Why do I attract losers?

1/11/2012 9:39:52 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Really I want to know. I am about ready to say goodbye to this site. I never did on line dating. I am a sweet girl but for some reason idk these men I attract unbelieveable Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/11/2012 10:28:30 AM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from staci910: Really I want to know. I am about ready to say goodbye to this site. I never did on line dating. I am a sweet girl but for some reason idk these men I attract unbelieveable Don't quit, I believe you will find that 95% of the guys on here are either pervs, married, shady, players or just wanting a piece of a** or all of the above. But that leaves 5% of men that truely do care. You are just going to have to play the game. Over the years I have made many female friends on here and they all say the same as you. The majority of people on the net can not be trusted. My advice is to hold your moral highgound but lower your expectations of finding your prince on here. This is a good place to make friends both female and male and for forums. Who's to say, a good one could come along. But in the mean time, delete the punks.
1/11/2012 10:31:54 AM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Losers look for the vonrable. Don't take losers personal, its just their way of finding an easy mark.
1/11/2012 1:52:57 PM	Why do I attract losers?
pamale1966 Ephrata, PA 48, joined Aug. 2011	You really are a beautiful woman that I would enjoy going out to dinner with but my conclusion to why you are attracting losers might have something to do with you being a Cowboys fan! Goo Eagles lol.
1/11/2012 5:48:21 PM	Why do I attract losers?
pittsteelerfan Easton, PA 52, joined Sep. 2011	Sometimes you have to look beyond the superficial outer surface of men and look to what they offer from within. Most women are looking for the all-american GQ looking guy and sometimes they are the biggest players.
1/11/2012 6:02:52 PM	Why do I attract losers?
cjjlove Wilmington, DE 47, joined Dec. 2011	i hate games im looking for love and a woman that .will love me for me not as some one you had in our life .woman all ways see me as just a f**k like automated car you drive im a good man looking for love.::
1/11/2012 6:11:05 PM	Why do I attract losers?
gurlb75 Wapakoneta, OH 39, joined Jan. 2012	Amen, bro! Let me tell u, i think im a pretty girl, some of the guys on here-wow! If u dont look u like a barbie, or have the perfect body, they want nothing to do with u. And thats sad. What happened to being smart, or having respect?
1/11/2012 6:15:50 PM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	The Cowboy thing, sorry that's my team lol. I appreciate the comments, very new at this, I dont really expect to find my soulmate on here but just someone with a little respect would be nice.
1/11/2012 7:00:23 PM	Why do I attract losers?
ericjasonp Chalfont, PA 50, joined Feb. 2011	That is a pretty arrogant remark. Loser is a relative term.
1/11/2012 7:35:22 PM	Why do I attract losers?
sdringneck Sioux Falls, SD 56, joined Jan. 2010	What's the common denominator? What is the constant in this equation? If you can't attract a decent man/woman what does that say about you? "Very true ! It's not you . . . it's DH and what they attract." Ahem, might I point out that both you and the OP are here with the rest of us. [Edited 1/11/2012 7:38:01 PM ]
1/11/2012 9:19:25 PM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from ericjasonp: That is a pretty arrogant remark. Loser is a relative term. Bingo! What did I say about the 95%?
1/11/2012 9:42:23 PM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Ok loser is the wrong word how about disrespectful men is that better, I show respect and your right I am on here, guess what not for much longer. I tried this and I dont like it, thanks again for a lot of your comments
1/11/2012 11:40:05 PM	Why do I attract losers?
taichigirl Melbourne, FL 56, joined Sep. 2010	How many real life events do you go to but never seem to find a beau? It's the same with dating sites. It all takes TIME. And then once you find someone it takes TIME to get to know them. And if you get married it takes TIME together to keep the relationship healthy.
1/12/2012 6:12:56 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	That is very true I agree with you. Not looking to get married, not right now anyway, just got out of a marriage. But it's very hard to trust people when they lie. Not saying all men are like this, it's the ones I meet. I am just very guarded now. Never thought I would be single again and have to go thru the dating scene, but stuff happens. I am far from perfect but one thing about me is I am honest and I do not lie. If there is no connection on my part, I wont play with someones head and I just want the same whether its on here or in person. Thanks for all your comments. I normally dont post things on here but really just getting frustrated with this whole dating thing
1/12/2012 6:31:55 AM	Why do I attract losers?
luckylibragal Mesa, AZ 47, joined Oct. 2011	You have very kind trusting eyes. There are alot of controlling men out there looking for someone to boss around. They get their power from bossing others around, Been there, done that...never again!
1/12/2012 7:25:58 AM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from staci910: Ok loser is the wrong word how about disrespectful men is that better, I show respect and your right I am on here, guess what not for much longer. I tried this and I dont like it, thanks again for a lot of your comments Disrespectful men are losers. Don't apologize just because some "holier then thou" d*ck called you on the word loser. I'm a man and have been all my life . I have seen the way the majority of men treat woman. So don't take what that joker says to heart. Again, don't give up. I invite to another forum. Under politics, see Independents. It will enlighten your life. Its fun and madding all at the same time.
1/12/2012 8:46:56 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from luckylibragal: You have very kind trusting eyes. There are alot of controlling men out there looking for someone to boss around. They get their power from bossing others around, Been there, done that...never again! Awwww thank you very much! I just try to treat ppl with respect and just want to be treated the same. Yep I hear ya, been there too and I dont want that anymore ever again
1/12/2012 8:53:44 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Yeah ur right, disrespect is being a loser. And I didnt say every man is a loser. Thanks may be I will try that. It's just very hard being single again when I was married for so long, thought as men got older this would stop but it never does, but yes there is someone out there for me, may be not on here but some where
1/12/2012 12:34:40 PM	Why do I attract losers?
diamondmathis Hurst, TX 22, joined Dec. 2011	Try Www.eHarmony.com My Aunt and Uncle met there you will find someone Ps.Diamond Ro Landa Mathis aka dhat niqqa
1/12/2012 4:36:51 PM	Why do I attract losers?
katrina1964 Melrose, MA 50, joined Sep. 2011	I know what you mean exactly about the losers on here. I think the other free sites are worse. Most men on here are just looking for sex and they are very impolite about how they ask for it. I finally put on my profile that im just here for forums and not looking to date. Seems like guys don't read my profile and comment on my pictures. Or make some wise a** remark such as calling me little miss perfect etc. I just block them after that. And if they are not making crude or rude remarks, they are too busy lieing. One in particularl said he would call me that night and boom, never heard from him again. His loss, oh well. Good luck on here. You will toughen up and learn to handle the jerks on here. [Edited 1/12/2012 4:38:13 PM ]
1/12/2012 4:57:40 PM	Why do I attract losers?
karmabites Bradley, SC 42, joined Oct. 2011	Try try try again whether on this site or out some where there are good and bad every where you just have to wade through the mud and muck to get to the land on the other side . Just take your time and make friends Those that don't suit you drop them and move on Good luck to us all
1/12/2012 11:26:47 PM	Why do I attract losers?
katrina1964 Melrose, MA 50, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from karmabites: Try try try again whether on this site or out some where there are good and bad every where you just have to wade through the mud and muck to get to the land on the other side . Just take your time and make friends Those that don't suit you drop them and move on Good luck to us all Good advice, thanks. Also I like the pic of your dog. It looks like one of mine, that's actually from North Carolina, haha.
1/12/2012 11:49:35 PM	Why do I attract losers?
anja_lou514 Kissimmee, FL 39, joined May. 2011	Quote from grantfl80: Is it true that women lie also? What about all women? G I think it works both ways. My answer would be not all, just more than I care to admit to.
1/13/2012 6:10:00 AM	Why do I attract losers?
katrina1964 Melrose, MA 50, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from grantfl80: Is it true that women lie also? What about all women? G I hate to say this but men lie way more than women do...
1/13/2012 6:38:45 AM	Why do I attract losers?
giddygirl357 Mesa, AZ 45, joined Apr. 2011	I know what u mean its not u cuz I get the same losers its the site
1/13/2012 6:56:18 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from giddygirl357: I know what u mean its not u cuz I get the same losers its the site I has to be the site. Now I wish I never would have posted this because I am getting really nasty emails from men. I mean nasty. Is there anyway you can delete a post, I kinda think not. Omg why did I do this really. I am not going to put up with being talked to like that, I really dont need a dating site, its just easier then going to a bar, but I am treated nicer when I go to a bar. Crazy I dont know how much longer I am staying on here, Mr. right is definetly not on here, more like Mr. a**hole, excuse my language but I do not appreciate getting nasty comments at all from LOSER men and trust me they are!
1/13/2012 7:29:28 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from phina1: Look/think of it this way . . . their nasty comments justifies that they are in fact "losers". Block them and let it roll off your back. Yeah I guess so, but I am not a nasty person and I dont insult ppl to make myself feel good. This guy who I never talked to ever wrote C*NT in an email, omg, I am so far from that and why would you do that. I reported it. I am not on here to get insulted actually I dont know why I am on here. These men are friggin mean
1/13/2012 7:37:01 AM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from katrina1964: I hate to say this but men lie way more than women do... I would not say that was so true. Each party lies about differnent things but just as much. Women = I'm 29, I weigh 120 lbs, this is my real color...... Men = I'm rich, I have a 12 incher, I love you........ See we all do it.
1/13/2012 7:39:10 AM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from staci910: I has to be the site. Now I wish I never would have posted this because I am getting really nasty emails from men. I mean nasty. Is there anyway you can delete a post, I kinda think not. Omg why did I do this really. I am not going to put up with being talked to like that, I really dont need a dating site, its just easier then going to a bar, but I am treated nicer when I go to a bar. Crazy I dont know how much longer I am staying on here, Mr. right is definetly not on here, more like Mr. a**hole, excuse my language but I do not appreciate getting nasty comments at all from LOSER men and trust me they are! Sounds like you bruised some male ego. Don't read them and delete them.
1/13/2012 8:15:41 AM	Why do I attract losers?
kar1sma Clifton, NJ 38, joined Nov. 2010	.. Quote from gurlb75: Amen, bro! Let me tell u, i think im a pretty girl, some of the guys on here-wow! If u dont look u like a barbie, or have the perfect body, they want nothing to do with u. And thats sad. What happened to being smart, or having respect?
1/13/2012 8:18:26 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from betterwithme: Sounds like you bruised some male ego. Don't read them and delete them. Yeah I did, but why is he calling me that when he doesnt even know me. That is just plain rude. I will not insult anyone even if they arent my type. I just dont know about this, I think I would rather just go out if I could only find the time to do that. These guys and yes women as well, can tell you anything at least if you see them and talk to them in person you have more of an idea, not that they cant lie in person but this on line stuff, idk just not my thing, but hey I tried it, and dont like it at all at least not this site
1/13/2012 8:20:45 AM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from kar1sma: .. Quote from gurlb75: Amen, bro! Let me tell u, i think im a pretty girl, some of the guys on here-wow! If u dont look u like a barbie, or have the perfect body, they want nothing to do with u. And thats sad. What happened to being smart, or having respect? I dont think looks are everything, actually I am not into gorgeous men, I just like a nice, cute guy and my taste is very different than a lot of women, I dont go for gorgeous. I think I am attractive not the most gorgeous thing on earth but not ugly, but it's what you have to offer inside that counts. I dont care how cute you are if your a moron then to me your ugly
1/13/2012 9:33:33 AM	Why do I attract losers?
betterwithme Severy, KS 59, joined Dec. 2009	Quote from staci910: Yeah I did, but why is he calling me that when he doesnt even know me. That is just plain rude. I will not insult anyone even if they arent my type. I just dont know about this, I think I would rather just go out if I could only find the time to do that. These guys and yes women as well, can tell you anything at least if you see them and talk to them in person you have more of an idea, not that they cant lie in person but this on line stuff, idk just not my thing, but hey I tried it, and dont like it at all at least not this site Staci, its not about being rude. Its about ego. Its about power. I know you know that. I have little doubt that if this person you speak of had a woman he would beat her and her dog and still expect her to get him another 6 pack of beer. There is evil in this world, lets be clear. Don't be in such a hurry to get reconnected with a mate. Keep the moral highground. Enjoy living in your own house. Use this time to improve yourself. [Edited 1/13/2012 9:34:52 AM ]
1/13/2012 10:55:11 AM	Why do I attract losers?
shhtrm1979 Tahlequah, OK 36, joined Nov. 2011	I know what you mean, Staci. I have had the same problem with players and guys just wanting sex on here, but I just tell them what I am looking for and tell them that we can be friends or he can move on. If i catch them in a lie, I call them on it. After that I keep my guard up with them and if they continue to lie, i quit talking to them. I don't get mad at them cause I knew I would run into men like that on dating sites, but I have also talked to some really nice guys on here too. They are far and few between but they are on here. Don't give up, girl!
1/13/2012 12:06:33 PM	Why do I attract losers?
diamondmathis Hurst, TX 22, joined Dec. 2011	I might be young and good taget to be single to I was Divorced so I know the feeling I have been single most my life and makes me feel less attractive and becoming more desperate one thing I learned is don't go in a relationship with expectations because you will come out nothing expect first things like don't give him money of course he will ask more don't just randomly spoil your man..And don't think because your a woman you dominate Queen and get to be spoiled make him feel like a King to just not spoiled comment him on times you never expected maybe this is what you all ready know but I like blogging and telling people what I have experienced in life as a Teenager trying to get older or younger men is not by maturity but by there heart and what they believe soul and mind... That's all lol P.S Diamond Ro Landa Mathis
1/13/2012 12:14:29 PM	Why do I attract losers?
diamondmathis Hurst, TX 22, joined Dec. 2011	That's not exactly true women is the one who plays games with men's emotions and plays around sneaking dancing partying cheating is what I have seen if you don't think so you are picking hood rats or down right dumb men and it does depend if your sex life is good because if you ever had a talk with your man about your sex life and he gets so confident that he goes out and gets a girl..Well and if your body isn't at perfection then go out and workout not so hard it takes hard work to get a good body now I don't mean go and get plastic surgery please don't do that and read what I'm saying go workout eat right make your self better stop doing sins stop watching porn pick up a Cd and some top rated healthy cook books and read peoples comments on how the Cooking Book works to see if it works for you and just go for it!!!! MAKE YOUR LIFE A DREAM YOU HAVE A CHOICE STOP BEING LAZY IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU SEE FIX IT IT'S NEVER TO LATE!!!
1/13/2012 2:35:10 PM	Why do I attract losers?
katrina1964 Melrose, MA 50, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from staci910: Yeah I guess so, but I am not a nasty person and I dont insult ppl to make myself feel good. This guy who I never talked to ever wrote C*NT in an email, omg, I am so far from that and why would you do that. I reported it. I am not on here to get insulted actually I dont know why I am on here. These men are friggin mean I've been called a C.U.N.T. also and never spoke to the person before. Bruised ego, power.... No that's downright verbal abuse. I reported that too. I guess that jerk thought that I was too good for him.....
1/13/2012 6:44:00 PM	Why do I attract losers?
staci910 Easton, PA 41, joined Sep. 2011	Well again thank you, it's really no big deal I guess, it just shows the mentality of some men and I said some, not all. I will probably stay on this site for a little longer but not going out of my way to reach out to anyone, if they are interested then they can contact me. I didnt appreciate someone calling me that, I treat ppl the way I want to be treated and that was really uncalled for, dont care if the guy hates women or was having a bad day no reason for that. Thanks again and have a great weekend
1/13/2012 7:32:40 PM	Why do I attract losers?
caustiic Land O Lakes, FL 32, joined Nov. 2011	Hmm.. I haven't read all the posts from here thus far.. but I'll just add my 2 cents. You have to try and break the mold to find what you aren't looking for. If it's Losers that keep coming to you then there is something about you that is bringing them there. There is also something that you find attractive too. Perhaps you see the loser and want to fix it.. IDK. From lurking around on DH a little bit now.. I see these girls with this long list of guys they don't want. They are sick of the d-bags and the trolls and blah blah blah.. then you look at their "Friends" and it's all D-bag looking guys. Maybe being a guy, I can spot these turds..but it's kind of amazing. I've also noticed this in life as well. You hear the girl talk about how she hates the jerks and the guys that treat her like crap..but then keeps running to the next best crap ball. It's a never ending circle.. So to bring it back full circle, you have to break the mold. You have to start looking at guys you normally wouldn't. Be it looks, personality or whatever. The things you normally like, you need to stop. That's just my opinion though.
1/13/2012 8:21:34 PM	Why do I attract losers?
iron40b Ephrata, PA 48, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from staci910: I dont think looks are everything, actually I am not into gorgeous men, I just like a nice, cute guy and my taste is very different than a lot of women, I dont go for gorgeous. I think I am attractive not the most gorgeous thing on earth but not ugly, but it's what you have to offer inside that counts. I dont care how cute you are if your a moron then to me your ugly Well I have found on this site it seems to goes the other way also. I am not the best looking man out her but it seems alot of women dont want to give the time of day unless you are the g/q type. What happend to a man being honest and respectfull to women and winning them over that way. I try to be very concerned and well Me and oh well what can I say
1/15/2012 1:28:02 PM	Why do I attract losers?
elaineyoung45 Jacksonville, IL 48, joined Jan. 2012	Staci trust me its not u. Its just alot of the men on here only want sex and if u state that on your profile they still hit ya. And they just wanna see what they can get from u so hang in there girl be firm and dont take no crap.
1/15/2012 7:52:50 PM	Why do I attract losers?
taichigirl Melbourne, FL 56, joined Sep. 2010	In other words, have some standards and you'll weed out the undesirables.
1/15/2012 9:34:25 PM	Why do I attract losers?
saw7 Newark, NJ 25, joined Sep. 2011
1/15/2012 11:28:06 PM	Why do I attract losers?
scee Greenville, SC 36, joined Aug. 2011	Staci910 I read yur post Wht r u looking for?
1/28/2012 10:15:40 AM	Why do I attract losers?
maybebaby69 Lansdale, PA 47, joined Jan. 2012	well put,,, i dont really consider my self a 'man's man', but it is refreshing to read your opinion, as a guy, as i have often been in agreement.
1/28/2012 10:39:16 AM	Why do I attract losers?
maybebaby69 Lansdale, PA 47, joined Jan. 2012	i meant to respond to "caustics" observations,, but dont leave staci !! it is the people you are writing about that gives the rest of us humans a bad name..
2/4/2012 9:54:52 PM	Why do I attract losers?
taichigirl Melbourne, FL 56, joined Sep. 2010	They're dropping like flies.
2/5/2012 2:44:41 PM	Why do I attract losers?
kar1sma Clifton, NJ 38, joined Nov. 2010	Quote from betterwithme: Losers look for the vonrable. Don't take losers personal, its just their way of finding an easy mark.
2/5/2012 4:57:49 PM	Why do I attract losers?
suthrn_comfort Charlotte, NC 48, joined Jan. 2012	I know EXACTLY what you mean!! I have been on tis site for less than two weeks and I'm ready to QUIT. I have been on 3 other sites and have deleted all of those pages........
2/6/2012 2:48:38 AM	Why do I attract losers?
taichigirl Melbourne, FL 56, joined Sep. 2010	Don't give up so soon. You're a beautiful girl. Just wait for Mr. Right and delete all the Mr. Wrongs.
2/6/2012 1:35:28 PM	Why do I attract losers?
i_stan Byron, GA 65, joined Aug. 2010	You attract what you seek . . .
2/8/2012 8:33:02 PM	Why do I attract losers?
looking2love77 York, PA 38, joined Jan. 2012	Not sure but if I had to guess its cause your really gorgeous!
2/9/2012 12:46:06 AM	Why do I attract losers?
60littlebob Oak Ridge, TN 63, joined Oct. 2011	why,because I am easy and they new my buttons to push.
2/9/2012 4:11:56 AM	Why do I attract losers?
glassslipper442 Cleveland, OH 64, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from staci910: Really I want to know. I am about ready to say goodbye to this site. I never did on line dating. I am a sweet girl but for some reason idk these men I attract unbelieveable Welcome to the club, hon.
2/10/2012 3:54:08 PM	Why do I attract losers?
pdforone Litchfield, OH 63, joined Jul. 2010	I like the dog.
2/29/2012 4:19:30 AM	Why do I attract losers?
jamielynn2 Soddy Daisy, TN 42, joined Feb. 2012	do not feel bad i am an older divorcee and an emt but i seem to attract the loosers to who think cause i have a job i have money so they think y do i have to work ,i hate guys like that i just say one day mr.right will come along you have to think like that
2/29/2012 8:12:04 PM	Why do I attract losers?
taichigirl Melbourne, FL 56, joined Sep. 2010	The good men stay married and work things out with their wives, so there is a shrinking pool of really good candidates for those of us who were cruelly dumped, cheated upon, stolen from, lied to, etc etc etc.
2/29/2012 9:11:21 PM	Why do I attract losers?
i_stan Byron, GA 65, joined Aug. 2010	One attracts: 1) what they seek 2) what they project
3/1/2012 1:23:38 PM	Why do I attract losers?
funnyman49 Binghamton, NY 52, joined Nov. 2011	Hello1 i have this problem I always seem to attract women that are looking for a man with a soft heart an that is me. The weirder they are the more I think I need to be with them an need to help them. What is I need advice to tell me how to get away from that style of women an find one that wants to be with me for me. I have been devoriced for 3 years an have been with women that have taken advantage of me. Need help.
3/10/2012 10:05:05 AM	Why do I attract losers?
bmyheart Perris, CA 39, joined Dec. 2009	I was telling someone this morning that the men on this site must think the women here are desperate or stupid. Don't feel bad I am attracting the same type of men .

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