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hottestguyon_dh
Hobart, IN
29, joined Jul. 2012
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If girls look at your profile will they ALWAYS message you if they are interested? Or do they sometimes not message you but hope you send them a message?
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| 11/2/2013 9:02:59 PM |
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mercedes01
New South Wales
Australia
96, joined Jan. 2010
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I never look to see who viewed me.
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| 11/2/2013 9:04:56 PM |
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hottestguyon_dh
Hobart, IN
29, joined Jul. 2012
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You really think that it's a universal answer 
I meant in general. There's always going to be exceptions...
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| 11/2/2013 9:05:14 PM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
66, joined May. 2009
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No and IDK.
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| 11/2/2013 9:07:44 PM |
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fruityloopz2k
London
United Kingdom
35, joined Jan. 2011
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I cant speak for every other girl... but i view just to be nosey half of the time lol... if you like the look of the girl message her... the worst that can happen is you dont get a message back... no biggy...
good luck 
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| 11/2/2013 9:11:12 PM |
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hbguy311
Huntington Beach, CA
35, joined Aug. 2010
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Fake.
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| 11/2/2013 9:13:13 PM |
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hottestguyon_dh
Hobart, IN
29, joined Jul. 2012
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Fake.
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| 11/2/2013 9:13:17 PM |
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earl425
Houston, TX
60, joined Jun. 2013
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Most times a persons profile is viewed is because of curiosity of forum viewers. Many times men and women gaze on my profile, so I click on their profile and click on their forum post where I usually find they were in a topic I posted in.
Other times is one surfing and considering their options. Most female views I have had usually are women that later email me. So based on that many women look at men's profile and wait for him to react first after seeing their view
I click on my viewers of my profile and if the distance is within 30 miles and then if their profile interest matches mine I will email them. It is a systematic arrangement that can work in its own way
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| 11/2/2013 9:13:50 PM |
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danicalifornia2
Northridge, CA
35, joined Jan. 2013
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I rarely message someone unless I'm curious about them 
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| 11/2/2013 9:13:54 PM |
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hottestguyon_dh
Hobart, IN
29, joined Jul. 2012
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No, if they don't message you it's most likely that they are not interested.
so if a chick sees you and likes you they usually just send the first message?
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| 11/2/2013 9:18:23 PM |
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imagingtech
Powell, OH
50, joined Feb. 2012
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I have viewed a lot of profiles on here and had no interest. I know this is a novel concept for the men; but, I do read profiles. OP how am I gonna know if I am interested enough to message you, if I don't read your profile? Can't tell much by those little profile pics, unless you click on them.
I had a man, that I viewed, message me and asked why I viewed his profile, and did not write him ! He actually was rather aggressive about it.
I guess if you are not actively dating, and here for the forums, a person may feel different. But, I am interested in what's out there
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| 11/2/2013 9:33:50 PM |
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im7
Chapel Hill, NC
50, joined May. 2011
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Women always message me about 2% of the time if they are interested. It must be my skinny body that they want. I got a side of ribs times two. Yea.
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| 11/2/2013 9:50:21 PM |
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curiousity2
Effingham, NH
55, joined Jan. 2011
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Sometimes I view it to get a larger picture to view. If I'm interested I'll wait first to see if they will respond. If I'm very interested I may say hello.
I'd much rather have the guy initiate contact. I like to know I excite you...
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| 11/3/2013 1:22:03 AM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
48, joined Aug. 2013
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Who knows why people look at your profile & don't message. Your guess is as good as mine. I have a lot of men who look at mine on a regular basis and never message.
[Edited 11/3/2013 1:22:20 AM ]
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| 11/3/2013 1:49:26 AM |
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6969foryou
Sacramento, CA
37, joined Nov. 2012
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I think at times people might be afraid to make the first move... They might think the person will see them as disparate....
It's a ego, and pride thing I think...
Or yeah, they might not like what is on the profile and say no way...
I have seen profiles where they spell all in caps, too much slang, or just negitive and I go on to the next profile...
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| 11/3/2013 2:02:04 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Sometimes I have guys view my profile over and over without leaving a message. Are they interested, well I will never know they do not leave a message. I usually block them for awhile. That will teach them.
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| 11/3/2013 3:00:13 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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If they look and do not message, it is possible that they saw something that turned them off or they are hoping you will message.
Very few women will send the first message.
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| 11/3/2013 3:05:50 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
54, joined May. 2013
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It's so hard to be politically correct on a dating site. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, I get mail from guys that I know I wouldn't be a match with so I just don't answer. I've looked at profiles just out of curiosity and not interest.
Good Luck OP
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| 11/3/2013 7:47:12 AM |
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kclady41
Kansas City, MO
46, joined Jun. 2011
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Looking at your profile does not mean they are interested in you or that they want to date you or even care!
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| 11/3/2013 7:49:05 AM |
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kclady41
Kansas City, MO
46, joined Jun. 2011
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OP you look to be around 450 pounds in your photos yet you label yourself as having an "athletic" body type??????
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| 11/3/2013 7:58:43 AM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
50, joined Apr. 2013
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Yup. The same logic applies to men. If they look at my profile but don't message me the message they are sending me is that they are not interested enough in me to engage.
There may be exceptions but I feel like logic dictates that a person who is interested would make an effort.
I agree..BUT..It could be that she is the type who prefers to be approached.
If I like her profile, see similarities, etc., I write to her.
There were times she answered, there were times she deleted it.
I had people viewed my profile from other states, doubt it that they were interested.
Sometimes I view her profile becasue of what she wrote in the forums.
There is really one very easy way to find out her motive. Just write to her.
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| 11/3/2013 8:02:07 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
52, joined Jan. 2013
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it's just curiosity, just looking, they may or may not message.
I will say that I'd view a profile and if he liked mine he'd message, and having the gent message me first (and I tended to not message a man first that's how I am, it is what it is kind of thing) was the desirable outcome of viewing some profiles, some I was just looking, that's all. There was nothing to see there and I moved along....
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| 11/3/2013 8:26:04 AM |
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soflwill
Richmond, VA
55, joined Jan. 2012
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No, if they don't message you it's most likely that they are not interested.
This is kind of what I figured, if they look and don't say anything it is because they aren't interested. Why care, people look at you all day long and don't say anything should it be different here?
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| 11/3/2013 8:31:38 AM |
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lindsey_g3
Dewitt, MI
33, joined Apr. 2013
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I seldom message a man first on here. Sometimes I hope they will take notice that I viewed them...other times I viewed them and wasn't interested.
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| 11/3/2013 5:14:42 PM |
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theodaly
Sacramento, CA
48, joined Jun. 2013
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I looked and messaged you girlie...Hope you are doing well
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| 11/3/2013 5:18:12 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
58, joined Jan. 2010
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No they're just window shopping.
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| 11/3/2013 5:19:24 PM |
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bitsybon
Jacksonville, FL
58, joined Jan. 2010
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Looking at your profile does not mean they are interested in you or that they want to date you or even care!
This too.
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| 11/3/2013 5:32:17 PM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
62, joined Apr. 2011
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I'm still waiting on mine!
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| 11/3/2013 5:36:18 PM |
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rubberbanman
Sherman, TX
41, joined May. 2011
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I seldom message a man first on here.
So you don't message guys first...or seldom do.
Sometimes I hope they will take notice that I viewed them...other times I viewed them and wasn't interested.
Understand that. Only thing is,how's a guy supposed to know which is which?
You look at one profile,HAVE INTEREST,but don't message them.
You look at another profile,DON'T HAVE INTEREST,and also don't message them.
Well since you do the same thing to BOTH profiles,to the ones you have interest in and the ones you don't,how's a guy supposed to know whether to message you or not?
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| 11/3/2013 5:36:42 PM |
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jamaicanchick20
Arlington, TX
23, joined Sep. 2013
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I view people to be nosey ..men and women lol
I only messaged someone I didn't know once...they left a post talking about weed and I messaged them saying "pop the molly I'm sweatin whooo! I just had to do it.
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| 11/3/2013 6:28:23 PM |
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rwhitee87
Raleigh, NC
28, joined Sep. 2013
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I just dont understand one thing. If us guys are interested in a woman and we view them and try to message them, 99% of the time it's like yall dont care to even try and conversate at all. If its looks your concerned about, sorry you all feel that way, but there are good hearted people out there really trying to put effort into meeting new people. The purpose of this site is to meet and chat. There are some good guys out there you know. Giving us guys a chance would be nice and all...That's just my two cents 
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| 11/3/2013 6:48:28 PM |
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lovessmart
Corona, CA
56, joined Feb. 2013
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If girls look at your profile will they ALWAYS message you if they are interested? Or do they sometimes not message you but hope you send them a message?
No, women hardly ever message you unless she see's something that jumps out at her, like a great pic or something unique or what she considers cool in your profile. As women our pictures and profiles get looked at too, but not everyone messages us, which I am grateful for. If I am not what they are looking for, I don't want a lot of messaging to go on between us. It's a waste of time. I have plenty that message me, but I have plenty that don't either. I'm 54, so I don't expect I am a good age for everyone. That's just one of many things that may not be for them. None of us is a good fit for everyone.
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| 11/3/2013 6:53:26 PM |
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lovessmart
Corona, CA
56, joined Feb. 2013
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I just dont understand one thing. If us guys are interested in a woman and we view them and try to message them, 99% of the time it's like yall dont care to even try and conversate at all. If its looks your concerned about, sorry you all feel that way, but there are good hearted people out there really trying to put effort into meeting new people. The purpose of this site is to meet and chat. There are some good guys out there you know. Giving us guys a chance would be nice and all...That's just my two cents
Yes it is, but it is a dating site after all. I don't see that we would be a good fit for dating it makes no sense creating an online relationship and pass up a chance to converse with a real possibility for dating. For example: You are probably a really cool guy, but you are 26 I am 54. I know we won't date, so it's best we talk on the forums. I have plenty of real life friends, and you would be nothing more than an Internet friend. Honestly, not everybody has so much time on their hands that Internet friends are a good idea.
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| 11/3/2013 7:15:30 PM |
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lovessmart
Corona, CA
56, joined Feb. 2013
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A lot of women are chicken shits today too and back out at the last minute. I call them the scaredy-cat types.. I swear sometimes we might be a better place if we convert to Islam vs democracy. Democracies ruin women big time and everyone in society period.
You are so right. It must be awful that we take advantage here of being a whole human being with likes and dislikes and hopes and dreams just like men. How infuriating that we have just as much right to pursue our own happiness. Not only that we get to express what we think. Oh, the horror! I am sure it's so much easier when we were just there for your use. It's must be infuriating that we women, who get to think independently from you, may even decide you are not their cup of tea, so you might even get rejected. Oh My! We should fix that by taking women's free will away. It's so much better when she has no choice but to be what you want her to be, because we all want a partner that has no choice but to be with us, verses one that actually chooses to be with us. We all know many men may not feel they could attract a quality woman just being them, so you definitely should force them instead of improve yourself. 
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