4/11/2013 2:02:18 PM |
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meccaj
Dublin
Ireland
37, joined Jun. 2009
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I remember reading an article about men who are lifetime bachelors. And I'm aware that this can apply to women too hence the title.
I'm going to try and remember some points from the article and want you to chime in and add as you see fit.
Ok, A serial dater dates several people at the same time, has never had a relationship over two years, but claims to want a serious committed relationship.
Everything is great at first very charming but then there's the 180. They become less available during the weekend opting to spent time with their friends. They don't break up with you but just start calling less often.
They want you to break up with them so they can move on with a clear conscience. This is pretty much all I remember. Can anyone elaborate on the signs?
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4/11/2013 2:05:28 PM |
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angelofhonesty
San Antonio, TX
45, joined Mar. 2009
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So are you the serial dater or are you with someone who is? Because I'm not buying the bullshit of "I have a friend who...or I read an article.
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4/11/2013 2:14:49 PM |
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mrld_ii
Stockton, CA
54, joined May. 2011
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Sorry...can't help you out, OP. I don't spend a lot of time coming up with the labels/lists to define That Which Doesn't Work For Me...and Vice-Versa.
I just move on. I'm simply not so in need of finding someone to date/relate with TO invest the energy/effort in changing every single prospective dater/relater to fit That Which I Desire.
Best of luck to you, though!
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4/11/2013 2:47:55 PM |
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meccaj
Dublin
Ireland
37, joined Jun. 2009
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Angel not sure why you think I have to come up with a made up article but if you want to read it simply Google it. Other than that I could care less what you're buying. I don't have to lie.
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4/11/2013 3:08:12 PM |
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blkbarbied0ll
Long Island City, NY
36, joined Jul. 2012
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4/11/2013 5:26:51 PM |
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doktorabstracto
Cocoa, FL
55, joined Aug. 2010
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This is just one of a bazillion stupid labels you can put on people to make you think you understand them. What's the difference between "serial dater" and "difficult to satisfy" (realistically or unrealistically so)?
I'd rather have you go away of your own volition, than have to call the sheriff. Nothing all that unusual about taking the more subtle path, if you're dealing with someone who'd respond to subtlety. And we never know whether you'll go away cheerily, or be a weepy vindictive stalker mess.
I've dated a couple at the same time but have had several long term and committed relationships, and if you bore and annoy me I sure will be unavailable on weekends. I have no conscience to speak of, it's more about least effort / least hassle thing, there. So you're going to need another box for some of us.
Or you could quit reading dating articles, which are about the most brain dead recycled tripe going.
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4/11/2013 8:16:04 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Seems like we haven't seen you in a long time, angel. Think I checked your profile once. Nothing came of it of course,
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4/11/2013 9:22:13 PM |
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meccaj
Dublin
Ireland
37, joined Jun. 2009
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i used to be one
Was it on purpose? Or you didn't realize it.
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4/11/2013 9:27:48 PM |
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meccaj
Dublin
Ireland
37, joined Jun. 2009
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I often offer my dates cereal in the morning... Guilty as charged I suppose.
I'm a cereal killer in the morning myself...I make no apologies lol
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