| 6/1/2013 3:36:59 PM |
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091mami
Washington, DC
24, joined May. 2013
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How do you tell someone you arent going to talk to them anymore in a nice way?
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| 6/1/2013 4:12:02 PM |
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lookin4ones
Hurst, TX
55, joined Oct. 2010
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Just say it and then ignore the person.
Don't answer call, text, , messages.
When you see them in public look the other way.
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| 6/2/2013 2:56:28 AM |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
48, joined Oct. 2011
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Let it go to voice mail. Eventually they will figure it out.Some of these men can be pretty dense though!
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| 6/2/2013 8:00:29 AM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
29, joined Mar. 2013
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There's no way to be extremely nice. Just call him and say you're just not interested in him and you hope he finds what he's looking for and have a great future. Avoiding it's just coward way to do it nd that's how guys get offended.
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| 6/2/2013 10:02:15 AM |
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091mami
Washington, DC
24, joined May. 2013
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Okay. So which is the best way to doit? Phone, person, text or email?
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| 6/2/2013 10:07:55 AM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
29, joined Mar. 2013
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Call him no need to waste his time coming to you or you to him. Gas isn't cheap lol.
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| 6/2/2013 5:41:08 PM |
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desiree_posting
Omaha, NE
27, joined May. 2013
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I just ignore them or stop communicating & answering sooner or later it will get through that I'm not interested.. Its called being rude indirectly...
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| 6/3/2013 10:22:24 PM |
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againlivelife
Midlothian, TX
40, joined May. 2013
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Well there isn't a nice way to tell a person that you're not interested BUT in the long run they will appreciate your honesty. Besides you wouldn't want someone stringing you along.
For example, this man, profile name "rrllim4u" became angry because I did not feel comfortable giving my number...So instead of taking it gently, he messages me by calling me a c*nt and then blocking all messages LOL... So you can be as nice as you want, you cannot prevent a poor outcome.
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| 7/14/2013 6:49:13 PM |
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againlivelife
Midlothian, TX
40, joined May. 2013
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I have told a guy or two that I wasn't interested. Only the mature ones actually handle it in an adult like manner. Its NOT what you say but how you say it.
I usually just say " thank you for the kinds words but I am sorry I am interested" then I continue on to explain that I wish them the best and so forth....
Like this jerk 77WRS sent me a message about his hair. I wasn't able to respond because I wasn't ON LINE. Yes some of us have a life.. His response to me was " thanks for not responding C*NT"
Yes I reported him. These boys behavior is just plain ridiculous and uncalled for.
Just be honest, don't waste the person's time, but you can't prevent their reaction.
Good Luck
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| 7/15/2013 1:26:46 AM |
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ariesinlv
Las Vegas, NV
50, joined Jul. 2013
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 7/15/2013 2:25:01 AM |
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taytana909
Ontario, CA
56, joined Jul. 2013
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pray and ask god to soften there heart, and word your mouth, to speak to them before you get there.
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| 7/15/2013 10:04:41 AM |
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1girliegirlie
Philadelphia, PA
49, joined Apr. 2013
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^^ what karmakiki said
You ladies know there are a few die hard woman haters on this site. Nothing you do or say is going to change that.
I'd rather tell a guy up front that we can chat if he wants but that's all, or I'll say something like thanks but I don't think we're a match. Usually they want to know why (personally I'd never ask a man WHY DON'T YOU THINK WE'RE A MATCH???) and that makes it awkward.
Sometimes you just can't win. They get angry if you don't respond at all, they get angry if you say thanks for the kind words but I don't think we'd be a good match, they get angry if you exchange several messages in the interest of conversation but then they start trying to take it further and you tell them you thought the two of you were just chatting...
There's some good ones, the rest get blocked! Like karmakiki said, if you say it kindly and they're hurt and angry, well...not your problem!
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| 7/15/2013 8:13:36 PM |
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roseanne1
Trenton, MI
41, joined Feb. 2013
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block their nubers so they wont b able to call or text u
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| 7/23/2013 10:32:47 AM |
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txbelle13
Carrollton, TX
36, joined Jul. 2013
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Just be honest and polite. Basically the same way would would prefer someone tell you. If they continue to message you and ignore your request, block them. Also, unlike what's been done in this thread, don't call them out by their screen name as that's not only childish and rude, but also against the sites policy. I hope the advice that your fellow ladies with more respect and class has given helps solve your question. Best of luck
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| 7/23/2013 3:20:54 PM |
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6key
Los Angeles, CA
31, joined Jul. 2013
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I just block them
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| 7/26/2013 7:35:40 AM |
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touchme101
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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He should get the message if he hasn't heard anything from u. or just tell you're not interested anymore.
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| 7/27/2013 3:54:34 PM |
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alwayssmilin84
Pullman, WA
31, joined May. 2013
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You look better if you just tell them. Ignoring them will just make you seem like a b*tch.
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| 7/27/2013 6:10:40 PM |
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xashax
Union, NH
43, joined May. 2009
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How do you tell someone you arent going to talk to them anymore in a nice way?
Depends on the situation. Are you talking about face to face interaction or online? Also if they have already moved on themselves, there is really no reason to have any further discussion.
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| 7/27/2013 6:13:08 PM |
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xashax
Union, NH
43, joined May. 2009
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Okay. So which is the best way to doit? Phone, person, text or email?
Saw this later. This assumes you have personal contact. In that case it's best to let them know but in a public place in case they do become upset. Invite them out to lunch or what not and come in your own car.
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| 7/28/2013 8:32:57 PM |
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indigosunrise
Ocala, FL
33, joined Jul. 2013
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Just say it and then ignore the person.
Don't answer call, text, , messages.
When you see them in public look the other way.
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| 8/4/2013 12:47:23 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
47, joined Jan. 2012
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It depends on how long you've been dating the guy.  I wouldn't do it by text or email. At least call him and tell him. Just tell him you need a break. That usually gets the point across.
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| 8/14/2013 9:24:53 PM |
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purelife118
Benton, AR
38, joined Jul. 2013
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Be nice but honest
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