4/9/2008 9:55:27 PM |
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sweetshell3
Clementon, NJ
age: 42
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Are all men just out for sex? Believe me sex is a great thing but not the only thing in life. I am 41, divorced and too old to play games. Any men like conversation?? And maybe some laughs!! Goofy men are a plus!!
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4/10/2008 6:52:06 AM |
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lonelyinnj
Trenton, NJ
age: 48
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I would consider myself a good man I like to treat a lady like a lady. es sex is great but myself I am looking for much more. I am 48 and looking for someone to grow old with. So don't believe all men are the same sometimes you need to go through alot of bad apples until you find a good one. I Hope I can meet someone like you.
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4/10/2008 7:19:54 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61
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Talk is all I ever have time for---sorry if you are meeting men that do not meet your standards---but in all my years I have to say that this is nothing new--men are hunters--attracted by flashy and loud things---they have no attention span--they want sex--and they want food--and they want sleep---and they want cars---and they want to fish and hunt. Women and men are very different beings---men are not the huggy kissy emotional types. They want conquest and victory. If I wasn't dedicated to the life that I have chosen, I would probably be the exact same way. Sorry--but I will admit it right up front. It is too late for me to start looking to date--I am not even close to the dating scene----I let that part of life pass me by.
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4/11/2008 6:15:30 AM |
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sweetshell3
Clementon, NJ
age: 42
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Sounds to me like you are saying that men are shallow and not that bright. So you are insulting your own gender? I would think that some men would be a little more defensive. Maybe I should also say that having some type of intelligence is required for any relationship to work. Why are all men all scared of commitments? I am the type of person that loves to have fun, joke around, play around with each other. It shouldn't be something you are afraid of if you are mature.
Kisses,
Michelle
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7/21/2008 10:54:48 AM |
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keepitsweet456
Paterson, NJ
age: 28
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i don't no there no more left i think
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7/21/2008 8:16:31 PM |
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colleen626
Brigantine, NJ
age: 41
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th6, it's never to late. Even though I pretty much feel the same. But I do know one thing, or have come to realize, I dont want to grow old alone.
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7/21/2008 8:37:28 PM |
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sincerity
Woodbridge, NJ
age: 48
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Colleen: You are right, I wish I knew when I was younger what I know and understand now. I am not saying that I want to be with a man 7/24 but I do want to meet someone to be steady with on the weekends or once a week. But to be totally alone,and have no one I hate it. I feel we all need to be able to have someone to be close to in conversation, intimacy and keeping each other company just watching TV or to confort each other when we hurt. That is something that we all need of the oppisite sex. Hopefully, I will also be able to love someone and they love me back. I know I need to make better choices and try to see the whole picture and not see what is not really there. There are good guys and girls out there. I know this because I have just met some really nice women and men on here and we are all looking for the same thing in some simalar way. We none want to be alone or we would not be on this site. I also know this is not the only place to be looking........Sincerity
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7/22/2008 4:12:35 AM |
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fdman911
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 47
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I like good conversation....(((((sweetshell))) I've been told I'm a good guy.....
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7/22/2008 5:13:04 AM |
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ricksp65
Hopewell, NJ
age: 43
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Where have all the good men gone, well lets see HELLOW OVER HERE! sorry just had to do that. just keep weeding tham out us good ones are out here you got mi word theres still some left. Happy hunting hun.
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7/22/2008 2:27:36 PM |
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tspofhugs
Trenton, NJ
age: 64
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Ok hummmmmmm
Lets get started. You need to open up your mind. 1st the net is a sometime good place and sometime bad place to try to meet someone. You known the old saying you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. That dosen't mean you ever will. You need to start to look in all the rigth place's. Try this. Go to a dinner, and I don't mean a dump. The best time would be around from 5pm to 7 pm. If you spy a guy reading a book and he's alone there's a good chance he has nobody in his life. Or try thr super market. The best time is very early or on the late side. Check out the local bowling ally. You might not want to bowl, but that's what your not there for. Also always check out the ring finger. Even if there's no ring look for till tale sign's of one. Check out your local paper for event's going on. If you have single girl friends, then make plans to get off your butt and go to these place's. The worst thing that could happen is the two of you will have a great time. This will also make a stronger bond between you and them. Ask your male friends where is the best place to go to meet other guys. And I don't mean a bar. Maybe you should look around you, there just might be a frog you over looked. Do you see what I'm trying to tell you. Give what your trying to seek, you need to give it some though. The good guy's your looking for don't sit on their butts. There out there, you need to put a little effort to find them. Lots of luck and don't ever give up hope.
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7/22/2008 5:43:18 PM |
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xzar1978
Gloucester City, NJ
age: 29
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I'd like to think I'm a good guy I have also been told I am far to nice for my own good, don't know if that statement was true? I just like to treat people how I like to be treated! And ofcorse that is with respect. I really try to be very polite And I have a few friends that are females that tell me I am a all around good person.
I know this is going to sound like a crock of shit but, I don't feel as if sex should come in to play unless you have some kind of emotional feeling. And I don't mean a boner!
I am a really goofy guy and if you don't believe me check out my videos on YOU TUBE
Search for XZAR1978 You'll see what I mean by GOOFY!
Well that's all I have. Oh yea and if you have something to add to my post please don't be shy!
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7/22/2008 5:48:59 PM |
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csmith47
Metuchen, NJ
age: 21
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I think they are still out there...but you need go-go gadget goggles to find them!
and if you find a pair of those will you send them to me when you are done?
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7/22/2008 6:18:23 PM |
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terobaukancha
Elmwood Park, NJ
age: 33
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Good people are everywhere, all you have to do is to scan carefull, some look good but behave something else and some behave differently but they are actually good...and don't take me wrong but I do not belong to the group of good people
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7/23/2008 6:30:56 AM |
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jimmyroma
Westfield, NJ
age: 37
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Ahh there are lots of us that like good conversation, laughs and being goofy but be advised we are that way in the hopes of having sex.
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7/23/2008 1:24:29 PM |
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colleen626
Brigantine, NJ
age: 41
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Your funny Jimmy
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