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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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This is actually a pointless thread. It is more just to ease my mind and/or clear any misconceptions (not that it matters to anyone), so don't bother asking what the point is,
Anyway, I typically stay away from threads that are created by obvious trolls. But, I decided.. Eh, wth, why not just have some fun with this. Plus, I was in a different state of mind at that moment.
So, I decided to have some fun with a troll (you can call it, trolling the troll) and actually got pretty close to discovering his/her ID. But, I won't go there. It doesn't matter anyway, I was just having some fun.
How can I relate this to dating? I need to avoid getting a ticket from the "wrong forum" police. Lol! I'll just ask a silly question.
Would you mind it if the person you are dating gets on the net for the sole purpose of trolling?
Feel free to talk about your experiences (doesn't have to relate to dating) with trolls.
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8/8/2012 11:53:33 AM |
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mr_334
Opelika, AL
35, joined Jul. 2012
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8/8/2012 11:55:52 AM |
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metu
Auburndale, FL
54, joined Apr. 2007
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Spill the details, sistah...just how close did you come?
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8/8/2012 11:55:54 AM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
29, joined Sep. 2011
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334.. G'morning..
Have any thoughts to share on the topic at hand? Lol!
Lol! Metu, I feel uncomfortable spilling the details publicly.
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8/8/2012 11:56:24 AM |
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peteycalalt
Santa Rosa, CA
31, joined May. 2012
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I ignore trolls or play with them. You'd have to be nuts to let trolls bother you. Who f**king cares what some random anonymous person on the internet thinks or says?
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8/8/2012 11:57:13 AM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
68, joined Jan. 2009
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Someone I used to date used to email women if he saw something stupid on a profile. I guess that's a form of trolling. He was bored and eventually found something more productive to do.
I think most trolls are just bored and trying to get attention. They probably don't go on to become serial killers.
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8/8/2012 11:58:00 AM |
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nondescript
Houston, TX
49, joined Jul. 2012
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Would you mind it if the person you are dating gets on the net for the sole purpose of trolling?
I suppose being with someone whose sole purpose is to troll online is better than being with someone whose purpose was to get a date online!
..so yes I would.
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8/8/2012 12:00:43 PM |
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metu
Auburndale, FL
54, joined Apr. 2007
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Email me, Island...
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8/8/2012 12:12:24 PM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
62, joined Apr. 2011
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To answer your question...Yes, I would mind. It's one thing to correct a missplaced thread or to bring it to their attention. Many of them may not realize their mistake. It's another thing to keep attacking them about something they can no longer control. let's say, you begin a thread and it happens to be in the wrong forum.
The troll post the rules about being in the wrong forum, without answering the OP's question. The troll has now violated one of the rules that he is so willing to bash the OP on. They want everyone to follow the rules but don't believe that they apply to them.
For whatever reason, the troll must expect the OP to erase or delete the thread, or at least move it to it's proper forum, because the troll keeps on the attack, thinking the OP is too stupid to know how or simply is ignoring the troll. The troll must be unaware that the OP can't delete or move the thread so they continue with the attack until the OP deletes his profile. The troll then does their victory dance and carves another notch on his mouse, keyboard, notepad or phone.
Then you have the trolls who have an agenda. They may be a bitter person who has been repeatedly rejected because they are fake, or too pathetic to be able to have a meaningful relationship with anyone. They are the ones who simply enters a thread to spewout it's poison, just to create hate and discontent, for their personal entertainment.
What is wrong with this is...This is a dating site. Everyone is expected to flirt, and get the attention of those of the opposite sex. In some cases...Those of the same sex. When they do...The trolls call them Attention Wh*res. Well...Isn't that what we all are? We are all trying to get the attention of someone...Right? If not...Why are we on a dating site?
So, I'm sure you will get as many different opinions as there are people here. This was just mine.
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8/8/2012 12:15:51 PM |
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al_muslimin
Indianapolis, IN
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Would you mind it if the person you are dating gets on the net for the sole purpose of trolling?
Feel free to talk about your experiences (doesn't have to relate to dating) with trolls.
If she gets her jollies and fun trolling, if it brings her some kind of inner joy and I can hear her cracking up all the way from the kitchen, then I don't mind, just as long as she's available to spend time with me.
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8/8/2012 12:17:06 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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I like two things on forums.
Either serious discussion...or complete humor.
Trolls, lame threads and etc are the catylist to posting humor and having fun.
Bring 'em on.
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8/8/2012 12:24:08 PM |
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carbonv
Faqus
Egypt
58, joined Jul. 2008
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Maybe I have done this a little..IF I got what you mean...
I have played with a scammer or two just to see what they would say or a nut job, for the same reason basically entertainment.
I even have a thread in FOC about some of the messages we get from people...
there are some real doozies out there, and I am betting some of the people on here could really add some good stories to that thread
I am thinking women tend to get more nut jobs messaging them than men... heck maybe it's cause they just get more messages than men (as a general rule)
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8/8/2012 12:29:37 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
29, joined Sep. 2011
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Forgive me for not addressing every post personally. I just enjoy reading other people's thoughts. And, it is still a bit too early for me to talk much.
Feel free to chat amongst each other.
I may decide to share my experience regarding this particular troll, eventually. But, for now, I think it'll remain unknown. Lol!
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8/8/2012 12:32:16 PM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Must have been Tony!
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8/8/2012 12:37:54 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
57, joined Mar. 2012
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^^^^^this...
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8/8/2012 12:52:06 PM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
66, joined May. 2009
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No!
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8/8/2012 12:56:18 PM |
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aboredguy
Woodbridge, VA
21, joined Jul. 2012
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Haha looks like I won this one.
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8/8/2012 12:59:44 PM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Haha looks like I won this one.
Just WHAT did you win...DUMBASS!
Before you can win...You have to play the game!
How do you expect to play without a full deck?
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8/8/2012 1:23:33 PM |
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stringopearls
Huron, SD
59, joined Jul. 2009
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How can I relate this to dating?
Would you mind it if the person you are dating gets on the net for the sole purpose of trolling?
Some people troll for different reasons.
I would mind if the person I was dating purposefully tried to be mean to others. If he likes being offensive, it would only be a matter of time before he would test my limits for negative interaction. I get plenty of negativity from people I don't know. I would rather the guy I was dating would be straight-forward or positive than a troll.
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8/8/2012 2:20:23 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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What did you win, boredguy? I'm curious.
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8/8/2012 2:35:09 PM |
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imthegrl
Amarillo, TX
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I am just wondering WHICH troll! Enquiring minds want to know!
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8/8/2012 2:35:19 PM |
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buckeyek
Columbus, OH
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Haha looks like I won this one.
Boredguy looks like the next mass shooter.
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8/8/2012 2:37:18 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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Must have been Tony!
Haha! No comment.
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8/8/2012 2:40:24 PM |
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aboredguy
Woodbridge, VA
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Haha! No comment.
Who was it then?
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8/8/2012 2:48:48 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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It doesn't matter who it was, boredguy. What did you win?
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8/8/2012 2:55:07 PM |
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imthegrl
Amarillo, TX
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It doesn't matter who it was, boredguy. What did you win?
Pat, pat, pat...
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8/8/2012 2:56:55 PM |
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aboredguy
Woodbridge, VA
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I won the heart of the community.
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8/8/2012 2:58:20 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
29, joined Sep. 2011
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I won the heart of the community.
Haha! Very funny!
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8/8/2012 3:08:07 PM |
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soulchyne
Greenville, SC
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If its tony, I got a story and his phone # or maybe I deleted
Have to go look and see. But I talked to him on phone hahahaha
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8/8/2012 3:10:21 PM |
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soulchyne
Greenville, SC
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Ok.. is indiana area code 765? If so I still have tonys #
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8/8/2012 3:10:35 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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Pat, pat, pat...
Haha!
If its tony, I got a story and his phone # or maybe I deleted
Have to go look and see. But I talked to him on phone hahahaha
Lol! So, how did that turn out? You don't have to share if you don't want. But, it does sound a bit interesting. Lol!
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imthegrl
Amarillo, TX
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Ok.. is indiana area code 765? If so I still have tonys #
He finally blocked me. I wonder who he had to un-block to do so? ?
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8/8/2012 3:23:47 PM |
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soulchyne
Greenville, SC
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I don't mind sharing... it was hilarious.
Out of boredom I just started agreeing with all his nonsense, a friend and I were discussing him and wanted to see if we could find out what his deal was..
After about my 4th nice post agreeing with him he started emailing... and on about 6th email, he shot me his # demanding I call him asap... he was cracking up over a pic I had on my profile of a crazy squirrel standing at a patio door that a slogan read 'why don't you come out & say that shit to my face'
So I called him a few hours later, disquised my # of course... we talked and laughed and got along well until he started asking sexual questions and it sounded like he was wacking his d*ck on the phone receiver
That was a little too much for me! Mi said oweee my virgin ears and hung up. Last I have ever spoke to him on or off line.
Was a shame because he really had a good sense of humor.
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8/8/2012 3:34:57 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
29, joined Sep. 2011
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Oh my.. Soul, that's too funny. Were you ever able to find out if he is indeed the same guy in his pictures?
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8/8/2012 3:41:13 PM |
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soulchyne
Greenville, SC
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Oh my.. Soul, that's too funny. Were you ever able to find out if he is indeed the same guy in his pictures?
He isn't! Those pics were of supporting actors on soap opera that died 'PASSIONS'.
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8/8/2012 3:44:54 PM |
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soulchyne
Greenville, SC
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Islandqueen... what was hilarious was him discussing how big of a Christian he is and that he teaches Sunday School in the same breath he was wacking his wood on the phone receiver.
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8/8/2012 3:46:18 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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Oh, didn't know. Lol!
Haha! Oh my.. that's just too disgusting, but funny at the same time. Ewww.. I bet he was wacking on the other end of the phone.
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8/8/2012 3:47:31 PM |
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aboredguy
Woodbridge, VA
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How can you tell some one is jacking one the phone??
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8/8/2012 3:51:49 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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Boredguy, you must be an expert in that area. Do tell. Inquiring minds would like to know.
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8/8/2012 3:54:23 PM |
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imthegrl
Amarillo, TX
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Islandqueen... what was hilarious was him discussing how big of a Christian he is and that he teaches Sunday School in the same breath he was wacking his wood on the phone receiver.
I always give him grief about his Sunday school class!
Or did...lol
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8/8/2012 3:55:06 PM |
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imthegrl
Amarillo, TX
48, joined Feb. 2012
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How can you tell some one is jacking one the phone??
Come Yoda, know this you must.
Eta
Pat, pat, pat.
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8/8/2012 3:55:43 PM |
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savonagirl
Waterdown, ON
57, joined Aug. 2012
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Your hilarious ranger.
Shiat you troll the troll real wOman who isn't real all the time.
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8/8/2012 3:59:32 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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Islandqueen... what was hilarious was him discussing how big of a Christian he is and that he teaches Sunday School in the same breath he was wacking his wood on the phone receiver.
Oh, didn't know. Lol!
Haha! Oh my.. that's just too disgusting, but funny at the same time. Ewww.. I bet he was wacking on the other end of the phone.
Just to clarify, I misread soul's post, but what ever.. Lol! It's still absurd to talk about being a Christian, and at the same time, there you are (secretly) trying to whack off on the phone.
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8/8/2012 4:06:11 PM |
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soulchyne
Greenville, SC
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Boredguy... take those pepsi cans you tied at each of a string ... pit one to your ear and bang your pecker on the other.
Come back & let us know later how you knew u were wanking off.
Dare ya!
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flyaway003
Fort Worth, TX
35, joined Apr. 2012
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How can you tell some one is jacking one the phone??
Ohh wow , you have taken this to new heights Now
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8/8/2012 4:16:54 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
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8/8/2012 4:18:29 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
58, joined Jan. 2010
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Get off my bridge!!!!
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8/8/2012 4:21:40 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
29, joined Sep. 2011
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Ohh wow , you have taken this to new heights Now
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8/8/2012 4:22:22 PM |
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laura75
Albuquerque, NM
40, joined Dec. 2011
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trolls can be fun to play with...
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8/8/2012 4:25:48 PM |
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stan_147
Coos Bay, OR
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8/8/2012 4:26:17 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
58, joined Jan. 2010
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trolls can be fun to play with...
You may cross my bridge.
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8/8/2012 4:34:20 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
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Awww.. What a cute troll.
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8/8/2012 4:38:05 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
58, joined Jan. 2010
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Who thinks trolls are cute?
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8/8/2012 4:41:08 PM |
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laura75
Albuquerque, NM
40, joined Dec. 2011
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i didn't say they were cute... just fun to play with.
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8/8/2012 4:51:39 PM |
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islandqu33n
Lake Oswego, OR
29, joined Sep. 2011
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HAHA! Too funny, bitsy.
Laura, although I don't do it often, when I do, it's quite fun.
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8/8/2012 5:07:53 PM |
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stan_147
Coos Bay, OR
52, joined Aug. 2010
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BITSY! You are NOT supposed to show them what I really look like!!!
It scares away customers!
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8/8/2012 5:20:52 PM |
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cross102
Norwood, MA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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Maybe I have done this a little..IF I got what you mean...
I have played with a scammer or two just to see what they would say or a nut job, for the same reason basically entertainment.
I even have a thread in FOC about some of the messages we get from people...
there are some real doozies out there, and I am betting some of the people on here could really add some good stories to that thread
I hope this is the right thread for this...I'm assuming my definition of trolling is the same as the op...
I am thinking women tend to get more nut jobs messaging them than men... heck maybe it's cause they just get more messages than men (as a general rule)
So true Carbonv there are more men nut jobs trolling, have to say to my embarrassment I got sucked in by one. I'll blame the fact that I'm new to this
This gye was laying it on thick and I bought it hook line and sinker...the men trolling are not all perverts...I'm more suspicious of the sweet talkers...the ones telling you what they know you want to hear...
Not only did I stumble across his 2nd profile just as active as the one I had been communicating with him from...then a woman I met as a result of these forums and I get to talking and what a surprise he is basically selling her the same load of crap that I bought from him....
I think I'll stick to the gym for meeting men....at least then you know what they really look like....
It's not that I mind the person trolling...looking around on here and communicating with other woman as well as me....it's when he lies about it and when faced with my question about his second profile he lied about that too...trolls....liars not so much.
My dad used to say, you can trust a thief but not a liar! Live and learn.
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8/8/2012 5:49:29 PM |
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smokymtngirl43
Sevierville, TN
47, joined Mar. 2012
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Would you mind it if the person you are dating gets on the net for the sole purpose of trolling?
Yes I would. To me it says a lot about those who do it. I prefer those who are more respectful of other people. Participating in forum discussions to exchange different views and ideas is one thing but doing it solely for trolling and idiocy is ridiculous. It tends to make you understand as to why they are always online trolling 24/7...they have no outside life because no one in the real world wants to be around them.
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youdontnomeyet
Henderson, NV
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