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| delphynelilith updated! |
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| Location: |
Hemet California |
| Zip Code: |
92543 |
| Age: |
35, Leo |
| Height: |
5 ft. 3 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: |
Red, Hazel |
| Body Type: |
Slender |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Other |
| Politics: |
Didn't Say |
| Education: |
Some College |
| Income: |
$25,000 - $50,000 |
| Job: |
Unemployed |
| Drink: |
Drink Occasionally |
| Smoke: |
Smoke Occasionally |
| Status: |
Single |
| Have Kids: |
Yes, living with me |
| Want More: |
Didn't Say |
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| Personality |
Bad stuff out of the way first:
1.) I have Epilepsy and Atypical Bilateral Trigeminal Neuralgia - which means sometimes my life is affected by these ups and downs that may be unforeseen. It takes a lot of patience and strength to put it with it. These disorders will not go away tonight, tomorrow, next week, or 10 years from now. They are with me FOR LIFE.
2.) I have emotional issues relating to trust and family and men. While I would really love to find my true "soulmate" - if such a thing really exists, I would still be apprehensive and may be a little nutty when dealing with it. I've been through so much hurt in my life, I just cannot stand more pain. Which begs the question - why am I doing this?
3.) I'm a certified phlebotomist (blood draw), but due to the economy I am currently unemployed. I am not sitting on my butt unemployed, however. I live in a small town with very few jobs, and as I am not allowed to drive due to a previously mentioned illness, job hunting has been tough. I also hope to return to school in the future.
4.) What I want: First and foremost, someone who is witty, intelligent...and can make me laugh. I am hoping you are Pagan or fall under that umbrella term for spirituality. I hope you are loyal and value honesty above all things. (And I don't mean euphemistically or only when it suits you.) I hope you will stand by your word as word is bond. Basically, someone with integrity. I have met too many people who *claim* to be this way - but it is only a clever disguise they put on to obtain what they desire.
And at the risk of sounding vulgar, I hope you are experienced in the bedroom.
What you do for a living does not matter to me. It is who you are deep down inside that matters.
Dislikes: Liars. Dishonesty. Bad Manners. Bad Photography. I am an INFJ type (kudos to you if you know what that means) so I do not like being pushed into doing anything...I like to take my time to weigh every possible outcome first.
I also tend to be very critical, I can't help it - I just am. We all have some undesirable traits about ourselves, yes? Frankly, I am not about to change mine. They make me who I am. So, the man who wants to know me, love me, cherish me (or what have you) have better understand he comes into this knowing full well that I can be a psycho b**** from hell.
(As I remember things, I will add them...)
I am not one of those people who puts "enjoys writing" in their profile just because it looks good. I enjoy writing because I thoroughly enjoy writing. I have a wee poetry book that has been published - no great success, mind you, but I am happy with it. A few photographs of mine have also seen some publication. That being said - my life over the past several years has been crazy and I have not been able to spend the time to write as much as I would prefer. That will change. And because of that, I am hoping that my mate will understand when I say I need alone time. I cannot write when I am being interrupted. It is impossible. It is not because I dislike you or because I am angry... It is because I need silence to get into my groove.
If all that hasn't scared you off, feel free to email me. And no sex talk on the first email - it will just piss me off.
Oh, and one more thing: I am bisexual.
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| Personality Type: |
Shy |
| Want To Find: |
A man ages 30 to 42 to date |
| I Party: |
Not very often |
Interests:
I Like: |
Aldous Huxley, Alternative Religion, Arthur C Clarke, Asking Questions, Baking, Carnivale, Childhood's End, Cooking, Dead Can Dance, Dexter, Dreams, e.e. cummings, Egypt, Egyptology, Fringe, Gone With the Wind, honesty, Leonard Cohen, Literature, M Theory, Movies, my cats, my daughter, my snakes, Nature, Paganism, Pagans, Painting, Photography, Pink Floyd, Pink Freud, Poetry, Rain, Reading, Sewing, Shardik, Silence, Silver, Stephen King, Take This Longing, Tarot, Tattoos, The Concept of Time, The Gunslinger, The Universe, Thunderstorms, Understanding Quantum Physics, Watership Down, Weather, Why?, Writing |
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30's Singles with Disabilities Body Art Other Religions Pet Lovers Reading & Literature |
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