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good4u001
Richmond, VA
36, joined Mar. 2013
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profile red flags!::turninghIead::
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| 4/1/2014 9:54:39 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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danicalifornia2
Northridge, CA
35, joined Jan. 2013
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Has kids: Didn't say = red flag 
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| 4/1/2014 10:01:04 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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jamjam777
Van Buren, AR
45, joined Oct. 2013
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None....I don't have red flags till I meet them......I put didn't say or other on about all my answers .......means nothing .........
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| 4/1/2014 10:16:18 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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See the word, want to have fun only
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| 4/1/2014 10:28:01 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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sum12see
Alhambra, CA
31, joined May. 2013
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Looking for friends first and seeing where it will go...
Down to earth...
I'm fun...
I'm a easy going guy...
Just looking...
Free spirited...
They're obviously black/white/Mexican and they have other for race.
The types of pics the post.
If their about them on their pf is a novel.
Just ask me...
I'm a musician.
I'm an artist.
Take this to an intament level... Means he's a gentleman but he just wants sex only
And last but not least if they lie about anything.
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| 4/1/2014 10:31:38 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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jamjam777
Van Buren, AR
45, joined Oct. 2013
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God for bid....if your a Musician.....that's why I don't put it in my profile......
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| 4/1/2014 10:37:51 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
27, joined May. 2012
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The reason why she said musician/artist is a red flag is because it is often code for unemployed. Not saying it's always the case, but...
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| 4/1/2014 10:39:39 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
27, joined May. 2012
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I try really hard to overlook this, but it really skeeves me when men my age and older put in their profile that they are looking for someone as young as 18. That's just wrong.
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| 4/1/2014 10:46:34 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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jamjam777
Van Buren, AR
45, joined Oct. 2013
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Blah....some Musicians work...and play out during the weekends.....but like you said not all.....
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| 4/1/2014 11:24:50 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
49, joined Apr. 2013
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Open minded!
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| 4/1/2014 11:33:21 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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rlm68
Aurora, CO
46, joined Apr. 2010
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when everything on her profile is 100% accurate.
you just gotta toss a red flag at that kind of bullshit 
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| 4/1/2014 11:41:01 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
56, joined Sep. 2012
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When the entire thing is a "glass-half-full" / "walks on the beach" cliche.
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| 4/1/2014 11:43:12 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Liberal, very liberal, socialist
Not Christian, atheist, not religious.
Kids, a hazard of sex, but I may make exceptions.
Unemployed. Women have to pull their own weight if they won't tend the house and cook.
Low income. If they're superior they ought to be making the big bucks.
Not in her age range.
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| 4/2/2014 12:42:18 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
47, joined Sep. 2013
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Read the upper right side box of my profile 
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| 4/2/2014 4:23:43 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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mrmojorisin1964
Mobile, AL
51, joined Feb. 2014
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any "must not" or " must have" is a red flag. A profile should be all about what you have to offer, not what you are looking for
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| 4/2/2014 6:08:23 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
38, joined Feb. 2012
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Republican.
Bible thumper.
The oh poor pitiful me syndrome. Ie, my last girl left me and I just don't want to be hurt anymore.
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| 4/2/2014 7:45:48 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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whitley111689
Houston, TX
25, joined Feb. 2014
online now!
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Ebonics and cursing...
Talking about sex
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| 4/2/2014 7:53:05 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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chrisj1976
Fort Wayne, IN
39, joined Feb. 2013
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Just because your a musician doesn't mean your unemployed! I'm musician and have a full time job. Plus I thought women these days wanted to be independent and they don't need a man to take care of them?
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| 4/2/2014 8:07:59 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
27, joined May. 2012
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any "must not" or " must have" is a red flag. A profile should be all about what you have to offer, not what you are looking for
Men should write about what they have to offer, and women should write about what they are looking for.
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| 4/2/2014 8:12:07 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
27, joined May. 2012
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Just because your a musician doesn't mean your unemployed! I'm musician and have a full time job. Plus I thought women these days wanted to be independent and they don't need a man to take care of them?
No, being a musician/artist doesn't necessarily mean you are unemployed. (I thought I said that already.) However, you wouldn't be hard pressed to find one that is. Have you ever heard the term "starving artist?" Yeah, that's where that comes from.
And no I don't need a man to take care of me, but I would like one that has the ability to help support a family if need be.
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| 4/2/2014 8:18:05 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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whitley111689
Houston, TX
25, joined Feb. 2014
online now!
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No, being a musician/artist doesn't necessarily mean you are unemployed. (I thought I said that already.) However, you wouldn't be hard pressed to find one that is. Have you ever heard the term "starving artist?" Yeah, that's where that comes from.
And no I don't need a man to take care of me, but I would like one that has the ability to help support a family if need be.
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| 4/2/2014 8:31:45 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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mrmojorisin1964
Mobile, AL
51, joined Feb. 2014
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Men should write about what they have to offer, and women should write about what they are looking for.
What a woman says she wants and what she really wants are two totally different things. That is the last thing I need...another girl who is looking for a good guy who has had 3 bad relationships in a row with a badboy. Tell me what you have to offer....I might believe that.
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| 4/2/2014 9:13:11 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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six8brotha
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2013
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If she leans forward with legs cross.
If there is a "$$$" symbol.
If she seems angry about online dating (...yet profile read online now)
If asks for donations/ bill pay/ older white asian men.
If no description.
If no picture.
If pictures are obvious downloads.
If unsure of features: only fat women (i like confident bbw) & gays do that.
If she has over 18 friend but complains of noone to date
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| 4/2/2014 9:59:38 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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kindawonderful
Houston, TX
36, joined Feb. 2014
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Guys who put their kids' pictures online!
Guys thinking that a dating site is Build-a-Chick Workshop.
Woe is me types.
Guys whose profile says that they want a relationship, yet they're status is all about hooking up.
Is late 30s and uses slang/can't spell/bad grammar.
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| 4/2/2014 10:31:24 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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six8brotha
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2013
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Why not post a picture?
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| 4/2/2014 11:23:06 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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bamw32
Jacksonville, FL
24, joined Feb. 2012
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What's a red flag? Going to her profile and reading all about how she wants a good man but seeing nothing but thugs in her friends list and hundreds of gifts. This tells me she's just down for whatever and whomever as long as they can spoil her.
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| 4/2/2014 12:12:19 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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cabanaariefedd
Norcross, GA
26, joined Dec. 2012
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Kids.
Unemployed.
Looking for sex.
Disrespectfulness.
Visual wise:
Friends list nothing but of half naked women.
Ghetto/throwing up gang signs.
Dirty background/clothes.
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| 4/2/2014 12:20:43 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
33, joined Jul. 2012
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Someone who rags on women in his profile...
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| 4/2/2014 12:45:27 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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spliff3
Pasadena, TX
32, joined May. 2013
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No pics or hard to view pics.
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| 4/2/2014 5:44:05 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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First what catches my eye first is their photo. I like clear photo with a nice background.
Not that these are red flags, just things that bother me.
-shirtless pics...yuck.
-naughty girls on their friends list
-photos of them at bars/drinking
-no description or interested listed
-"ask me and I'll tell you"
- too much of I'm "perfect" a girl would be lucky to have me talk
-height below 5'10 (I am 6 foot)
Like the other poster said you shouldn't have red flags until you meet them or maybe they say something over the phone you dislike.
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| 4/2/2014 6:13:28 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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deepchocolate31
Detroit, MI
44, joined May. 2012
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When a woman say she's use to the finer things in life, but in the pictures she take, the room is is a mess with all kinds of junk in the background,
Also when she says "I'm a good womEn, instead of womAn
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| 4/2/2014 6:18:19 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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monkeygetfunky
Sardis, GA
33, joined Apr. 2012
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No red flags here I like nasty slurry b*tches who cheat on hubby
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| 4/2/2014 6:23:14 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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monkeygetfunky
Sardis, GA
33, joined Apr. 2012
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First what catches my eye first is their photo. I like clear photo with a nice background.
Not that these are red flags, just things that bother me.
-shirtless pics...yuck.
-naughty girls on their friends list
-photos of them at bars/drinking
-no description or interested listed
-"ask me and I'll tell you"
- too much of I'm "perfect" a girl would be lucky to have me talk
-height below 5'10 (I am 6 foot)
Like the other poster said you shouldn't have red flags until you meet them or maybe they say something over the phone you dislike.
Shutup you crosseyed b*tch you can't see straight you got slapped around too much
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| 4/2/2014 7:02:58 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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whitley111689
Houston, TX
25, joined Feb. 2014
online now!
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Kids.
Unemployed.
Looking for sex.
Disrespectfulness.
Visual wise:
Friends list nothing but of half naked women.
Ghetto/throwing up gang signs.
Dirty background/clothes.
Girl sometimes I swear you my sister from another mister!! Lol....we always agree!!!
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| 4/3/2014 5:48:50 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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There are about half a dozen, however I will not list them.
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| 4/3/2014 7:47:05 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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mrmojorisin1964
Mobile, AL
51, joined Feb. 2014
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Guys who put their kids' pictures online!
Guys thinking that a dating site is Build-a-Chick Workshop.
Woe is me types.
Guys whose profile says that they want a relationship, yet they're status is all about hooking up.
Is late 30s and uses slang/can't spell/bad grammar.
women with no pics who post stupid quotes is a huge red flag.
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| 4/3/2014 8:32:29 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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mydnytsun
Odessa, TX
54, joined Mar. 2012
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Like To Read from You, Cos, EmaiL Address, What You Do For Living?  Who Does That In First Few Messages...
Smdh.... Get Outta Here With All That Bull!!!!! I'm No Sucker, Fool Or Idiot
 Smfh
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| 4/3/2014 9:44:30 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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six8brotha
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2013
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Its funny how many women on here have such high standards but have 2or more children from different daddies. 
Or
Have spread eagle or booty shots , yet complain in the "about me" section about being treated less than ladylike. #GTFOH. 
Or
Self employed, as if that didn't mean stripper/ hooker. #donations?
  
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| 4/4/2014 11:03:17 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
47, joined Oct. 2011
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Grown men looking for an 18 year old.
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| 4/5/2014 12:29:12 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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baileybug32
Sacramento, CA
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Looking for friends! Wtf? Its a dating site dumbass! 
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| 4/5/2014 12:31:19 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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baileybug32
Sacramento, CA
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Why not post a picture?
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| 4/5/2014 2:59:48 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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k7702
Logan, UT
27, joined Mar. 2014
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When ur stupid enough to believe everything they write.....
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| 4/5/2014 3:07:37 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Profession; Social Worker. Red flags across the board.
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| 4/5/2014 4:08:38 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013
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I love this thread OP. Red flags in profiles are the flowing;
Bragging
Talking about sex
Complaining about the past
Unfriendly statements
When the person only states what he wants and says nothing about what he has to offer.
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| 4/5/2014 11:14:47 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Actual profile...
My halo is dented! Probably should be repossessed in fact. It's complicated!!! Im putting it out there---married, but not getting the attention I need. Material things don't take the place of romance and affection. I'm a working girl who likes to go out and have fun. I'm a social butterfly and not afraid to strike up a conversation. I love my friends dearly, and looking for a great guy to hang out with, have fun with, and who'll shower me with affection.....lots of it. Friendship is very important. I'm not afraid to travel to hang out with the right guy after we get to know each other. I'm ready to start over with someone who can do "all of the above"...I love to laugh and smile...
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| 4/5/2014 11:21:09 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
49, joined Jun. 2013
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^^^^ What a fake.
I have received several cut & paste identical profiles from at least 10 different men. Pathetic.
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| 4/5/2014 11:37:30 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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monkeygetfunky
Sardis, GA
33, joined Apr. 2012
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cause they are married 98% of the time! Or fugly.. js.
Aren't you the best lookin g milf?
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| 4/5/2014 11:48:39 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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soflwill
West Palm Beach, FL
54, joined Jan. 2012
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When they mention a level of income or make other statements about the man needing to be well off. Friends first, or not looking for a relationship, lots of pictures with them holding a drink, and the good old fish face. Also when they admit that the age they put on their profile isn't true, they're already admitting that they lie.
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| 4/5/2014 12:05:34 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
62, joined Apr. 2011
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^^^^ What a fake.
I have received several cut & paste identical profiles from at least 10 different men. Pathetic.
I'll be happy to send you the info on the profile, and you can look at it yourself. I'll put it in your mailbox.
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| 4/5/2014 12:15:26 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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ladypat81
Baltimore, MD
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Kids, smoking, looks like all the military guys are fake on here.
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| 4/5/2014 12:27:42 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
49, joined Jun. 2013
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I'll be happy to send you the info on the profile, and you can look at it yourself. I'll put it in your mailbox.
Please accept my sincere apologies. "^^^^ Fake" was meant for the person who sent you the message. I am sorry if you did not know that. It is my fault for not saying "^^^^ Fake message."
I enjoy your posts and I think you are a very truthful person. This was a major mixup on my behalf.
So sorry for the mixup. 
[Edited 4/5/2014 12:28:22 PM ]
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| 4/5/2014 12:45:46 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
27, joined May. 2012
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Profession; Social Worker. Red flags across the board.
Why's that? I'm going to school to be a social worker, and Idk why you see social worker as a red flag...
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| 4/5/2014 2:02:55 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Profession; Social Worker. Red flags across the board.
Why's that? I'm going to school to be a social worker, and Idk why you see social worker as a red flag...
Because they like study me like a college project then try and tell me all the things wrong with me and expect me to change. Like that is going to work.
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| 4/5/2014 2:10:13 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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thebigwon
Fleming Island, FL
32, joined Feb. 2014
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"me ex" anything. Dated one girl who would not shut up about her ex. Obviously, you aren't over him. Also, "looking for long term relationship". Don't put that stuff on your profile. It will scare most guys off and attract the players.
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| 4/5/2014 6:00:51 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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phil22068
Mechanicsburg, PA
47, joined Jan. 2013
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Any negativity in a profile. Don't message me if xyz, all the men on here are losers, stop wasting my time with xyz. It makes it appear that you are impatient and inflexible. Ladies rather than being negative and saying what you don't want, rephrase it into what you do want. Instead of "don't message me if you smoke," say "I'm looking for a non smoker." And please stop with the text speak. It makes you look uneducated and unpolished.
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| 4/6/2014 7:15:37 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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sandyclinton
York, PA
38, joined Feb. 2014
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No picture on pf
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| 4/6/2014 8:19:17 AM |
Richmond, VA |
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six8brotha
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2013
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Any negativity in a profile. Don't message me if xyz, all the men on here are losers, stop wasting my time with xyz. It makes it appear that you are impatient and inflexible. Ladies rather than being negative and saying what you don't want, rephrase it into what you do want. Instead of "don't message me if you smoke," say "I'm looking for a non smoker." And please stop with the text speak. It makes you look uneducated and unpolished.
Poignant. Well stated. Point taken. Hopefully contagious
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| 4/6/2014 12:20:48 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
49, joined Jun. 2013
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seeking a man 18 to 60.lmao
This.
There are also a lot of men who are seeking women 18 to 90. I instantly delete them.
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| 4/6/2014 4:46:30 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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gman588
Rosedale, MD
56, joined Mar. 2014
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Republican.
Bible thumper.
The oh poor pitiful me syndrome. Ie, my last girl left me and I just don't want to be hurt anymore.
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| 4/6/2014 5:59:14 PM |
Richmond, VA |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
48, joined Jun. 2013
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I put looking for friends because gotta start with friendship and how long I've been online I approach with no expectations, my personal opinion this site is a joke for dating, pof is better this site has features it don't that would make it better however I think those features are why this site is invested with spam bots and cam girls
Oh crap. Didn't know that.
I'm reluctant to give out my phone number to someone I'm chatting with on the internet. I'd rather meet in person and then think about exchanging numbers. So while chatting with someone yesterday, I offered to meet them for coffee today. He said he'd rather talk first and said that there were a lot of phonies, fake and scammers on this site. "Oh, okay..but I'm real". I gave him my Skype name and said how about 8:30.
The guy probably think that I'm some cam girl now. 
IDK...I never had problems meeting people off of POF. Didn't realize things were different over here.
thanks for the heads up.
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