Littleton, CO

9/17/2014 4:38:23 PM
saralouise Littleton, CO 40, joined Aug. 2014	Please tell me what I am doing wrong. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
9/17/2014 4:47:00 PM	Littleton, CO
ccherrypie Montgomery, AL 33, joined Jul. 2014	Be yourself and you will be alright.
9/17/2014 4:51:55 PM	Littleton, CO
majic_1 Broomfield, CO 57, joined Dec. 2010	Your age range is pretty tight... I would suggest opening it up some on both sides of yours. Your profile has very little in it that would give a guy enough to write you a nice intro email so you will probably get a lot of "hi" notes and nothing more. If you are really just here for forums it doesn't matter what you write. If you are really looking to date then lose that first line. It will have nothing to do with you playing in the forums. Just looked at your forum posts. Or should I say post. Good luck to you. [Edited 9/17/2014 4:53:06 PM ]
9/17/2014 4:57:18 PM	Littleton, CO
saralouise Littleton, CO 40, joined Aug. 2014	Thanks. I can't change ages but I can fix the body.
9/17/2014 5:33:12 PM	Littleton, CO
majic_1 Broomfield, CO 57, joined Dec. 2010	Quote from saralouise: Thanks. I can't change ages but I can fix the body. Can't or won't?
9/17/2014 5:47:38 PM	Littleton, CO
river_hagg Myrtle Beach, SC 95, joined Jul. 2014	Edit profile>>>>click on each indidual age>>>>opens menu>>>>choose age>>>>>repeat on other>>>>hit save update at bottom of screen.
9/17/2014 5:54:59 PM	Littleton, CO
saralouise Littleton, CO 40, joined Aug. 2014	Sorry. I meant to say won't change ages.
9/17/2014 6:06:53 PM	Littleton, CO
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	the indoor incandescent lighting in your current profile pic is very harsh, creates some shadows that are not flattering. the only other "portrait shot" you have is blurry, however the lighting is softer and friendlier I, too, am curious to know why you won't even be open to the idea of dating someone a year younger? while we can have preferences, and there's nothing wrong with preferences, what about the few tolerable exceptions. I agree, that most of the time I PREFER an older guy, but I have dated two guys a few years younger than me, because they fit the bill. you're not REQUIRED to respond to EVERY message you get, if the younger guy is simply too immature or too much of what you're not interested in. just, seems odd I guess. I do agree as well that your bio is too short to get any clear idea as to who you are, your lifestyle, your sense of humor. With a lengthier bio and a little bit more of a description, that will start to come out.
9/17/2014 6:42:30 PM	Littleton, CO
ron10000 Green Bay, WI 68, joined Oct. 2008 online now!	I agree with the other comments. You could easily go from 38 to 67 in my opinion. BTW, you are very pretty so will likely get messages no matter what you say. The quality of messages should be better if you give more to go on. Good luck.
9/17/2014 7:08:15 PM	Littleton, CO
josfsd06 Sioux Falls, SD 56, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from saralouise: Sorry. I meant to say won't change ages. If you refuse to take the advice you asked for, why did you ask for it? My advice; Leave your profile the way you have it. It's already getting you what you deserve.
9/17/2014 7:15:29 PM	Littleton, CO
ron10000 Green Bay, WI 68, joined Oct. 2008 online now!	Jos, I think she has a right to her age preference. Even if I don't like it, it is a personal thing!
9/17/2014 8:28:33 PM	Littleton, CO
my2sunshine Pulaski, NY 49, joined Apr. 2013	Smoke occasionally? Is this every day? 420 friendly? I don't get this ...either you do or you don't! You already have one hottie that likes shirtless selfies. How many do you need? If you are not actively chatting you should delete him as a friend or just hide him. Quality men don't want to be the next one in line. Best wishes.
9/17/2014 9:01:18 PM	Littleton, CO
saralouise Littleton, CO 40, joined Aug. 2014	Sully is a real friend. But I understand what you mean. I will tell him that I have to delete him. I only smoke a few cigs a day. So I say sometimes. Do you think that I should say yes to smoking? I am very close to not smoking anymore. I am turning 40 in a month so I think 38 is young enough for me. I will take some new photos and post this weekend. Is it ok to have the pic of my dog? She is a huge part of my life since I chose not to have children. Thank you all for the advice. It has really helped me.
9/17/2014 9:11:15 PM	Littleton, CO
river_hagg Myrtle Beach, SC 95, joined Jul. 2014	Hide him. Its under the friends button across the top Yes to smoking. Better yet, quit. I did. If you're not making out with the dog in the pic (I.e.: getting licked in the mouth) the pic should be ok.
9/17/2014 9:12:20 PM	Littleton, CO
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	you can "hide" your friends so they're only visible to you most people generally "suggest" going down as many years as you're willing to go up. it is totally your call, I'm not telling you you HAVE to change, but it's silly how a small thing like that will be the one thing that will deter someone, they'll either read into it as a "sugar daddy" or a "cradle robber" or just somebody who's closed minded. online dating is harsh. people will make assumptions unless there's not a clear saying of one thing or another I would put your smoking as yes. feel free to explain you're trying to quit. this too is a big factor for many people.
9/17/2014 9:52:31 PM	Littleton, CO
saralouise Littleton, CO 40, joined Aug. 2014	Ok, it sounds like I have a lot of work to do this weekend. I might just delete everything and start all over. You all helped me out a great deal. Thanks for all of your help!
9/17/2014 10:06:31 PM	Littleton, CO
river_hagg Myrtle Beach, SC 95, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from ron10000: Jos, I think she has a right to her age preference. Even if I don't like it, it is a personal thing! QFT
9/17/2014 10:16:24 PM	Littleton, CO
saralouise Littleton, CO 40, joined Aug. 2014	I fixed everything but the pics. Fix them later. Thanks!
9/17/2014 10:30:26 PM	Littleton, CO
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	progress, but still can elaborate more. first and foremost, you need paragraphs, you kind of jump around. group like ideas, separate each paragraph with a full line space, similar to how I've formatted this post. take your dog to mountains - is it just 30 minute walks, are they all day hikes, are the sunrise/sunset jogs? describe it a bit. your opening line is vague. first of all, it's not a very interesting "introduction". those who are here to find someone for serious dating/eventual long term, will actually read a profile, all the way to the end. those who are here just for hookups/casual flings most likely won't, and will be sending every female within a certain distance of their location the same basic vulgar message. nothing you say in your bio is going to deter much of this. that's what the block button or delete button is for in your inbox. no need to say anything negative about NOT wanting hookups, etc. just state you're looking to date with serious intents of finding someone to spend forever with. I would group that with the mention of not minding kids, and not minding if someone is 420 friendly, they all kind of go together.
9/17/2014 11:04:25 PM	Littleton, CO
my2sunshine Pulaski, NY 49, joined Apr. 2013	Quote from saralouise: Sully is a real friend. But I understand what you mean. I will tell him that I have to delete him. I only smoke a few cigs a day. So I say sometimes. Do you think that I should say yes to smoking? I am very close to not smoking anymore. I am turning 40 in a month so I think 38 is young enough for me. I will take some new photos and post this weekend. Is it ok to have the pic of my dog? She is a huge part of my life since I chose not to have children. Thank you all for the advice. It has really helped me. Hide the friend and all future friends. Dog pictures fine. I have a friend that has a few dogs instead of children. She is a dock jumping Mom instead of a soccer Mom!
9/17/2014 11:08:36 PM	Littleton, CO
unclarry Cincinnati, OH 58, joined Oct. 2010	I am looking for someone special to spend life with. I am a good person. I spend lots of time with my dog, taking her to different mtns and lakes. Love road trips and finding new places to visit. I enjoy watching cooking shows, Bones, cartoons, and Judge Judy. I plant a variety of hot peppers every year to make special salsas. I love spicy food.Enjoy spending time with my family and friends. I own my own condo but do have a roommate. I do smoke some but trying to quit. I am down to 5 cigs a day. As for weed, I do not smoke it anymore but don't mind if you do. I rarely drink and do not use drugs. If you want to know more just let me know. I do not need a jealous man or a bar fly. Kids are fine as long as they are on track. To start with, try this... also add more likes.
9/18/2014 1:01:47 AM	Littleton, CO
josfsd06 Sioux Falls, SD 56, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from ron10000: Jos, I think she has a right to her age preference. Even if I don't like it, it is a personal thing! Indeed. She, and everyone else, has a right to have whatever profile they want. I'm just baffled by people who ask for a profile review when they're satisfied with what they have.
9/18/2014 9:58:21 AM	Littleton, CO
msquared14 Littleton, CO 44, joined Jul. 2014	I think knowing what you want and making your profile accurate about you is the best way to go. As far as age range, that's really your personal preference. I don't find much in common with women with more than a 7-year age difference on either side. But again, entirely your call. I'm of the opinion that guys aren't interested in your dog. They get interested because of you. More pics of you in various settings would improve your chances. Different lighting and depth gives the viewer a chance to see you more. What's your burning passion? What makes you different and unique, yet sane and normal. It's tough for some people to find that balance. Find yours. Bon chance! [Edited 9/18/2014 9:59:00 AM ]
9/19/2014 9:19:44 PM	Littleton, CO
sblavoie Williamsport, PA 43, joined Oct. 2013	Yes I would definitely say be proud of who you are, think we all hope to find that connection - but perhaps that shouldn't be your opening. I would focus on what you enjoy, reading, outdoors, gardening, ect. You can also elaborate on your emotional and spiritual passions, how you invest your "you time" . That make sense? I hope so :o)

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