| 1/8/2015 11:44:16 PM |
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lookfun78
Waldorf, MD
28, joined Mar. 2013
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Those of us that have a job, but really make jack squat I know it's hard to get someone because once they hear about your low pay they look at you like your pay can't do jack for them. Mostly us guys have this problem because we have to pay for the lady's, but if any lady's have this problem where unless you got money then you got nothing. I know it's hard to get a job and make it rain, but that shouldn't mean you still can't provided them with other stuff like love and respect. I know i'm right. Now who out there has this problem and aggress with me?
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| 1/9/2015 12:03:25 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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I hear men say this a lot, but it doesn't really match up with what I observe in real life. Do you have a specific reason for believing that money is the problem?
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| 1/9/2015 12:09:41 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
66, joined May. 2010
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Dat chit ain't free summers, winkie?
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| 1/9/2015 2:23:04 AM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
54, joined Feb. 2013
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Dat chit ain't free summers, winkie?
Try that again? Maybe in English this time. 
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| 1/9/2015 2:36:41 AM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
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I don't believe it really has that much to do with your income per say, but more to do with what you're both interested in and what your and her intentions are? Unless you dress and act like a bum, or volunteer the information she may not even be interested in your income.
I think Tina Turner phrased it well when she sang; What's love got to do with it?
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| 1/10/2015 5:19:58 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
66, joined May. 2010
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Youse gots a prob wid comp row hen son?
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| 1/11/2015 8:51:21 AM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
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It's not super hard I think I was once in a relationship with a guy who worked at a pizza shop. He wasn't making that much from what he said. By I wasn't with him for his money but for his personality. He was always very sweet and would buy cute little trinkets for me. The trinkets didn't cost much but the fact he cared enough to try to surprise me with it was sweet to me. We didn't eat at snazzy places we used to make our own food, or sometimes eat at the pizza place he worked at, or other places. We used to go on walks a lot and spend time at the library. You don't have to spend money to have fun. Going to the park was always nice. Find someone who will like you for you and not for what you can or can't do for that person regarding materialistic things. It's very possible .
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| 1/11/2015 9:39:54 AM |
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karrpilot
Oswego, IL
51, joined Jul. 2009
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Back when I was un and underemployed, dating was the last thing on my mind at that point. Buying fuel, paying bills, and looking for better employment, took precedence.
That's what I did. After my goal was finally achieved, THEN I focused on the dating portion of my life.
Doing it this way worked for me. It could also work for you as well. Trying to do everything at the same time will only burn you out.
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| 1/22/2015 1:16:40 PM |
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alladin4u
Orlando, FL
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it is hard, especially when whom you are courting anre trying to court is looking at your earnings!
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| 1/22/2015 1:17:51 PM |
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alladin4u
Orlando, FL
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aw! thats a cute story! Are you guys still together?
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| 1/31/2015 8:47:54 AM |
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fitbarbie
San Francisco, CA
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Financial security is a factor.
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| 2/8/2015 10:00:02 AM |
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rebel7887
Mankato, MN
27, joined Jul. 2014
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I agree it hard to live on 52,576 a yr
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| 2/9/2015 8:37:53 AM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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I make good money OP. I don't any to provide for you, any more than you don't want to/can't provide for a lady. Find somebody who is comfortable with your situation. Let the rest be.
Truth be told my guy makes less than half what I make, but he lives in a cheaper place drives a truck that is paid for and isn't into buying fancy home furnishings. In fact we both maintain similar lifestyles just on two entirely different incomes. And it works
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| 2/18/2015 7:13:07 AM |
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mrkelley02
Boys Ranch, TX
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I wouldn't want someone that looks at me as a paycheck anyway. My dollar amount may look small, but my monthly debt to income ratio exceeds most
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| 2/21/2015 10:42:54 PM |
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texasgirl_1978
Grapevine, TX
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I don't judge guys on how much money they make. I'm on SSI disability for myself and my son. It's not hard to find someone. Just keep looking and when you least except it someone will come into your life.
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| 3/9/2015 8:26:22 AM |
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mr_1234m
Louisville, KY
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Doesn't it say a lot about a person in general if they "he or she" reach a certain age and still can't make ends meet? Have a better financial lifestyle than some teeneger? It tells me that perhaps they have poor decision making skills. Possibly even deeper issues regarding negative personality traits. Money is not everything by any means, but, a persons success or lack of can speak volumes.
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| 3/9/2015 11:44:05 PM |
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funlife1010
Jacksonville, AR
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Women who will not date guys that don't make much are usually materialistic type. This type like to be bought things and pampered with gifts. You don't want that. Nor do you need someone who looks at your wallet size instead of your personality and morals.
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| 3/20/2015 10:35:16 PM |
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treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
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shouldn't be hard it's the unappreciative that get's looked over when a women
gives a low paying guy a chance so we gotta go hard now days not mediocore far as
qualities and morals better at least be able to bye me the minor things like roll
of tissue if you see i need some
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| 3/24/2015 4:27:01 PM |
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wildheart722
Sapphire, NC
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My issue is meeting men who have 3x the salary that I do and a shitload of benefits, yet they need to ask if they can borrow from me. I make 30k a year and my job doesn't provide benefits, nor paid holidays or vacations. I pay my own health insurance. Yet these dipwad niccumpoops think they can sponge off me? I don't think so. If I need to buy a bf I'll buy one of the battery operated variety. Don't need that sorta crap.
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| 3/26/2015 3:07:13 PM |
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txcountrymedic
Pleasanton, TX
37, joined Mar. 2014
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My issue is meeting men who have 3x the salary that I do and a shitload of benefits, yet they need to ask if they can borrow from me. I make 30k a year and my job doesn't provide benefits, nor paid holidays or vacations. I pay my own health insurance. Yet these dipwad niccumpoops think they can sponge off me? I don't think so. If I need to buy a bf I'll buy one of the battery operated variety. Don't need that sorta crap.
this is the most truthful statement i have seen on this group
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| 3/27/2015 12:52:27 AM |
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treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
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been there too
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| 3/28/2015 3:10:46 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
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ladies don't fall for no broke a** man; if he gets all bent out of shape if he has to pay for your dinner, run, and run fast lol.
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| 3/29/2015 7:47:31 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
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gots me a sailboat so dem chicks love to date me. 
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| 4/6/2015 1:44:39 AM |
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funlife1010
Jacksonville, AR
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See but if it's the other way around like a broke a** woman or low paying wages or just can not simply work those are usually called house wives. I say that because god forbid that a woman make more than a man an have to support him more financially then he does her. I have yet to meet a woman that makes more than I do. I know there out there but I get tired of taking care of them. But to me mutual financial cooperation is best but most just want a man to do all the work an them stay at the house. This is not the 1950's
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| 4/6/2015 4:37:37 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
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'MUTUAL financial cooperation from a woman;" that's a joke right, lol 
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| 4/6/2015 11:21:54 PM |
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funlife1010
Jacksonville, AR
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'MUTUAL financial cooperation from a woman;" that's a joke right, lol
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| 4/7/2015 8:41:31 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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consider where you will be in 2 years from now... just like you are now or go to school, trade school if college isn't your forte.. Start a career, I did when I was 40.. should have done it earlier, but alas the marriage and babies came.. and then the divorce... lol
point is most trade school classes are 18 months... and then you can get a job that pays better.
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| 5/30/2015 9:30:12 AM |
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lexyvonmetzger
Orchard Park, NY
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Doesn't it say a lot about a person in general if they "he or she" reach a certain age and still can't make ends meet? Have a better financial lifestyle than some teeneger? It tells me that perhaps they have poor decision making skills. Possibly even deeper issues regarding negative personality traits. Money is not everything by any means, but, a persons success or lack of can speak volumes.
This is my thought process. I had zero hand outs, my parents don't believe in that even though my dad could have kept me on at his shop after high school. In fact he fired me and said "that job is for some uneducated person that needs it, you are going to get educated and your own job." I didn't get any help with rent, bills, food, phone, car, college, or grad school. I worked several jobs while going to school full time in expensive places to live (long island and Houston) by myself. I do not accept excuses...
An even bigger turn off is someone breeding without expendable income....WTF is up with that? Wear condoms idiot.  anyone that can't take care of themselves has no right to bring other people into the world especially if they expect us tax payers to pay for their welfare.
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| 6/29/2015 4:17:10 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
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Uhm,not everyone bases attractiveness and the desire to be with someone off of what a person makes.
My man makes AN INFINITE times more than me but unlike SOME, he's not phased by money, doesn't care about it, nor does he worry about it.
He got together with me for umpteen reasons, but how much I make is NOT one of them.
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| 7/2/2015 7:22:18 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
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if you want to get younger women, never work, dope all the time, have a couple of illigitmate kids, young women love that kind of man. 
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