| 6/11/2008 8:22:12 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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Why do some women assume that all men are alike?
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| 6/11/2008 9:35:41 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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wldcherry05
Hampton, GA
age: 21
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It does not mean women do not like sex or does not want to have sex, just because she would like to get to know the man a little bit first. It's called patience and controlling ones self. A man who respects me will be glad he did ,once I agree to become intimate. Don't buy me dinner or take me out if you "expect" anything other than talking, laughing, hand holding and a kiss. Save yourself the disappointment and anger over maybe spending a few dollars and I didn't give it up.
Sure women lust on dates too, but we also have to protect ourselves from the "hit and run" kind of guys. I am sure men have had women do this too. I do not believe in "long term teasing" either. I am upfront and lay it out there when it comes up in conversation. The biggest turn off and red flag is talking about sex immediately. Geez...I'd at least like to know your name and meet you first. Why is that so hard to understand? (no pun intended).
VERY well put! thanks for the post...this is exactly it...it is the absolute BIGGEST turn-off...doesnt' matter how good looking the guy is. And it is true there are women who do it too....but the thread is about men lol.....but anyway great post. 
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| 6/11/2008 9:39:45 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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joss70
Lexington, VA
age: 28
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Get used to it... Not that all men are like that but damn its how things work on this site, start learning how to use the block feature..... Sister.....
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| 6/11/2008 9:43:04 PM |
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rocklady
Lenoir, NC
age: 45
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Bottom line is. I don't let them start
I want to know the person the sex could come later
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| 6/11/2008 10:37:48 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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imgenuine
Belle Vernon, PA
age: 60
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I believe that both men and women do consider the fact that "getting laid" will occur. It is all in the desires and wants of the parties involved. Some people do just want "serviced" and that too is a matter of preference. You cannot judge all members
as being only out to get laid.
RC
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| 6/12/2008 2:42:49 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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Because they are......
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| 6/12/2008 2:58:05 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 47
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tabooparadox
Louisville, KY
age: 34
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I'll try to answer this one. I don't think I fall in this category, or at least I hope not. Most men don't know how to take their time anymore. We live in a world where everything happens now and not a week from now. On top of that, the socializing period of dating a woman is an area that most men dread because it leaves room for error and mistakes. Why do men dread it? Because most women either will never forgive a mistake or give the man a clue on how to ask for the forgiveness. "I'm sorry" seems to have lost it's meaning to so many woman that the women have become more complex and individually unique in their self defined acceptable apoligy formats. In essence, men live in a confusing world where what used to be is no more and what is would take a lifetime to relearn. The tie-in I'm going for with this is the following: Men are very primal creatures still. We have the animal instincts and taking a woman to bed is not as deep as an emotional experience as it is for a woman. I'm not saying that all men are like this, but a lot of us are. To deter the type of man you see, please continue to deny until you find it to be the right time. The man that would be worth it, is the one that never gives up trying in a tasteful manner. The men that are not worth it are the one's you turn away. As for those men that immediately start talking about sex, if that's not your style, then simply move on. They will either change their ways or find what they're looking for.
On a side note. It upsets me when women have bad experiences with men and then immediately proceed with categorizing men in a derogatory way. I am a man! Do I expect sex? no. Do I expect sex after a nice dinner and play? no. I expect sex when the woman I am seeing is comfortable with it and only after I am as well. I AM hard up! I'm hard up for a woman that is intelligent enough to hold a descent conversation, strong enough to stand on her own feet, smart enough to know how to act and when, knows the difference between her life, my life and our life, and knows how to be a friend as well as a lover. That's what I'm "hard up" for. I'm truly sorry that you're getting sick of the games that men play, but women play them too and to be honest, I'm getting sick of it as well. Here's the cure to that: Go look in the mirror and say: We're all human, we all make mistakes, I'm sorry for my mistakes; so, I am going to forgive everyone else's.
I'm not meaning to be rude here. Just realistic.
Thanks for listening,
Tabooparadox
WOW A RARE MALE, WHO REALLY GETS IT!!!!! WHY DO YOU HAVE TO BE SO YOUNG?????
VERY LUCKY LADY THAT IS LUCKY TO HAVE YOU IN THEIR LIFE
usakindatheart
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| 6/12/2008 6:01:42 PM |
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jaysinsp
Rowlett, TX
age: 36
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your talking to the wrong guys
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| 6/12/2008 6:04:26 PM |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 47 online now!
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Why do girls who continually whine about the bad choices they make think they're going to get a date?
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| 6/12/2008 6:42:13 PM |
Why do men ASSUME that you're looking to get laid? |
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bobby1956
Acworth, NH
age: 52
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I dont believe these are real men that you ladies are conversing with. I for one would look down on a woman that tried to "get laid" to quick. Just my thoughts
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