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Untitled by kdg45 at 9/20/2014 4:38:43 PM Why is it that some men have the need to abuse the woman they are with? Abuse is never a good thing, but some men think they are not men unless they abuse or use the women they are with. Nine out of ten times these women are good women. Nine out of ten times they bend over backward to fulfill the needs of their men. Then the moment a man finds this out that is when the abuse starts. I will also say that abuse can also come from a woman, but if you check the statistics abuse mainly comes from the hands of a man. As a man i have seen abuse first hand, and none of it is ever pretty. When you see blood running down a woman's face and also see bruises on a woman's body it is never a pretty sight. Now i know that some men will say she pushed me to it by getting in my face, but in all actuality a man can walk away and then come back later when things cool off. I just have never felt like abuse... physical, mental, or sexual is ever a good thing.

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candyred1957	9/20/2014 6:46:25 PM good for you.Been there, it's not fun
happyladyme	9/20/2014 6:52:44 PM It is a known fact that abusers are cowards. They are not able to feel they will be able to have a stable relationship unless they break a woman's/man's spirit emotionally and or physically. There are different degrees of abuse but a study will show that these people are indeed cowards and do not have any faith in themselves. They control through isolation, telling their partners they are never right, for example. After awhile if you tell someone something long enough, they tend to believe it. No I am not a psychologist. lol I have just done a lot of research on different problems humans have. IMO education is a great tool. Abuse is never a good thing against animals either. If people are wanting to take their frustrations out they should get a duffle bag filled with old sheets or clothing, hook it up and punch on the duffle bag until they have calmed down.
geleen217	9/20/2014 7:27:50 PM oh thanks God i have never been abused by any man whether physically emotionally or verbally ,,,but in some cases some women were really stupid coz why do they have to permit themselves to be abused ,,,and so with men ....
missloner7	9/20/2014 8:01:09 PM I have to disagree somewhat. Yes, physical abuse more often comes from a man, but women can be very verbally abusive, as much or more so than men. No matter who abuse comes from, or what form it comes in, it's never okay.
mtrctylady	9/20/2014 9:44:10 PM I can't believe you --geleen217. Did you say "some women were really stupid coz why do they have to PERMIT themselves to be abused"? I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years. Trust me I did not stay voluntarily. I was threatened that my mother's house would be burned down, that I would never see my kids again, that his friends would do a train on me. No woman stays in an abusive relationship voluntarily!! Rethink your thoughts on this subject young lady!
geleen217	9/20/2014 10:18:05 PM @ lady ,,,yeah that is right ! and that is why i said in some cases coz im not pertaining to all women who were abused ,,,in fact im against men or women who do abusive things whether its verbally emotionally or physically ,,,here in our country ,,,they were plenty of women that were abused not because of men who wants to abused them but because of their stupidity... they know in facts that their husbands were drug dependent or an alcoholic but still,, instead of correcting their husband's habit they tolerate it even if they were abused physically emotionally and verbally ,,,,then when you asked them,,, they will just simply tell you that they love their husbands and they dont want to be separated and have a broken family ,,,,there are plenty of court cases here in our country which were unsolved due to those women who are really stupid ...i hope you understand by now what im trying to imply lady ,,,,
happyladyme	9/21/2014 12:05:52 PM Even on DH and in e-mail there is verbal abuse sometimes. Whenever this happens that person or persons should be blocked. There isn't any reason for this at all