6/12/2010 5:50:27 AM |
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daddygirl74
Milton, FL
age: 36
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some guys are scared and not seriouse about they feeling and there some that are just dog they can't stand behind their word or they only want some Ass
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6/12/2010 6:14:34 AM |
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wanna_dance
Boca Raton, FL
age: 65
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So how is this attitude / approach to dating working for you?
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6/12/2010 8:32:46 AM |
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naughtical
Winter Haven, FL
age: 50
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Got your attention, didn't it?
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6/12/2010 9:12:21 AM |
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misscherrie62
Lake Worth, FL
age: 62
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It is a shame indeed that at my age of 61 I still can't find A man that can maintain honest.
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6/12/2010 9:34:32 AM |
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slaffa
Tampa, FL
age: 57
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I know many women who might argue your point. What this translates to is that maybe YOUR "manpicking skills" are just not what they could/should be? I believe there are many Forum women who might be able to give you a little coaching...
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6/12/2010 9:36:45 AM |
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olddi
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 52
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Good question ,Then You hear the men say Why can't woman be honest ? Why can't people be Honest ? LoL . di
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6/12/2010 9:44:26 AM |
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i_am_bill_
Astatula, FL
age: 51
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Well not for nothing, but when I am around a woman that hates men I get scared. And reading your post makes me scared.
I would try and refine your approach.
Bill
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6/12/2010 9:50:21 AM |
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ariotofcolor
Lakeland, FL
age: 40
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People lie...for whatever reason they lie. The trick is to know that going in, and to know yourself well enough to allow yourself to trust a person yet, when you get that feeling in your gut that tells you something isn't right...to check it out and ask questions. If you don't like your answer, then you need to move on! Key thing is to trust yourself first and foremost!
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6/12/2010 12:04:33 PM |
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ladie_draco
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 45
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here is my post from the thread about why women lie......... still applies here
yes.... people lie.... but instead of focusing on who or why.... i say once we realize someone is a liar, we move on..... accept this is a person we do not want in our life and continue on our own personal journey and search...... dwelling on the negative serves no purpose but to make us unhappy......
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6/12/2010 3:36:30 PM |
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daddygirl74
Milton, FL
age: 36
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and some can't woman be honest 2
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6/12/2010 3:41:06 PM |
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i_am_bill_
Astatula, FL
age: 51
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and sum cant be woman or man puttin sentences together rite 2
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6/12/2010 3:57:04 PM |
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armyresq
Tacoma, WA
age: 26
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i think i can end this argument so im gonna try for it. there will always be men that lie and there will always be women that are kniving. its just the way humans are. it sucks but theres always gonna be that a**hole that f**kes it up for everyone else. but thats just what i think, cause there are good men and women out there, but the cruel reality of the real world f**ks good people up. and i will use my self as a prime example of that.
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6/12/2010 4:06:09 PM |
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skh8447
Spring Hill, FL
age: 50
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daddygirl74
and some can't woman be honest 2
Huhhhhhhh??????
[Edited 6/12/2010 4:11:00 PM PST]
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6/12/2010 4:20:53 PM |
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wanna_dance
Boca Raton, FL
age: 65
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and some can't woman be honest 2
Gosh, I hope she is not a product of Florida schools.
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6/12/2010 4:26:52 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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Why are people so mean to others just because they lack education?
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6/12/2010 4:35:27 PM |
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skh8447
Spring Hill, FL
age: 50
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Why are people so mean to others just because they lack education?
I'm just curious,did you understand her post Fred,if so,maybe YOU can EXPLAIN it to US??
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6/12/2010 4:35:45 PM |
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naughtical
Winter Haven, FL
age: 50
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Why are people so mean to others just because they lack education?
And how do you know it is a matter of lacking education?
I can tell the difference between a new "typer", one who is uneducated and one who is lazy and doesn't care.
Shortening words and using numbers instead of spelling out words is a dead give away. It's annoying as hell.
There are people on here, for reasons of their own, have fake profiles. They have their real ones but hide behind the phony ones.
Wouldn't that be considered dishonest?
YES! Of course it would be.
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6/12/2010 4:45:45 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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I'm just curious,did you understand her post Fred,if so,maybe YOU can EXPLAIN it to US??
What I read is: And some women can't be honest too.
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6/12/2010 4:50:37 PM |
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skh8447
Spring Hill, FL
age: 50
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Well I am just tickled PINK,that YOU understood it.
You are just WAY smarter than the rest of US,thank YOU!!!
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6/12/2010 4:54:26 PM |
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wanna_dance
Boca Raton, FL
age: 65
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Why are people so mean to others just because they lack education?
In my case, I'm hoping they choose to remove themselves from my sight. Sometimes it even works and sometimes they choose to write properly.
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6/12/2010 4:54:54 PM |
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mouse58
San Antonio, FL
age: 51
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Gosh, I hope she is not a product of Florida schools.
No she isn't a product of florida schools. We do know a little more than that. We can put a sentence together and use spell check.
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6/12/2010 4:56:10 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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And how do you know it is a matter of lacking education?
I can tell the difference between a new "typer", one who is uneducated and one who is lazy and doesn't care.
Shortening words and using numbers instead of spelling out words is a dead give away. It's annoying as hell.
There are people on here, for reasons of their own, have fake profiles. They have their real ones but hide behind the phony ones.
Wouldn't that be considered dishonest?
YES! Of course it would be.
Could be dyslexia, I don't know or care, but making fun of others is not nice and what many including yourself recently have done. Also, I believe someone that posts on here recently disappearing and then creating another profile is pretty much the same thing. I have also caught someone I know personally using someone else's profile to post something without the person knowing about. So, if that is the case, then I guess I have good company. I have my reasons for doing what I do and am far from perfect and keep telling myself to not look at this stuff anymore, but I guess I have an addictive nature just like the rest of constant posters. If anyone were to contact me, I would inform them of my intentions, so call it what you want, but I still say it is wrong to make fun of people, especially if you don't know what their situation is.
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6/12/2010 5:00:54 PM |
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wanna_dance
Boca Raton, FL
age: 65
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especially if you don't know what their situation is.
It's "worse" than that, AKA Fred. I don't even care what their situation is.
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6/12/2010 5:01:33 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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mouse
Good to see you back and I hope all is well with you. If I owe anyone an apology, it would be you.
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6/12/2010 5:02:11 PM |
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naughtical
Winter Haven, FL
age: 50
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Not too smart, are you Dar..., I mean Fred?
You just admitted that you have two profiles...against the rules.
You do, of course, know about IP addresses and such...right?
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6/12/2010 5:05:48 PM |
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skh8447
Spring Hill, FL
age: 50
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Quote from fredflintstone2:
I have my reasons for doing what I do
Could that reason be COWARD,to show who you REALLY are,like we don't already know???
Just saying
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6/12/2010 5:07:03 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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Not too smart, are you Dar..., I mean Fred?
You just admitted that you have two profiles...against the rules.
You do, of course, know about IP addresses and such...right?
Well my dear, I might not be as smart as you think you are, because I would not even know how to create another profile. So can you please inform me how. I really get a kick out of seeing how many people jump on the band wagon.
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6/12/2010 5:07:33 PM |
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mouse58
San Antonio, FL
age: 51
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mouse
Good to see you back and I hope all is well with you. If I owe anyone an apology, it would be you.[/quote
Why would you owe an apology. Thanks for asking and yes everything is alright with me.
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6/12/2010 5:10:30 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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Quote from fredflintstone2:
I have my reasons for doing what I do
Could that reason be COWARD,to show who you REALLY are,like we don't already know???
Just saying
Not the cowardly type and it sure took long enough and I gave you plenty of help. So, no on this.
Gosh, I am surprised that Bill hasn't jumped on the bandwagon yet.
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6/12/2010 5:15:17 PM |
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skh8447
Spring Hill, FL
age: 50
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Sorry to disappoint you FRED,I knew who you REALLY were a long time ago!!
I could tell by your typing style & your phrases that you repeat from your "OTHER" profile!!
[Edited 6/12/2010 5:17:25 PM PST]
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6/12/2010 5:25:38 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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Sorry to disappoint you FRED,I knew who you REALLY were a long time ago!!
I could tell by your typing style & your phrases that you repeat from your "OTHER" profile!!
No disappointment here!
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6/12/2010 5:52:56 PM |
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naughtical
Winter Haven, FL
age: 50
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Not the cowardly type and it sure took long enough and I gave you plenty of help. So, no on this.
Gosh, I am surprised that Bill hasn't jumped on the bandwagon yet.
You just keep admitting it, don't you.
Fred, don't be too proud of yourself...you were fooling no one.
Oh, about the "Bill" thing...
I realize that one can't help who they have feelings for, however, you are going to have to let go of your fantasies concerning him...he likes girls.
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6/12/2010 5:53:50 PM |
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spoiled50
Gainesville, FL
age: 52
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i dont understand why i cant find the right man, i always find the wrong one, im 52 female, im about 165 pounds brown hair, brown eyes, i have a golden heart that i want to share my life with that special man . i just dont understand what is really wrong with me why cant i find the happiness that i do deserve. i live florida single mom my son is 15 just got his permit stay off the side walks anyway lol any way please a single man find me if u can
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6/12/2010 6:03:49 PM |
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naughtical
Winter Haven, FL
age: 50
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Spoiled: Have you tried asking for help on the "profile review" forums?
As I have said before your profile is your first impression...it makes a difference.
Please don't take this the wrong way but if, in your real life, you have the air of desperation that you have here you could be scaring the men off.
Quit looking and worrying about it. Do things you enjoy and when you least expect it...it can happen.
Good luck.
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6/12/2010 6:14:19 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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You just keep admitting it, don't you.
Fred, don't be too proud of yourself...you were fooling no one.
Oh, about the "Bill" thing...
I realize that one can't help who they have feelings for, however, you are going to have to let go of your fantasies concerning him...he likes girls.
What a shame!
BTW, teddybo was right on target about the clicks.
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6/12/2010 6:29:39 PM |
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fredflintstone2
Miami, FL
age: 47
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It's "worse" than that, AKA Fred. I don't even care what their situation is.
This person could be suffering from very low self esteem and you just brought her down another notch or two. Did you ever think of that? I am starting to see something like a shark tank, just throw the bate in and watch them attack. It is not the first time I have witnessed it either.
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6/12/2010 8:51:54 PM |
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i_am_bill_
Astatula, FL
age: 51
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You just keep admitting it, don't you.
Fred, don't be too proud of yourself...you were fooling no one.
Oh, about the "Bill" thing...
I realize that one can't help who they have feelings for, however, you are going to have to let go of your fantasies concerning him...he likes girls.
Wellllllllll,,,,,is he cute?
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6/19/2010 1:47:25 PM |
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nick5413
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 42
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no matter what we say, your right!
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6/19/2010 9:56:24 PM |
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floridagatorguy
Sanford, FL
age: 48
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Slaffa had a great response. The fact is many people keep choosing the same types over and over.
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6/19/2010 10:06:15 PM |
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floridagatorguy
Sanford, FL
age: 48
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Please that age old saying that don't do anything and when you least expect it love/relationships will come. Would you say that about education or working towards a career?
Finding someone to date successfully is the same as anything else. Have a plan and follow it.
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6/19/2010 10:15:03 PM |
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asbillczit
Holiday, FL
age: 68
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Getting back to the topic - skh8447 and Naughtical, lie to me, lie to me. When's the next meet and greet.
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6/19/2010 10:31:01 PM |
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tony74a
Boynton Beach, FL
age: 28
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dont know
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6/20/2010 5:53:57 AM |
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knightonafrog
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 53
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I know many women who might argue your point. What this translates to is that maybe YOUR "manpicking skills" are just not what they could/should be?
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6/21/2010 6:59:09 PM |
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smiley1960x
Melbourne, FL
age: 50
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Well, back to the original point - why can't "women" (that is, specifically, you) stop asking questions that have no "acceptable" answer? Perhaps your questions are really part of your strategy, to push someone into a verbal corner and make them promise you things.
Of course the ones most desperate for the "right" answer are often the least likely to get the answer they were hoping for. Especially if they are prone to seek, have to settle for, or attract only, the sort of guys who are not above "will lie for ass".
Just speculation, or course. How true could something like that possibly be?
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6/30/2010 6:35:28 PM |
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hotwrench427
Kissimmee, FL
age: 51
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This person could be suffering from very low self esteem and you just brought her down another notch or two. Did you ever think of that? ...
I am of the opinion that self esteem comes from personal accomplishment, and it's not gained by slacking, it's gained by.....wait for it.....Personal Accomplishment!!!!
If that poster realizes that their post is somewhat looked down upon for poor punctuation and/or typing shortcuts, they can choose to change, or stay in that rut.....
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7/4/2010 6:58:10 PM |
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rokjok
Crestview, FL
age: 44
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Women seem to feel that Men have some problem w/ honesty, and while it's true that we're the ones that generally GET CAUGHT more often practicing some form of indiscrestion, it's not lack of honesty we're guilty of, it's lack of preparation and the mental tools to keep our stories straight after the fact.
Honesty -
let's review. Go throgh the profiles on this site and see how many don't have pictures posted. I think you would find that a strong majority of those would be female profiles. While it can easily be argued that they don't need their personal lives out there or whatever..what makes THEIR privacy any more important than mine? I'm a pretty public figure in my neck of the woods, yet here's A CURRENT picture of me, and a profile that states I still have conversations w/ my ex.
Speaking of pictures. Why do women feel the need to post their college pictures, or pics from back before they had kids instead of what they look like TODAY. Do they feel like, after winning us over with their charm and wit we won't CARE that they LIED to us in the very first place, before we ever knew each other? If you're going to lie to me about something so unconsequential, IMAGINE when something major comes along?
As a man I'm tired of being the whipping post of ever bitter woman on the planet. Your weight gain, lack of self esteem, PMS, Cramps, and all other things that ail you aren't the fault of me, or any other man.
Granted, there are some real doozies out there that can take you for a ride in a hearbeat..but there are just as many women that can do it, WILL do it, and DO IT DAILY..so an all encompassing statement like "Why can't Men be honest", does nothing but show a extreme bitterness and lack of confidence when dealing with the opposite sex.
T.
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7/4/2010 8:41:08 PM |
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teddybo
Orlando, FL
age: 56
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it is SIMPLE
they don't dance the hokey pokey enough
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7/4/2010 8:42:57 PM |
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hollywoodjoes
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 52
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I don't think women want total honesty.
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7/4/2010 10:41:08 PM |
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fahqueue
Ocala, FL
age: 34
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it's not in their genes.i love it when a man lies to you, you know he is lying but he thinks you're too stupid to figure it out when he's the one who is stupid cuz you already know. I'd rather be hurt with the truth then with a lie..just saying
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7/5/2010 2:06:36 AM |
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ya1221212
Miami Beach, FL
age: 23
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Well i wonder why women cant be honest in relationship?
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7/5/2010 11:55:11 AM |
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mouse58
San Antonio, FL
age: 51
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It goes both ways women & men both lie, usually because they don't want to hurt the others feelings
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7/6/2010 5:37:06 PM |
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knightonafrog
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 53
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People lie because you mean nothing to them. Plain and simple.
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7/6/2010 5:54:01 PM |
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mouse58
San Antonio, FL
age: 51
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ok to each his own
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7/6/2010 6:18:37 PM |
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amazingpatience
Port Richey, FL
age: 48
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Why are people so mean to others just because they lack education?
got a late start on reading this but
people knock other people down (for lack of education or many other reason's) usually because they don't feel so good about themselves , knocking someone else down, makes them feel bigger and or better JMHO and not necessary
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7/6/2010 6:33:29 PM |
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halilove
Cross City, FL
age: 44 online now!
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Quote from knightonafrog
"People lie because you mean nothing to them. Plain and simple."
Very true... also they lie cause they can and because they are pathological liars.
That goes for men and women
I remember this guy humming this song once:
Smooth operator Sade http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ESqcg6jPCA
Good for me I already knew where he was coming from. I kept him close till... (keep your friends close and your enemies closer) He chose to move on no harm done.
As for the ones being mean you will all eventually get yours... the same ones you join with now to be mean to others will one day turn on you... That is the way it works... sooner or later.
Peace to all and goodwill to the 's
[Edited 7/6/2010 6:35:56 PM PST]
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7/10/2010 4:57:16 PM |
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jim_maddy
Winter Haven, FL
age: 44
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I find it interesting that openness and honesty tend to send people running. I suppose it is such a foreign experience to most it is rather frightening. That old "fight or flight response" kicks in and people get busy looking for a ticket on Travelocity or some other sight.
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7/12/2010 8:48:38 AM |
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dreamervv1943
Spring Hill, FL
age: 66
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your not the only 1 hon ,
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7/12/2010 9:42:33 AM |
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sportyfabulousj
Tarpon Springs, FL
age: 24
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sometimes we don't know how to be honest. although being truthful is a definite key in a relationship of any kind.
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7/12/2010 1:03:22 PM |
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knightonafrog
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 53
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I think the inability to be honest is driven by low self esteem.
Even when one doesn't know how to be honest in a given situation, honestly bumbling through something is still 1000% better than being dishonest.
As for using people, ones "wounds" is simply an excuse that is still ultimately rooted in low self esteem.
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7/12/2010 1:28:54 PM |
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hildegart
Jacksonville, FL
age: 49
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I think my ex was not honest because his mom must of beat him when he did something wrong. He broke a dish once and I saw glass on the floor when I was sweeping. I just said I wonder where all the glass is comming from. He ran out the door. Now I have never been a yeller or cried over spilled mllk. So I do not know where he got that from. He did have low self esteem too.
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