| 4/12/2013 12:04:01 PM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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Do you hate it when a random guy messages you say hey baby our hey baby girl anything like that, like they know you? F**king hate it.
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| 4/12/2013 8:28:27 PM |
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sweetashoney09
Evansville, IN
48, joined Jun. 2009
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To an old married broad like myself its kinda nice that I still got it
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| 4/12/2013 10:52:49 PM |
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robin0109
Cincinnati, OH
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Its nice to get those compliments (atleast i think it is).
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| 4/12/2013 11:14:40 PM |
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alvanian2
Woodward, OK
26, joined Jul. 2012
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I dunno about all that baby girl stuff. But I usually do call them hun or babe just because I know they like it lol.
As far as them saying it to me I just kinda shrug it off. Doesn't mean much to me. It would if we eventually started dating
EXCEPT
One guy was all
Hey babe! What are you up to hun? Come over with us sweetie and hang out honey buns. Plz hurry baby cakes! Cya soon love!
Like woh
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| 4/13/2013 7:38:39 AM |
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beth747
Mesa, AZ
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OP, that's kinda' standard for guys; but if that's a turn-off for you, simply ignore 'em. Everybody's got their own idea of what they like and don't like.
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| 4/13/2013 8:31:18 AM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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I dunno about all that baby girl stuff. But I usually do call them hun or babe just because I know they like it lol.
As far as them saying it to me I just kinda shrug it off. Doesn't mean much to me. It would if we eventually started dating
EXCEPT
One guy was all
Hey babe! What are you up to hun? Come over with us sweetie and hang out honey buns. Plz hurry baby cakes! Cya soon love!
Like woh
Seethat's what I mean if it was with good intentions I'd be ok with it but no it always like hey baby come meet me up 
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| 4/13/2013 8:34:42 AM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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I can take compliments like you're pretty you seem cool or what not. But hey baby blah blah blah I'm not you're baby
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| 4/13/2013 10:56:36 AM |
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hotlips8310
Memphis, TN
30, joined Jun. 2012
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Well I don't mind the Hey baby as long as I'm dating the guy, but besides that then NO!
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| 4/14/2013 12:50:06 PM |
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lem7
San Jose, CA
19, joined Apr. 2013
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Yes I dislike that a lot
It's annoying and rude
My solution delete message
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| 4/14/2013 2:02:30 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
36, joined Jan. 2010
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Talk about luxury! to be annoyed that people view you as sexually attractive.
Ps no one has the right not to be annoyed.
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| 4/16/2013 2:03:12 AM |
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lilkey95
Baltimore, MD
19, joined Apr. 2013
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yes i do hate that. like, why is you calling me "baby" and you dont know me. i do be thinking that, when men say that, they be wanting some "yeah" for real.
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| 4/16/2013 2:12:07 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
64, joined May. 2010
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~~OP~~ It is distasteful to receive messages as you describe on a 1st contact basis. Not only is it a way that a male mindset has of belittling women but it is very rude to take privilege of familiarity into their sole control to patronize women.
For women who don't understand that discrimination men exhibit toward women, whom are unknown to them, should read some literature on sex discrimination.
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| 4/16/2013 6:13:47 AM |
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leahh80
Greensboro, NC
32, joined Mar. 2013
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Yea i dont know it kinda makes me feel good
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| 4/17/2013 3:10:30 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
26, joined Jan. 2008
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I find it annoying too. I don't call any guy baby unless I'm dating him and I never call anyone hun either. I especially hate it when I get the "hey ma" or " sup lil mama." I'm like, I've got a son and you're not him so don't call me ma or mama.
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| 4/17/2013 4:35:21 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
64, joined May. 2010
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Men use platitudes for women because they are in fear of calling the wrong woman by another woman's name.
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| 4/17/2013 4:35:34 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 4/17/2013 7:48:43 PM |
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calypsosocute
Belleville, IL
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OP, that's kinda' standard for guys; but if that's a turn-off for you, simply ignore 'em. Everybody's got their own idea of what they like and don't like.
Sure agree with this! I used to hate the 'Hola Mami. . til i was explained in a way that makes sense. so. . . HOLA back at you PAPI! !
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| 4/18/2013 1:59:17 AM |
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crimsontears85
Tipton, IN
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I don't like guys who use the sweetie or baby girl thing. Espically someone that I don't even know. Its almost as if they are hoping to get something from me by calling me that.
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| 4/18/2013 3:42:06 AM |
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ohhhbuttacups
Pittsburgh, PA
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I find it annoying too. I don't call any guy baby unless I'm dating him and I never call anyone hun either. I especially hate it when I get the "hey ma" or " sup lil mama." I'm like, I've got a son and you're not him so don't call me ma or mama.
This^
I ignore it. And them. Most the time they think they are in the players circle. And they assume you want the D.
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| 4/18/2013 6:05:07 AM |
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babs_bunny
Vicksburg, MS
28, joined Jul. 2010
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Cracked hens! Date much!? Smdh + lmdao! Hence the reason why so many are dateless. You find fault with the simplest things and leap all over it!! I am bi and if a chick is offended by an endearment I am using to make her feel good; do me a favor and block the shit out of me. High strung people that
make life difficult are not my type!!!
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| 4/18/2013 9:43:36 PM |
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my_world_2013
Omaha, NE
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Yes, I agree 
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| 4/19/2013 2:59:39 AM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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Cracked hens! Date much!? Smdh + lmdao! Hence the reason why so many are dateless. You find fault with the simplest things and leap all over it!! I am bi and if a chick is offended by an endearment I am using to make her feel good; do me a favor and block the shit out of me. High strung people that
make life difficult are not my type!!!
Look I don't got any problem finding dates. What I have problem finding is a respectable man, there are alot of guys out there but just a few Men that treats women with respect. All I'm saying is that when a Rabin guy comes up to you with hey baby it hey ma like they know you or own you needs to check himself.
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| 4/21/2013 9:10:05 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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Cracked hens! Date much!? Smdh + lmdao! Hence the reason why so many are dateless. You find fault with the simplest things and leap all over it!!
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| 4/22/2013 12:25:57 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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Cracked hens! Date much!? Smdh + lmdao! Hence the reason why so many are dateless. You find fault with the simplest things and leap all over it!! I am bi and if a chick is offended by an endearment I am using to make her feel good; do me a favor and block the shit out of me. High strung people that
make life difficult are not my type!!!
So because we want to be treated with respect that makes us "cracked hens" whatever that is and causes us to be dateless? I'd rather be dateless and have respect for myself and respect from others then to have some "player" throw is weak game at me and expect some prize in return.
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| 4/22/2013 2:12:25 PM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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So because we want to be treated with respect that makes us "cracked hens" whatever that is and causes us to be dateless? I'd rather be dateless and have respect for myself and respect from others then to have some "player" throw is weak game at me and expect some prize in return.
She has poor self esteem that's why she doesn't care if a man/woman treats her like trash cause that's how she wants to be treated no need to bother with her lol
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| 4/22/2013 3:06:57 PM |
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six1five
Nashville, TN
26, joined May. 2011
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It makes me cringe if a random guy says it I don't like it unless its someone I'm dating.
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| 4/22/2013 4:16:07 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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So because we want to be treated with respect that makes us "cracked hens" whatever that is and causes us to be dateless? I'd rather be dateless and have respect for myself and respect from others then to have some "player" throw is weak game at me and expect some prize in return.
No the problem is the insanely large number of things you arbitrarily decide are red flags or signs of disrespect.
1 girl expects her man to text every day, another hates it when her man texts everyday, both will fault the reverse.
too many woman hold too high sometimes.
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| 4/22/2013 4:16:40 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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"hey baby" is a sign of disrespect? please.
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| 4/22/2013 5:48:00 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
26, joined Jan. 2008
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If you're in a relationship then you should be talking every day but if by chance you don't there's no reason to get upset unless she's insecure or he is untrustworthy in which case they shouldn't even be together. You need to be secure in yourself before you can be with someone else.
Yes, "hey baby" is disrespectful if I'm not your baby. A simple "hello" with something that shows interest was actually given to you will suffice. Profiles are there for a reason. Use them.
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| 4/22/2013 6:52:19 PM |
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dawnarquette
Wyandotte, MI
45, joined Aug. 2012
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Do you hate it when a random guy messages you say hey baby our hey baby girl anything like that, like they know you? F**king hate it.
I f**king hate it too!!! I'm not your baby. Nor do I want to be. Obviously their Mother didn't teach them how to treat and talk to a lady.
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| 4/23/2013 1:44:12 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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Lol you have such attitude, you will be single a long time. the sad part is instead of some self reflection youll just blame men.
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| 4/23/2013 2:55:01 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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I don't have an attitude. One more time. I have standards and respect for myself unlike you.
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| 4/23/2013 3:05:58 PM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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I agree with song_bird. This doesn't have anything to do with attitude or hating men. I don't hate men per say (I hate everyone equally but that's totally different conversation). I do enjoy men and I've had really good relationships, we were just not meant to be but I still care about them and are close friends of mine. All the men I've dated were respectful with me from the start and was courted before we even got together. They used to call me baby sweety whatever. What we are saying when a guy comes up to you not knowing who the hell you are and treats you like a piece of meat he wants to f**k that's what we f**king hate.
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| 4/23/2013 3:08:05 PM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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Lol you have such attitude, you will be single a long time. the sad part is instead of some self reflection youll just blame men.
Do you want a man to walk up to you saying hey baby let me f**k your C*nt. If you don't give a shit that's all on you.
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| 4/23/2013 3:09:54 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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Do you want a man to walk up to you saying hey baby let me f**k your C*nt. If you don't give a shit that's all on you.
Exactly!
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| 4/23/2013 4:11:53 PM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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In true words of Janet. no my first name ain't baby it's Janet miss Jackson if you're nasty lmao
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| 4/24/2013 12:47:39 AM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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In true words of Janet. no my first name ain't baby it's Janet miss Jackson if you're nasty lmao
hahahha AWESOME!!
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| 4/24/2013 2:18:52 AM |
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sweetprincess8
Stockton, CA
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I agree with song_bird. This doesn't have anything to do with attitude or hating men. I don't hate men per say (I hate everyone equally but that's totally different conversation). I do enjoy men and I've had really good relationships, we were just not meant to be but I still care about them and are close friends of mine. All the men I've dated were respectful with me from the start and was courted before we even got together. They used to call me baby sweety whatever. What we are saying when a guy comes up to you not knowing who the hell you are and treats you like a piece of meat he wants to f**k that's what we f**king hate.
Or just as an attempt to "sweeten" up the "target" it's manipulative and just as bad as what you said imo. Also I have no interest in a man that throws words of endearment around so easily. I do use hun and words within my culture with men and women in a platonic manner.
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| 4/24/2013 9:26:10 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 4/24/2013 9:26:40 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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I don't have an attitude. One more time. I have standards and respect for myself unlike you.
oooooh! burn!
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| 4/24/2013 11:43:46 AM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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Apparently this C*nt doesn't mind being called a C*nt. Probably gives it up that easily too hey that's fine some women like you don't have any standards and prefer being treated like the trash they are lmao
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| 4/24/2013 12:47:42 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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So "hey baby" = "f**k your c*nt"
are you kidding me?
In the online world most of the time it does. You completely missed the whole point though which proves your stupidity. The point is that no guy should say that because it is disrespectful. The point is would you want to be walking down the street then some guy you don't know just yell out "Hey Baby... Do you give head?" If you're answer is you don't care or you wouldn't mind then you must be a skank with no self respect. If you wouldn't accept it in your daily life out in the real world then why is it acceptable online? IT SHOULDN'T BE!
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| 4/24/2013 2:44:01 PM |
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founa2
Spokane, WA
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I don't talk to them wen they do dat...I dis dont like it I think it do dat cause sum females like dat intention
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| 4/24/2013 3:32:41 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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Lol what pieces of shit you two are.
The POINT was being called hey baby, the sexual advances was an ENTIRELY different issue, f**king morons.
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| 4/24/2013 3:59:46 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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Lol what pieces of shit you two are.
The POINT was being called hey baby, the sexual advances was an ENTIRELY different issue, f**king morons.
You're a moron. You don't think it's a sexual advancement? Get a clue. They say "hey baby" and you say "hey" and they respond "give head" or "do you have a big ass" or some other lame ignorant disrespectful question. You must not be getting any messages if you don't know this. Your anger must have pushed even the pervs away, that's says a lot. It's all the same issue because it all starts with that one line that we are talking about. Get a clue.
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| 4/24/2013 5:13:58 PM |
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azazel4
Gastonia, NC
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 4/24/2013 8:04:07 PM |
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taprd
Rochester, MI
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Wtf my own post got flagged. What kind of freedom of speech is this shit. Flag me when you don't like what you read I thought this was America not Soviet Russia lmao.
Hi azaze14
Did you get my message about the fake profile in the Women's World Forum?
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| 4/24/2013 8:06:24 PM |
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taprd
Rochester, MI
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Okay...I got your message-
Thanks!
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| 4/24/2013 8:53:27 PM |
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tamster13
Nanticoke, PA
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jake1374
dam your hot
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6:46 AM
you replied
Personally I kinda consider this one rude and inappropriate. Replied once to the boy and got blocked, lmao
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| 4/24/2013 9:00:59 PM |
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sweetnfeisty75
Crossville, TN
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Sooo hate getting the "hey sexy", my freaking name isn't sexy!!
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| 4/25/2013 11:14:27 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 4/25/2013 11:47:43 AM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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Sorry dimwit, but hey baby is not always immediately followed by some sexual comment. Your simplistic and glib perception of reality is both depressing and fallacious.
Sorry that as a fat pig the ONLY men interested in you are those seeking sex.
You are a gross fat pig only good for casual sex, that won't change, ever.
WE ARE TALKING ABOUT WHEN IT IS!!!!! SO STUPID! Why does everything have to be spelled out for you like an elementary kid? The fact that you need (not every guy) added to the statement is just ridiculous. It's a given but we are talking about when guys do message with these kind of things. Why can you not grasp that? Call me a moron all you want because you're just showing time and time again that you're the real moron here.
If I am so fat and ugly and repulsive then why is any guy messaging me? I don't do casual sex, never have and never will so you're theory is null and void.
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| 4/25/2013 12:40:43 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 4/25/2013 1:22:56 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
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Whatever makes you feel better loser.
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| 4/25/2013 1:54:03 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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good answer. We done here?
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| 4/25/2013 4:28:56 PM |
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taprd
Rochester, MI
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Sorry dimwit, but hey baby is not always immediately followed by some sexual comment. Your simplistic and glib perception of reality is both depressing and fallacious.
Sorry that as a fat pig the ONLY men interested in you are those seeking sex.
You are a gross fat pig only good for casual sex, that won't change, ever.
Do you know what CIVILITY means?
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| 4/25/2013 8:33:21 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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Do you know what CIVILITY means?
as much as anyone here, unless of course your definition of civility doesnt extend to not shitting on men.
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| 4/25/2013 8:56:52 PM |
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sweetnfeisty75
Crossville, TN
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So hung up on women shitting on men and you wonder why I think your a man. I don't think another woman would be so damn indignant about someone supposedly bashing men. I think every one here is sick of seeing your negative and rude comments about everything. So sad that you're an unhappy person and have to take it out on others. I myself am just going to block you so I don't have to see your ugliness towards everyone.
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| 4/25/2013 10:42:07 PM |
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taprd
Rochester, MI
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So hung up on women shitting on men and you wonder why I think your a man. I don't think another woman would be so damn indignant about someone supposedly bashing men. I think every one here is sick of seeing your negative and rude comments about everything. So sad that you're an unhappy person and have to take it out on others. I myself am just going to block you so I don't have to see your ugliness towards everyone.
I agree! HE is not fooling anyone here!
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| 4/26/2013 7:49:41 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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So hung up on women shitting on men and you wonder why I think your a man. I don't think another woman would be so damn indignant about someone supposedly bashing men. I think every one here is sick of seeing your negative and rude comments about everything. So sad that you're an unhappy person and have to take it out on others. I myself am just going to block you so I don't have to see your ugliness towards everyone.
SO sad you are an unhappy person and take it out on men. Im sick of seeing nothing but bitter delusional future cat ladies bash men nonstop and refusing to SELF REFLECT.
Please do block me beak, one less idiot i have to read.
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