evelinefen
Windsor, ON
age: 49
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I believe someone that is really interested would devote their time getting to know you and then decide whether they want to go further or if they want to end it.Coming and going is just playing games.This is my opinion from a personal experience.
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keykeper34
Boise, ID
age: 54
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If he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out.
1. An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of ruining the friendship.
2. Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he'll do the asking.
3. If you can find him, he can find you. If he WANTS to find you, he will.
4. "Hey, let's meet at so-and-so's party - any bar - friend's house" is not a date. Even if you live in New York.
5. Men don't forget how much they like you, so put down the phone.
6. You are good enough to be asked out.
If he's not calling you. (Men know how to use the phone.)
1. If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.
2. Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.
3. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize he's ok with disappointing you.
4. If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.
5. Busy is another word for a**hole. Asshole is another word for the guy you're dating.
6. You deserve a phone call.
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gidget67
Lafayette, IN
age: 59
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If he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out.
1. An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of ruining the friendship.
2. Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he'll do the asking.
3. If you can find him, he can find you. If he WANTS to find you, he will.
4. "Hey, let's meet at so-and-so's party - any bar - friend's house" is not a date. Even if you live in New York.
5. Men don't forget how much they like you, so put down the phone.
6. You are good enough to be asked out.
If he's not calling you. (Men know how to use the phone.)
1. If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.
2. Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.
3. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize he's ok with disappointing you.
4. If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.
5. Busy is another word for a**hole. Asshole is another word for the guy you're dating.
6. You deserve a phone call.
I like these. I don't necessarily agree with every one of them, but it's a nice list of guidelines. Think I just might copy these and keep them handy next time I'm emotionally involved and have trouble cutting to the chase.
Thank you!
 G
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momofone19
Bethlehem, PA
age: 44
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HI i meet a guy e mail each other, and we meet we were on that date for 5-6 hrs it be a week that we got together. And NO phone calls not a word from him. I know he was too good looking for me it was too good to be true.....
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 57 online now!
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from a guy I met on DH. I am really starting to like him and keeping a certain distance because I don't want to scare him off. He approached me and we had been communicating, then we stopped and now it started up again. I am confused because I would like to take it to the next level and meet him but I don't know what to think. He has already mentioned meeting but not since we started up the second time. Can I please have some advice since most of my friends are either married or involved. I have been on other web sites and I can't begin to tell you the a**holes  that I met. Have had my heart chewed up and spit out. Can't, no don't want to go through that again.  
As my mother used to say: "Let him chase you until you catch him." He may be scared of wanting to meet you so soon.........he may be playing a game that peoole in our age should be smart enough no to play. Let him -and all others- feel they are the chasers
Duchessa
[Edited 9/15/2008 3:19:16 AM]
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
age: 57 online now!
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life.
IF WE ONLY LISTEN TO OUR CONSCIENCE MORE- there would be less mistakes 
JMHO - 
As usual....the best advise. Each and every time I didn't pay attention to my sixth sense -at work or in my personal life- I ended up discovering I should have.
Duchessa...off to deal with my students. I love them
[Edited 9/15/2008 3:19:37 AM]
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