| 12/28/2012 7:25:19 AM |
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yogijuno
New York, NY
27, joined Oct. 2012
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Are y'all fellas settling for fat chicks? Cuz they're feeling more and more good about themselves. Is fat the new sexy?
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| 12/28/2012 11:20:18 AM |
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lebreezy
Jersey City, NJ
39, joined Jun. 2012
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I'm going to look past your demeaning comment and answer your question with the hope that maybe it will make you change your perspective and attitude about 'fat chicks'.
I think that society's perception of beauty is evolving. Women of all sizes are learning that you don't have to fit a cookie cutter image to be loved so we're gaining confidence and confidence is attractive. I'm not a man but if I were I would keep my options open because size doesn't determine whether or not you're a loving, faithful woman. We can't help who we are attracted to so I can't criticize you for your preferences but I respect them and I think that a little respect goes a long way.
FYI a good woman will read stuff that a guy posts to get a better sense of his personality. Posts like this may deter even the hottest females because it makes you sound shallow and insensitive and that may not be who you really are....or are you?
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| 12/28/2012 12:23:13 PM |
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twistedintoform
Brooklyn, NY
44, joined Oct. 2012
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I would say fat is the new norm and whether its sexy or not, I will leave that to people like you to decide. In a society with a seemingly endless amount of fast food choices and were many jobs often involve long hours sitting at a desk, well you had better get used to seeing people that are overweight or even obese. And many people have hobbies that often involve nothing more then sitting around watching the television or a movie. I don't know why your so concerned with who is dating who and how big the girl is. It seems you really should get a hobby or perhaps a girlfriend of your own. Others might say you just need to get laid.
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| 12/28/2012 12:24:58 PM |
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mickey77777
Union, NJ
44, joined Oct. 2012
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It depends. ..if a woman has it in the rite places , like being thick in the leggs and butt,then its ok... .but for me if she is sexy and carries it well then its cool....but if she doesn't then its not attractive to me... ..but its the heart  and soul that really counts
Mick
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| 12/28/2012 12:26:54 PM |
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jmo1216
Hoboken, NJ
96, joined Aug. 2012
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Well, me personally, I like a thick chick because I love meat on my bones...lol.
In my opinion (based on my own personal experiences of course) thick chicks are more fun because they're more down to earth & understanding as opposed to a woman who's fit who's attitude is all about how she looks. In this day & age, most women are too busy being so shallow & worried about how a person looks that they're actually pushing all the good guys away because they want a guy that they can look good with. So with that I feel that a thick chick has a much better attitude about herself, hence why being thick is sexy...
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| 12/28/2012 12:29:39 PM |
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jmo1216
Hoboken, NJ
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It depends. ..if a woman has it in the rite places , like being thick in the leggs and butt,then its ok... .but for me if she is sexy and carries it well then its cool....but if she doesn't then its not attractive to me... ..but its the heart and soul that really counts
Mick
I agree with brother Mick...
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| 12/28/2012 12:39:41 PM |
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iclassdon
Clifton, NJ
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I agree with both of you guys. I have been dating for a while and skinny girls have complexes. The thick girls have a much better personality. I vibe with them so much better. Yea who wouldn't want a skinny well figured girl... But its the personality that counts the most. It shines right threw and that's what I am looking for.
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| 12/28/2012 2:54:55 PM |
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glowy007
Clifton, NJ
35, joined Jan. 2012
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No, its not..... Being thick in the right place and being fat is totally different. But their are men who love fat girls its a fetish it all depending on who u talking to
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| 12/28/2012 2:58:44 PM |
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glowy007
Clifton, NJ
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Fat is fat thick is thick their is no fat in right place is just fat example honey booboo mom fat, han u got chicks like pinky cherokee Alexis Texas thick..
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| 12/28/2012 3:35:49 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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"I think that society's perception of beauty is evolving. "
its not evolution, its women getting fatter and men having to adapt themselves to it. If you were a cat and surrounded by pigs all day and night eventually you'd be fooled into thinking pigs are attractive.
give all men a book that gave themaccess to every woman in the world and see how many choose missy elliot over halle berry or nikki
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| 12/28/2012 3:37:06 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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"I'm not a man but if I were I would keep my options open because size doesn't determine whether or not you're a loving, faithful woman."
it does determine if they are attractive and if you can reach their vajayjay with the 8 inch d*ck 
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| 12/28/2012 5:15:11 PM |
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geminibeauty611
Fairfield, NJ
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@jmo1216 just because a female is fit it doesnt mean they are shallow & have a snobbish personality. Someone fit may prefer someone else whose fit b/c its an activity they can both do together. Also, it shows you how much dedication & how much that person cares about their health & well being..
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| 12/28/2012 5:19:36 PM |
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sparkaloo2
Brooklyn, NY
50, joined Dec. 2012
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OP- I hope these fellas are not "settling" for any woman- fat, thick, thin or otherwise.
Just my 2 cents
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| 12/28/2012 5:28:09 PM |
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geminibeauty611
Fairfield, NJ
25, joined Nov. 2012
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I believe Confidence is what makes a person Sexy! If you're skinny with no self confidence, you're just blah!!
Same goes to any other body type.. But someone with too much confidence is also blahh!! Its all about a good balance..
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| 12/28/2012 6:08:16 PM |
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mickey77777
Union, NJ
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Its been my observation that most women don't see themselves as a man does....how many times my brothers have you heard a woman say.."I'm fat"...lol....and they are not ... ..everyone has different tastes and what they look for in a girl....but for me its the whole package that counts... ..never settle for less
Mick
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| 12/28/2012 6:57:29 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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mickey, but nowadays fat women say " im curvy" or " i am thick" or "full figured"?
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| 12/28/2012 7:33:58 PM |
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iclassdon
Clifton, NJ
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Fat, skinny, thick or curvy... It's just a facsmilie I don't discriminate. If you look good in my eyes it does not matter. Everybody has there own type people are just blinded by looks those are the ones that end up getting burned in the long run. Interests are just in the wrong place.
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| 12/28/2012 8:38:07 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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Fat, skinny, thick or curvy... It's just a facsmilie I don't discriminate. If you look good in my eyes it does not matter. Everybody has there own type people are just blinded by looks those are the ones that end up getting burned in the long run. Interests are just in the wrong place.
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| 12/28/2012 8:43:13 PM |
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keithporch
Orange, NJ
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Size have nothing 2 do with it,its the person! U can b sexy at any size
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| 12/28/2012 9:18:04 PM |
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bronxgirl10461
Bronx, NY
51, joined Nov. 2012
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you are just not pretty enough to talk like that young man...really....
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| 12/28/2012 10:01:39 PM |
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dan6521
Browns Mills, NJ
37, joined Jan. 2012
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well have tell you depends...if a woman has it in the rite places , like being thick in the leggs and butt,then its ok....but for me if she is sexy and carries it well then its cool....but if she doesn't then its not attractive to me.....but its the heart and soul
Love so meat on the body
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| 12/28/2012 10:11:35 PM |
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agoodgirlbadgir
Brooklyn, NY
36, joined Dec. 2010
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Fat is fat thick is thick their is no fat in right place is just fat example honey booboo mom fat, han u got chicks like pinky cherokee Alexis Texas thick..
it's not always that black and white mr glowy. some guys have different opinions of what they consider fat or thick. some guys consider fat and thick the same thing. most of the time i have guys that love my size. but sometimes i'm too big for a what a guy is looking for especially the ones that like thin girls.
everyone has their own preference and not everyone fits into a particular box.
most girls that are fat skinny and in between if they're confident don't really care about what the guys think.
like me they have the attitude "this is me take it or leave it". as long as i'm healthy and can run up and down the basketball court or around the bases without passing out i'm good. i really don't care too much about my size. i like being curvy
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| 12/28/2012 10:15:31 PM |
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agoodgirlbadgir
Brooklyn, NY
36, joined Dec. 2010
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I would say fat is the new norm and whether its sexy or not, I will leave that to people like you to decide. In a society with a seemingly endless amount of fast food choices and were many jobs often involve long hours sitting at a desk, well you had better get used to seeing people that are overweight or even obese. And many people have hobbies that often involve nothing more then sitting around watching the television or a movie. I don't know why your so concerned with who is dating who and how big the girl is. It seems you really should get a hobby or perhaps a girlfriend of your own. Others might say you just need to get laid.
very true, so with the obesity trend in this country... i'm sure the female equivalent of this thread starter will come along and make some ignorant comments about how fat is the new sexy with men. 
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| 12/28/2012 10:18:29 PM |
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agoodgirlbadgir
Brooklyn, NY
36, joined Dec. 2010
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mickey, but nowadays fat women say " im curvy" or " i am thick" or "full figured"?
exactly all of those words are adjectives that depend on the observer
if you really want to get specific get your measuring tape out and take measurements like you doing a casting for fit work.
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| 12/28/2012 10:25:05 PM |
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nedloh
Elizabeth, NJ
51, joined Dec. 2012
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Seems like stupidity and ignorance is the new fad!! Meat heads
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| 12/29/2012 9:33:55 AM |
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naughtyguy13
Ozone Park, NY
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you are just not pretty enough to talk like that young man...really....
Look who is talking about pretty, have you looked in the mirror lately lol..You're so ugly, you have to sneak up on your mirror. in fact if you were to stick your head out of the car window they would arrested u for mooning.
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| 12/29/2012 9:47:45 AM |
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goodduude
Trenton, NJ
37, joined Apr. 2012
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I actually know of a few guys who claim to go after bigger women for "easy sex and money" which is an insult to people. Personally I don't look down on any human being but I prefer a woman who cares about her health. I've lost family to poor health. Living with someone who doesn't care about their health can become a problem. I'm talking diabetes, & high pressure which can lead to heart attacks, and strokes. Even though one can become sick at any size, I just prefer someone who takes care of herself. Besides, if a person doesn't care about themself how can they care about YOU??? Bigger women can be beautiful but people like to lie to some who are in the danger zone when it comes to health. Lets be honest. Not everyone can wear a 2 piece and look good in it. Some ppl just don't care.
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| 12/29/2012 10:39:18 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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I actually know of a few guys who claim to go after bigger women for "easy sex and money"
Get it where you can right? And as long as no one is being lied to or raped....
My issue is when these fat girls think they are hot shit because they confuse booty calls with proof that they are attractive or in demand.
thats like a 1992 geo metro thinking its a great car because lots of college kids drive them.
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| 12/29/2012 11:45:00 AM |
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gtleoking
Long Island City, NY
21, joined Aug. 2007
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Get it where you can right? And as long as no one is being lied to or raped....
My issue is when these fat girls think they are hot shit because they confuse booty calls with proof that they are attractive or in demand.
thats like a 1992 geo metro thinking its a great car because lots of college kids drive them.
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| 12/29/2012 11:54:30 AM |
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mickey77777
Union, NJ
44, joined Oct. 2012
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Everyone interprets words like thick and curvy differently.....but in my mind those words need close investigation...lol...like I've read on some profiles "curvy"..some were slight curves....others were friggen slaloms on a snowy ski slope!!!!......lol...its all good...true beauty is in the eye ?? of the beholder 
Mick
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| 12/29/2012 12:37:19 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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no i think we all KNOW what the words mean, but rather than go ny it they twist the meaning so feel good about themselves.
One girl on here was overweight by about 40lbs and put average because "overweight is the norm".
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| 12/29/2012 12:58:14 PM |
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naughtyguy13
Ozone Park, NY
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no i think we all KNOW what the words mean, but rather than go ny it they twist the meaning so feel good about themselves.
One girl on here was overweight by about 40lbs and put average because "overweight is the norm".
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| 12/29/2012 12:58:38 PM |
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mickey77777
Union, NJ
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Some do jaz....some don't...I've seen both.....but I agree its not good to not be truthful....being a former U.S. Marine  truth, integrity, honor is how I roll....semper fi!!!!
Mick
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| 12/29/2012 1:26:52 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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oohrah devildawg, then you know what im talking about these fatbodies need to be put on light trays
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| 12/29/2012 5:00:07 PM |
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bronxgirl10461
Bronx, NY
51, joined Nov. 2012
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what are you secretly in love with me naughty short boy? because you are stalking me in every thread i comment on, starting to look suspicious my little immigrant shadow...
please get your own life and ride your own tail, not mine little boy.....  
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| 12/29/2012 5:13:21 PM |
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naughtyguy13
Ozone Park, NY
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what are you secretly in love with me naughty short boy? because you are stalking me in every thread i comment on, starting to look suspicious my little immigrant shadow...
please get your own life and ride your own tail, not mine little boy.....
Geez self conceited lately?
This thing here ^ is a perfect example what drugs will do to you
get ur racist self a job and life.
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| 12/29/2012 6:04:40 PM |
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bronxgirl10461
Bronx, NY
51, joined Nov. 2012
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Geez self conceited lately?
This thing here ^ is a perfect example what drugs will do to you
get ur racist self a job and life.
i have both, but clearly you do not, no kids and here you are, on a saturday night, on datehookup.....at your age....at this time... sad little man, like i already said, you can not win with me....
so cry now 
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| 12/29/2012 6:15:50 PM |
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bronxgirl10461
Bronx, NY
51, joined Nov. 2012
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Geez self conceited lately?
This thing here ^ is a perfect example what drugs will do to you
get ur racist self a job and life.
you better hope and pray you don't ever run into me in the real world, cause i will tear you up ...and teach you some manners and respect real quick son
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| 12/29/2012 6:25:23 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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hey tru you have me on ignore? lol
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| 12/29/2012 6:59:57 PM |
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naughtyguy13
Ozone Park, NY
34, joined Jan. 2012
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you better hope and pray you don't ever run into me in the real world, cause i will tear you up ...and teach you some manners and respect real quick son
I know why you look like a horse, because I saw your mother grazing in the field. I bet when you go to the zoo on a date the zookeeper say, "Thanks for bringing her back.
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| 12/29/2012 7:03:43 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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Im curious what this fat pig thinks she could actually do.
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| 12/29/2012 7:05:33 PM |
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wallya54
Holbrook, NY
62, joined May. 2012
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well said i agree totally
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| 12/29/2012 7:40:45 PM |
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mickey77777
Union, NJ
44, joined Oct. 2012
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Hoo-Rah!!!!...jaz....do or die ...no retreat no surrender...
Lmiao!!!!!
Mickdog
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| 12/30/2012 5:30:12 AM |
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bumppyjay39
Palmdale, CA
43, joined Aug. 2012
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Size have nothing 2 do with it,its the person! U can b sexy at any size
I totaley agree any size sexsey isnot a size but a filling that comes from the inside out.
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| 12/30/2012 7:56:06 AM |
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gtleoking
Long Island City, NY
21, joined Aug. 2007
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I totaley agree any size sexsey isnot a size but a filling that comes from the insid e out.
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| 12/30/2012 8:27:21 AM |
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goodguy_411
Hamburg, NJ
59, joined Dec. 2012
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Definitely not. If they are lazy with their body and health, then they are lazy with their relationships and likely the reason they are single. But that doesn't mean you don't treat them with respect and kindness.
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| 12/30/2012 8:37:19 AM |
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gtleoking
Long Island City, NY
21, joined Aug. 2007
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Definitely not. If they are lazy with their body and health, then they are lazy with their relationships and likely the reason they are single. But that doesn't mean you don't treat them with respect and kindness.
Seems a bit bias for wanting to treat with respect and kindness.
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| 12/30/2012 9:18:44 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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so you think this is sexy?
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| 12/30/2012 10:37:58 AM |
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gtleoking
Long Island City, NY
21, joined Aug. 2007
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so you think this is sexy?
That's def fat! lol
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| 12/30/2012 10:39:39 AM |
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gtleoking
Long Island City, NY
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Oh weird, didn't think of it like that, I guess that makes me a fat hater also. I like thick though, but thick isn't the same as fat. It's been misused so much that people take it as the same. lol Hmmm how do I describe my perfect woman. lol haha Love her.
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| 12/30/2012 10:45:20 AM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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GT thats my point, back in the day "thick" meant a lil extra like J-Lo. now you got cows like bronxgirl calling themselves thick, but still arguing like they are like J-LO!
Of ocurse you have fat chasers that like obese women (which is a result of being surrounded by fat gilrs like his momma who beat him every day and now he has an obsession with them).
Thick and curvy shouldn't refer to fat, but it gets used by fat lover and fat people all the time.
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| 12/30/2012 11:37:40 AM |
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dynazyy
Brooklyn, NY
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| 12/30/2012 12:23:43 PM |
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mickey77777
Union, NJ
44, joined Oct. 2012
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Ok who remembers the movie Full Metal Jacket???..."you're a disgusting fatbody private pile"...HOO-RAH!!!!
..Paris island is nooooo joke
Mickdawg
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| 12/30/2012 2:04:36 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
45, joined Feb. 2012
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this forum is so out of control.... everyone likes different things...size/race/personality etc... and most people if you aren't an a**hole should care about whats inside..
and on a different note guys are quick to judge girls when in reality there are some guys who are not ALL that & think they are.. Hell ive seen some nice bodies on a guy but too bad the face didnt match if its all about looks !!!!
happy 2013 !!!!
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| 12/30/2012 3:37:25 PM |
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ladyfifty123
Brooklyn, NY
59, joined Jul. 2011
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Size have nothing 2 do with it,its the person! U can b sexy at any size
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| 12/30/2012 3:45:53 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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last 2 people really added a lot.
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| 12/30/2012 5:25:10 PM |
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gtleoking
Long Island City, NY
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GT thats my point, back in the day "thick" meant a lil extra like J-Lo. now you got cows like bronxgirl calling themselves thick, but still arguing like they are like J-LO!
Of ocurse you have fat chasers that like obese women (which is a result of being surrounded by fat gilrs like his momma who beat him every day and now he has an obsession with them).
Thick and curvy shouldn't refer to fat, but it gets used by fat lover and fat people all the time.
Yeah thick and curvy isn't the same. Some really fat girls on this site put a few extra pounds for weight but thats not the case when in reality they are more like donuts without the hole.
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| 12/30/2012 6:00:43 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
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i made the mistake of going to a DHU meet up a few years ago. Almost all of the women (only about 5 women showed up to 12 guys lol) that showed up had average as their body type, but all of them looked like bronxgirl.
So tell me, is a man wrong for being pissed off when he meets that surprise?
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| 12/30/2012 6:05:17 PM |
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naughtyguy13
Ozone Park, NY
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i made the mistake of going to a DHU meet up a few years ago. Almost all of the women (only about 5 women showed up to 12 guys lol) that showed up had average as their body type, but all of them looked like bronxgirl.
So tell me, is a man wrong for being pissed off when he meets that surprise?
That would be a nasty surprise
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| 12/30/2012 6:36:06 PM |
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jazminx2
Ossining, NY
39, joined Jan. 2010
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Point is, if fat girls are so proud of their curves why not own up to them instead of playing word games?
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