Can a man being more direct turn you on?

11/3/2012 5:07:25 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
rdeffley San Jose, CA 36, joined Sep. 2009	Ladies I am curious. If a man has the balls to be a lot more aggressive with you relatively soon into the process does that turn you on more? I used to be really timid with women when I was in my late teens-early 20's. Now I am not. I am extremely blunt, direct, and aggressive now. I go after what I want and embrace my sexuality. It seems like even the most innocent looking girls get wildly turned on by this. Half the time I am still amazed at it. The ironic thing is that I am not a have sex on the first date type of guy and I am actually a bit old fashioned. I just like establishing sexual tastes earlier on. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
11/3/2012 5:09:03 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
damhan18 Jacksonville, FL 23, joined Jun. 2012	Aggressive is good, stalkerish not so much
11/3/2012 5:09:47 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
gonedays99 Eskifjördur Iceland 29, joined Apr. 2012	If they find you attractive, yes. If they find you unattractive, no. [Edited 11/3/2012 5:10:05 PM ]
11/3/2012 5:10:44 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
rdeffley San Jose, CA 36, joined Sep. 2009	Quote from damhan18: Aggressive is good, stalkerish not so much Ha Ha.. I agree with you there. I was mainly talking about being more aggressive about sexuality and not hiding away from it. One thing I have learned over the years is that women like sex even more than men. So I think by being honest and direct about what you want and embracing your sexuality, it is more genuine because you are not insulting a woman's intelligence.
11/3/2012 5:12:08 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
damhan18 Jacksonville, FL 23, joined Jun. 2012	I find I am more attracted to guys who are open about what they like and are open about their interest in me and what they want from me. Now there are times with a guy is hot being timid
11/3/2012 5:12:14 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
nathan419 Upland, CA 37, joined Aug. 2012	when i was in my teens and tweentys...i was alot more blunt..and would say whatever was on my mind...but now i have calmed down..and are alot more reserved
11/3/2012 5:12:54 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
damhan18 Jacksonville, FL 23, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from nathan419: when i was in my teens and tweentys...i was alot more blunt..and would say whatever was on my mind...but now i have calmed down..and are alot more reserved This right here is my type
11/3/2012 5:15:06 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
nathan419 Upland, CA 37, joined Aug. 2012	but i still get what i want i just do it a little differnt now
11/3/2012 5:15:50 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
xman7900 Richmond, VA 38, joined Apr. 2012	I think you should apply the "time and a place for everything" rule when being direct with women. For example, if you are looking for a mate the traditional way (in public, face to face), it MAY not be such a good idea to walk up to her and say something like "Nice rack, I'd love to stuff my c*ck between it", then you come off like a perv, stalker. BUT, on a site like this one, or say Fling, you can be as direct as you want and it won't likely offend anybody. [Edited 11/3/2012 5:16:27 PM ]
11/3/2012 5:16:01 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
rdeffley San Jose, CA 36, joined Sep. 2009	Quote from damhan18: I find I am more attracted to guys who are open about what they like and are open about their interest in me and what they want from me. Now there are times with a guy is hot being timid This has been my experience as well. I have done 10x better with women since I just started being direct, honest, and aggressive. It is nice when the light blub finally goes off in your head about understanding women better. I think the problem is that so many guys are too PC and timid these days because of how their mom's raised them. I used to be the same way. However, what mom's don't get is that being too nice, complimentary and accomodating does not build sexual attraction. You have to build sexual attraction first before getting into a relationship and many guys try to do it the other way around. Quote from xman7900: I think you should apply the "time and a place for everything" rule when being direct with women. For example, if you are looking for a mate the traditional way (in public, face to face), it MAY not be such a good idea to walk up to her and say something like "Nice rack, I'd love to stuff my c*ck between it", then you come off like a perv, stalker. BUT, on a site like this one, or say Fling, you can be as direct as you want and it won't likely offend anybody. Ha Ha Ha.. I agree with you man. You need a rapport with a woman before going there. You can't walk up to a complete stranger and talk like that. I was referring to being more direct in subtle ways with more flirting and innuendos, and then after you tell sexual interest is starting to peak, you are a lot more direct. [Edited 11/3/2012 5:17:49 PM ]
11/3/2012 5:17:27 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
iheartidiots Grove City, OH 40, joined Feb. 2012	Depends upon the situation. Every man is different. I like a man who is direct but if thats the main objective, in my eyes, thats not a turn on.
11/3/2012 5:20:19 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
rdeffley San Jose, CA 36, joined Sep. 2009	Quote from iheartidiots: Depends upon the situation. Every man is different. I like a man who is direct but if thats the main objective, in my eyes, thats not a turn on. Yeah I agree Kimmy. Part of what heightens sexual attraction is a connection that builds. If you can combine the rapport and connection, with intense sexual attraction, that is when you have found something special. I just prefer to get sexual tastes/preferences out of the way much earlier now. The worst feeling is when you get invested and develop a connection and then find out you are a mis-match sexually.
11/3/2012 5:21:12 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
nathan419 Upland, CA 37, joined Aug. 2012	and so much depends on the woman to
11/3/2012 5:22:07 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
damhan18 Jacksonville, FL 23, joined Jun. 2012	Hey if a sexy man walked up to me and whispered in my ear what he wanted to do to me I'd melt
11/3/2012 5:22:15 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
gonedays99 Eskifjördur Iceland 29, joined Apr. 2012	10/10 times sexual attraction is tied in with physical attraction. No matter what you say, if they are not physically attracted to you it doesn't matter anyway. Furthermore it depends on the person. Obviously a church going reserved girl will probably not appreciate directness from a man compared to a girl who is a bar hopper, she might be okay with this. [Edited 11/3/2012 5:23:00 PM ]
11/3/2012 5:26:44 PM	Can a man being more direct turn you on?
rdeffley San Jose, CA 36, joined Sep. 2009	Quote from nathan419: and so much depends on the woman to That can be true. However, one thing I will say is that if a woman feels a connection she becomes much more uninhibited rather quickly. There have been women I talked to that acted like they hated sex initially and then a week later were literally begging me for sex. A big part of that was because I actually embraced the fact that I have a d*ck and like sex. As I said before, I am actually not a sex on the first date type of guy and I am a bit old fashioned as I don't like rushing into sex. I just like developing sexual tension and attraction because it heightens things. [Edited 11/3/2012 5:28:33 PM ]

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