| 10/22/2013 11:12:20 AM |
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do_over1975
Bellingham, WA
41, joined Oct. 2013
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Profile and chemistry are #1, visual appearance is basically a yes/no decision.
I do believe in "sex rank" and if you want a long lasting relationship I think you need to be fairly equal in that regard.
I challenge you hot women to prove me different but I'm not going to hold by breath, just Mr. Average here.
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| 10/23/2013 10:59:00 PM |
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mydearest
Seattle, WA
47, joined Oct. 2013
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nice post do over! totally agree with you on that one.
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| 10/26/2013 3:55:12 PM |
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oldlady4oldman
Tacoma, WA
98, joined Jun. 2012
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That magnanimous equanimity can be interpreted one of three ways in my estimation.
You're only interested in a roll in the hay and not particular about with who. Or...
You are young, naive, or
not a real deep thinker about what a particular job might signify about the person doing it.
A 17-24 year old bus boy (or other menial worker) may be a real "catch" for a young girl, as he is just on the " launch pad of life" and probably has his "sights" set quite a bit higher as to a future career and is working towards that.
A 25-30 year old busboy is often still undecided, aimless about pursuing any given career and increasingly complacent about NOT striving to better himself.(if he has any sense, talent or ability at all he should be questioning his high self esteem, and doing something to justify it.)
A 30-45 year old busboy pretty much fits most people's definition of "a loser".
A 46-65 year old busboy will usually either be a just pitiful lesson of what bad choices in life will get you, dropouts, quitters, troublemakers,(incarceration for crimes, drug or alcohol abuse, problem gambling, laziness etc)
or a rare, but increasing common fate suffered by older, hard-working, even once successful people reduced to menial jobs by age discrimination and thus utterly destroyed by the economic down turn.
"High Self-esteem" has to have some tie to reality unless you propose to buy into other people's insanity/fantasy world. The only people I know that are willing to do that are fostering their own inflated ego. For them, it becomes a trade off, something like "you buy that I'm a genius whose brilliance is ignored and I will buy that you could have been a movie/rock star if anybody had just given you a chance" and we can live in bliss in my camping trailer in the woods, on food stamps. Good luck with that. For me, truth matters.
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| 12/17/2013 7:10:50 PM |
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now_its_on
Clarksville, TN
40, joined Nov. 2013
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| 3/25/2014 9:21:55 AM |
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totalpackage17
Kent, WA
46, joined Mar. 2014
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It's all about confidence. Especially for guys cuz so many women don't care about looks like we do. You treat her right and you can have any woman.
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| 4/29/2014 11:15:27 PM |
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mydearest
Seattle, WA
47, joined Oct. 2013
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Please take the kid out of the picture. Too many weirdos. 
Yes, confidence. 
agree...stop with the shirtless photos,the come"hither" photos lying in the bed as well...with that being said, I think everyone has felt that way,one time or another.Its human nature.
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| 4/29/2014 11:17:30 PM |
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mydearest
Seattle, WA
47, joined Oct. 2013
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It's all about confidence. Especially for guys cuz so many women don't care about looks like we do. You treat her right and you can have any woman.
and what this guy says too.
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| 5/1/2014 3:38:34 PM |
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dahmonkeyfighte
Spokane, WA
31, joined Apr. 2012
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I totally relate i get thar alot
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| 5/7/2014 8:56:20 PM |
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sparkymalo13
Walla Walla, WA
25, joined Apr. 2014
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Hey what's ur number?
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| 5/25/2014 10:34:36 PM |
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maxtronger
Vancouver, WA
38, joined Mar. 2011
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I do it all the time, message them anyways and am not sure how to hold their attention when they do message me back. I try being funny...works a lot of the time. If being funny fails, I always have looking funny to fall back on.
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| 5/29/2014 1:42:34 AM |
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efb1982
Port Orchard, WA
35, joined Nov. 2013
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There's no such thing...we're all a little off in one or another....
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| 5/29/2014 3:01:16 PM |
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barbaraan
Lakewood, WA
71, joined Sep. 2013
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~ No one is out of your league unless you think she is ~
No one is out of my league! As far as I am concerned there is NO league!
Have a blessed day 
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| 6/3/2014 6:40:20 PM |
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majinapv
San Gabriel, CA
29, joined May. 2014
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