1/9/2015 8:37:39 PM |
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bluemoon0_0
Kissimmee, FL
26, joined Apr. 2014
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Yes, it does.. specially when the person is real
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1/9/2015 8:50:02 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Never worked for me. You can't please a woman who refuses to be pleased.
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1/9/2015 8:57:18 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
48, joined Apr. 2013
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I like to be pleased!
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1/9/2015 9:03:14 PM |
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boyinneed
Miami, FL
50, joined Aug. 2011
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No...
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1/9/2015 9:08:10 PM |
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sotuhernbelle
Memphis, TN
59, joined Oct. 2012
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I think it works, if two people care about each other, romance is a good thing..
it can add to a relationship..
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1/9/2015 9:25:37 PM |
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boomboom33030
Homestead, FL
48, joined Dec. 2014
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It sure helps and I like romantic of course and like giving it as well. aww you romantic you
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1/9/2015 11:18:05 PM |
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goodwomanlost
Jacksonville, FL
52, joined Feb. 2013
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Women like to be courted and romanced. No doubt about it.
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1/10/2015 9:09:40 AM |
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geo1031
Riverview, FL
63, joined Feb. 2010
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If the other persons not into you,then No..
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1/10/2015 9:31:20 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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Different approaches work
on different prey.
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1/10/2015 9:32:43 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
40, joined Jan. 2014
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Different approaches work
on different prey.
Romantic
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1/10/2015 9:37:20 AM |
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pk0357
Eastlake, OH
38, joined Jan. 2010
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Just say or do what's truly in your heart. You can't fake that and she will appreciate it.
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1/10/2015 11:15:26 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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Romantic
In your case Luv,
one could only pray.
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1/10/2015 11:18:03 AM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes, works for me
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1/10/2015 1:37:03 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from bluemoon0_0:
Yes, it does.. specially when the person is real
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exactly! the only time men tried to romance me they were so fake it showed. No thank you. Just be yourself.
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1/10/2015 5:35:30 PM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
40, joined Jan. 2014
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In your case Luv,
one could only pray.
How good are your knees?
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1/10/2015 6:40:41 PM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Being romantic, being a gentleman, being intelligent and having a sense a humor works for me!
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1/11/2015 11:29:12 AM |
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tammycloud46
Plant City, FL
47, joined Nov. 2014
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I LOVE men who know how to be romantic. Like a love note saying how much he loves u or a text saying cant wait to see tonigh my sweet love. Romance only works if the man is true about it. Most men have no clue what romance is or how to do it. Its a lost art for sure. But just saying hay bby u want to f**k is NOT romantic at all.
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1/12/2015 8:21:53 AM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Romance works on me only because there isn't many men that still do those small cute gestures.
So you're basically stating that all a guy has to do is appear to be romantic and he's getting the p*ssy. BTW men rarely do these small cute gestures because overtime women have started to reject them so why put in the effort.
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1/12/2015 9:03:57 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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Balance it out.....
My ex was a very giving person, always bought me things....plus he would make up little notes.
That didn't work with me....
I believe there should be a balance.
Make a women want you....
Don't do much all the time...
And not too soon either.
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1/12/2015 1:45:39 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - If you ever were romantic, you would already know the answer to your question. Asking the question advertises the fact that you never are romantic.
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1/12/2015 3:26:12 PM |
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dezweather
Phoenix, AZ
42, joined Oct. 2014
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Romance is good. Putting her on a pedestal isn't.
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1/12/2015 3:30:00 PM |
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ttrockz55
Wickenburg, AZ
56, joined Nov. 2013
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I like it.
that text that says hey beautiful...an unexpected note in the mail...a random wildflower...even a wink and a smile from across the room when he knows I'm watching him...its the small gestures that do it for me...
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1/12/2015 3:55:28 PM |
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freckleyez
Perrysburg, OH
34, joined Oct. 2014
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I like it.
that text that says hey beautiful...an unexpected note in the mail...a random wildflower...even a wink and a smile from across the room when he knows I'm watching him...its the small gestures that do it for me...
This All day every day!!! Doesn't have to be a grand gesture just the small things
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1/13/2015 1:16:36 AM |
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2hot2eat
Desert Hot Springs, CA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Yes!
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1/13/2015 1:21:04 AM |
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2hot2eat
Desert Hot Springs, CA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Yes
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1/13/2015 2:30:17 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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Being romantic ONLY works if the woman likes you in the first place. If she does not find you appealing, being romantic is seen as creepy and needy.
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1/13/2015 5:43:29 PM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
59, joined Jun. 2012
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I'm romantic and appreciate romantic men to a point..I don't care for mushy..men who pour their hearts out via a corny poem with tears in their eyes is too mushy for me..they tend to be stage 5 clingers..I don't do well with clingers..a man that sets the mood for a romantic date, smells good, dressed nice, good music playing, candle light..that's all good...
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1/13/2015 5:54:36 PM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Being romantic ONLY works if the woman likes you in the first place. If she does not find you appealing, being romantic is seen as creepy and needy.
Think this guy hit it right on the head with that.
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1/13/2015 7:18:29 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
56, joined Dec. 2013
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Does being romantic really work?
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
My ex actually complained about the butter being in the center of the toast, instead of being spread, when I used to bring her breakfast in bed.
Now she doesn't eat breakfast at all, because I'm not there to make it!
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1/29/2015 5:44:50 PM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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Yes, being romantic works for me
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1/29/2015 5:58:23 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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It sure works a hole in your pocket. I'd like to see a Woman sweep me off my feet with romance.
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1/29/2015 6:04:59 PM |
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samantha89ky
Kimper, KY
25, joined Apr. 2014
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yes! but i still want a manly man. i want him to be himself & do his own kinda romantic stuff. i hate it, when they try to over do it or they get it from a movie. just be yourself & come up with ur own idea. be original
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1/29/2015 6:06:07 PM |
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samantha89ky
Kimper, KY
25, joined Apr. 2014
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& u dont have to speed money either!! use what u already have
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1/29/2015 6:25:54 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
47, joined Jun. 2014
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yea as long as the pets are ok with it
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1/29/2015 9:55:11 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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It sure works a hole in your pocket. I'd like to see a Woman sweep me off my feet with romance.
I'm getting the broom now
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1/29/2015 10:07:04 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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If you're looking for it to "work," it's not romantic--it's calculating.
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2/1/2015 10:09:26 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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I'm getting the broom now
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2/1/2015 10:33:53 AM |
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mar0331
Oceanside, CA
37, joined Jan. 2015
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Every woman deserves to be romanced. It shows that they are appreciated not just for their bodies but for who they are. Helps build their self esteem and confidence up knowing their partner put in the work to show her how she makes him feel.
There should be more romance In this world.
Bull f**king shit
Not every woman is deserving.
God...some people should be banned from society.
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2/1/2015 10:36:36 AM |
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mar0331
Oceanside, CA
37, joined Jan. 2015
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I believe in respecting women and doing stuff like pulling out chairs and holding open doors. Well I guess I'm gonna just keep my head up and just wait for that one person who wants to give things a try with me. I love to do the little things like leaving small love notes, bringing flowers or candy, small jewlry and gifts, and just cuddling and being there for them. That's what a man should do.
Your problem is you're the text book beta boot licker.
You're drying their vaginas up.
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2/1/2015 10:40:59 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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Not every woman is deserving.
Agreed.
Romance is something two people engage in. The one sided entitlement case is for big fat liars.
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2/1/2015 10:46:10 AM |
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mar0331
Oceanside, CA
37, joined Jan. 2015
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Agreed.
Romance is something two people engage in. The one sided entitlement case is for big fat liars.
Avoid the entitlement pigs like a hooker with open sores.
The shit people believe is f**king scary.
Poor op...dude's a classic mangina.
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2/1/2015 11:02:50 AM |
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falpeter
Sao Paulo
Brazil
26, joined Jul. 2014
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Being romantic, doesn't involve romance, which by the way are two COMPLETLY different things.
Now. My theory about this matter
being romantic, everyone can fake it. Even for just once, or several times, you can do it. Because, all you gotta do is to be the sweetest person around, take her to a good place to walk by/ restaurant with a truly different a good quality food/ say things that she wants to hear such as: "today your smile is incredibly amazing"/ treat her with respect and dignity that she deserves....and the list goes way beyond than that. However, all that, is only TRYING to be romantic, which many people would truly appreciate it.
But, to be a real romantic person, takes a heart. Sacrifices your sanity, to become this irrational person with illogical thoughts. Brings the best, and the worst you can be, put you through situations and feelings that only you can be discribed as right or wrong.....and in the very end, you are will always say "it's all worth it"
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2/2/2015 7:12:20 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Never did a thing to help me get a date.
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2/2/2015 7:14:36 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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What does the guy get out of it besides an empty wallet, maxed out credit cards and the checking account with nothing in it?
Doesn't the babe have to do something too? At least put on your cleanest pair of dirty jeans and leave the spurs off your boots.
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2/2/2015 8:44:34 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Montrose, CA
38, joined Jan. 2013
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Being romantic, sweet and kind is the way to go
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2/2/2015 9:15:23 PM |
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enamel
Warrenville, IL
57, joined Sep. 2012
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Most women have been taught to at least appreciate a gesture. So reciting all of Milton's sonnets from memory to a lute accompaniment will get you at least an acknowledgment even if she hates poetry. But that doesn't mean it's romantic or that she even likes it.
flowers, poems, notes, baubles-You can't just assume generic gestures for a generic woman. You can't be romantic until you know her. Someone might consider it the height of romance if you surprise her by slicing up her venison quarters and putting it on the drying rack.
About the only generic move you can make that is sure to please is making an extra effort in order to spend time with her. But then again, if you're really interested in her, why wouldn't you?
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2/3/2015 12:00:14 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
46, joined May. 2014
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Being romantic is such a plus!! Pull out all the stops!! if she's into you an you her..go for it!! My guy loves to touch me sweetly..
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2/3/2015 1:16:21 AM |
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boyinneed
Miami, FL
50, joined Aug. 2011
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No...
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2/3/2015 5:46:19 AM |
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samantha89ky
Kimper, KY
25, joined Apr. 2014
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Every woman deserves to be romanced. It shows that they are appreciated not just for their bodies but for who they are. Helps build their self esteem and confidence up knowing their partner put in the work to show her how she makes him feel.
There should be more romance In this world.
****^Best opinion yet^****
If a women feels appreciated for the things she dose, she will do them more often & without b*tching!! If a man actually done something romantic for me. I would be happy with whatever he chose to do. But u would get more points in my eyes, if it was original & not what every other man does. Like buying flowers- it's ok, but every guy does this. Try picking wild flowers beside the road, on ur way home! Or pull over somewhere before u take her home & pick some flowers then, with her in the car & wondering what ur doing?... If a man really shows a woman he appreciates her & does small romantic things like leave a note, pick flowers, do the dishes, massage her body, I like(playing with my hair). *This will build her self esteem and make her more confident in the relationship, plus in the bedroom too, right? I think so.. We all know how a woman will feel great one minute & low the next day. Make her feel that u love her & u like her body unconditionally. Keep showing her. But she has to show him too! it does go both ways!
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2/3/2015 6:57:28 AM |
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stringopearls
Huron, SD
58, joined Jul. 2009
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You can't be romantic until you know her. Someone might consider it the height of romance if you surprise her by slicing up her venison quarters and putting it on the drying rack.
About the only generic move you can make that is sure to please is making an extra effort in order to spend time with her. But then again, if you're really interested in her, why wouldn't you?
I agree with this ^^^ quote totally.
Any person that tries to be "romantic" to "get" a girl is being manipulative.
Flower shops exist because many people like cut flowers. I do not like cut flowers because I do not like seeing them wither and never know when it is appropriate to throw them away if they are given as a gift.
I feel the guy is being romantic if he rubs my shoulders after a hard day. However, he becomes manipulative if he rubs my shoulders without being asked and then expects his to be rubbed also.
Friendship grows by having and sharing things in common. If you want to find a friend, join a club related to what you like. Save romantic gestures for someone who acts like they want to be with you romantically and ask what they like.
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2/3/2015 7:30:56 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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I am very much a romantic person and believe women should be treated like a priness.
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2/3/2015 10:56:23 AM |
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mar0331
Oceanside, CA
37, joined Jan. 2015
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****^Best opinion yet^****
If a women feels appreciated for the things she dose, she will do them more often & without b*tching!! If a man actually done something romantic for me. I would be happy with whatever he chose to do. But u would get more points in my eyes, if it was original & not what every other man does. Like buying flowers- it's ok, but every guy does this. Try picking wild flowers beside the road, on ur way home! Or pull over somewhere before u take her home & pick some flowers then, with her in the car & wondering what ur doing?... If a man really shows a woman he appreciates her & does small romantic things like leave a note, pick flowers, do the dishes, massage her body, I like(playing with my hair). *This will build her self esteem and make her more confident in the relationship, plus in the bedroom too, right? I think so.. We all know how a woman will feel great one minute & low the next day. Make her feel that u love her & u like her body unconditionally. Keep showing her. But she has to show him too! it does go both ways!
100% Bullshit
You entitlement pigs need to drop the word deserve from your vocabularies.
Be somebody worthy of being romanced.
Or do you believe all men DESERVE to be waited on hand and foot too?
Exactly.
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2/3/2015 4:53:29 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
47, joined Oct. 2013
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It can work, but unfortunately romance is a dieing art. I've been dumped numerous times because the woman I bought flowers for said it was a sissy unman like thing to do, or some other diatribe for some other romantic thing I did.
Many women are scared of actually being happy these days, and will run from anyone who makes them such, while fighting tooth and nail, to hold onto to something that causes them pain and suffering daily.
At least that is my experience with women I have dated, in which this occurred.
I concur. Even women in my age group would rather have a man that treats them like crap, then one that goes out of his way to make her feel special....
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2/3/2015 5:50:03 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Romance has always worked for me. Of course, romance is more than just flowers, and candy, and candle lit dinners. It is also remembering little things...like when you first met. It is also: providing things like back rubs in time of need; being faithful; saying "I love you" at no special time, for no special reason; cuddling even when sex will not follow; doing what she / he wants to do even when you don't particularly want to do it; listening when she / he has to get something off the chest; being reliable; showing affection in little ways...cooking her / his favorite meal, noticing when she / is feeling down, and trying to cheer her / him up; etc. Romance is an 'other directed' way of living...considering another's needs, and wants, and feelings, and meeting them. Those who say that romance never worked for them, most likely never tried it. They ignored, cheated on, verbally abused, etc, one who cared for them...and then tried to make up for it with a few flowers. When that didn't work, they gave up on the idea of romance.
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2/3/2015 5:52:13 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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I concur. Even women in my age group would rather have a man that treats them like crap, then one that goes out of his way to make her feel special....
And you have dated all 2.3 billion, or so, of them, and thus know this for a fact? BS! So...how do you try to make them feel special...punch them in not their face, so the bruises show less?
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2/3/2015 6:00:53 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
47, joined Oct. 2013
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Not all 2.3 billion but enough to know that all the bad guys that came before me that were hitting them and cheating on them ruined them for the rest of us good guys!
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2/3/2015 6:01:11 PM |
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mar0331
Oceanside, CA
37, joined Jan. 2015
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Romance has always worked for me. Of course, romance is more than just flowers, and candy, and candle lit dinners. It is also remembering little things...like when you first met. It is also: providing things like back rubs in time of need; being faithful; saying "I love you" at no special time, for no special reason; cuddling even when sex will not follow; doing what she / he wants to do even when you don't particularly want to do it; listening when she / he has to get something off the chest; being reliable; showing affection in little ways...cooking her / his favorite meal, noticing when she / is feeling down, and trying to cheer her / him up; etc. Romance is an 'other directed' way of living...considering another's needs, and wants, and feelings, and meeting them. Those who say that romance never worked for them, most likely never tried it. They ignored, cheated on, verbally abused, etc, one who cared for them...and then tried to make up for it with a few flowers. When that didn't work, they gave up on the idea of romance.
Is that a passage from the Boot Licking bible ?
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2/3/2015 6:02:14 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
47, joined Oct. 2013
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And I don't punch women at all.
An open hand chop to the throat works just as good....
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2/3/2015 6:24:15 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Is that a passage from the Boot Licking bible ?
I never lick boots...but I get to lick a lot of p*ssy. More than you, I'll bet.
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2/3/2015 6:39:12 PM |
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mar0331
Oceanside, CA
37, joined Jan. 2015
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I never lick boots...but I get to lick a lot of p*ssy. More than you, I'll bet.
You meant boot heels...not p*ssy, fat boy.
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