| 6/14/2012 3:52:29 PM |
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emsgirl39
East Bend, NC
42, joined May. 2012
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Why is that when a girl goes out on a date ...the guy always wants sex?? Geezz!!!
Maybe we want to chat and get to know someone before having sex... Ugh!!!!
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| 6/14/2012 3:55:32 PM |
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kernal_max
East Chicago, IN
41, joined Apr. 2012
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First
If you make it clear ahead of time it shouldn't be an issue...if it is then you know he's no good...
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| 6/14/2012 4:10:56 PM |
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megpies
San Antonio, TX
36, joined Jan. 2012
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I've never been solicited for sex on a first date... What kinda guys are you dating??
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| 6/14/2012 4:11:23 PM |
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anewme79
Greensboro, NC
35, joined May. 2012
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First
If you make it clear ahead of time it shouldn't be an issue...if it is then you know he's no good...
This. There are plenty of guys out there that are looking for the same thing as you. You just have to find them.
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| 6/14/2012 4:13:01 PM |
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lightningbugs
Las Cruces, NM
35, joined Feb. 2012
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Any good men will not expect sex on the first date. Use it as a way to judge the weeds out of the way. Saying no is all cool, even if they don't like it.
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| 6/14/2012 4:25:18 PM |
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anewme79
Greensboro, NC
35, joined May. 2012
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OP. You must have gone out on a date with my ex. (I just noticed where you're from and he would be more than willing to drive an hour just to get some. And is the kind of guy who would be pissed if you turned him down. lol.)
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| 6/14/2012 4:31:30 PM |
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musicqueen79
Muskegon, MI
35, joined Jun. 2012
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Well don't you have to try the merchandise out before you invest any more time into it?
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| 6/14/2012 4:56:40 PM |
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emsgirl39
East Bend, NC
42, joined May. 2012
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Obviously the wrong ones!
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| 6/14/2012 4:57:06 PM |
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emsgirl39
East Bend, NC
42, joined May. 2012
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I do.
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| 6/14/2012 5:05:11 PM |
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zako
Angri
Italy
38, joined Mar. 2011
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I'm waiting for marriage. 
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| 6/14/2012 5:39:58 PM |
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samsclub332
Orlando, FL
41, joined May. 2012
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I wanna have sex with the op!!
Lots of it 
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| 6/14/2012 5:44:21 PM |
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lovesunlovelife
Jenison, MI
36, joined Jun. 2012
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I guess I am weird, I just want to get to know the person first... Then down the road, when we are both ready.. Sex is good. I guess I am old fashioned.
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| 6/14/2012 6:09:20 PM |
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smokungguns05
Senecaville, OH
41, joined Jul. 2010
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I like sex right away so I can show you what I have to offer and see what im getting in return. Why wait 3 or 6 months or longer just to find out the other person isn't worth a damn in the sack. You need to be compatible in all aspects of the relationship. Nothing worse than to fall in love with a person just to resent them cuz they wont please you in the bedroom...
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| 6/14/2012 7:35:27 PM |
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s_h_a_u_n
Raleigh, NC
44, joined Jun. 2012
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I prefer to wait a couple/few dates. I don't want to be involved with anymore nutjob relationships based on sex. I'll unload the gun so I'm not distracted when she and I talk  and if I'm still turned on by her  , then there's major points for her on that, too.
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| 6/14/2012 7:44:25 PM |
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tobryant
Allegan, MI
37, joined Jun. 2012
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Yeah you are not the only one who seems to find guys like that. Just because I talk and joke about sex a lot doesn't mean that's all I want.
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| 6/14/2012 7:48:25 PM |
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samsclub332
Orlando, FL
41, joined May. 2012
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I call bull crap on all you guys. There aint one of you that has had so many first date experiences you're tired of it..and if you say you don't hold sex as an option are either lying or idiots. If I ask a woman out it is because I'm attracted to her..I don't push sex but they know it is a welcomed option
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| 6/14/2012 7:53:36 PM |
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lukin4mybestie2
Burbank, CA
37, joined Jul. 2011
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I put out before the date and work up an appetite.
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| 6/14/2012 9:46:17 PM |
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sillyprincess11
Orlando, FL
43, joined Mar. 2012
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ehhhh, that is why I am going to become a nun!!!! 
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| 6/14/2012 10:28:26 PM |
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stephens033
Lake Charles, LA
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to be honest if women gives it up to fast men lose respectif a man meets a beautiful women and has sex on the first date they lose intreast fast
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| 6/14/2012 10:37:18 PM |
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manofmanynames
Greensboro, NC
38, joined Mar. 2012
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to be honest if women gives it up to fast men lose respect
Quoted for truth. Sex with someone you truly love is far better than loving someone who's only good in bed. Therefore, it's worth the wait to see how compatible you are in my honest opinion.
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| 6/14/2012 10:54:15 PM |
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new_adventure37
Tolland, CT
41, joined Jan. 2011
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Have you given it on the first date? really??
I wouldn't want a girl that gives it up that easily!!
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| 6/14/2012 10:56:12 PM |
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lukin4mybestie2
Burbank, CA
37, joined Jul. 2011
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Its called sarcasm. Glad you recognize it.
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| 6/14/2012 10:59:49 PM |
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new_adventure37
Tolland, CT
41, joined Jan. 2011
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I didn't mean anyone in particular! Really! I hope people aren't like that. Should I have put that in the No Offense But?
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| 6/14/2012 11:01:56 PM |
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fuzzyyellow
Auburndale, FL
37, joined Jan. 2012
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on the first date I always give a choice. dessert or sex, you'd be amazed at how many choose sex 
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| 6/14/2012 11:31:24 PM |
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filterless1
Oxnard, CA
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Can I call bull shit on that ^ or at least ask for a date if its not bull shit?
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| 6/14/2012 11:44:36 PM |
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cali_surfer_dud
San Antonio, TX
40, joined May. 2011
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Go hand in hand sometimes...
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| 6/14/2012 11:45:36 PM |
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trupoet
Philadelphia, PA
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I think one should really value themselves and wait for sex if you really like the person...giving it up right away would make any real person seem selfless
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| 6/14/2012 11:46:01 PM |
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lukin4mybestie2
Burbank, CA
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| 6/14/2012 11:52:31 PM |
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sunshineangel73
Gulf Shores, AL
41, joined Jun. 2012
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lol loved your post bet ever man ust fell out of his chair
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| 6/14/2012 11:55:58 PM |
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momof2coolkids
San Antonio, TX
41, joined Jun. 2012
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no never on 1st date
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| 6/15/2012 12:07:48 AM |
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thechinonyc
Brooklyn, NY
38, joined Mar. 2012
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Sex should not be the end all and be all of a first date. If the guy is pushing for it, then take your two feet and simply walk away. Obviously, he's not interested in getting to know you beyond how tall and how long will it take for you to f**k him.
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| 6/15/2012 12:10:42 AM |
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kernal_max
East Chicago, IN
41, joined Apr. 2012
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Sex is great...if there is no chemistry then it won't get there.
I like to see what happens after sex...if it was ONLY sexual chemistry. I don't really see the big deal as long as I'm respectful.
I don't push the issue but I do believe I know what the relationship is really worth if we can bond on other levels after sex is out of the way. Until then it's pretty much all I can think about. Just being honest.
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| 6/15/2012 9:20:07 AM |
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sdwiseguy777
Liberty Hill, TX
44, joined Dec. 2011
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My best first date wasn't a date at all. She was alone at a bar. I bought her a beer. We kissed, talked, and kissed some more. She was alive and I liked her. We decided to go to a hotel on the beach. Her smile led me. Then we paused. Better to end the "date" where it was and get to know each other better. I followed her home to make sure she was safe. She waved goodbye. Today, she's my best friend.
Waiting made me feel better about her. Knowing she almost gave in to my temptations made me feel better about me.
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| 6/15/2012 10:16:31 AM |
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s_h_a_u_n
Raleigh, NC
44, joined Jun. 2012
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^ handled responsibly like a man, brother!
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| 6/15/2012 10:19:20 AM |
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fuzzyyellow
Auburndale, FL
37, joined Jan. 2012
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I hope the alive part was a typo.
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| 6/15/2012 10:46:34 AM |
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fuzzyyellow
Auburndale, FL
37, joined Jan. 2012
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Can I call bull shit on that ^ or at least ask for a date if its not bull shit?
hey!! Not everyone here knows I'm such a prude. quit trying to spoil it for me filt!! 
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| 6/15/2012 2:23:59 PM |
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toreador66
Water Valley, MS
36, joined Sep. 2010
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I hope the alive part was a typo.
Was kinda wondering about that mahself.......
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| 6/15/2012 3:00:40 PM |
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simplegirlaz
Scottsdale, AZ
32, joined Jan. 2012
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First date and sex!?!?!?
It happens.
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| 6/15/2012 3:36:44 PM |
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smokungguns05
Senecaville, OH
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