12/3/2007 11:47:36 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 25
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Most of us are haunted by someone or something. We hide our hurt behind walls, over indulgence of food, membership to the gym, one nite stands, shopping, etc...
As much as we hate to, we have to face our hardships. Pain forces us to grow, growth leads to wisdom, to bliss. No woman wants a boy, no real man wants a girl.
Face your demons, if not its called baggage. Relationships are short lived if you come prepacked.
Hold on to the goodstuff, the things that make you smile. Learn from the hurt!
[Edited 12/4/2007 1:32:43 AM]
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12/3/2007 11:49:38 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Mugan..excellent post..
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12/4/2007 1:30:37 AM |
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melbie7769
Grand Junction, CO
age: 30
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I would have to applaud that also!!!
Smooches Melbie
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12/4/2007 5:24:56 AM |
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cricket32
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 32 online now!
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I couldnt agree with you more.
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12/4/2007 6:53:45 AM |
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lynn1159
Farmington, MI
age: 60
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For your age, you are very insightful. Keep the good thoughts
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12/4/2007 7:02:46 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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Mugan that's sooooooooooooo true. you have great insight.
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12/4/2007 7:35:39 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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Mugan...how did you know that was exactly what I needed to hear on the very day.
One year ago today my world fell apart. It has been a very hard year and alot of times I put on that happy face while the inside was a volcano...I had my doubts about getting this far down the road...but today I realize that the open wounds are now tender scars and the stabbing pain has subsided to an occasional stitch. It doesn't hurt to breathe anymore.
Even better, I now know the real healing process has begun. I am sure there will be some weak moments and a few stumbling blocks in the future. But I feel like I now have the strength to just trip up but not fall. To catch my balance and keep moving right along in this new direction in my life.
I don't know where I'm going or who I will encounter along the journey...But once again I have hope and faith....I actually never lost it...To borrow a quote from a favorite movie....I just had to let it "float to the top" again.
So my "Hope is Floating". I watched that movie Sunday and it renewed my spirit. At the end it's stated....."Beginnings are scary....Endings are sad...It's what's in the middle that counts!!!" So that's me now...I am in my middle and want to make it count.
Thank you...I don't care if any of this gets read or commented on...I didn't say it for that purpose...I just needed to say it out loud to myself.
The plaque on my wall says....
I KNOW GOD WON'T GIVE ME ANYTHING I CAN'T HANDLE....I JUST WISH HE DIDN'T TRUST ME SO MUCH!!!!!!
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12/4/2007 8:23:38 AM |
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qirki
San Francisco, CA
age: 62
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Klassy, I like your style, but I still want to know what a hooptie is.
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12/4/2007 10:22:08 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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A Hooptie is a big old car that has seen it's better days...looks like hell...runs like hell...but for some reason always cranks and gets you to your destination...
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12/4/2007 2:04:57 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 25
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I`v been blessed with the ablity to learn fast. Yet it has not came without a price. I see those I loved, loved by another. While I continue my search for the one who will love me back.
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12/4/2007 4:16:05 PM |
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etincelle
Montreal, QC
age: 42
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Bravo! for a 25 yearold guy you have great wisdom, cheers
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12/4/2007 4:24:50 PM |
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poolside1952
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 55
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What a note to read after I got on this line for the first time. It was awesome. For a young man you hit it on the head....I've spent a day trying to get a user name approved because it seems every name I picked you all already have. So since I have a pool and I was born in 1952, I gave that a try. So world, how is everyone doing tonight? I have had better days and I have had worse. So anyone out there!!! By the way this is so new to me I have no idea how to place a picture out there.
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12/4/2007 5:36:25 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Awesome thread
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12/4/2007 6:50:54 PM |
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silkpanties52
Baytown, TX
age: 52
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Your advice is appreciated
and you intelegence will get
you far in your journey in life
Live life to the fullest and never
turn back
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12/4/2007 6:51:55 PM |
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kathy5311
Jackson, GA
age: 39
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Very impressive post, especially from someone so young! You're great!
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