| 6/9/2008 6:05:00 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 50
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because some guys think that is all we are good for or want.
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| 6/9/2008 6:10:36 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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natasha1962
Fulton, NY
age: 45
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I hate to admit this but I see women doing the exact same thing to men. I think it depends on the people you contact. I noticed you can't even joke about anything sexual without the other person assuming you want to have sex. And as far as partying, I know a lot of people who party to have fun, not to get laid or used. 
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| 6/9/2008 6:11:24 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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What's the point of you dating if you don't put out?
Might as well call Beverly and Candice over for nights of bridge and Gin.
Well put there 
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| 6/9/2008 6:18:22 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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sjjsc
Modesto, CA
age: 46
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Wow and I thought i was the only one who felt like that!!!!!!!
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| 6/9/2008 6:23:09 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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mlmcgee
Dayton, OH
age: 53
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I have had very similar situations when I refuse on the first date the guy will not call back. There is man on this site from Columbus that emails that he is horny everyday. I reported him to the site. I am looking for a great conversation and somebody that has similar interests. I know not all men are like that but I have had my share of bad dates. I am positive if we felt comfortable with one another in the future sex would happen naturally. Dating again after 13 years has not been easy. Sometimes I am at a loss of what one would expect but I definitely have learned alot quickly and will stick to my rule of no sex until I feel comfortable with somebody.
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| 6/9/2008 6:23:46 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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leftyl8
Horseheads, NY
age: 43
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beverly and candice? what is this? the golden girl sex in the datehookup city?
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| 6/9/2008 6:30:54 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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deano1234
Pierson, IA
age: 44
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Horse shit. If we can get the lay maybe they'll stay. Romance and intimacy,Has been lost for a while for both of us. We both want someone to have and to hold. If it doesn't work out big deal. At least for one night you got hold some one, and they got to hold you.
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| 6/9/2008 7:00:55 PM |
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wishicould
Mesquite, TX
age: 51
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Because we are looking to get laid.
We keep hoping that if we take that attitude all the time - the odds are eventually we'll get some!
There is your answer.
However...if you guys be patient... play it right... you have a better chance of it.
My biological clock is ticking
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| 6/9/2008 7:02:17 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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cause Viagra only lasts for so long before we have too take another one 
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| 6/10/2008 10:08:42 AM |
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laurad
Staten Island, NY
age: 39
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Ur right! I've only met ONE guy on here that didn't go from "hi, my name is..." to "so do you wanna?" 
It's really sickening...I think most of us can get a booty call anytime if that's what we wanted, let's face it, it's obviously easy to find someone who wants to get laid.
Not everyone is here for that though.
As for that one guy who has been so nice, I let him know how much it has been appreciated and right now, he's the type of guy who's got the best shot!
just my humble opinion....
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| 6/10/2008 6:58:52 PM |
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theodorebear
Hopkinsville, KY
age: 41
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Ur right! I've only met ONE guy on here that didn't go from "hi, my name is..." to "so do you wanna?"
It's really sickening...I think most of us can get a booty call anytime if that's what we wanted, let's face it, it's obviously easy to find someone who wants to get laid.
Not everyone is here for that though.
As for that one guy who has been so nice, I let him know how much it has been appreciated and right now, he's the type of guy who's got the best shot!
just my humble opinion....
I would have to agree with the overall tone of this post. I have seen it from women too. I don't want to just run jump in the sack. I want more out of life than just sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is ok but there has to be more. Without a firm grasp of each other's intricacies outside of the bedroom, how are you going to pass the next 20 years? 40? I am looking to see if I can meet the ONE person that would be GOOD for me, not just bed me. If sex is all they want, then I'm not interested.
[Edited 6/10/2008 6:59:36 PM]
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| 6/10/2008 8:07:20 PM |
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x_13
Lansing, MI
age: 38
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Its not that me/men want to get laid 1st night,sometimes us men want to test the waters like you ladies.in that same token us men want a woman thats not gonna put the pie out,but theres that man and woman that wants as well see its all a double fold.ive seen many a profile of WOMEN:i wanna get F@#KED,then ive seen the same for others wanting to be friends blah blah blah and of course im sure theres the dudes with thier D!@#KS swinging all over the map to.at the end of the night,you/and some women as well as us men have a thought to deal with whom we deal.and not to knock you but you cant say you havent indulged in a little sextalk while youve been here,or else it wouldnt have been brought up...........
my point here is not that your wronge for saying how you feel,but to point out that every dudes not out to do a DEBBIE DOES DALLAS sceen with you,but to maybe see if on a sexual/learning note you may or not be comatable.....nothing wronge with talking about it,but there is a line to stand across......
SO THE STATEMENT THAT MEN ONLY THINK WITH THIER D!@KS is a WASH.........THATS BULLSHYT....
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| 6/10/2008 8:28:29 PM |
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carolinaguy71
Boca Raton, FL
age: 36
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I would never just assume that, but then again I am not that type of guy. Alot of guys that have never had a serious relationship dont know what a relationship is. Most of them and I am not saying all are younger then 30 years of age have never been married have no kids and no serious long term relationship, and the type of women they date are barflys and put out to every regular at the club. They are not used to having to talk to a woman to be able to date them, he just lets the alchohol do the trick they have sex then they are dating because shes already slept with him and she might as well keep him. Then later down the road the woman see's that this guy is still immature and dumps him , he learns a little from that one and the next until hes the disgruntled divorced man.
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| 6/10/2008 8:42:38 PM |
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rowdy66
Republic, MO
age: 42
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Very good observation...
Cynthia
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| 6/10/2008 9:40:09 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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x_13
Lansing, MI
age: 38
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Very good observation...
Cynthia
explain.......
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