9:18:29 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Well I've noticed that I get off better and get her off better when I'm on top
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| 7/3/2012 9:20:39 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Yeah San it seems. That. Way
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| 7/3/2012 9:45:17 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Yeah I feel u I might. Just do that
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| 7/3/2012 10:16:27 AM |
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stargirl86
Daytona Beach, FL
29, joined Mar. 2011
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I can't just lay on my back the whole time during sex. I love to get on top and take him for a ride, I love taking control
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| 7/3/2012 10:47:13 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Star you n me would. Get along. Just. Fine
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| 7/3/2012 11:10:51 AM |
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mary4ever
Fort Myers, FL
39, joined Jun. 2012
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me being on top is my fave but all of u r talking about bein on top n bottom i love to spice it up n do many positions I love to drive a man crazy 
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| 7/3/2012 11:54:10 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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me being on top is my fave but all of u r talking about bein on top n bottom i love to spice it up n do many positions I love to drive a man crazy
My kinda. Woman
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| 7/3/2012 12:00:07 PM |
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sweetone082
Winter Park, FL
33, joined Feb. 2011
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I like it when men are in control 
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| 7/3/2012 12:00:10 PM |
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sweetgapeaches3
Evans, GA
51, joined Mar. 2012
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Im Active But My Ex had an injury 
that made certain possions uncomfortable
I found inventive ways to overcome them!!
LOL.You can't beleive what you can do
when you set your mind to it
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| 7/3/2012 12:16:58 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Well I guess its 50/50
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| 7/3/2012 12:21:54 PM |
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outdoorman4u
Thomasville, NC
46, joined Dec. 2011
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put in the work? it is never work and the reward is allways there if you look at it like it isnt work but do give it your all
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| 7/3/2012 12:38:48 PM |
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jstlkng1964
Adrian, MI
51, joined Feb. 2012
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It really just depends....I love top but I also have 34" legs so sex in bed and having them under me for long periods of time will most definitely cramp them up. If I plant my feet on the mattress my legs don't cramp but my thighs sure as f**k burn after about 10 min. from the squatting position. Put him in a chair and I will ride all day long with no leg cramps or thigh burning at all....so I guess what I'm saying is maybe it's not the position but the availability of her leg placement that is the issue.
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| 7/3/2012 12:53:17 PM |
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bryb89
Foxton Beach
New Zealand
26, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm pretty submissive when I'm having sex, so if a guy doesn't suggest a position then I'm going to do whatever pleases my lover.
So if he wants me to ride, I'll ride. Tells me to get on all fours that's where I'm at. If he likes pinning me down and ramming me hard, then by all means I am there.
It is really easy to get me to orgasm, so I want to do whatever it is that's going to make him cum.
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| 7/3/2012 12:56:32 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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It really just depends....I love top but I also have 34" legs so sex in bed and having them under me for long periods of time will most definitely cramp them up. If I plant my feet on the mattress my legs don't cramp but my thighs sure as f**k burn after about 10 min. from the squatting position. Put him in a chair and I will ride all day long with no leg cramps or thigh burning at all....so I guess what I'm saying is maybe it's not the position but the availability of her leg placement that is the issue.
Never. Thought. Of it like. That good. Point
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| 7/3/2012 1:23:27 PM |
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styleznj
Glen Gardner, NJ
34, joined Jun. 2012
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It depends on the mood and the enviroment u and ur lady r in. Sometimes it ia only one position,but the whole gambit should be ran whenever possible!!
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| 7/3/2012 1:26:28 PM |
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goodluckycharms
Philadelphia, PA
36, joined Jun. 2012
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They are just lazy and boring...My brother call it a Lazy f**k
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| 7/3/2012 1:29:52 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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They are just lazy and boring...My brother call it a Lazy f**k
LOL
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| 7/3/2012 1:37:19 PM |
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pdmpaul
Thousand Palms, CA
46, joined Oct. 2011
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Put some.time & effort into a variety.
Teasing awesome, try some light spanking, oral, toys, roll playing.......have some”f**kin' fun”
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| 7/3/2012 1:40:15 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Put some.time & effort into a variety.
Teasing awesome, try some light spanking, oral, toys, roll playing.......have some”f**kin' fun”
I agree
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| 7/3/2012 1:47:12 PM |
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funlove23
Blackwood, NJ
27, joined Dec. 2011
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laying there would make for some boring sex and feel like the other person really isn't into it or you
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| 7/3/2012 2:08:56 PM |
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pingeye2
Savannah, GA
63, joined Jun. 2011
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OP..did they know any better?
Honestly..some women really are not well versed in love making.
Some are artful, fantastic, but if they were not well versed..ehhh..you know?
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| 7/3/2012 2:11:32 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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They should. Have known. Better. Lol
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| 7/4/2012 7:14:04 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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| 7/4/2012 10:53:06 PM |
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daretobeyou
Fishers, IN
35, joined Nov. 2010
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<<
I will ride a man....but my orgasm is too over the top so I prefer other positions where I can push back on him(I LOVE reverse cowgirl though! And doggy...froggy...and upside down 69 is awesome!) Also....I am a very very active bed partner that usually leave my victims dragging themselves toward the water bottle lol
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| 7/4/2012 10:55:05 PM |
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tupac78
Louisville, KY
37, joined Oct. 2007
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I agree
looks like ima have to go all in,i aint going to be able to fold on this hand
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| 7/5/2012 6:56:08 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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True that
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| 7/5/2012 7:07:33 AM |
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loverrsoldja
Fayetteville, NC
29, joined May. 2012
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Yoooo females need to dominated man flip them over however u want them son! Inside out, upside down, sidewayz & pound away son idgaf what I say goes 
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| 7/5/2012 7:50:29 AM |
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jude666
Pittston, PA
51, joined Apr. 2012
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Gotta mix it up. Both gotta work it...
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| 7/5/2012 11:13:41 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Yeah it is 50/50
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| 7/5/2012 4:29:28 PM |
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beautyfldisastr
Columbus, NE
46, joined Jun. 2012
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If I'm on the bottom. Good luck taming me.
I actually had a guy ask me to stop moving and lay there
That was too difficult. He had to Lin me down.
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| 7/5/2012 4:30:43 PM |
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peteycal2
Santa Rosa, CA
30, joined Nov. 2011
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Laying there is fun if I want to f**k you into the next world. Otherwise it's always hotter when both participate. At the very least f**king rub my chest and abs or something. Girls that just throw their heads back and moan are somewhat boring (but hey, I'd still hit it).
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| 7/5/2012 4:36:29 PM |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
45, joined Apr. 2012
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If I'm on the bottom. Good luck taming me.
I actually had a guy ask me to stop moving and lay there
That was too difficult. He had to Lin me down.
Lol my ex fwb would get mad cuz he would stop to keep from cumming and I would from the bottom make him cum anyway but that's only bcuz he could go as many times as I wanted or I would have let him be lol
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| 7/5/2012 4:55:18 PM |
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pwhit
Tulare, CA
43, joined Aug. 2010
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Well I have only had this happen once or twice when it does I just get my coaching hat a whistle and a Gatorade cuz were gonna be here for a while (she gonna learn today) 
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| 7/11/2012 9:03:41 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Well put
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| 7/11/2012 9:04:48 PM |
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azuredreams22
Pickerington, OH
25, joined May. 2012
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What kind of question is this? Eesh. 
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| 7/11/2012 9:07:02 PM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Its a ?
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| 7/11/2012 9:28:28 PM |
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kevtelos
Tampa, FL
26, joined Feb. 2012
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From what I've noticed its mostly drunk or conceited younger girls that just lay there and don't get into it.
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| 7/11/2012 9:58:16 PM |
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darknluvlee1
Saint Paul, MN
46, joined Jan. 2012
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Yes I did ask them to ride. After about 5 minutes they said okay now you get on top
They obviously have no idea of what they are missing and perhaps are not totally in tune with their own sensuality and what or how to bring all of it into the intimate experience!!!! Hopefully they get a clue real soon or you have got to up grade on the intimate partners you choose!
Good Luck
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| 7/11/2012 10:06:59 PM |
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cali_sav559
Porterville, CA
28, joined Apr. 2012
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You both have to put in 100% of the work. (100/100)
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| 7/14/2012 11:17:25 AM |
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badbetch
Los Angeles, CA
29, joined Jun. 2012
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Both putting in work greatest SEX everrrrrrrrrr 
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| 7/14/2012 11:23:02 AM |
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heartofgold1214
Flagstaff, AZ
36, joined Apr. 2012
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Out of all the partners I've ever had I've only had maybe 2 or 3 actually get on top and do all the work all the rest just lay there and let me do all the work granted they met my stroke n and did their. Part on the. Bottom. I still did the majority. Of the work. do you think this is fair? Are they being. Lazy or is it just easier. For the man to be on top controlling the positions pace and depth?
My orgasms are more intense when I'm on top. I love being on top. It isn't right for just one person to be on top all the time. Plus it gets boring and routing. You gotta switch it up every now and again.
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| 7/14/2012 11:26:05 AM |
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gogglesgreen
Bobcaygeon, ON
45, joined May. 2012
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Some positions are more comfortable and enjoyable than others. Everyone has a preference! 
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| 7/14/2012 11:27:17 AM |
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gogglesgreen
Bobcaygeon, ON
45, joined May. 2012
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Well I have only had this happen once or twice when it does I just get my coaching hat a whistle and a Gatorade cuz were gonna be here for a while (she gonna learn today)
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| 7/14/2012 11:33:58 AM |
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dbcoopper
Richmond, IN
49, joined Jul. 2012
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you have to talk to them tell em what you want i love to kiss while i,am f**king her talking dirty is a instant turn on she could even play with my nipples with her hands i would worry she,s not getting off if she,s just laying there
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| 7/14/2012 11:56:40 AM |
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dragoneyez26
Minneapolis, MN
35, joined Jun. 2012
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I will not let a girl ride me until I figure out their sexual style first. Through my lifetime a couple girls have put the fear in me that you can actually break a penis. Biggest fear is when a girl rises up to the point were you guys separate and slams back down on it,but the connection misses, that shhhh hurts. Number two is the weird riding positions they get themselves in that actually twists and bends your junk to the point of no return. I've actually pushed a girl to the floor for bending my junk all up!
I have to agree though that the really fine skinny women are more prone to lazy sex, weird but true.
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| 7/15/2012 7:49:42 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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I will not let a girl ride me until I figure out their sexual style first. Through my lifetime a couple girls have put the fear in me that you can actually break a penis. Biggest fear is when a girl rises up to the point were you guys separate and slams back down on it,but the connection misses, that shhhh hurts. Number two is the weird riding positions they get themselves in that actually twists and bends your junk to the point of no return. I've actually pushed a girl to the floor for bending my junk all up!
I have to agree though that the really fine skinny women are more prone to lazy sex, weird but true.
No offense Laides. But it seems like a lot of woman r lazy js
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| 7/15/2012 10:43:34 AM |
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lildevil3
Everett, WA
39, joined Jan. 2012
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I like moving, whether I am on bottom, top, or where ever. I don't mind doing all of the work, but not all of the time. Maybe one session is all me, another is all him and others are equal 
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| 7/15/2012 10:49:54 AM |
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romelo00
Elyria, OH
32, joined Oct. 2010
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Lil my kinda. Woman
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