| 7/25/2007 10:12:43 PM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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courage_2b_real
Lincoln, CA
age: 20
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No, being divorced with a 6 year old is not a bad thing, but you have to remember, a lot of people aren't looking to get into a relationship with kids. Some men and women find it attractive, but not all of them do. So you just have to be brave and say, "Look out world!, cuz I am comin full speed ahead!" Keep your head up and your mind clear, and don't fall for the first nice guy/girl that comes along, cuz that is probably not "the one" you are looking for.
Sincerely/
courage_2b_real
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| 7/25/2007 10:13:33 PM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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ktownmom
Kinston, NC
age: 21
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i dont see him as that kind of horse he seems cool
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| 7/25/2007 10:34:31 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I've raised all of mine and only have one left at home. I don't find it a problem if a guy is a good dad. if fact i'd appriciate that quality. I don't need him to help with mine but, would b good for the future..ie grand kids someday lol. xD
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| 7/25/2007 11:02:56 PM |
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darlin25
Blowing Rock, NC
age: 26
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Being divorced and having a six year old is not a bad thing, things happen in life like divorce and a kid is a gift, never a bad thing. You are a sweet guy and any woman you end up with is going to be a very happy lady, she gets you and a child in her life, it's a good thing.
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| 7/26/2007 3:44:10 AM |
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lunawoman
Whittier, CA
age: 46
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Not at all, this is my story. I was a young widow. I had 3 kids, all grown now. I met someone whom I stayed with for 6 years, and prior to meeting him a dated. Not a problem for me, however I came to find out that my children where so affected by our breakup, and never told me until they where all grown. Their father dying was something that I had no control over. But meeting new people and bringing them into your life was another. The question should be to your child. How do you feel about daddy bringing someone new into Our lives? Be carefull not to hurt your children they feel as much as we do.
[Edited 7/26/2007 3:45:24 AM]
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| 7/26/2007 5:30:59 AM |
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natureproud
Gove, KS
age: 45
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First of all, it really is, the couple should've have had known each other better than that 'cause if they did, the marriage would last forever and the vows they exchanged, they must have never really meant it. Now the child will grow up and be without his true mother or father. That may end up being an impact on their life.
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| 7/26/2007 5:36:49 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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natureproud
Gove, KS
age: 45
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If I married a lady with a child, I'd treat them like if they were my own, there's nothing wrong with that. being more a father than his real one would ever be..Some may say these may be strong words, Well?..I mean every word I say.
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| 7/26/2007 6:41:14 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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Why would that be a turn off? I've dated women with children and the only problem with that is you become more attached to their kids then them after awhile. I strongly believe that single parents that are dating should keep in mind what affect this will have on your children if it is a short term relationship.
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| 7/26/2007 8:21:01 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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ironranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
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children coparented properly after a divorce are more fexible secure and well adjusted as compared to children with parents that stay married to each other.
moms that love and take care of their children are very attractive in my eyes.....
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| 7/26/2007 8:26:19 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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kofosho
Granger, IN
age: 22
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dude, that sucks
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| 7/26/2007 8:29:57 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I know ur not saying we suck for having kids righttttt? >.>
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| 7/26/2007 8:36:13 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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kofosho
Granger, IN
age: 22
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no, it sucks having a kid, and trying to get a date
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| 7/26/2007 8:40:13 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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dolphins1973
Midlothian, VA
age: 34
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nope my 8 year old is such a smart ass that he works as a perfect wing man lol
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| 7/26/2007 9:10:40 AM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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ironranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
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my two girls are chick magnets.
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| 7/26/2007 4:42:57 PM |
is being divorce with a 6 year old bad? |
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allarrimer
Missouri City, TX
age: 30
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not at all i divorced when my boys were that age. i would rather be a better peoson and mother than be stuck in a relationship. a child is very adaptable and will be able to handle the situation. you just have to explain it in a way that they will understand. my boys know i love them and that their dad loves them. they also know that mom and dad dont love each other anymore, but will be there for them. right now im just very careful of who comes around my boys. (hasnt been anyone yet) i know that the choice i make isnt just for me. i would rather have someone look down on me than to be in a relationship that is there only for the sake of the kids.
as far as a turn off... no. the fact of having a child really weeds out the bad ones anyways!!
[Edited 7/26/2007 4:43:37 PM]
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