| 11/6/2012 11:48:57 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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ronnie021
Jersey City, NJ
33, joined Oct. 2012
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@ Serenity :
I can surely toos u around both ways and u will really love it and will want to do more 
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| 11/6/2012 11:50:27 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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venomoustruth
Mesa, AZ
40, joined Oct. 2012
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@ Serenity :
I can surely toos u around both ways and u will really love it and will want to do more
I doubt it maverick
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| 11/6/2012 11:54:50 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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bhonestplz
Sacramento, CA
29, joined Jun. 2012
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Submissive
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| 11/6/2012 11:57:32 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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ronnie021
Jersey City, NJ
33, joined Oct. 2012
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@ Venomoustruth : It depends in the passion and girl like serenity ,,so power will automatically come,
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| 11/7/2012 12:03:26 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
46, joined Apr. 2012
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I can't stand a man that thinks of himself as a.switch pick a side that what a man should be able to do right?
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| 11/7/2012 12:07:14 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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bhonestplz
Sacramento, CA
29, joined Jun. 2012
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Submissive doesn't mean gay smh
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| 11/7/2012 12:07:24 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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snarrky
Americana
Brazil
42, joined Jun. 2012
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Dominant aggressive b*tch with a penis obsession. 
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| 11/7/2012 12:08:31 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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darrinpotter87
Lancing, TN
29, joined Dec. 2010
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I can be either
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| 11/7/2012 12:09:11 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
46, joined Apr. 2012
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Submissive doesn't mean gay smh
Did someone say it did? I'm hoping it was a blocked person cuz I never said anything about gay. I don't like submissive men but I know a few women that do.
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| 11/7/2012 12:11:35 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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eriaction
Hendersonville, NC
31, joined Jul. 2012
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I am into mutual dom and sub.... Both parties should be feeling powerful and weak at the time 
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| 11/7/2012 12:16:08 AM |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
46, joined Apr. 2012
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I think a lot of ppl are very confused by dom and sub positions. Its hard for me to explain it I think tommy did it best once I will have to find her and have her explain it again. Its really not about anyone being any less important a lot of ppl have said that if your a sub its cuz your lazy I would like to know how they figure or they need to find a true sub I am submissive and I do more work during and sexual and non sexual act than my dom ever has. Its funny some ppl think if your into Bdsm you file to be abused not true either
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| 11/7/2012 12:17:48 AM |
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bhonestplz
Sacramento, CA
29, joined Jun. 2012
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You said "a switch" witch gives the implication of switching genders and "a man would be able to choose" You said as is a man can't choose both if he so desires but it's cool each is own
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| 11/7/2012 12:24:29 AM |
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butterflyforeve
Dallas, TX
46, joined Apr. 2012
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A switch is a term for someone that switches between dom and sub its a a category on such websites as a matter of fact. And I prefer aan that knows he is the man and doesn't play a switch role. If someone says they are submissive that's awesome you have decided that's what you are but I also know its not someone I would.choose cuz I am submissive and need my dominate counter part. If you thought I was putting you down that I'm sorry I was not I actually didn't ever read what your response was before I posted. I say the same thing in every thread of this nature.
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| 11/7/2012 12:32:26 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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iluvblumpkins
Lawrence, KS
33, joined Jul. 2011
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liar...........prove it 
Anytime
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| 11/7/2012 2:47:49 AM |
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alicia1031
Temecula, CA
28, joined Oct. 2012
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I'm normally very submissive but sometimes I like to be in control and take my time teasing
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| 11/7/2012 2:48:35 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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deadlooking
Miami, FL
27, joined Oct. 2012
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Very dominant
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| 11/7/2012 4:53:07 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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rdeffley
San Jose, CA
35, joined Sep. 2009
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When it comes to sex, I am dominant and I need a submissive slut in the sheets. She is my b*tch sexually because that is what turns her on. However, I am not into BDSM at all. Rough aggressive sex is one thing. But actually causing pain is something else all together.
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| 11/7/2012 7:11:16 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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kittylulu32
Forney, TX
37, joined Apr. 2012
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Im a Dom been for 9 yrs but just too many things i enjoy to pick a fav but the whole aspect of having that control over a person is an amazing feeling
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| 11/7/2012 7:21:28 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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igotcrnack
Bedford, TX
22, joined Sep. 2012
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im definately dominant and although I havent really messed around with bondage or anything I love pinning a woman down, man handling her and using her as my personal cum dumpster...but God I sure wish I could find a chick that will smack my face slam me up against a wall rip my pants off suck the skin off my D*ck and bite my balls
[Edited 11/7/2012 7:23:03 AM ]
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| 11/7/2012 9:11:22 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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la_dv8
Albuquerque, NM
32, joined Sep. 2012
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I initiate A LOT so i say passive about 40% active about 60%
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| 11/7/2012 9:14:33 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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rome_84
Bridgeview, IL
31, joined Aug. 2012
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Do I have to choose one? lol
If she wants me to be dominant than I am,
if she wants me to be submissive then I will.
But I'm naturally more dominant.
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| 11/7/2012 9:17:44 AM |
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patriciarn2012
Pensacola, FL
45, joined May. 2012
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Just because someone is "submissive" or "Dominant" doesn't have anything to do whether or not they are into BDSM.
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| 11/7/2012 4:07:26 PM |
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jstlkng1964
Adrian, MI
52, joined Feb. 2012
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I think the confusion here lies in the terms used.
Those that have been in or are in a sub/Dom relationship understand that it is indeed a LIFESTYLE and not merely a "role" you play in the bedroom. It factors every part of your life, not just your sexual activities. Also there seems to be some misunderstanding as to the role BDSM plays in a sub/Dom relationship. As I stated already, it is a lifestyle not just sexual and many sub/Dom relationship do not necessarily include BDSM.
I understand most of the posters in this thread using the term to describe JUST their sexual role preference and not a lifestyle preference. To that end I would have to say most of you understand you want to be in charge when the clothes come off or submissive when the clothes come off but if you have your clothes on, most would choose to be with someone who doesn't need to be told what to do 24/7. This is where the difference between "playing" and "living" that role comes into being.
A true sub/Dom relationship is NOT about control/power of one over the other. Both roles comprise of wanting the most for their partner, NOT themselves. The beauty is in that doing so gains the most for themselves even though they are seeking the pleasure of the other.
To the BDSM part of the equation....many, MANY people enjoy a bit of BDSM but would never consent to a true sub/Dom relationship. Not everything about a sub/Dom relationship is sexual just like not everything about being submissive or dominant in the bedroom is indicative of a sub/Dom relationship.
I consider the source when it comes to these type of questions and assume most people are speaking in terms of a sexual aspect of the relationship ONLY and not their lifestyle overall.
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| 11/11/2012 5:34:04 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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familyguy777
Twentynine Palms, CA
40, joined Sep. 2012
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why so grumpy?
mind ur business.
You should educate yourself on manners and stay out of peoples post.
u r being anal for no reason..
making urself look dumb by picking petty fights.
gfoh with ur BDSM PhD bulls*%t
I could care less about how highly educated u r on this topic.
take ur "whipA" and chains and go have a cup of chamomile tea . b.
ok thts hott!can you whippa me? yeah funny on alot of threads there is always some1 who gets all edumacated
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| 11/11/2012 6:36:28 PM |
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amish_hitman
Sturgis, MI
41, joined Aug. 2011
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Dom.
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| 11/11/2012 6:51:29 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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lai2300
Palm Springs, CA
27, joined May. 2012
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<------ submissive and love to be dominated!!!!
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| 11/11/2012 7:09:33 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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demmydubstep
Jacksonville, FL
43, joined Sep. 2012
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I'm submissive and into a bit of bdsm, I prefer being sub, but sometimes it's fun to be the dom too
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| 11/11/2012 7:40:51 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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matthew442
Holly, MI
53, joined Sep. 2011
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Being in that life and learning for yourself what you are DOM. or sub and when you are ready to apply your choice to all parts of your life it SETS YOU FREE~ But it is so much than "Just a Relationship" involed Mind, Body & Soul is only the starting place & the word you have to live by is TRUST and so much more than you will ever know as long as you are living a Vanllia life ~oh yes I am a DOM and I will make it hurt soooo good  For you my sweetness one
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| 11/11/2012 7:46:52 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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dudefreed
Portland, OR
43, joined Sep. 2012
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fake as all hell
but whilst here...what guy would want a sub? I mean if that was her thing...I'd support it hahahaha
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| 11/11/2012 9:29:17 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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spynee
Hagerstown, MD
48, joined Oct. 2009
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Both dom and sub. In a relationship where we take turns. We would love to find a sub toy male or female for her and my pleasure.
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| 11/11/2012 9:35:06 PM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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spynee
Hagerstown, MD
48, joined Oct. 2009
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I think the confusion here lies in the terms used.
Those that have been in or are in a sub/Dom relationship understand that it is indeed a LIFESTYLE and not merely a "role" you play in the bedroom. It factors every part of your life, not just your sexual activities. Also there seems to be some misunderstanding as to the role BDSM plays in a sub/Dom relationship. As I stated already, it is a lifestyle not just sexual and many sub/Dom relationship do not necessarily include BDSM.
I understand most of the posters in this thread using the term to describe JUST their sexual role preference and not a lifestyle preference. To that end I would have to say most of you understand you want to be in charge when the clothes come off or submissive when the clothes come off but if you have your clothes on, most would choose to be with someone who doesn't need to be told what to do 24/7. This is where the difference between "playing" and "living" that role comes into being.
A true sub/Dom relationship is NOT about control/power of one over the other. Both roles comprise of wanting the most for their partner, NOT themselves. The beauty is in that doing so gains the most for themselves even though they are seeking the pleasure of the other.
To the BDSM part of the equation....many, MANY people enjoy a bit of BDSM but would never consent to a true sub/Dom relationship. Not everything about a sub/Dom relationship is sexual just like not everything about being submissive or dominant in the bedroom is indicative of a sub/Dom relationship.
I consider the source when it comes to these type of questions and assume most people are speaking in terms of a sexual aspect of the relationship ONLY and not their lifestyle overall.
Exactly its not about self at all but being all and doing all for and with your partner
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| 11/16/2012 2:29:43 AM |
Submissive or Dominant |
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kiwisoccer
Christchurch
New Zealand
33, joined Jun. 2006
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I havent had any personal experience with it but at this stage i would say i am a switch
Just have to find the right lady to play with
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