| 12/9/2014 7:59:54 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Okay I'm curious to see what people think of me.....
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| 12/9/2014 8:04:29 PM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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The only thing I'd say is with the revealing pictures it's comes across as you are looking for flings and if you don't have time for you how do you find time for someone else?
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| 12/9/2014 8:06:44 PM |
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doubletrouble77
Crete, IL
38, joined May. 2011
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Well the pictures are terrible. Showing a pic of u in your underwear shows desperation. Smh
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| 12/9/2014 8:22:16 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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Okay I'm curious to see what people think of me.....
We don't know you, but the torso shot tells us a lot.
Are you getting the results you wanted?
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| 12/9/2014 8:39:07 PM |
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sweetpearlgem
New York, NY
47, joined Jul. 2014
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Hello,
I looked over your profile and saw some conflicting things in it that can be misinterpreted. Just informing you as an older woman and as friend.
1. Remember- Less is more!
If you are looking to attract someone (male or female) - Be yourself! Let your natural beauty shine through. Remove your last two pics.
2. Positive Image - great that mention being a mom. Laying your cards on the table so to speak is good it avoids problems later. (Keep this)
The last two photos show you in a different light but not in a positive one. It can be perceived by others as you being an easy woman or easy target even though you are not one. It can draw the wrong type of personality to you for the wrong reasons.
3. Goals - stating your goals is great it shows improvement and willingness to change and aspire for a better future and stability for you and the ones you care about.
4. You should state what qualities you are looking for in a potential partner.
The last two photos can undermine your search for someone decent. They may not take you seriously if even though you say you want a serious relationship with someone. Demand the respect for yourself that you deserve.
I wish you luck and success in your search and much happiness in the future. 
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| 12/9/2014 8:39:13 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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The only thing I'd say is with the revealing pictures it's comes across as you are looking for flings and if you don't have time for you how do you find time for someone else?
I wanted to post pictures that were revealing enough to grab your attention. A girl once said she was attracted to those with nice legs and my pics didn't show enough. I can change the "free time" issue though. It only feels like there is not enough time because I am a single mother. I have met some nice people though, one in paticular I really hope to meet.
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| 12/9/2014 8:42:39 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Thank you sweetpearlgem for the positive feedback 
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| 12/9/2014 8:49:17 PM |
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sweetpearlgem
New York, NY
47, joined Jul. 2014
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You are very welcome. I am happy to help anytime.
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| 12/9/2014 9:02:16 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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so i'm in your age range, even though i'm not seeking a lady, if i was, i would overlook you. at this point in the game, i don't WANT to see all your goods. because if you'll post them for all to see, i'm nothing special.
also, your physical attributes will become more attractive, as i take my time getting to know you and find your personality attractive. at this point, it looks tasteless and yucky. (i say the same thing to a guy who posts all sorts of scantily clad selfies).
either way, the two pics need to go. you need to add more pics of you doing something. your selfies are dark, colorless, and really quite boring. you are pretty, i'm not saying that, i'm saying your photos ain't doing you justice.
your bio is too short to be very effective. you have a child- but how old? how busy are you with raising a child and going back to school, to have time to date and build a relationship?
by describing some of the other things you enjoy to do with your time, that will show prospects that you DO have time to date/build a relationship.
your age range has me scratching my head just a little bit. i just don't see an 18 year old girl, with or without a child of her own, being able to connect to you, a 27 year old with a child and life pretty well figured out. maybe that's just me, but i would think 21 would be a more logical bottom end
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| 12/9/2014 9:14:38 PM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
37, joined Apr. 2014
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the biography could be expanded, and it'd be great to change your cover pic with a deeper smile. best wishes
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| 12/9/2014 9:16:38 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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I am a mother of two children. Their information is private to me so if you want to know more about them, you'll have to get to know me. I am home most days and not working with the best technology so maybe I could add other pics and keep the other two for private chat?
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| 12/9/2014 9:23:20 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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Their information is private to me
Nobody is asking for their social security numbers, just what age range. Diapers? Teens? Some people may want to avoid one or the other, and some search for someone with kids with similar ages.
I'd be interested to see what you come up with using clearer less tacky photos and a bit more description. By the way, you can show legs with a well done full length shot. Disembodied parts are just weird.
Have you contacted 'the one' you want to meet yet?
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| 12/9/2014 9:24:14 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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i'm not asking for their social security numbers. but saying how old they are, or even saying they're "infants, in grade school, teenagers, etc" gives your viewer what she's in for. that's only fair.
ETA: forums! get out of my head!!!
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| 12/9/2014 9:31:07 PM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2014
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I'm just sitting waiting for you ladies to start kissing or something. 
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| 12/9/2014 9:41:12 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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We talk often to answer your question and ok I understand more about why it would be good to post their ages...thanks to all on the feedback, it's very helpful. More changes on my profile to come. 
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| 12/9/2014 9:45:21 PM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
37, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm just sitting waiting for you ladies to start kissing or something.
Forums airmailed me many kisses before 
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| 12/9/2014 9:48:17 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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here's how a new prospect will view your "friends"
i see five other "scantily clad" ladies advertising their "services" basically with their profile ...
i conclusively will determine that you too are looking to "sell yourself" for what your body is. that, coupled with nearly NO information in your bio about you.
i'll pass you by, if i'm not looking for anything other than a little slap and tickle.
if those "friends" are truly people you're chatting with, you can "hide" them from your viewers, but they're still visible to you.
home. account. friends. scroll down and hide them.
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| 12/9/2014 9:58:20 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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ETA: forums! get out of my head!!!
I have taught you well, young Jedi.
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| 12/9/2014 10:09:49 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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bacon. check.
wine. check.
witty sarcastic commentary. check.
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| 12/9/2014 10:10:59 PM |
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dodge_ram_it04
Lewis Center, OH
35, joined Apr. 2014
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Bacon?!? Yes please
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| 12/9/2014 10:13:19 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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we dont share
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| 12/9/2014 10:13:32 PM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
37, joined Apr. 2014
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she likes bacon grease massages 
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| 12/9/2014 10:16:02 PM |
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dodge_ram_it04
Lewis Center, OH
35, joined Apr. 2014
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we dont share
We ain't you nice
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| 12/9/2014 10:17:48 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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nobody ever said i was nice. just said i don't share my bacon
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| 12/9/2014 10:19:57 PM |
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dodge_ram_it04
Lewis Center, OH
35, joined Apr. 2014
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Fine... I'll bring my bacon
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| 12/9/2014 10:27:46 PM |
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elkgroveca
Elk Grove, CA
71, joined May. 2012
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One of the first things I think most women would ask you is.
What is your sexual orientation? Are you a lesbian or a by-sexual?
You should clear this up in your profile.
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| 12/9/2014 10:36:39 PM |
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joe182121
Bourbonnais, IL
63, joined Aug. 2013
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You need to hide your friends and your gifts, and that just takes a minute to do.
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| 12/9/2014 11:23:46 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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You need to hide your friends and your gifts, and that just takes a minute to do.
What benefits do you gain by hiding your gifts? just curious
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| 12/9/2014 11:30:04 PM |
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ron10000
Green Bay, WI
68, joined Oct. 2008
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What benefits do you gain by hiding your gifts? just curious
Even if your friends are hidden, the display of gifts tells guys that there is tons of competition.
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| 12/9/2014 11:30:44 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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(or women....)
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| 12/9/2014 11:31:41 PM |
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picassotrigger
Pittsburgh, PA
59, joined Mar. 2014
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What benefits do you gain by hiding your gifts? just curious
The appearance of modesty.
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| 12/9/2014 11:33:07 PM |
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ron10000
Green Bay, WI
68, joined Oct. 2008
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(or women....)
Oh crap, I missed that! Thanks for trying to keep my comments relevant. 
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| 12/9/2014 11:55:20 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Ok changes have been set in place...what do we think now?
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| 12/10/2014 12:40:12 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
49, joined Apr. 2013
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Since no one has mentioned it...balance the age range. If your willing to go down 9 years to 18 then go up to 36! Hell I really think you should stay away from anyone under 21 so 24-30 is more plausible. As a parent I don't want my 18 year old son or daughter being schooled by a 27 year old. If you can't imagine your daughter at 16 years old having sex with a 25 year old then maybe you should be handling your business more age appropriate.
As previously stated you should address the issue of your orientation. Bi sexual or lesbian? I'm guessing you haven't addressed it because it will limit your opportunity for a date. You come out as bi and the lesbian community won't consider you dating material....straight men will be confused and wanting you to bring home Candy for them to play with together. So many consequences which you will learn.
Best wishes.
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| 12/10/2014 12:52:42 AM |
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joe182121
Bourbonnais, IL
63, joined Aug. 2013
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Oh crap, I missed that! Thanks for trying to keep my comments relevant.
That's okay Ron. I know you got my back..
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| 12/10/2014 5:55:45 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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I wanted to post pictures that were revealing enough to grab your attention. A girl once said she was attracted to those with nice legs and my pics didn't show enough. I can change the "free time" issue though. It only feels like there is not enough time because I am a single mother. I have met some nice people though, one in paticular I really hope to meet.
Question for you. Do you really want to attract a person because of your figure?
If you do then it's fine. If you want to attract someone based on who you are think about what you a reflecting.
I see a man showing everything to everyone it imediately puts me off. I'm more interested in who he is than what he has got.
So do you think that to attract someone to who you are is more important than what you look like with your clothes off?
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| 12/10/2014 7:58:07 AM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Yes that's why I have changed my profile...did you look at it since being updated?
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| 12/10/2014 8:07:40 AM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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@ my2sunshine
I am currently freshman status in college and do not want to dimiss younger girls who may have the same goals as me. Obviously not every 18 year old can handle children but to those who can I am more attracted to girls who can keep up with me then those too much older then me. It's just my personal opinion.
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| 12/10/2014 8:08:24 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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I have now,
For the most part I liked your write up. The pictures, still give the body image impression rather than the mind. But each to to their own they are more tasteful.
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| 12/10/2014 8:21:02 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
49, joined Apr. 2013
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@ my2sunshine
I am currently freshman status in college and do not want to dimiss younger girls who may have the same goals as me. Obviously not every 18 year old can handle children but to those who can I am more attracted to girls who can keep up with me then those too much older then me. It's just my personal opinion.
Yeah right...mother of two small children...quits job and claims to be stay at home mommy...then claims to be going back to school as freshman to be opthamologist....if I believe all that I got a hole in my head! You do know it takes 4 years to get your BS degree then another 4 for medical school and internship? How you going to do all that staying at home?
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| 12/10/2014 8:22:38 AM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Sorry I was looking for pics outside of the house instead of selfies...I wanted to show things I love to do. I am kinda out there like that in real life...not really a whole lot of shame in my game, even right after having a baby.
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| 12/10/2014 8:24:02 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
49, joined Apr. 2013
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I have never seen a profile with an interest in suicide! What is up with that OP?
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| 12/10/2014 8:25:28 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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Sunshine I think it's meant to be one word as in pin up girls.
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| 12/10/2014 8:27:40 AM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Believe what you want I am at home with my kids until I can get into school. I am aware how long it takes. But then what have I been doing with the last ten years of my life? Obviously I won't be home as much when I do. I am having issues with a grant that I am waiting for. I can not wait to be able to change not just my life but my childrens.
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| 12/10/2014 8:31:04 AM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Sunshine I think it's meant to be one word as in pin up girls.
Ahh yes I will change it to one word. I love what the suicide girls stand for. That one can be expressive with art...even if your the canvas.
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| 12/10/2014 1:01:54 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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the fact that your pictures are outdoors, is better.
BUT. the two beach pictures you have, are not flattering poses. i'm not here to "shame" you, all i'm saying is, i still can't see YOU. crunched over with your back to the camera building a sand castle, doesn't show me you. except your backside, and unfortunately for women, our gut pulled down by gravity (itd be an unflattering pose for a guy, too)
your photo caption on "after baby body" one, the cropped photo, says it all with your "eh" description. if you're not proud of how you look, or it's an accurate depiction of how you look now, don't post it. if your baby is 2, that photo is 2 years old (if it wasn't after your first kid). only post current pics. pics of how you look today. (while i do have a few photos that are a couple years old on my profile, i STILL look exactly like that)
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| 12/10/2014 1:19:23 PM |
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lthomas199024
Montreal, QC
24, joined Nov. 2014
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 Op, here are a few tips from me...
after looking at your profile from start to finish, I would suggest:
1. Describe yourself as of WHO you are.
2. Men like to know a little bit about you work wise so add that.
3. Hobbies, what do you like to do when you're not busy at home with your kids? Add that and...
4. Add pictures of yourself in the midst of doing some of those things. I think this could help you but could be wrong!
Also, I didn't enjoy looking at the one picture of you sitting on the bench, it is really blurry. I was scrunching my eyes and still couldn't really tell if that was you. I would suggest to get rid of all the "half" of pictures.
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| 12/10/2014 5:05:40 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Please know I do not care to attract boys\men so if my profile repels them, perfect. 
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| 12/10/2014 5:11:59 PM |
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luvs2cuddle27
Flint, MI
28, joined Nov. 2014
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the fact that your pictures are outdoors, is better.
BUT. the two beach pictures you have, are not flattering poses. i'm not here to "shame" you, all i'm saying is, i still can't see YOU. crunched over with your back to the camera building a sand castle, doesn't show me you. except your backside, and unfortunately for women, our gut pulled down by gravity (itd be an unflattering pose for a guy, too)
your photo caption on "after baby body" one, the cropped photo, says it all with your "eh" description. if you're not proud of how you look, or it's an accurate depiction of how you look now, don't post it. if your baby is 2, that photo is 2 years old (if it wasn't after your first kid). only post current pics. pics of how you look today. (while i do have a few photos that are a couple years old
on my profile, i STILL look exactly like that)
Exactly. The point of the picture is that I am making sandcastles. I like the beach and that is what I am tring to depict. Other pictures show what I look like. I'm proud of the weight I lost am not ashamed it.
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| 12/10/2014 5:21:47 PM |
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lthomas199024
Montreal, QC
24, joined Nov. 2014
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Please know I do not care to attract boys\men so if my profile repels them, perfect.
I was saying that from a man's point of view, yeah... but I think maybe even from a lady's point of view, we would want to see more of that in a profile... unless you want to just leave your profile the way it is because you're getting the results you want then I would suggest... oh, you know what? Forget it, your profile is perfect for this site.
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