Saugus, MA

12/11/2011 6:28:20 PM
demo1022 Saugus, MA 42, joined Dec. 2011	Heres my deal my high school girlfriend and I dated for 4yrs had a child broke up fought like cats and dogs ..we both got married and devorices...now 20yrs later we have become friends and want to date ...what do you think Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
12/11/2011 6:29:34 PM	Saugus, MA
chill40602 Frankfort, KY 44, joined Nov. 2011	Thomas Wolfe said "you can't go home again". I believe him.
12/11/2011 6:30:27 PM	Saugus, MA
mustangwriter Boerne, TX 54, joined Nov. 2009	glutton for punishment. oh heck i don't know.... crazier things have happened. [Edited 12/11/2011 6:31:14 PM ]
12/11/2011 6:36:23 PM	Saugus, MA
75scott Salt Lake City, UT 40, joined Mar. 2010	No. Mine is an ex wife.
12/11/2011 6:37:51 PM	Saugus, MA
ldroftrollops Goshen, IN 35, joined Mar. 2010	I dunno..it's kind of something no one else can decide. What's the shared child think of this? I can't imagine the child not having some resentment if this does work out..
12/11/2011 6:39:16 PM	Saugus, MA
jenlynn84 Bemidji, MN 31, joined Jul. 2011	If you want to date, give it a try. You are both adults. You are the only ones who know if it's worth a shot or not.
12/11/2011 6:40:01 PM	Saugus, MA
lisa29405 Oak Harbor, WA 52, joined Jun. 2007	It's possible. I'm sure you have both done some changing in the last 20 years. But then again, maybe not, and the same issues will soon pop up. It might be worth a try though and see what happens. Better than 20 years from now regretting not even giving it a try.
12/11/2011 6:44:48 PM	Saugus, MA
oisin_e Mount Sterling, KY 55, joined May. 2010	I can't I married mine now shes gone.
12/11/2011 6:46:41 PM	Saugus, MA
youdontnomeyet Henderson, NV 54, joined Apr. 2010	A day or two together 24/7 give a chance for all the little demons to come out....yes it should be fun and could work out.
12/11/2011 6:47:57 PM	Saugus, MA
hotpink36 Springfield, OR 43, joined Jul. 2008	I say if you want to go ahead, but just remember everything you have put your child you had together through and how hard this could be if this doesn't work out
12/11/2011 6:49:23 PM	Saugus, MA
demo1022 Saugus, MA 42, joined Dec. 2011	thats what we cant figure out the little one is 20 now how do we tell or do we ask
12/11/2011 6:50:01 PM	Saugus, MA
iamalwaysjustme Kansas City, MO 55, joined Apr. 2009	Personally no I wouldn't
12/11/2011 6:50:09 PM	Saugus, MA
jenlynn84 Bemidji, MN 31, joined Jul. 2011	It wouldn't hurt to just have a conversation with your child and see their thoughts on it.
12/11/2011 6:51:29 PM	Saugus, MA
ajgdptwm Potsdam, NY 33, joined Dec. 2010	bud that's a tough call
12/11/2011 6:52:09 PM	Saugus, MA
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 56, joined May. 2009	Why wouldn't you try it? You did love each other, but you may have been too young for it to work out. Maybe, now that you've got some life under your belt, it'll be great. I don't think I'd want to live with 'what ifs' if I didn't at least try. Besides, haven't you read of stories of people who meet again, later in life, and they marry and are happy the rest of their lives? I just don't understand why people are so set in their ruts that when an opportunity presents itself they don't at least see where it might lead. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. If it does, then wonderful. Take a chance. Risk a little.
12/11/2011 6:57:09 PM	Saugus, MA
one_of_two Greensburg, IN 43, joined Aug. 2011	Take a chance!!!! A lot of us would give our eye teeth for such an opportunity. Just do it!
12/11/2011 7:00:53 PM	Saugus, MA
jamieusps Branchville, NJ 37, joined Oct. 2011	U two better make your move. I say go for it. Your going to be dead a long time. Live while you still can. No apologies, just love. Do it
12/11/2011 7:04:30 PM	Saugus, MA
trevster Garland, TX 48, joined Dec. 2011	I say do it! I did date my highschool sweetheart 18 years later. I enjoyed it, but i was just her rebound after her divorce.
12/11/2011 7:12:46 PM	Saugus, MA
demo1022 Saugus, MA 42, joined Dec. 2011	I spend time with the child and she has no idear her mother and i talk alot go out to eat ..and are testing the water so to say
12/11/2011 7:14:42 PM	Saugus, MA
demo1022 Saugus, MA 42, joined Dec. 2011	jami love that one
12/11/2011 7:16:56 PM	Saugus, MA
trevster Garland, TX 48, joined Dec. 2011	I think she will be fine with it, as long as you were part of your kids life while she was growing up.
12/11/2011 7:40:44 PM	Saugus, MA
demo1022 Saugus, MA 42, joined Dec. 2011	Quote from phina1: Ask what - would it bug her if mom and i got togther again
12/11/2011 8:48:19 PM	Saugus, MA
longhairbadass2 Arkansaw, WI 49, joined Nov. 2011	I held a candle for my high school sweetheart for 25 years in the back of my mind. I did not see her once in those 25 years. A couple of years ago I was riding my harley, hair down, lookin good on a nice sunny day. I stopped to watch a parade, and ran into her. She was twice divorced, raised a couple of kids, and named off all her stresses and problems in life. Nature wasn't too kind. In the nature of 250 pounds not too kind. I took one look at her, and poof! Every feeling I ever had was gone. That flame on that candle extinguished forever. Every time she opened her mouth to critique, and complain about her life- I became greatful this was not the person I ended up with in life. I rode away on my harley laughing, and happy to be alive, and single.
12/11/2011 9:56:13 PM	Saugus, MA
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 63, joined Oct. 2009	Quote from demo1022: Heres my deal my high school girlfriend and I dated for 4yrs had a child broke up fought like cats and dogs ..we both got married and devorices...now 20yrs later we have become friends and want to date ...what do you think Oh go for it!!! If you start to fight again then you know it was never meant to be and you ought to get to know the kid you had together.
12/11/2011 10:18:33 PM	Saugus, MA
perfectstrangr Long Beach, CA 31, joined Jun. 2010	I would!
12/11/2011 11:33:44 PM	Saugus, MA
fun2bchattin Hedgesville, WV 48, joined Feb. 2011	Quote from leggsallover: I've had offers from a couple of my past boy friends to date. I only move forward and let the past rest where it belongs. This.
12/12/2011 8:14:20 AM	Saugus, MA
settee_s Flower Mound, TX 62, joined May. 2011	Quote from longhairbadass2: I held a candle for my high school sweetheart for 25 years in the back of my mind. I did not see her once in those 25 years. A couple of years ago I was riding my harley, hair down, lookin good on a nice sunny day. I stopped to watch a parade, and ran into her. She was twice divorced, raised a couple of kids, and named off all her stresses and problems in life. Nature wasn't too kind. In the nature of 250 pounds not too kind. I took one look at her, and poof! Every feeling I ever had was gone. That flame on that candle extinguished forever. Every time she opened her mouth to critique, and complain about her life- I became greatful this was not the person I ended up with in life. I rode away on my harley laughing, and happy to be alive, and single. This... The only way you'll ever know is to experience it first hand...
12/12/2011 9:07:30 AM	Saugus, MA
mirandasdream Moorhead, MN 50, joined Nov. 2011	I did date a guy that I went to school with for a couple of months. It was nice that we had so much in common, from the past, people we knew etc. On the other hand, things that I had thought about him before really hadn't changed. He was divorced and spent NO time with his kids, even though they lived within 6 blocks of him. His lifestyle of bars and avoiding his own children made me see that there was some huge red flags. So, I broke it off. I do believe that people can change. Maybe you two have grown up.
12/12/2011 12:07:48 PM	Saugus, MA
wating2bfound Mooresville, NC 62, joined Oct. 2010	I ran into my "first love" from 40 years ago on Facebook last year. we immediately picked up an email/chat conversation and fell for each other all over again. We chatted/emailed for about a month and then he came for a visit. He had completely changed and didn't look anything like he used to, but I didn't care. All the love that I felt for him from when I was 17 came back and I was blind to what he looked like. It didn't work out though, and I later found out that he was MARRIED...all the time claiming that too much time had gone by. Later he wrote and admitted he felt too guilty to pursue anything further. It was pretty messed up actually, and I got hurt by him all over again. He broke up with me in high school becuz I would put out...and I finally got him to admit the reason after all these years. Despite all of this, and how deeply he hurt me, not once but TWO times, he will always be my first love and I will continue to hold those feelings for him. But, I'm not sure I would have written the story the same way if I had to do it all over again. I probably would have left him in the past and kept those memories!
12/12/2011 12:11:34 PM	Saugus, MA
lovetosmile57 Cincinnati, OH 58, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from demo1022: Heres my deal my high school girlfriend and I dated for 4yrs had a child broke up fought like cats and dogs ..we both got married and devorices...now 20yrs later we have become friends and want to date ...what do you think I think you ate too many mushrooms.
12/12/2011 12:12:56 PM	Saugus, MA
pike_co_rfd Keokuk, IA 59, joined Jan. 2009	Quote from demo1022: Heres my deal my high school girlfriend and I dated for 4yrs had a child broke up fought like cats and dogs ..we both got married and devorices...now 20yrs later we have become friends and want to date ...what do you think I think you're both ......
12/12/2011 12:14:44 PM	Saugus, MA
swamp_donkey_v4 Zimatlán de Alvarez Mexico 96, joined Aug. 2011	Heres my deal my high school girlfriend and I dated for 4yrs had a child broke up fought like cats and dogs ..we both got married and devorices...now 20yrs later we have become friends and want to date ...what do you think I think both of you like to play games. And since neither of you take anything seriously, have fun! PS it's good to know that like most people, you both consider the "child" is just one of the toys in the game. [Edited 12/12/2011 12:16:53 PM ]
12/12/2011 12:16:51 PM	Saugus, MA
alls_fair Thorlákshöfn Iceland 95, joined May. 2011	You certainly can date her again. But I wouldn't bother expecting her snatch to b as tight as it once was...just saying.
12/12/2011 12:18:08 PM	Saugus, MA
cutily New York, NY 28, joined Jul. 2011	I'm picturing my parents getting back together... yuck! You have to be really cautious because of your kids and because it must be hard to be together again, 20 years is a world, a lot of things must have changed.
12/12/2011 12:31:52 PM	Saugus, MA
tsdjb South Plainfield, NJ 61, joined Jul. 2011	try if its meant to be it shall be.
12/12/2011 7:25:59 PM	Saugus, MA
th6231 Point Pleasant Beach, NJ 67, joined Jul. 2007	Certainly--in 20 years--you both have matured and grown emotionally. Something that did not happen 20 years ago. That accounts for the fighting and the irresponsible behavior....20 years ago. SO----its now 20 years later---the chance has been put in front of you----its a rare opportunity to reunite and have a nice life. If you revert back to what happened 20 years ago---you didn't learn a goddamn thing!! You will not have any success NOW!! Think about this----BEFORE you waste your time--and hers!! And don't tell her that you had a discussion about it on a web dating site----it sounds ridiculous that you couldn't figure this out for yourself!! HAPPY HOLIDAYS--good luck---stay warm!!

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