| 3/7/2008 3:03:50 PM |
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easytobeme03
Springfield, OH
age: 39
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 why does it seem to be that people who REALLY giv there heart and devotion end up on the cutting block of love and life ??
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| 3/7/2008 5:14:09 PM |
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kel529
Keene, NH
age: 34
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the other person doesn't care the same as you
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| 3/7/2008 5:21:24 PM |
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fpjones
Waycross, GA
age: 38
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yeah, when both care the same...there is no cutting block
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| 3/8/2008 9:26:43 AM |
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deanna32
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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I agree both people have to be in love and faithful and willing to work at it or no matter what one person does it wont work. It does seem like the good people always get hurt.
Deanna
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| 3/8/2008 8:15:15 PM |
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wendy001
Manchester, CT
age: 36
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Let me ask you guys something. Is it possible, i mean have you ever heard of someone actually loving you as much as you love them? I dont wanna hear how all people love differently. My question is can a man love me as much as i love him? I am 36 years old and i cant find that. Does it just not exist? 
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| 3/8/2008 8:33:43 PM |
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colbiwan
Salt Lick, KY
age: 32
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I know the feeling just doesnt seem to me like women are interested anymore. they think because their ex was a jerk all men are and they dont seem to realize it goes both ways.
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| 3/8/2008 8:37:50 PM |
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colbiwan
Salt Lick, KY
age: 32
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Ive actually opted to go to England just to see if women are any different over there lol.
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| 3/9/2008 4:52:11 AM |
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schianna
Eugene, OR
age: 34
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I hate to be the one to say it, but if you seem to continually find yourself in the same sort of situation again and again, no matter what you do, logic tells us the trouble likely lies in the common denominator... that is, you.
Maybe you're attracted to the same types of people each time, or maybe you make the same blunders. I think the secret is finding yourself before you work on finding someone else. We've all heard it to the point it's cliched, but that doesn't make it any less true.
IMHO, allowing yourself to slip into "victim" mentality will never serve you well.
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| 3/9/2008 11:40:46 AM |
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deanna32
Louisville, KY
age: 33
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I agree it seems good people get with the jerks and by the time the too good people find eachother they are scared to let each other in.
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| 3/10/2008 4:37:52 AM |
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easytobeme03
Springfield, OH
age: 39
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i dont think its "victim mentallity" as much as a huge declining in peoples morals and values. I was married for 10 yrs have 2 kids grown and gone and have dated a few times seriously since then. Relationships end for different reasons but it seems that if they dont end from a mutal agreement that it isnt going to work after you learn of someone, why cant people be adult enough to just part ways instead of being juvenile and cheating on their partner? I mean if one or the other wants out, they should let it be known and just go, not drag into it the pain and degrading moral issues of infidelity .
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| 3/10/2008 4:40:42 AM |
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easytobeme03
Springfield, OH
age: 39
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And yes wendy it DOES exist !! LOL it just seems to be quite elusive !
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| 3/10/2008 9:50:14 AM |
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adelinesmother
Fremont, NE
age: 37
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But dont let that hold you back, from trying again. Not every relationship is the same.
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| 3/10/2008 12:13:50 PM |
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dyezah
North Little Rock, AR
age: 36
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Because God & the powers are REEEEAAAALLLY prepping the person that's around the corner for you or to make you appreciate the person when you finally do meet?
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| 3/10/2008 12:33:40 PM |
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arkansasdave
Verndale, MN
age: 31
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i think patience is the key. Everybody feels lonely and most people just can't handle being lonely. If you know what you want then go after it. That's the problem most people think they know what they want only to find later down the road that is not what they want. There are good people out here. They have just been burned so much that they can't let it happen again.
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| 3/10/2008 1:15:19 PM |
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big_boy_4
Hermitage, AR
age: 34
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commitment issue's dude and others who think the could do them better. Im just guessing
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