| 10/31/2012 4:14:31 PM |
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hboyz3
Kissimmee, FL
31, joined Oct. 2012
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I find myself attracting the wrong women.The last girl I dated was a model and she came with some much drama.
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| 10/31/2012 4:24:49 PM |
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tjl2280
Brush Prairie, WA
35, joined Dec. 2009
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 OMG, I just want one girl to prove to me you're not all the same bs. A model? That's gotta be rough bro. No whining. Keep dating, you could find her on the 1st try or the 100th try. Sorry about being so hard on you with the first sentence
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| 10/31/2012 5:00:12 PM |
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hboyz3
Kissimmee, FL
31, joined Oct. 2012
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Got pics for you if you would like.....Lmao
to be honest, i just got back into dating again.. took a break for a while and focus on my career.
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| 10/31/2012 5:01:48 PM |
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zellablosom
Cape Coral, FL
46, joined Sep. 2012
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Why don't you get off the arm candy. There are a lot of good women..But you could keep up the good work
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| 10/31/2012 5:54:02 PM |
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hboyz3
Kissimmee, FL
31, joined Oct. 2012
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Lmao
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| 10/31/2012 6:53:28 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
66, joined May. 2010
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 10/31/2012 8:46:23 PM |
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lukki7ster
Ajax, ON
35, joined Oct. 2012
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smh...
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| 10/31/2012 11:32:47 PM |
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browneyed43
Reidsville, NC
46, joined Jul. 2012
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It's so hard to find a good woman because men are visual creatures and if she does not look like a Victoria's Secret model you don't want anything to do with them and from my experience in the dating world most men are intimidated by independent and strong women and like the clingy and needy ones even tho' almost every man says "he hates drama" please quit picking up women at bars and clubs. The good women are the ones at home on the weekends wishing they could find a good man that would want an independent and strong woman who speaks her mind and does not need a man but would like to have one in her life to compliment her life and have a confidant to talk to but even tho' we are attractive and self sufficient the skanks get the men.
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| 10/31/2012 11:42:06 PM |
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sandybeach456
Pratt, KS
49, joined Oct. 2010
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brown eyed i agree with you good advise and so true
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| 10/31/2012 11:57:35 PM |
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jade_a_bop
Duluth, MN
37, joined Feb. 2012
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Why is it so hard to find a good girl
Height: 5 ft. 9 in.
i see your problem
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| 11/1/2012 8:24:31 AM |
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c0pasetic
Greensboro, NC
50, joined Jun. 2011
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Right: women and men who are considered "good looking" all come with drama, or are too demanding/high maintenance or have low self esteem, just because they choose to look physically attractive.
On the same note, people who choose to be overweight or otherwise not so concerned about outward appearance are angry depressed people with no self esteem.
Both the above are negative stereotypes and we need to get away from them because they just don't apply to everyone! 
You need to decide what you consider "good" (and it's ok to like what you like), but don't give up and throw everyone in the same pot because you had a few bad experiences  Keep trying and it will happen.
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| 11/1/2012 10:24:16 AM |
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wildjoel
Greenville, SC
49, joined Aug. 2010
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Why is it so hard to find a good girl? Because once you find her you men claiming to be looking for that person seem to always want to push the good girls away. Maybe not all men do this, but from what I have seen, Yup.. push away and run in another direction always thinking they can find someone better. Maybe it is time we all lie and say we aren't looking for any good qualities in a person all we want is to hookup get diseases and spread them. Then you'll see them crawling out of the woodwork falling over each other like the animals they truly are.
Everyone wants someone to complete them, until they find the one who will, then they run like hell. I'm so tired of the lies and games. Perhaps owning a battery operated toy is the only way we can find the person to complete us. If you're not happy with yourself you'll never be happy.
Sorry for the rant, I've just gotten sick and tired of the players in this world.
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| 11/1/2012 1:56:16 PM |
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keepslowprofile
Moose Lake, MN
96, joined Nov. 2011
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What kind of model? just because she was a model doesn't mean anything.
She could have been modeling those little pads you put on your feet for corns and bunions.
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| 11/1/2012 4:54:35 PM |
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pudntang1
Nampa, ID
47, joined Jul. 2012
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It's not.... we are out there, but you probably don't take notice because we are usually the ones who are self confident enough to not have to be flashy or the center of attention. Look outside your box....
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| 11/1/2012 5:00:08 PM |
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hickwashere
Rock Springs, WY
48, joined Dec. 2011
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Or just look Up 
 
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| 11/1/2012 5:03:11 PM |
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pudntang1
Nampa, ID
47, joined Jul. 2012
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| 11/2/2012 9:46:18 AM |
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jake52jim
Elkhart, IN
55, joined Jun. 2012
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^^^^^^^^^^^
ouch.
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| 11/8/2012 10:53:00 PM |
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mike7323
Bay City, MI
35, joined Oct. 2012
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Why is it so hard to find a good girl? Well first stop looking for a "girl." Real honest women are out there but "girls" are just like "boys." Niether of them have the first clue about a real, honest, and mature relationship is all about. Sure if your just after the let's screw a few times and call it a relationship then by all means, good luck to you.
I have always seen the problem of finding a good woman more about understanding they have to guard themselves. To often "boys" and "wannabe men" leave an amazing woman so hurt that she is afraid to let down her guard. Sadly it mean those of us who are looking for the true partner of the heart have to attempt the near impossible task of proving to women we are the real deal and not just "boys."
Women, the same I am sure can be said for those of you looking for a real man.
In the end you can call it fate, luck, destiny, or whatever. The important thing is to keep trying and allow yourself to take the heartache risk which comes on the journey for love. If that does not provide you with some confidence than maybe this might.....
"Even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while."
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| 11/9/2012 1:31:58 AM |
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tully13
Alhambra, CA
31, joined Oct. 2012
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it depend on what head you are using...
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| 11/9/2012 12:15:01 PM |
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leighannste17
Austin, TX
30, joined Aug. 2012
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I think people should stop worrying so much about finding a relationship. Good people are out there but sometimes you gotta try the naughty ones first, they can be fun. You never know you might meet someone just by a hook-up or a blind date. You just have to explore your options and be open-minded about life.
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| 11/10/2012 3:56:34 PM |
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missy_red98418
Seattle, WA
38, joined Oct. 2012
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It's so hard to find a good woman because men are visual creatures and if she does not look like a Victoria's Secret model you don't want anything to do with them and from my experience in the dating world most men are intimidated by independent and strong women and like the clingy and needy ones even tho' almost every man says "he hates drama" please quit picking up women at bars and clubs. The good women are the ones at home on the weekends wishing they could find a good man that would want an independent and strong woman who speaks her mind and does not need a man but would like to have one in her life to compliment her life and have a confidant to talk to but even tho' we are attractive and self sufficient the skanks get the men.
Sad but true...could't have worded it any better myself.
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| 11/11/2012 1:26:57 AM |
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hellokittyq
Inverness, FL
36, joined Oct. 2012
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It's so hard to find a good woman because men are visual creatures and if she does not look like a Victoria's Secret model you don't want anything to do with them and from my experience in the dating world most men are intimidated by independent and strong women and like the clingy and needy ones even tho' almost every man says "he hates drama" please quit picking up women at bars and clubs. The good women are the ones at home on the weekends wishing they could find a good man that would want an independent and strong woman who speaks her mind and does not need a man but would like to have one in her life to compliment her life and have a confidant to talk to but even tho' we are attractive and self sufficient the skanks get the men.
So true 
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| 11/11/2012 9:21:18 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
66, joined May. 2010
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| 11/13/2012 3:06:09 PM |
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god0009988
Lake Worth, FL
48, joined Oct. 2012
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I dont think all men think that way, I have many male friends like like non pretty girls or overweight girls cause they believe that those are the type that dont stray !! Have I got news for them !
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| 11/16/2012 9:45:30 PM |
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mystery9556
Lake City, FL
34, joined Nov. 2012
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It's not open your eyes!! There are a lot of good women out there just a huge shortage of good men.
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| 11/16/2012 11:05:13 PM |
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gennas
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
39, joined Nov. 2012
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Sadly because you guys are visual in almost all choices you make. Don't get me wrong females have the same problem and I'm embarrassed for those who are superficial. You need to be asking the right questions to begin peeling off the layers to get to the core of a female. Sadly yes many are damaged goods but there are still some good ones out there. A few pointers though, ask a female about her upbringing (that can tell you a lot) and find out about her morals and values. Ask her what is one thing Mr. Right did and ask her to name three things Mr. Wrong did. You'll open up a lot in those few questions. Seek a friendship before something sexual, since that should be the bonus to the development of something wonderful. Hope it helps and best of luck.
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| 11/17/2012 12:27:57 AM |
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jashley29
Audubon, NJ
33, joined Mar. 2012
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I find myself attracting the wrong women.The last girl I dated was a model and she came with some much drama.
I feel you bro! It's hard to date anyone these days!
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| 11/17/2012 1:10:53 AM |
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lordlyle
Carmichael, CA
38, joined Nov. 2012
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I think I intimidate women.or I'm kinda ugly. But what's a good girl anyway? Is it a nice woman? I like women not girls. The type of women who would look hot killing a troll with a sword or stabbing a dead animal n the d*ck n tight pants or something.
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| 11/17/2012 1:16:34 AM |
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mytouch123
Schaumburg, IL
33, joined Aug. 2012
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I find myself attracting the wrong women.The last girl I dated was a model and she came with some much drama.
You should date your dresser less drama and you can always cheat with the close hamper.Stress free solitions .Live free..
Hope i helped on this topic
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| 11/18/2012 7:01:55 AM |
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gmidas
Moreno Valley, CA
44, joined Mar. 2012
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There seems to be no middle ground. Women are simply fed up with men so they either resort to being dogs like them, being evil, bitter b*tches, or whiney, clingy and suspicious. Maybe it serves us right. I mean, we men have all done our fair share of breaking hearts. Maybe we should deal with the damage we've caused and stfu. LMAO!!
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| 11/18/2012 9:14:32 AM |
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ladyaussie
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Nov. 2012
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Why is it so hard to find a good girl? Well first stop looking for a "girl." Real honest women are out there but "girls" are just like "boys."
WELL SAID!!
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| 11/18/2012 9:40:10 AM |
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nate78red
Brooklyn, NY
37, joined Jun. 2012
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I think that plain and simple there are no nice ways to being a hoe. The one thing we won't be able to change is that women are always going to feel that they need to be given something to them, We like them for the nature they are and they like us because there is always some desperate man to exceed the limit of attraction for his own sake and give them the impression that every man suppose to see things in that prospective 
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| 11/18/2012 4:01:19 PM |
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kitkat1070
New Castle, DE
45, joined Nov. 2012
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Browneyed, I agree with you that 100%.
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| 11/18/2012 4:30:35 PM |
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davit49
Tacoma, WA
52, joined May. 2012
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good and pretty hard combo
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| 11/18/2012 9:27:08 PM |
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jlyn_78
Northbridge, MA
37, joined Nov. 2012
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Thats your problem, Models & woman that are so into themselves bring alot of drama. Just be alil more picky in your selection. good luck to you
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| 11/21/2012 8:34:15 PM |
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jasonn7865
Austin, TX
22, joined Nov. 2012
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the last girl i dated was nice at first then ok we had a son i thought ok everything was going to be fine. no she came home talking about she doesnt love me and stuff. we cussed each other out (we still do!!!) then we broke up it is so hard to find the right girl.
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| 11/21/2012 9:01:49 PM |
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taloola1
Jacksonville, FL
55, joined Oct. 2008
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Really? Do you want a good girl or a self absorbed model?
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| 11/27/2012 9:28:12 PM |
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lotusinbloom85
North Las Vegas, NV
30, joined May. 2012
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I am coming to the conclusion, there is no such thing as a good woman. Not these days anyways. In my travels I have observed most just flat out lie and cheat, but all just play games with your heart and head.
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| 11/28/2012 12:21:54 AM |
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marklar99
Huntington Beach, CA
32, joined Apr. 2012
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I don't believe any exist,at least in my area of Orange County. Girls here have something mentally wrong with them, if you're not a complete douch bag or make over 100,000 a year they want NOTHING to do with you.
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| 12/6/2012 12:49:12 AM |
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sxymama7
Anaheim, CA
25, joined Jun. 2012
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Its hard to find a good girl when your busy getting on top of any girl.
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| 12/7/2012 3:49:16 PM |
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qdown
Kansas City, MO
32, joined Dec. 2012
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they say the model come with the extras. Usually when this happens though it's because your not changing up you standards in what you want in women. http://datingpoliticss.blogspot.com
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| 12/7/2012 5:06:45 PM |
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malerieling
Liberty, MO
27, joined Dec. 2012
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It's because u men are so picky and when u have a good one u don't know how to treat her.
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| 12/7/2012 5:08:59 PM |
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malerieling
Liberty, MO
27, joined Dec. 2012
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You are so right and couldn't have said it better.
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| 12/7/2012 9:39:54 PM |
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mikenorth
Oregon, OH
36, joined May. 2011
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I think I intimidate women.or I'm kinda ugly. But what's a good girl anyway? Is it a nice woman? I like women not girls. The type of women who would look hot killing a troll with a sword or stabbing a dead animal n the d*ck n tight pants or something.
stabbing a dead animal in the d*ck. That's a little harsh. I. Would say shoot a dead animals d*ck off. Killing a troll with a sword would be good enough for me. Esp a computer troll.
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| 12/7/2012 11:24:16 PM |
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jeanluc1
Fort Leavenworth, KS
35, joined Jun. 2012
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It's because u men are so picky and when u have a good one u don't know how to treat her.
It hurts to agree with that but like we say, "people recognize great value assets only when they have lost them". But anyway... I think more women are better than what they truly show to the men they date. Some women have difficulties making the difference between being a "strong and independant lady" and being "mean and sarcastic" to every man they meet;just to show that they can handle themselves. As well, some men think that the only way to show that they're in charge is to be violent. Wrong solution; if you think you should be in charge, make the difference by being a gentleman.
I think you can show your strength without being disrespectful. Men, treat them like ladies and they might treat you like a gentleman. If they don't, you got the right to move.  be
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| 12/8/2012 2:51:36 AM |
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1baddad1964
Craigsville, VA
51, joined Dec. 2012
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Dude maybe what you need to do is find yourself a fat ugly girl give you all the loving you need won't cheat on you either that or a mountain girl
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| 12/8/2012 11:47:17 PM |
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tinkerbrat24
Pittsfield, MA
28, joined Mar. 2012
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Same reason its so hard to find a good guy
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| 12/9/2012 2:21:21 AM |
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davit49
Tacoma, WA
52, joined May. 2012
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we r always taken
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| 12/14/2012 1:52:54 PM |
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sem1992
Levittown, NY
23, joined Dec. 2012
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I dated a girl that was like an emotional roller coaster One minute we are together and then we break up At my prom I had a date and my ex came up to me and told me that she loved me in front of my date. Suddenly I find myself dating her again. After eight months she breaks it off saying that she "A Sexual" What kind of garbage is that??? Where are all those nice girls?
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| 12/14/2012 1:58:29 PM |
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sem1992
Levittown, NY
23, joined Dec. 2012
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Those hot looking woman that you speak up are the ones that will hurt you badly. As for the nice girl, they have some looks with a great personality. So where r they???
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| 12/14/2012 5:20:29 PM |
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sammy4evr
Lake Orion, MI
55, joined Nov. 2012
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It's so hard to find a good woman because men are visual creatures and if she does not look like a Victoria's Secret model you don't want anything to do with them and from my experience in the dating world most men are intimidated by independent and strong women and like the clingy and needy ones even tho' almost every man says "he hates drama" please quit picking up women at bars and clubs. The good women are the ones at home on the weekends wishing they could find a good man that would want an independent and strong woman who speaks her mind and does not need a man but would like to have one in her life to compliment her life and have a confidant to talk to but even tho' we are attractive and self sufficient the skanks get the men.
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| 12/14/2012 9:48:41 PM |
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missygun714
Arcata, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012
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no one chooses to be good looking and we have the same f**king problems you do except some fuktard makes generalized assumptions that equate good looks with drama what the f**k ever. i find that the people who scream the loudest about drama are usually the drama kings and queens
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| 12/14/2012 10:39:15 PM |
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alanee4
Modesto, CA
22, joined Dec. 2012
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because your trying to find her. love is something that happens all on its own, not something you can go find. stop looking and youll realize the right girl has probablly been there all along.
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| 12/14/2012 10:46:44 PM |
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alanee4
Modesto, CA
22, joined Dec. 2012
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wow. exactly. lol
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| 12/14/2012 11:07:36 PM |
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kingsizechoc
Toledo, OH
39, joined Jul. 2012
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A high percentage of women are wh*res
The rest are in relationships or either gay
So that leaves you with a small percentage of good women left
Then cut that in half because you have these independent women who say they don't need a man or want a man
So you end up single òo
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| 12/14/2012 11:14:07 PM |
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boricuaq122388
Ceres, CA
27, joined Jul. 2012
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Forget finding a good girl good women are harder to find cuz their taken or scared to love again cuz they been hurt bad
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| 12/14/2012 11:30:10 PM |
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liveever757
Williamsburg, VA
31, joined Dec. 2012
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Bc they have no clue what they want. In terms of a relationship. It should be made clear from Day 1. As in we will be friends and never anything more or There is the possibility we will be something more than friends.
I for one have not burnt bridges w. anybody and would be open to a relationship w. another women who sees eye to eye w. me
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| 12/16/2012 8:30:39 AM |
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necromanser2010
Cypress, TX
55, joined May. 2010
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Too many Psychos & Scammers out there. I can navigate past the Scammers, they are easy to spot:
She is 25 years old, has a modeling quality photo, lives with parents & she is looking for a guy 50-75years old?!I mean come on guys
Now, the Psychos are the ones who chose the dating website as opposed to much needed theropy. Usually misplaced anger issues:
He ex is a pervert so therefore all men are perverts
or he was abusive so all men are abusive
& then there are the ones that you ask them to dinner & they say, "I am not sleeping with you!" Hey you weren't ASKED! You were only asked to dinner, take it at face value.
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| 12/16/2012 12:30:54 PM |
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funblonde35
Mount Holly, NC
38, joined Dec. 2012
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Im a good woman lookin for the right guy.
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| 12/16/2012 2:02:57 PM |
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kingkraken
Jamaica, NY
34, joined Dec. 2012
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Lol a good woman ? You have a better chance of finding Bigfoot.
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