How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?

2/28/2014 8:35:01 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
d_voted Winnipeg, MB 62, joined Sep. 2008	I was wondering if telling someone how fond of her you are would cause them to run for the hills or reciprocate. I am frightened of rejection but worse yet would be abandonment. The risk of 'rejection' seems less harmful than getting involved then getting abandoned. I was thinking that being truthful about my own feelings towards a woman and finding some way of expressing it might be better than just hoping she figures it out. What kind of things would you guys say to a woman if you would like the relationship to lead to something more than friendship? Please realize that responses like, "Want to hop in the sack?" isn't exactly what I was leading up to - (something more serious). Any ideas welcome. D Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/28/2014 9:55:26 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
sillylaugher61 Murrysville, PA 53, joined Aug. 2011	offer to put your cawk in her ear!
2/28/2014 11:16:56 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
d_voted Winnipeg, MB 62, joined Sep. 2008	Quote from netghost56: Show her your nuts. BoogootyBoogootyBoogootyBoogootyBoogootyBoogooty!!! I suspect anyone who I would know well enough to be interested in would have already figured that out. Thanks though. D
3/1/2014 12:14:51 AM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
marriedncheatin Twin Falls, ID 48, joined Jul. 2012	Op its how you tell a gal that matters Never use the "L" to soon and don't act like your to into her...if you do that's when she'll get a weird vibe from you or think your to clingie Right be yourself and hold back lil on the emotions... sure women like emotions from a gut but in time. My best advice would to joke with her playfully. ." You know you just might get lucky with me if your good" make it light hearted so she knows there's a spark. And enjoy the best part of a relationship.. the beginning just go slow so its not one sided on the sharing and interaction [Edited 3/1/2014 12:16:09 AM ]
3/1/2014 2:24:52 AM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
cavie59 Enid, OK 56, joined Feb. 2010	I really do not know. The only thing I do know is that every time in the last 10 years, I have told a woman that I was interested in her, they have ALL just disappeared. Now I keep my mouth shut and say nothing. As for the rejection issues, those no longer bother me. When it happens enough times, you get use to it and come to expect it.
3/1/2014 8:50:53 AM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
luckylouie42 Cedar Grove, WV 73, joined Mar. 2008	diamonds
3/2/2014 1:01:21 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
tasgosa Knob Noster, MO 60, joined Jul. 2013	"I'd be Honored ...to have this dance with you..!!! - What size Ring do you wear..?"
3/7/2014 9:11:08 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
165t5 Porter, OK 38, joined Aug. 2013	I simply tell them that i would like for us to be more exclusive. I think we have good potential and wish to see if we can build a deeper connection. Some fade out some stay to see if there is something more. Those that go i let go. Those that stay get my full attention. Dont take it hard if they run. Better early than after you have invested the time and effort. Time makes it harder.
3/11/2014 5:46:11 AM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
joker_102877 Sparks, NV 38, joined Aug. 2013	In my experience, honesty is always the best policy. Assuming you know the difference between "moving too fast" and not; One day when the time is right, make sure you have her attention, just the two of you, look into her eyes, she'll know you're being genuine at this point, and tell her how important she is and what she means to you. If she receives it well, you'll know it immediately. And if she doesn't, you know that she's not for you and you can cease wasting your time and emotions on her. Rejected or not, now you know, and that is infinitely better than not.
3/13/2014 1:44:22 AM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
d_voted Winnipeg, MB 62, joined Sep. 2008	Thanks guys. It is no longer an issue. She has decided to move to Ottawa. It gave me the opportunity to tell her how special she is without fear of loss. I guess we were just destined to be friends which is kind of cool. The good news is that being around her made me feel like I'm OK as a person (not too broken to be someone's special person). I don't know how that happened, or when but at least now I suspect that a relationship is possible (not very probable but possible) Thanks again for the sincere responses. D
3/13/2014 4:04:39 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
d_voted Winnipeg, MB 62, joined Sep. 2008	Quote from netghost56: That sucks, d. Not really. She is a kind, compassionate, highly sensitive person who is also a very skillful artist with a great intellectual capacity. She is curious and adventurous. She challenged me to a spitting contest (which she lost by ten feet) but I was surprised it was only by ten feet because I can fire a gob a long distance. She is someone who is classy but doesn't mind dumpster diving for 'art' materials for sculpting and collage. She is industrious enough to finish old furniture and bring it back to life. She doesn't eat meat but it isn't some kind of religious fanaticism with her. She doesn't care if I eat meat or pick up road salt and eat it - she just doesn't want it. So all in all our friendship has developed into a mutual fondness because she said she would miss me when she goes. Anyways, she isn't trying to change or fix me. She has NO interest in controlling anyone else and can see through the eyes of a four year old in a split second then transform into a mature responsible woman in a heartbeat. We met out of our mutual interest in Art and it got me thinking that MAYBE someone could share interests and not be too perturbed by my lunacy or the symptoms of the PTSD. D
6/18/2014 3:53:23 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
wrenchspinner45 Waynesville, NC 47, joined Sep. 2013	........ simple...JUST SAY IT!!! mark
6/19/2014 10:33:45 PM	How do you tell a woman you are VERY fond of her?
ron6280a Detroit, MI 53, joined Oct. 2013	I just say " I'm very fond of you " then I ask if she would like to get freaky.

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