Its alwasy been this way, even in school. Fat women love me, and I don't love them back, theres just no attraction there and sorry if it sounds offensive. I've tried sleeping with one that was actually very cool, but not because i wanted to, moreso because she simply would NOT stop coming on to me. I really can't figure it out other than perhaps that I'm a nice guy, never tell em to f**k off even though I make it clear early on that I'm not interested.

Anyone have an idea why this would be?

After reading your profile, I am surprised that you attract anyone.

Do you walk around with a donut in your pocket? Don't do that, because they can smell it a mile away.

you cannot help who you are attracted to and who you are not attracted to. Just plese be courteous and mindful that big girls have feelings too.

Can't force a square peg into a round hole so you don't have to be attracted to big girls, but be nice, please.

Actually, I read his profile, and thought aside from the really insultive way he put it out there that he is not attracted to larger women (hey, it's ok to say what you are looking for, and what you are or aren't attracted to, but there're better ways than the way you did), it was pretty great. He tells a whole lot about himself, speaks (writes) in a way that gives him a personality, and seems reasonably articulate.

Back to the question at hand: If your in-person personality is anything like what comes through in your profile writings, then you probably come across as an open, receptive person. Keeping in mind your age, it is my personal experience (I was one of those obese girls of which you speak, when I was in my 20's - so folks, before you try to slam me for what I'm about to say, think twice - I speak from experience - - made alot of changes since then), that extremely overweight girls have, among other issues, very low self esteem from being kicked in the teeth by guys over and over again. So any attention is absorbed like a sponge. And someone who is desperate for attention will go back to the source over and over again (i.e. they won't leave you alone). Remember, in the right lighting, even just a smile can be considered flirting.

Do you walk around with a donut in your pocket? Don't do that, because they can smell it a mile away.

Tater, you sure of that? I am only 5'2 I thought most women were more like about 5'5. If 5'5 and 160 it would be pretty much like 5'2 and 145 when at top weight (my ranges with exercise, exercising less in hot weather, down to about 135 with max exercise). My doctor says my top BMI is 135 and that when 145 I am overweight, but not obese. I would grant you that 160 would probably qualify for me, but not for someone a few inches taller.

What if the skinny one is the one that you have been looking for. We really need to look inside a person's heart, black white, skinny, afew extra pounds, what does it all mean?

I'm afraid in spite of all the media hype there are plenty of HWP or slim women who are sitting home on a Saturday night. The reasons vary but I can tell you it is more challenging as we get older and the pool of available men shrinks. I'm well educated,professional, blond and a size 4. So what's my problem.

a. I intimidate alot of men.
b. I'd prefer someone on my level educationally and professionally.
c. I spend alot of time and money on my farm and horses which is a non negotiable.

I have some very intelligent, professional and attractive women friends that are in the same boat. The brighter they are and the more professionally accomplished they become the more the harder it is to find appropriate men.