| 12/26/2012 12:56:11 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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george91355
Valencia, CA
61, joined Nov. 2012
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Be careful guys, there some girls that are willing to go out with you without even ask anything about you. They just want a free dinner.
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| 12/26/2012 9:17:25 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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rosahaze
El Paso, TX
24, joined Apr. 2012
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| 12/26/2012 9:18:12 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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rosahaze
El Paso, TX
24, joined Apr. 2012
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not ALL women...
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| 12/27/2012 12:04:26 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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ryuto1
Lanham, MD
29, joined Aug. 2012
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Be careful guys, there some girls that are willing to go out with you without even ask anything about you. They just want a free dinner.
You're only just figuring this out now? CNN did a story on this topic a while back. Take time to get to know the other person. The girls I've dated at the very least try to go dutch. I'm a bit of a traditionalist, so I ended up paying. She insisted on picking up the tab at the ice cream parlor though.
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| 12/27/2012 7:02:17 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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candyloves84
Black Diamond, WA
31, joined Dec. 2012
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Pay attention to the signs of a user. Because there are now billions of people out there, there are tons of different classes of women and men. Done are users, who want everything for free. And there are still plenty who are willing to pay and work for what thy have. You just got to read between the lines. Just like the rest of us.
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| 12/27/2012 9:57:17 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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nick269
Akron, OH
55, joined Jun. 2011
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| 12/27/2012 10:42:06 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
48, joined Oct. 2011
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At 51 you should not be so paranoid. Just don't date anyone and stay at home with your cat or hampster.
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| 12/27/2012 11:02:37 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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digitalninja
Ozark, MO
34, joined Dec. 2012
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I don't mind, as long as she is pleasant company over dinner. If you add an intelligent conversation with an attractive women... That's well worth the price of a meal. I enjoy meeting new people!
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| 12/28/2012 12:54:44 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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aintnodeal
Scottsdale, AZ
55, joined Dec. 2012
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I agree completely with DigitalNinja. You're only being "taken" if you think you need something in exchange for paying for dinner. You get company and conversation - sorry if it isn't ENOUGH or if you date is tight-lipped and has no conversational skills at all.
Well - perhaps you should meet at a library before planning a meal with someone....?
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| 12/28/2012 1:05:40 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
36, joined Dec. 2012
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Do you really believe this, I'm sure a woman didn't call you back and now she was just after a free meal. Most women aren't out for fee meals, especially women at your age.
Keep thinking like this and you will stay single, you shouldn't mind paying for a date that you set up. I don't do dinner dates on a first date anyway, feels too much like an interview. Set up something fun, if you're a cheapskate keep it simple.
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| 12/28/2012 1:21:45 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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hadassah169
Dhaneswargati
Bangladesh
81, joined Dec. 2012
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Be careful guys, there some girls that are willing to go out with you without even ask anything about you. They just want a free dinner.
Broke......
Most women try to avoid going out with weirdos and losers at all cost and would not suffer through a date with one for a free dinner.
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| 12/28/2012 1:58:34 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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The OP should date guys, then they can split the check.
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| 12/28/2012 2:25:24 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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hickwashere
Rock Springs, WY
48, joined Dec. 2011
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Pike nailed it 
Since when did $20 make such a big difference in someone's life that it's even worth worrying about, if yu can't afford to blow 20-30 bucks on dinner with someone you really have no business dating in the first place
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| 12/28/2012 3:09:00 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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scenegurl
Vancouver, WA
28, joined Nov. 2012
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Pike nailed it
Since when did $20 make such a big difference in someone's life that it's even worth worrying about, if yu can't afford to blow 20-30 bucks on dinner with someone you really have no business dating in the first place
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| 12/28/2012 4:35:11 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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curves4dayz
Strafford, MO
38, joined Oct. 2012
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No, no, no 
Going out with a guy you know nothing about is a safety risk and I seriously doubt most women would be willing to put their own safety in jeopardy by going out with someone they don't know a thing about just so the man will buy them a $10-15 meal.
Maybe it is a regional thing, but where I come from, the lady always offers to help, but the Guy happily pays because he is a gentleman  and enjoys her company. It's about common courtesy.
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| 12/28/2012 5:06:09 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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adecook
Pittsburg, TX
71, joined Dec. 2012
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So what do I do, buy them a cup of coffee and take them home? I don't THINK so. If a girl's COMPANY isn't worth $20, then I'm not gonna ask her out at all.
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| 12/28/2012 10:40:09 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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sade19107
Philadelphia, PA
34, joined Dec. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 12/28/2012 3:39:35 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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fakeluna1
Cornelius, OR
32, joined Dec. 2012
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lol maybe you should start asking if they wanna go out for coffee or something first. i've met up with people at all kinds of random places like mcdonalds, starbucks, a cafe, anywhere there's plenty of people around where we can actually talk and get to know eachother and find out if we actually connect or not.
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| 12/28/2012 10:58:58 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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ladywhirly
Beaverton, OR
34, joined Sep. 2012
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Feed me Seymour!!
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| 12/28/2012 11:05:07 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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quietguy6900
Bradenton, FL
46, joined Nov. 2012
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I always pay for the meal and "no" ladies I'm not expecting a mouth hug in return it's just how I was raised that the man pays,that simple.
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| 12/29/2012 12:13:26 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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coreen70
Unionville, CT
46, joined Dec. 2011
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Do you really believe this, I'm sure a woman didn't call you back and now she was just after a free meal. Most women aren't out for fee meals, especially women at your age.
Keep thinking like this and you will stay single, you shouldn't mind paying for a date that you set up. I don't do dinner dates on a first date anyway, feels too much like an interview. Set up something fun, if you're a cheapskate keep it simple.
very well said...
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| 12/29/2012 2:34:38 PM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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keepslowprofile
Moose Lake, MN
96, joined Nov. 2011
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Height: 5 ft. 7 in.
I don't think its for a free meal... Its because most restaurants have booster seats.
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| 12/30/2012 3:52:06 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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bandagegirl
Las Vegas, NV
23, joined Nov. 2012
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Oh how true that is. How true that is.
Just like those boys that seem to connect with me....then make it super obvious they just want sex.
NOPE.
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| 12/30/2012 10:33:47 AM |
Girls only after a free dinner |
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jenesaisquois
Fort Collins, CO
27, joined Dec. 2012
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The dinner can't possibly be worth spending time with a guy you don't like.
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